P age 1 © C opyright 2014, Bre ndanBosches All rights re serve d. These survey outcomes are protecte d by the copyright laws of South Africa as it as part of a wider publishe d work , Thriving in Difficult Places: Member Care for Yourself and Others. This book or its accompanying Powe rPoints m ay not be copie d, re produce d, re printed, stored in a re trieval system, transm itte d in any form or by any m e ans, ele ctronic, m e chanical, photocopying, re cording or othe rwise , poste d on a we bsite or forwarded via email, without the prior permission of the author. The nam e of this re source needs to appear on such page s. For large r groups, ple ase contact the author. Outcomes and Conclusions of the Survey for Missionaries by BrendanBosches Survey History The Survey for Missionaries conducted by the author was com pile d by he rse lf in late 2004. John Dyason, a systems analyst from Pretoria, South Africa, designe d a we bsite , and cre ated an online database that captured the data that participants completed online as the y clicked on choices and entere d text. She test-ran the surve y on 30 m issionary and e x -m issionary frie nds and incorporate d sugge sted change s. The surve y was launche d in June 2005. At the launch the author initially se nt out 350 le tte rs to colle agues and friends in missions, asking them to complete the surve y and provided the link to the online survey. In the same letter, an additional short le tte r was adde d for the m to send to missionary colleagues and friends, e ncouraging the m to com ple te the surve y and to forward the letter to other missionaries. Many we re e xtremely helpful. For e x ample, one person sent it to 30 missionary friends. Another person, the m othe r of a South African m issionary whom the author has ne ve r m e t, re ce ive d it from he r m issionary daughter work ing in Russia. This m other forwarded the survey to 200 of he r m issionary friends across the globe. Friends forwarded it to friends, and it is the re fore im possible to e stablish how m any surveys re ally re ached potential participants and what the pe rcentage of participation was versus re ceipt of the surve y invitation le tte rs. The © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 2 author found more addre sses on mission agencie s’ website s giving nam e s and e m ail addre sses of their missionaries. She sent them a personal re quest for participation and ask ed them to forward the email to their colleagues. On days whe n 20 or m ore of the se le tte rs we re sent out, the number of participants would rise considerably, rece iving up to as m uch as 20 completed surveys per day. In November 2006 the surve y was concluded and the we bsite was the n no longe r acce ssible to participants. O ne networking group of m ission agencies in the “…stan countrie s”, e .g. Afghanistan, Uzbe kistan, Tajikistan, e tc. asked if they could participate on hard copy formats so that the ir participation could re main secure in their restricted are a. I sent the Microsoft W ord form at of the surve y to a safe email addre ss of one of the organizers of this ne twork ing group of age ncie s. The author cautione d the m to photocopy all the page s afte r com pletion, just in case the parce l containing these surveys we nt missing. The y printe d the surve y and duplicate d it for all the ir work e rs of that re gion who com ple te d it anonymously. The completed survey form s we re se nt to m e in Africa via airm ail and re ache d m e safe ly. A Form Num be r was writte n by hand on the top corne r of the com pleted hard copy form , so that the se could be prope rly re corde d, che ck e d and ve rifie d on- and off-line. The contents and clicks of their choices of each completed hard copy form we re typed into the survey online – one per survey, while the hard copy form num be r was the n adde d to the com m e nt box . At a Bible C ollege in Barberton, South Africa, named Back to the Bible Training C olle ge , whe re the re we re 105 students from 11 African nationalitie s at that tim e and 12 staff m e mbers from four nations, the author handed out hard copies to those who qualified to participate. Many students had completed a fe w ye ars’ m inistry be fore atte nding the Bible C ollege for three years and therefore qualified to participate in the surve y. Since the students at that time (unlik e at pre se nt) did not have acce ss to the Inte rne t or com puters on campus, hard copy forms we re the only option available to the m . The author also interviewe d about te n of the Bible College staff members and a few students who qualifie d to participate and re corde d those , toge the r with 40 othe r inte rvie ws conducte d at othe r locations within South Africa. Survey Purpose A sam ple of the survey as it appeared online is pasted on the next three pages. Although the issues that can be measured by this survey are m ultiple , the main purpose of this surve y was to m e asure the following: • • • • • • • • Main stre ssors of m issionarie s from various cultures and age ncie s R e asons why the y think othe rs are re signing and re turning hom e R e asons why the y the m se lve s m ay re sign and re turn hom e W hat care the y have re ce ive d in the past ye ar – m ain re fre she r W hat care the y de sire Pe rce ntage of financial incom e com pare d to the ir nee ds W hat topics the y think should be taught to Missionary C are Provide rs