Coming together, we form an icon of God’s Kingdom Vol. 18 , No. 4 Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church 2501 S. Wolf Rd. Westchester, IL (708) 562-2744 From Father Bill August, 2013 www.holyapostleschurch.com God bless us all American patriotism was observed once again on the occasion of the celebration of the Independence of America. Fourth of July parades were viewed; bands played patriotic songs and the spirit, though short lived, of being an American quickly vanished. Politicians seized the moment to fill the air with empty promises and solutions to solve the issues facing our governments. American presidents have the custom of ending their speeches with the positive line: “And God bless the United States of America.” Charles Dickens ended his classic Christmas story, A Christmas Carol, “And so, as Tiny Tim observed, God bless Us, Every One!” A coin dropped in a homeless person’s cup elicits a “God bless you!” A surgeon saves the life of a child and the parents express their profound gratitude with “God bless you, doctor!” The Psalmist says: “May God…bless us and make his face to shine upon us…God, our God has blessed us. God has blessed us all” (Ps. 67:1-6). Have you ever wondered why we say “God bless you!” after someone sneezes? I read once that it is believed it dates back to primitive times when early people believed the soul dwelt inside the head, and a sneeze was an expelling of evil spirits. Therefore a “God bless you” was an exclamation that God had expelled the bad spirits from you. In another source, The Customs of Mankind by Lillian Eichler, we are told that in the sixth century, Carlo Sigmonion, the Italian historian, believes that the practice of saying “God bless you” after a sneeze began ...See Fr. Bill on P. 6 Paul Mirmingos has a great time with his grandaughter five-month old Eleni Mirmingos. Food, fellowship & fun Paul Kallis and Jim Fotopoulos, above, grill up chicken shishkabobs. Each year, a big part of the picnic is the games for kids organized by George Alex. This year was no different as preschoolers raced for prizes to begin the games. Perfect summer weather greeted everyone at this year’s church picnic. Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church Mosaic August, 2013 Page 2 From Father Nicholas Understanding the benefits of Christian marriage Summer is the time for weddings. Many couples are excitedly entering into Holy Matrimony. Unfortunately, other couples are not. They are living together but are unmarried. Recently, the Greek Orthodox Archdiocesan Council held its spring meeting in Boston where Metropolitan Iakovos of Chicago spoke on this issue. He discussed the decreasing number of marriages in the Church. The Metropolitan attributed this trend to a “liberal spirit that permeates the entire community.” He elaborated further and said, “People do not receive the blessings of marriage and they are very satisfied and don’t apologize at all for their cohabitation and not having blessed marriages.” A University of Chicago Marriage and Cohabitation Report states that “today more than 60% of all marriages are preceded by some form of cohabitation.” Cohabitation has risen to huge levels! Glenn T. Stanton’s book, The Ring Makes all the Difference, surveyed couples who decided to live together outside of marriage. They gave interesting reasons for living together. Some said that legal marriage is not necessary: it could even be stifling and spoil the pure love of young couples. Others said that they did not need a piece of paper to make their love meaningful. If they stayed together because of some legal form, what kind of love is that? The song, Love Will Keep Us Together, summarizes their beliefs. Other cohabiters have a higher view of marriage. Research indicates that those born after 1965 and beyond, known as Generation X, painfully saw their parents divorce in record numbers. Today, Generation X couples deeply desire marriage because of the family breakdown they experienced. Millennials, those born after 1980, have the “strongest desire to marry” according to the Pew Research Center. These couples want to get it right. However, they have a deep fear of failure. They feel that cohabitating may be the best option as it provides an easy way out if something goes wrong. They want to ‘test drive’ marriage. Does living together before marriage lead to healthier, longer and happier marriages? Sociologists from the Universities of Chicago and Michigan investigated this question. They conducted studies in several Western countries including Canada, Sweden, New Zealand and the United States. The data Gavel to Gavel Highlights of the May Parish Council Meeting By PAul KAlliS, SEcrETAry Present: Fr. Bill