Pe rsonal com m e nts O the r data that can be derived from this survey that is not part of the m ain purpose of the surve y but ne ve rthe le ss ve ry use ful for re se arch, include s the following: m issionaries’ age, gender, m arital status, nationality, host nation, training (both se cular and for missions), years of service in missions, location of work (e.g. urban, rural, sm all te am , e tc.), type of work (e .g. e vange lism , wom e n, training, e tc.). © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 3 Survey Nature The surve y was com ple te d anonym ously and m ostly online , but participants we re e ncouraged to feel free to participate on a hard copy format re turned to m e via airm ail. A total of 428 hard copy forms we re re ceived and numbered. Their choices and contents we re e nte red online, and the particular form number was included in the Comments area of the surve y. If no form numbe r appe ars in the C om m e nts are a, it was com ple te d online by the participant him - or he rse lf. The surve y m ostly had options whe re participants could click on one or m ore option, and the se click s we re re corde d in an online database which I could check daily as it grew. The IP addre ss of the com pute r from whe re the form was completed online was recorded. There we re locations whe re a husband and wife completed the survey separate ly, but on the sam e com pute r, or a group of missionaries completed the survey on a compound or office com pute r that is available for their general use. This will e xplain why some surveys are from the same IP addre ss, but with diffe ring de tails indicating a diffe re nt participant from the sam e com puter. Integrity te sts we re execute d (de scribe d in the ne x t paragraph be low) to e lim inate duplicate s and othe r inappropriate surve ys that we re not tak e n into conside ration for the final outcom e of the surve y. Integrity Tests and Deletion of Inappropriate Records The database was re ceived by a statistician. This chapter was compiled from he r re port. The total number of surveys re ceived in the database was 2,298. The num be r of 212 re cords we re e liminated that we re inappropriate for this study. The remainde r of 2,086 Missionary Surveys came into consideration for the survey outcomes. The integrity te sts consiste d of the following, and the inappropriate surve ys we re the n e lim inate d: • • • • • R e cords containing e xactly the same data as another. There was one that sent his answe rs 13 times, possibly because he wanted to ensure that it was duly re ceived and re corde d. R e cords that contained exactly the same data as another, except for perhaps one or two que stions, we re e lim inate d as we ll. Pe rsons who answe re d “No” to the que stion whe the r the y are at pre se nt a m issionary or not, even if they indicated that the y had be e n in m issions longte rm in the re cent past. They may we ll have be e n in m issions in the past, but be cause the y answe re d “no”, the ir surve y was disqualifie d and e lim inate d. R e cords of which the age of the person made it impossible for him or he r to have give n so many ye ars of service in m issions, e .g. som e one ’s age indicate d as be twe e n 20 and 30 years of age, but he or she indicate d a pe riod of m ission se rvice of 40 ye ars. R e cords in which the marital status is indicated as “Never Marrie d” but their main re fre sher (care re ceived) in the past year was indicated as “Spouse and Children”. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 4 Strengths of This Survey The author believes that the strengths of this surve y are as follows: • • • • • • • The fact that this survey was totally anonymous, helped participants to be honest and transparent in e xpressing their opinions and comments. W hatever issues may pe rhaps e nable anyone to make assum ptions and trace a surve y back to the participant, will not be possible as the database is not shared with anyone othe r than m y data proce ssor and acade m ic he ad. The survey could be completed in the com fort and privacy of the hom e of the participant. The re we re plenty of options in each category to choose from, up to 35 choice s. IP addresses could help to find duplicate s, but diffe re nce s in various fie lds in re cords from the same IP address indicated different people participating on the sam e com pute r. The comparison betwe e n their re al stressors ve rsus the re ason why the y think the y could possibly leave missions or why the y think others are leaving, helps the observe r to k now that the highest stressors will not necessarily cause attrition or the loss of m issionarie s. The outcomes of this surve y will he lp those who are training Missionary C are Providers to shape their training according to what 2,086 active missionaries have indicate d. No participant was able to m ark m ore options than what was state d in the que stion, since a flag was built into the survey that we nt up as soon as some one m ark e d m ore than the ir allowe d choice s. Weaknesses of This Survey The author believes that this survey had certain weaknesses, all of them obse rve d only in hindsight. The y are as follows: • Som e of these inappropriate outcom e s cam e about as a re sult of the de fault option that, unbe k nown to the re se arche r, re ste d on the first choice . For e x ample, if the first option of “Marital Status” to be marked was “Ne