Chiganos, Fr. Nicholas Georgiou, George Alex, George Chechopoulos, Terry Chiganos, Cindy Clark, James Fotopoulos, Paul Kallis, James Kapolas, Louis Katzioris, Nick Kirkeles, George T. Mannos, Jr., and Mary Maragos Financial/Treasurers Report: º Peter Bell reported that we are now running our financial reports out of QuickBooks. The church for period ending April 30 had net income of $81,800. º Jim Kapolas moved to approve the financial statements dated April 30, subject to year-end review The motion passed unanimously. Stewardship Report: º Louis Katzioris stated that pledges to date for 2013 are 635 which are the same as this period last year. Total amount pledged to date for 2013 is $589,059.25 which is $10,953.29 better than the same period last year. Percent paid to date is 71% vs. 68% for the same period last year. Correspondence: º A letter was received from the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese of America thanking us for our participation in last year's Clergy-Laity Congress. The letter also included a copy of the Commemorative Journal from the Congress. º The Retired Clergy Association is having its 25th Anniversary Celebration on Nov. 16 and 17 at Saint Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. George Mannos made a motion to buy a full page ad for the event the cost of which would be split with Philoptochos. The cost of the ad is $150. The motion passed unanimously. º The Westchester Fire Department is raising money to purchase educationally sound fire safety materials for preschool and elementary age children in our area. Nick Kirkeles made a motion to donate $100. The motion passed unanimously º George Chechopoulos thanked Debbie and Mrs. Kirkeles for their hard work and Lenten meal they prepared on Good Friday and Joan Berg for coordinating the myrrh bearers and the girls who sold candles on Good Friday and Saturday. Building & Grounds: º George Alex & Jim Fotopoulos reported that B&G received a bid for $5,000 to put in the sidewalk on the north side of the church and expand the concrete area on the east side by the shed. George Alex made a motion to proceed with the work. The motion passed unanimously. º B&G received a bid for $14,800 to make needed repairs to the roof. Paul Kallis made the motion to spend up to $15,000. The motion passed unanimously. º The bathroom update project has been put on hold pending further information. º New post lights are being placed outside. º New cameras and monitors have been installed. º The church A/C compressor is starting to have issues and may need to be replaced. º George Chechopoulos mentioned that we are we are getting quotes for the renewal of our building insurance. Old Business: º Cindy Clark provided an update on the directory sign ups. New Business: º We are considering having a luncheon to celebrate our 55th Anniversary. º Jim Fotopoulos mentioned that we are changing the locks. indicated that people with cohabitating experience have a 50 to 80 percent higher likelihood of divorce than married couples who never cohabitated. A Canadian sociologist explained: “there is considerable empirical evidence demonstrating that premarital cohabitation is associated with lowered marital stability.” (Zheng Wu, Journal of Family Issues 16, 1995) Research is discovering that cohabitating negatively influences couples learning to communicate, negotiate and settle differences. They learn less healthy ways because the rela- tionship is less clearly defined. Cohabitating couples can learn to be more controlling and manipulative with each other, leading to relational resentment and mistrust. When intimate emotional, physical and spiritual bonds are being forged but are not supported by the commitment they demand, the author compares this to “walking on a tightrope without a net below.” (Stanton, 63). Make a commitment and get married! When a couple is legally married, do they need to be married in the Church? Does it really matter? Human love can keep us ...See Fr. Nicholas on P. 3 Mosaic Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church Holy Apostles Philoptochos Society Cordially Invites You to Board theOrientExpress Saturday,October 19, 2013 C The Holy Apostles Philoptochos Luncheon Fashion Show will take place on October 19 with cocktails and raffle viewing at 11am and luncheon at 12 noon, at the Carlisle in Lombard. Fashions are to be presented by Zzazz Productions, including young models of Holy Apostles. The theme, “Aboard the Orient Express,” will encompass influences from Paris, Budapest, Vienna and Constantinople. The raffle committee has been working very diligently to provide unique and exciting gifts. The show will focus its efforts upon the two chosen charities: Big Brothers Big Sisters and the Theotokos Greek Orthodox Girl’s Orphanage in India. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Metropolitan Chicago is an Illinois not-for-profit corporation, that empowers at-risk youth by providing one-to-one mentoring to enable lifelong success. Through community-based mentoring, each identified youth is matched with a caring, screened and trained adult volunteer mentor. This program offers Bigs and Littles the opportunity to plan together and engage in activities they enjoy. Each match is unique, building upon the personalities, life experiences, interests and assets of the Big and Little involved. Positive outcomes have been measured in academic performance, self-confidence, ability to trust, decision making, and ultimately college enrollment. Your support through Holy Apostles Philoptochos will fund mentoring matches and related activities. The Theotokos Greek Orthodox Girl’s Orphanage in Bakeswar, India, was started in 1999 by the current Bishop of Madagascar, Ignatios, and Sister Nectaria Paradisi, the orphanage’s current director. Sister Nectaria emphasizes education as the means to fight poverty and provide a stable future. The orphanage provides food, shelter, education, and a loving home for more than 100 Indian girls. In the past few years, it has adopted 28 girls, sent 14 to college and recently opened a boy’s orphanage. Your donation will contribute to the college education of these girls. We anticipate a wonderful afternoon of fashion, friendship and philanthropy. Reservations will begin on Saturday, September 7 from 9 to 10am at Holy Apostles Church, and then on Sundays following Divine Liturgy from September 8 through October 14. For reservation information, please contact Nia Kouchis at 630.910.8224. Fr. Nicholas from P. 2 August, 2013 Page 3 All Aboard the Orient Express Raffle / Auction Wish List Should you decide to contribute an item, here are some suggestions. - Handbags - Jewelry - Spa / Salon Services - Tickets for Chicago sports teams - Golf at private golf clubs in the area - Gift certificates for dinner at area restaurants - Bottles of fine wine - Seats for symphony, opera, concerts or theater in Chicago - Annual family memberships to zoos or museums - Hotel stays - Electronics, tablets or phones - Trips to vacation destinations If you would like to have your item picked up from your home or business, please contact, Cynthia Stathopoulos 630.986.0630. We thank you for your consideration of our request for raffle prizes and appreciate your generosity and assistance in making “Aboard the Orient Express” a financial success! Philoptochos Membership Night "A Little Night Music" The annual Membership Night Reception is Tuesday, September 17 from 7-9pm in the multi-purpose room. Plan to come join Philoptochos members for an evening in Vienna. Enjoy a wonderful assortment of continental dessert specialties. God’s pathway for union of a man and a woman is marriage in His sight together, right? Marriage in the New Testament transcends legal contracts. St. John Chrysostom calls it “the sacrament of love”. Father John Meyendorff defines Christian marriage as a “unique union of two beings in love, two beings who can transcend their own humanity and thus be united not only with each other but also ‘in Christ.’” This is an eternal relationship that transcends this world and endures and lasts beyond the limits of time….unto the ages of ages….into eternity! Marriage is “transfiguring a natural human affection between a man and a woman into an eternal bond of love, which cannot be broken even by death,” according to Fr. Meyendorff. Marriage is the pathway that leads the man and woman to union with God! Heaven is the goal of Christian marriage! In Diary of a Russian priest, Father Alexander Elchaninov writes: “marriage enables us to pass beyond the normal rules of human relationship and enter a region of the miraculous, the superhuman.” Having Christ at the center of our marriages brings God’s blessings, mercy, love and strength. What more do we need? Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church Mosaic August, 2013 Page 4 Retreat! The Greek Orthodox Metropolis of Chicago presents the annual Labor Day Weekend Family Retreat from Friday, August 30 to Sunday, September 1, at Green Lake Conference Center. This weekend retreat for Orthodox Christians will include worship, workshops and discussion groups for both adults and children, fun outdoor activities including athletics and a small beach, and fellowship with other families. Register now at www.gocfamilysynaxis.org. For questions, please go to the web at [email protected] or call Vanessa Clohessy at 630.988.9533. lou Kafkes, right, sends everyone off on this year’s Holy Apostles’ 5K event. Fine weather, fun, and fellowship for 5K God blessed the organizers and participants of this year’s 5K with beautiful weather. The cool, crisp, sunny June day was perfect for the enthusiastic group of men, women, and children who supported Holy Apostles’ efforts to help Philoxenia House located in Rochester, MN. Philoxenia House and Holy Anargyroi parish provide free lodging and food to patients, as well as their families, while they receive medical treatment at the Mayo Clinic. Father Mark Munoz, pastor of Holy Anargyroi Church, and his family joined us for our 5K this year. They shared the vision of the Philoxenia House, which is to expand from one house to an entire Philoxenia Campus. However, dreams require money! Eugene Callaghan was the overall winner of the annual Holy Apostles 5K Family Run/Walk, posting a solid time of 19:58. The ladies were led across the finish line by Katherin Rehn, who completed the course in 21:08. Thanks to our many participants and platinum sponsors, we raised $5,700. Since its inception, the event has raised more than $48,000 for the Philoxenia House. We are grateful to Lou Kafkes, event director, and the GOYANs who staffed the race. Thanks also to Kiki Liston, Mistress of Ceremonies, and the other volunteers who made this wonderful event possible! Calling all parishioners Holy Apostles Church is preparing a 2014 Parish Directory. You can make your appointments on line and on the Church’s website. The dates that you can book your portrait sessions are: August 7 -10, and August 19 -22. Additional dates are September 10 and 11. Seniors who are sixty years old or older will receive 20% off their photos. If a church wants better pastors, it only needs to pray for the ones it has. Adventure Theater rejuvenates radio drama with new play On Friday, August 2, Adventure Theater members began rehearsing an exciting original radio play entitled Friendship and Betrayal. It will be presented at Holy Apostles’ expanded radio studio, aka the multi-purpose room, before a studio audience following Divine Liturgy on Sunday, August 25. For this live performance, the actors and actresses will read from scripts with a background of sound effects, as was the case in the long-ago days of classic radio drama. You are invited to join us in the multi-purpose room for a delicious, deluxe, continental breakfast, and share in a unique, modern-day radio experience. Admission is free. Since tables will be set for 100 people, seating will be on a first-come, first-served basis. However, please make your advance reservations by contacting Mr. D. at 708.562.0869 or [email protected]. Preview: “When you gain a friend, gain him through testing, and do not be in a hurry to confide in him. … A faithful friend is a strong shelter; he that has found one has found a treasure” (Wisdom of Sirach 6:7, 14). Dean Patrick, a high school freshman when our story took place, would soon learn the meaning of these two verses from Holy Scripture. Dean, or Dino to his friends and relatives, was a star football player, played the guitar in a band, and was one of the most popular kids at his school. Jack Patrick, Dean’s dad, owned Patrick Industrial Tools, Inc., which made special tools used in building airplanes, cars, etc. However, some dark secrets from Dean’s past would play a decisive part in our story. Specifically, Dean’s sister, Dimitra, two years younger than he, was confined to a wheelchair and Dean was unintentionally responsible for putting her there. Then, when Dean was seven years old, he overheard his dad’s partner, Tony Christou, being murdered, and Dean was halfway convinced that his dad was the murderer. In October of Dean’s freshman year, his world began falling apart when his dad was suddenly arrested for the murder of his partner. As if this weren’t enough, one or perhaps both of Dean’s best friends betrayed him by divulging the two dark secrets from his past, which he had confided to them, soon resulting in the loss of his popularity at school. Will Dean’s sister Dimitra, assisted by two faithful allies, be able to help prove her dad’s innocence and pull her brother back from a spiritual abyss? What unexpected danger puts the lives of Dean, Dimitra, and their allies in peril? This play is chock full of excitement, suspense, and numerous examples of Christian love and forgiveness. See you on Sunday, August 25! by George Demetralis (aka Mr. D) Mosaic Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church August, 2013 Page 5 Summer fun for all ages at Holy Apostles Margaret Kaufmann supervises crafts during Vacation Bible School. At Vacation Bible School, luke Ernst, left, and christaki Kirkeles,right, shows off christaki’s jello heart. Dennis Poulos and George Penteris appear to be either happy, or embarrased with their golf scores at this year’s annual golf outing. Fr. Bill tees off, at left. Holy Apostles’ Jr. Olympics relay team from left, is Aaron Anderson, Evan Hank, Troy Pilafas, Anna Kay Kinnas. Dressed in adorable frog costumes, preschool students sang a song called "The little Frogs" at the Greek School commencement. Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church v HARC Pictures of God A Child’s Guide to Understanding Icons By John Kosmas Skinas This little book brings God and His saints vividly into children's lives through icons, explaining in the simplest terms what each icon means and what the role of these holy pictures and the holy stories and people they depict can be in our lives. The colorful pages of Pictures of God are perfect for occupying little hands in church, for explaining the world of icons in the first years of Sunday school, and for readaloud time with little ones at home. $11.00 Born to Hate, Reborn to Love By Klaus Kenneth Repelled and repulsed by those who ostensibly represented the Christian faith in his juvenescence, Klaus Kenneth looked elsewhere for the solution to his lonely and tortured existence. He found himself on an odyssey that took him around the world several times, lured him into a vortex of pleasure and power, and initiated him into the great philosophies and religious traditions of our times. Klaus encounters the One whom he had never thought to look for, the One that he had always discounted: the great I AM, the God of Love and healing, the God of regeneration and eternal life. $15.00 Fleeing Herod A Journey Through Coptic Egypt with The Holy Family by James Cowan Travel with James Cowan on a unique journey through an Egypt at once modern and ancient, populated by hermits, monks, and spiritual friends. Dreamlike and illuminated, this is a travel guide through an Egypt of the soul, bringing the reader into the life of the spirit as experienced in the gritty reality of this contemporary yet archaic land. $21.00 The good Lord didn't create anything without a purpose, but with the mosquito, he came close. Mosaic Fr. Bill from P. 1 August, 2013 Page 6 Blessings are to be counted and shared during the pontificate of Gregory the Great. At this period, a pestilence raged in Italy which proved fatal to those who sneezed. The Pope, therefore ordered prayers to be said against it, accompanied by signs of the cross. It was during this era that the custom of crying “God bless you” to persons who sneezed became established. God blesses people with grace, with wellbeing, with prosperity, with quality of life. The blessing said before a meal is a benediction upon the food as a gift of God, who has blessed us with it. The benediction pronounced at the close of our service is the assurance to those who have been together that the grace of God goes with them into their everyday life, assisting them to be faithful. In 2 Samuel 23:1-7 the last words of King David are written, a final benediction that God prospers the righteous and God-fearing ruler. The divine words of the Divine Liturgy at the conclusion speak volumes of blessings: “May the blessing of the Lord and His mercy always come upon you through His divine favor and compassion; now and forever and from all Ages to all Ages.” I was a young boy when the country was in World War II. The remembrance of blackouts, wardens on every block, shortages of so many goods and supplies were common, including meats, sugar, coffee and much more. I vividly recall collecting old newspapers, cans of cooking grease and oil, bundling them and taking them to school. If you were part of the war effort in that era, you remember the food stamps collected and given to mom to complete her shopping. Shortages of everything were common, but we learned to adjust to a different lifestyle, and whenever we felt sorry for ourselves, we carefully observed the blue stars hanging in windows and with pain, the gold stars reminding us that a life has been given for the cause of liberty. In school, we were taught to sing enthusiastically the patriotic songs to keep the American spirit alive. Recently we were watching the Fourth of July celebration from the nation’s capitol on TV. As one would expect, included in the repertoire was the familiar “God Bless America” a song synonymous with the name Kate Smith. For a generation, no entertainer was more popular. Although she never had a voice lesson and never learned to read music, she wanted to sing and to share her voice with others. She came from a very religious family, and she accepted her voice as a gift of God The one thing Kate Smith is most remembered for was her singing