ver Married”, the de fault choice re sted on that first option. This means that, if the participant forgot to click on his actual m arital status, it would automatically re giste r as the first option which was “Never Marrie d”. It was not clear to the re se arche r that a de fault setting was set for the first option, as if the first option was chosen by the participant. This incorre ct default setting was only applicable to the que stion on age and m arital status. Other questions did not have a question marked when the pe rson opened the survey and therefore the re was no possibility of e rrors with the othe r que stions. • Bible translators we re not happy with the fact that there was no se parate “Bible Translator” section among the options of the job description se ction. This has be e n duly note d. • About thre e participants wante d the option “O the r” in the stre ssors se ction clarifie d, or, if they clicked “Other”, they preferre d to have a text field whe re they could spe cify why the y we re choosing the option that was calle d “O the r”. • The job description “Working Internationally” m ay have been misunderstood by a fe w surve y participants. They may have felt they have an international m inistry if the y work e d cross-culturally in a location othe r than the ir hom e country and trave lling ofte n to go hom e , but what the author m eant with “W ork ing Inte rnationally” was whe ther the missionary was targeting m ore than one host © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 5 country within the ir job description. In hindsight it would have been be tte r if the words “m ore than one host country” had be e n adde d. • No option was given in the R efre sher (Care Given) section for e xercise, sports or hobbies. Since these are important re freshers and exercise even a vital refre she r if we want to re m ain healthy and fit, the se om issions are since re ly re gre tte d. • Use r e rror due to typing errors and abbreviations in completed te x t fie lds m ade the data difficult to analyse . • The re sults could have been e nhanced by asking the participants to rank answe rs to cate gories whe re m ore than one answe r was re quire d. This would have given a be tte r ide a to the we ight of e ach answe r, and not just that it was se le cte d. Howe ve r, the author was advised that ranking would bring about a tre m e ndous am ount of program m ing to calculate re sults. Academic Acknowledgement This re se arch was com ple te d as part of the re quire m e nts of a PhD de gre e with C om monwe alth Open University (U.K.). This and the other chapters we re initially writte n as a PhD dissertation and may have that “feel” to it, but is nevertheless simultane ously writte n as part of a manual on Member C are for self-help and for helping othe rs on and off the mission field. This manual is calle d Thriving in Difficult Places: Member Care for Yourself and Others. Inquiries on Survey You are we lcom e to contact the author at thrivingindifficultplace s@gm ail.com with re gard to inquiries about this surve y. No re cords or data of individual participants will be provided. The material in this and other chapters is copyrighte d to the author. Should you at any time use this information or quote from the outcomes of this survey it ne e ds to occur with full ack nowle dgement to Bre ndanBosche s Proce sse d outcom e s of data about individual age ncie s do not e x ist, e x ce pt for the following age ncie s: • Youth W ith A Mission (YW AM) – 700 participants • • • Asse mblie s of God (AO G) – 125 participants C am pus C rusade for C hrist (C C C ) – 39 participants Baptists – 19 participants O nly YWAM and AOG have e nough participants to be statistically re le vant, although in que stions whe re there we re 35 choices to choose from, the outcomes of those questions m ay not be significant for AOG, but only for YWAM. The outcomes of one agency will not be provided to another agency. The survey participant data base will not be provide d to anyone since confide ntiality (of all surve y participant m ate rial that m ay ide ntify a participant) has be e n prom ise d to participants of the surve y. Further Research Needed The author believes that further re search is needed on the following issue s in m issions and spe cifically with re gard to Me m be r/Missionary Care : • Look ing at furlough stre ss and re -entry shock versus se nding church support in the hom e country of m issionarie s. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 6 • Since m ost of the participants we re Am e ricans and m ostly First W orlde rs, re se arch ne e ds to be done re garding the stre ssors that spe cifically affe ct m issionaries from developing nations. This will he lp MC Provide rs from the se nations to k now how to e ffe ctive ly train indige nous MC Provide rs and to e ffe ctively care for their work ers in the areas where care is wanted and ne e de d. • R e search is needed to determine how Adult Missionary Kids (AMKs) and Adult Third C ulture Kids (ATCKs) are affecte d by their parents be ing in m issions, and what type of care is e ffe ctive , and what type of care the y de sire . Basic Results For the sake of personality preference s and learning style varieties among re ade rs and surve y participants, the author is not only providing statistics in table s with num be rs, but pie and/or bar charts which re present a picture format of learning. The author has also filled e ach portion of the charts with both patte rns (for whe n it is printe d as hard copy) as we ll as with colour (for the Internet). Please see a survey copy be low in blue . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 7 SURVEY FOR MISSIONARIES Purpose: This questionnaire is part of the research for a doctoral dissertation with the purpose to establish which type of missionary stressors are most common and what type of Member Care is most appreciated. The results may assist trainers to compile a valid curriculum in training Member Care workers. A workgroup of 23 members found that the completion of the questionnaire will take approximately 12 minutes of your time. Your time and opinion on this questionnaire is highly appreciated and valued. Who is launching this surv ey?: It is done by BrendanBoscheswho is involved in conducting Member/Missionary Care Training for the College of Counselling and Health Care, University of the Nations, Hawaii. The results of this survey will be the property of BrendanBoschesand will be included in her doctoral dissertation and research for the Commonwealth Open University (U.K.). However, any mission agency or individual that may be interested in the conclusions, will have access to the final and corporate results on request. Confidentiality: The questionnaire will be completed anonymously. No-one except Brenda, her academic supervisor, computer analyst and a statistician will have access to your individual answers on your anonymous questionnaire sheet or interviews, however, corporate results will be made known to others, e.g. "600 out of 800 persons said that .... ". Suggestion: When you read the questions, please do not think too long about your answers. None of your answers can be wrong - it is your opinion, and that is valid. It is better that you do not discuss your answers before completing the questionnaire, so that your personal opinion is reflected, and not the opinion of others. The order in which options are listed, does not reflect opinion nor priority. Definition of a Missionary: Some are saying that "Every Christian is a missionary". We therefore need to define who this survey is meant for, thus, please allow the following definition of a missionary: "A missionary is someone who crosses ethnic or cultural boundaries to share the Good News of the Gospel of Jesus Christ to people who have no or little access to it." - Dr. K. Parks, Missiologist, Asia, 2005 (country withheld). Full-time workers of mission organisations like YWAM, OM, AOGWM, COGWM, Wycliffe, OMF, Campus Crusade, etc. may participate in this survey, even if their job description or situation does not fully fit this definition. Please SAVE this form after completion and then email as attached file to: purej [email protected] (secure email) [no longer a valid address] Snailmail: BrendanBosches: P O Box 131470, Northmead, 1511, SOUTH AFRICA. Survey can also be viewed and completed on website: www.palmarium.co.za/mcsurvey 1. Personal Information Age: 18-25 Gender: Male Marital Status: Never Married Married 1 of 17 26-35 Female 36-45 Divorced Nationality: (please type into shaded area - no abbreviations) Are you a full time missionary: Yes Univ ersity/College Training: No Theological/Missions Training: No 2. 46-60 61+ Separated Widowed Engaged No 0-1 Years 0-1 Years 2-5 Years 2-5 Years 6+ Years 6+ Years Which mission agency/organization are you w orking w ith (no abbrev iations please)? (please type into shaded area - will ex pand as you type) 3. In w hat country are your w orking as a missionary? 3 of 17 (please type into shaded area) © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 8 4. What is the total number of w hole years that you hav e spent in full-time missionary w ork (and 12 consecutiv e months w ill be seen as one w hole year)? 4 of 17 1 Year 21+ Years 2 Years 3-5 Years 6-9 Years 10-15 Years 16-20 Years 5. For how many years w ould you still like to remain in missions if you hav e all the needed resources (support, health, opportunity, v isa, credibility)? 5 of 17 None 6. TWO) 1 Year 6-10 Years 11+ Years Church Planting Training/Education Arts/Music/Theatre Sex ually Maladjusted Women Other Relief and Development Support Staff/Logistic Staff/Translation Communication Media Children The Poor Select the physical setting w here you are w orking most of the time (maximum TWO) 17 Urban (City) Mobile/Traveling Alone 8. 3-5 Years Select the type of mission activ ity that you are NORMALLY inv olv ed in (maximum 6 of 17 Health Care (Medical) Mercy Ships Counseling Evangelism Youth Intellectuals/Influentials 7. 2 Years Rural (town or countryside) Working internationally On a missions compound/base/community Select ONLY ONE option below : Tribal Small team Other 8 of 17 I work in my home country I work in a country that is quite similar to my own culture I work in a culture that is very different from mine 9. Select ONLY THREE issues about being a missionary that you find most difficult and stressful 9 of 17 Isolation Being over-worked Financial pressures Traumatic happenings Aging parents Living in community Writing newsletters Food Natural disasters Conflict with co-workers Loss and grief Health Marriage Loneliness Cultural stress Language barrier Homesickness Being single Lack of prayer backing Visa restrictions Feeling inadequate Unrealised goals Conflict with my agency Having to lead others Religious resistance Transitions/change Security issues in a restricted access country Family issues Lack of moral support from home Maintaining spiritual disciplines Weather Conflict with nationals Needs of our children Lack of training Emotional struggles Under-staffed Lack of visible positive results Furloughs/Home-assignments My leader’s leadership style Other 10. Which TWO things brought most personal refreshment and care to you on the field in the past year? 10 of 17 Trauma care Attended a conference Friendship with nationals Field visit by family/friends Regularly kept accountable Prayer partnership on field Corporate worship My wife/husband/child(ren) Spiritual disciplines Service of a psychologist Personal studies Visiting teachers/speakers Mutual care within my team/dept A caring leader Field visit by sending church Local church on field Personal development (being mentored, personal development programme) Friendship with co-worker(s) Personal counseling Moral support from home Input (course/seminar) Reading books Field visit by a Member Care worker Help in conflict resolution Other 11. I think that the care I need most of all during this next year from my mission agency, are the follow ing THREE things (select ONLY THREE) 11 of 17 Regular debriefing Someone to listen to me How to raise support © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches Help in processing grief/loss Friendships with co-workers Field visit by Member Care worker(s) Personal counseling Corporate worship Help in newsletter writing www.thrivingmember.com P age 9 Trauma care Prayer partnership on field Input (course/seminar) Personal development Reading books Mutual care within my team/dept Help in stress management Help for our marriage Help in leading others better Regular accountability Help in conflict resolution Help for burnout Corporate intercession for individual needs (“ Body ministry”) Service of a psychologist Visiting speakers/teachers Help in our family dynamics Help in our team dynamics Help for our/my children Fitting my gifting to my role Other 12. As a missionary I can most accurately describe my life and w ork as the follow ing (select ONLY TWO) 12 of 17 Happy Stressed Worried about my future No regrets Fitting in very well Awkward Burnt out Unhappy Horrible Satisfied Don’t want to do anything else Uncertain if I want to continue Fantastic Energetic Adapting well Ex cited about the future Hate being in missions Not fitting in Don’t want to continue Just OK (surviving) Fulfilled 13. I now hav e the follow ing percentage of w hat I financially need in order to do my missionary w ork w ithout w orries about money for general liv ing expenses, personal dev elopment, air tickets, pension, medical insurance, v isas, etc. 13 of 17 0-20% 21-40% 41-60% 61-80% 81-100% 101+% 14. It is my opinion (not based on w hat I read or heard) that missionaries actually giv e up and go home prematurely, mostly because of the follow ing THREE reasons: 14 of 17 Isolation Being over-worked Financial pressures Traumatic happenings Aging parents Living in community Writing newsletters Food Natural disasters Conflict with co-workers Loss and grief Health Marital problems Loneliness Cultural stress Language barrier Homesickness Being single Lack of prayer backing Visa restrictions Feeling inadequate Unrealised goals Conflict with their agency Have to lead others Task completed Marrying an outsider Religious resistance Transition/change Security issues in a restricted access country Family issues Lack of moral support from home Maintaining spiritual disciplines Weather Conflict with nationals Needs of their children Lack of training Emotional struggles Under-staffed Lack of visible positive results Furloughs/Home assignments Their leader’s leadership style Too old to continue Other 15. I think that, in spite of the stressors that I marked abov e, if I ev er give up and go home prematurely, it probably w ill/could be because of one the follow ing THREE reasons: 15 of 17 Isolation Being over-worked Financial pressures Traumatic happenings Ageing parents Living in community Writing news letters Food Natural disasters Conflict with co-workers Loss and grief Health Marital problems Loneliness Cultural stress Language barrier Homesickness Being single Lack of prayer backing Visa restrictions Feeling inadequate Unrealised goals Conflict with my agency Have to lead others Task completed Marrying an outsider Religious resistance Transition/change Security issues in a restricted access country Family issues Lack of moral support from home Maintaining spiritual disciplines Weather Conflict with nationals Needs of our children Lack of training Emotional struggles Under-staffed Lack of visible positive results Furloughs/Home assignments My leader’s leadership style Too old to continue Other 16. Please select the FIVE most crucial/important topics that are needful for Member Care (Missionary Care) workers to know about, or issues or skills that you think they need to be trained in to effectively care for missionaries in the field. 