of “God Bless America.” She made it almost a second national anthem, and records of her singing it sold millions of copies. The familiar words were those of Irving Berlin: God bless America, Land that I love; Stand beside her and guide her, Through the night with a light from above From the mountains, to the prairies, To the oceans white with foam; God bless America, my home sweet home. Some of us have discovered what Jesus wanted us to know regarding blessedness. The Sermon on the Mount, found in the Gospel of Matthew, tells of those who lead a blessed life: “Blessed are the poor in spirit…Blessed are those who mourn…Blessed are the meek…Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness…Blessed are the merciful…Blessed are the pure in heart…Blessed are the peacemakers…Blessed are you when men revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Everyone has blessings. The foolish person squanders them. The practical person counts them. The good person shares them. “God Bless Us Everyone!” Registry Baptisms Mason, son of Vicky and James Steward Sponsors: Barbara and Paul Stavropoulos Logan, son of Vicky and James Steward Sponsor: Marika Floros Eleni, daughter of Athena and Dino Mirmingos Sponsors: Maria and Evangelia Cucuras Anna, daughter of Lizeth and Peter Paleothodoros Sponsor: Angelo Paleothodoros Drake, son of Aimee and Mark Sahlas Sponsors: Francine Sorensen and Haralambos Theodoropoulos Weddings Kristin Koutsis and Timothy Beavers Sposnsor: Elaine Hayes Lauren Blane and Andrew Bogren Sponsor: Drew Blane Ann Cameron Haley and Michael Schieber Sponsor: Rebecca Schieber Monday Tuesday Wednesday 8:00am Orthros 9:15am Awaken To God 9:30am Divine Liturgy Adventure Theater Radio Play 8:00am Orthros 9:15am Awaken To God 9:30am Divine Liturgy Fellowship Hour 8:00am Orthros 9:15am Awaken To God 9:30am Divine Liturgy Fellowship Hour 8:00am Orthros 9:15am Awaken To God 9:30am Divine Liturgy Fellowship Hour 25 18 11 4 Directory Pictures 7:00pm Paraklesis 26 19 12 5 Directory Pictures 7:00pm Paraklesis TRANSFIGURATION OF OUR LORD 8:00am Orthros 9:00am Divine Liturgy 27 20 13 6 Directory Pictures Directory Pictures 7:00pm Paraklesis 7 28 21 14 You were transfigured on the Mount, Christ God, revealing Your glory to Your disciples, insofar as they could comprehend. Illuminate us sinners also with Your everlasting light, through the intercessions of the Theotokos. Thursday 22 15 8 29 4:30pm First Day Of Greek School Directory Pictures 7:30pm Parish Council Meeting FALLING ASLEEP OF THE THEOTOKOS 8:00am Orthros 9:00am Divine Liturgy 5:00pm Adventure Theater BBQ Directory Pictures 1 4:30pm Adventure Theater 4:30pm Adventure Theater Directory Pictures 4:30pm Adventure Theater 7:00pm Paraklesis 4:30pm Adventure Theater Friday 30 23 16 9 2 2501 S. Wolf Rd. Westchester, Illinois 7:00pm Paraklesis August 2013 Apolytikion of The Transfiguration Sunday Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church Directory Pictures Saturday 31 24 17 10 3 Memorials Tom Kiousis James Eriotes George Zurales Harry Andritsis Nicholas Anos John Anos Aspasia Anos Valerie Aravosis Helen Meros Thomas Kalyvas Petros Kokinis Paraskevas Kokinis Konstandina Kokinis Dorothy Nichols John C. Nichols Demetra Booras Chris Couretas Anna Rassogianis Sotirios Verveniotis Ted Patrinos Katherine Lewis Perry Lewis Nick Beshilas John Xenos Sophia Xenos Stella Sigalos Weekday Services Stewardship in the near future ??? If we could step into a time machine and be transported to a Stewardship Sunday in the future, it might go like this: Please have your credit and debit cards ready as we shall now make our pledges for next year and fulfill them today! You can log onto the church Wi-Fi using the password “Acts20:35.” Ushers will circulate mobile card swiping machines. Those who prefer to make electronic funds transfers are directed to computers and lapotops at the rear of the church. If you’d rather use your iPad or smartphones you are authorized to use them in church for this one time only! Transfiguration of Our Lord Tuesday, August 6 8:00am Orthros 9:00am Divine Liturgy Paraklesis 7:00pm Thursday, August 1 7:00pm Monday, August 5 7:00pm Wednesday, August 7 7:00pm Friday, August 9 7:00pm Tuesday, August 13 Falling Asleep of The Theotokos Thursday, August 15 8:00am Orthros 9:00am Divine Liturgy Funerals Jean Maimonis Sotirios Verveniotis Thomas Dres Mosaic Deadline The September Mosaic deadline is Wednesday, August 7. Postmaster: Please deliver by the 3rd of August Address Service Requested Holy Apostles Greek Orthodox Church 2501 S. Wolf Rd. Westchester, Il. 60154 (708) 562-2744 BELLWOOD, I L. P ERM I T NO. 157 PAID NONP ROFI T ORG. U.S. P OSTAGE
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