16 of 17 Trauma care Culture shock Loneliness Team dynamics Support raising (prayer, moral & financial support) Debriefing © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 10 Counseling skills My relationship w/ my sending church Conflict management Listening skills Contingency planning Home-schooling Leadership style Personality preferences Newsletter writing Transition/change Family dynamics Singleness Ongoing personal development + growth Dealing w/ disappointments in missions Maintaining spiritual disciplines Stress management Psychology Grief and loss Orientation of new staff Burnout Building relationships Spiritual vitality Caring for staff from dysfunctional backgrounds Cross-cultural living Confronting in love Furlough Living in community Moral purity Suffering 17. Please add any comments that you w ould like to make regarding w hat you are finding a blessing (or stressful) about being a missionary or about the care that you feel you are receiv ing (or lacking) on the field. 17 of 17 (Type into shaded area - space unlimited). IF THIS SURVEY FORM IS ON A WEBSITE: Click on “ Submit” below. Developed by Palmarium Solutions – www.palmarium.co.za IF THIS SURVEY FORM IS ON A HARD COPY: Thank you for your time and opinion in completing this surv ey. It is much appreciated. IMPORTANT: Now SAVE this file after completion (or your choices w ill all be lost) - take note of hard-driv e location of new ly sav ed file. Please email the new ly saved file as an attached file to my secure email address at purej [email protected] ---oOo--oOo--oOo--- (End of Survey) © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 11 Geographical Results Total Number of Participants after Integrity Tests: 2,086 missionaries from 81 nationalities of 357 agencies/churches working in more than 148 host countries or fields When looking at pie and bar charts below, the specific percentages or number of participants that marked each category are displayed in the appendix to this chapter. Age Groups It is lovely to see that a full 9% of participants are 61 years of age and older. Although retirement is a concept that is highly upheld in the West, the author believes that retirement is an ideal time when a person can contribute in valuable ways to mission teams. This older group, as well as those 46 to 60 years of age (32%) are, except for normal missionary roles, very valuable in training roles and becoming Missionary C are Providers. Their sheer life experience (including discipleship and spiritual growth over years) could bring tremendous skills, maturity, wisdom, care and stability to teams. The fact that they are forming 54% of the participants of this survey, they do not necessarily © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 12 make up 54% of the real workforce on the field, but their maturity and healthy concern for colleagues would have encouraged them to complete this survey. Gender It is im portant to bear in m ind that the above division of 47% male versus 53% fe m ale m issionaries is not nece ssarily representative of exactly what the global m issionary force look s like, but rather m e re ly a true re pre se ntation of those who participate d in the author’s Missionary Survey. The same can be said of the marital status, nationalities, job de scription and various othe r aspe cts cove re d by this surve y. Marital Status The m arital status of those who participate d in this surve y is 60% m arrie d and 40% unm arrie d or single . The 40% unm arrie d or single persons are divide d into five cate gorie s: ne ve r m arrie d (35% of the surve y participation total) and 5% othe rs (e ngage d, widowe d, divorce d and se parate d) as pe r the pie chart be low. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 13 Nationalities A total of 81 k nown nationalitie s participate d, with an e x tra 163 that m ark e d the “Unk nown” section of nationality, possibly because the participant did not answe r the que stion, no list was provided to choose from, typing e rrors by participants, or due to se curity risks within their host countries that are antagonistic toward missionaries or for othe r re asons like fear of being identified. The 18 nationalitie s that had m ore than 10 participants are as follows: USA: 786, Australia 203, South Africa 175, UK 164, Unknown 163, C anada 90, Philippine s 84, Ne the rlands 46, Ge rm any 41, Ne w Ze aland 40, Switze rland 22, Brazil 21, India 20, Malaysia 19, Zambia 16, Norway 15, Singapore 14, Kore a 13, Swe de n 11. Mission Agencies Each participant gave their own ve rsion of the nam e of the ir age ncy, e .g. the age ncy Youth With A Mission was writte n as Y.W.A.M., YWAM, Youth W ith A Mission, e tc. and e ve n spelling mistakes occurre d. All entries of one age ncy or church had to be m ove d m anually to one general name. A total of 357 age ncie s/churche s participate d in the Missionary C are Surve y. Host Countries (Fields) The 2,086 missionaries that participated are work ing in more than 148 host countries or fie lds. It cannot be established exactly in how m any countrie s the se m issionarie s are work ing, due to the fact that not all countries we re listed. Howe ver, 146 countrie s we re m ark ed, plus the two choices calle d “O the r in Africa” and “O the r in South Am e rica”. The se two choice s re pre se nte d se ve ral sm alle r countrie s on the se two contine nts. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 14 Secular, Tertiary Training If the outcome of se cular, te rtiary training is an e x act re pre se ntation of the global m issionary work force, then a good 71% have at least two ye ars’ (up to six ye ars and m ore ) tertiary training in a non-theological, non-missions skill. W ith the te rm ‘tertiary’ is m e ant any training re ceived after elementary and secondary school (or primary and high school) ye ars. The remaining 29% has no or le ss than one ye ar te rtiary training. The author believes that missionary re cruiters need to encourage pote ntial m issionarie s to obtain m ore tertiary training in skills other than m issions or the ology in orde r to be of m ore value to the m ission te am and its cause . Too m any missionary re cruits have no advanced skills whatsoever, and since many have also not work ed for an employer before, coming straight from se condary school to the fie ld, they have no idea of how to work under authority or about normal work e thics, and above all, it is difficult to know what tasks to give them to do on the field. Some want to only e quip themselves in a the ological or m issions dire ction, and although the re is nothing wrong with this, they struggle to add any other practical skill to the te am. Some youngsters come to the mission field not able to cook a meal, m ak e the ir be d or cle an the ir room or m aintain other areas in or outside of the house , having be e n babie d by the ir m others until adulthood. Such ill-equipped young people find it difficult to survive , put stre ss on their roommates and team mates, and they do not unde rstand that the ir le aders are not mean when re quiring discipline , subm ission and ce rtain work hours. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 15 Theological/Missions Training A shock ing 54% of the participants said the y have one ye ar or le ss m issions or the ological training. This could re sult in work ers who are not feeling adequately traine d. The y are poorly equipped to execute their job descriptions or re stricte d to fulfil only a lim ite d number of roles within missions. Their lack of knowle dge could cause them to not k now how to e x plain their own faith, because they simply do not know the foundational truths and are thus not able to teach others those truths. W ith a lack of knowle dge, they could fall prey to false te achings and error, as well as unbalance d be lie fs and ungodly be haviour. Good secular training as we ll as thorough theological or m issions training will e nhance their feeling of worth, momentum, dire ction and effect in the work of missions. Mission leaders will not only do missionaries a favour if they allow am ple opportunitie s and time for the self-development of e ach missionary, but also do the m se lve s and the Kingdom of God a huge favour. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 16 Time Spent In Missionary Work Alm ost half (44%) of the survey participants have spent ten and more ye ars in missions. This will be the group who will k now the huge asset we have in having long-te rm staff m e mbers on our te ams. Long-termers would usually be conce rned about the we lfare of othe r m issionary staff and therefore the high num bers of long-te rm participants who com pleted the survey is positive, but not surprising. It is a ble ssing to se e so m any participating that have given more than 20 years – a special word of thanks to the m for participating in this surve y and contributing to this study. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 17 Time that Participants Would Like to Remain in Missionary Work in Future The se figures are e xtremely positive, especially the fact that a highly significant 61% of participant missionaries indicated that they would like to re main in m issions for longe r than 10 more ye ars. The assumption can probably safely be made that, re gardless of the stre ssors, cost, resistance and sacrifices along the way, m ost missionaries usually k now that the y have a call and will do all they can to fulfill it. The author did not include an option of 20 or m ore years, since she reckoned that, if a pe rson k nows that he or she wants to re m ain in m issions for at le ast 11 ye ars m ore , the n it is re lative ly safe to assum e that the y will be long-te rm care e r m issionarie s. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 18 Type of Work – Job Description It is e specially encouraging to see how m any m issionarie s are participating in church planting. The large number of support or logistic staff is an indication of special care that ne e ds to be tak e n to re tain the m . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 19 Number of Workers in Each Type of Physical Location Number of Workers in Each of the Cultural Groupings Where they are Working © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 20 Top 10 Stressors of 2,086 Missionaries The group that has work ed for 10 years and longer in m issions fee ls m ore significantly affe cted by the following stressors, compared to the group who has work ed less than 10 ye ars: overwork ed (7.54% more), under-staffed (6.22% more), aging pare nts (5.32% m ore ) and furloughs or home assignments (4.31%). The group that has work ed for le ss than 10 years in m issions, feels more significantly affe cte d by the following stre ssors, com pared to the group who has se rve d for 10 ye ars and longe r: language barrie r (5.98% m ore ), be ing single (4.82% m ore ), cultural stre ss (4.08% m ore ), and insignificantly so, homesickness (3.72% more ) and emotional struggles (3.44% m ore ). © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 21 Most Meaningful Refreshers Experienced in the Past Year The following refreshers emerged as the top 10 re freshers among 2,086 participants of the author’s survey. It is e ncouraging to se e that, in spite of conflicts am ong colle ague s, the option of “Frie ndship with C o-Workers” e merged as the best refre she r am ong participants. The re fre shment that their spouse and childre n brought is ve ry significant. W e ne e d to the re fore do all we can to protect and strengthen marriages and their fam ily life on the fie ld. We need to guard against overwork and too long absences that will bring friction or ne glect of the m arriage and fam ily re lationships. If all work e rs we re m arrie d, this re fre shing factor could have emerged as the m ost significant of all. This also means that spe cial care needs to be taken of singles. They do not have a family to re fresh them, but the y can be encouraged to value friendships with colleagues and nationals. Single s m ay ne e d assistance in issues like conflict resolution, re lationship sk ills, forgiving othe rs, asse rtive ne ss, loving confrontation, e tc., e quipping the m in m aintaining good re lationships. The bar chart above also stresses the fact that we ll-planne d confe re nce s that are not too busy for re lationships and m aintain e x te nsive and we ll-re source d librarie s are two re freshers that can enhance m orale and re fre shm e nt for work e rs. If the se two re fre shers can be m ade available across age ncie s, it can be ne fit a large r num be r of work e rs. R e fre shers that impacted those with m ission service of 10 ye ars or m ore , com pare d to re fre she rs of the group that work e d le ss than 10 years, are the following: W ife /husband/childre n (a ve ry significant 10.20% m ore ), pe rsonal studie s (4.51% m ore ), and re ading books (12.21% m ore). R efreshers that impacted those with less than 10 ye ars’ service, compare d to the group that worked for 10 ye ars and longe r, are the following: moral support from home (5.86% more than the group with longe r se rvice ), and insignificantly so, field visits by family and friends (3.97% m ore) and friendship with co-work e rs (2.11% more) compared to the group that work ed for 10 years and longe r. The m uch higher re fresher of m oral support from hom e in those with shorte r ye ars of se rvice m ay prove one of the following possibilities: © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 22 • Moral support from home declines the longer the m issionary re mains on the fie ld. • The long te rmer gives more attention to their long-term goals on the field, and less atte ntion or input into their re lationship with those at home and thus “harve sting” le ss m oral support from hom e . • Due to a higher le vel of m aturity, the long-termer of 10 ye ars and longe r is le ss crucially e m otionally de pe nde nt on m oral support from hom e . The y are not worrying so m uch what those at hom e are think ing or saying and not so m uch affe cte d if the re is little contact from hom e . Field Visits as Refresher The role of field visits as one of two re freshers of the past year was indicated as follows: • 35 participating missionaries marked the care option “Fie ld Visit by a Me m be r C are Provide r” (1.68%) • 189 m ark e d “Fie ld Visit by Fam ily/Frie nds” (9.06%) • 66 m ark e d “Fie ld Visit by Se nding C hurch” (3.16%) The assumption can safe ly be m ade that the visits of fam ily and frie nds are highly appre ciated. Family and friends are often closer to the missionary than a Me m be r C are Provider or their Sending C hurch. One cannot m e re ly assum e that MC Provide rs and the ir Se nding C hurch did not pay the m issionary a visit in the past ye ar or that the ir visits we re not appre ciated, but rather that the field visits of family and friends are worth gold to missionaries. W hen it comes to the care that the y de sire from the ir age ncy, a significant 200 (or 9.59%) marked that they wante d the fie ld visit of a Me m be r C are Provider. If one looks at this significant factor of care wanted, it is clear that, com pare d to the 1.68% that m arked that a Member C are Provider’s visit re fre shed the m , that not e nough Member C are Provider field visits are made, or that not e nough Membe r C are is practice d, and that the provision of this factor of care is much lowe r whe n compared with how m uch m issionaries desire this mode of care . Some m issionaries told the author that, be cause their agencies have no form of care , the y did not m ark anything in line of e x pectations in care because it would be m eaningle ss and raise unre al e x pe ctations. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 23 Refreshment/Care Expected from Their Missionary Agency The only factor of higher significance for the longe r-te rm m issionarie s (10 and m ore ye ars of service) with re gard to the care that they want, compared to the short-te rm e r, is the m utual care within their team. The long-te rm e r wants 4.71% m ore care within the ir te am than the shorte r-termer. The care wanted by short-termers indicated a higher le ve l whe n compare d to the long-termer, though not significantly higher, are as follows: som eone to listen to me (3.25% higher than the long-termers), personal de ve lopm e nt (3.10% higher), fitting the ir giftings to the ir role s (2.85% highe r) and how to raise support (2.23% higher), and the re st of the caring factors are not more than 2% highe r than those of the long-te rm e r participants of this surve y. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 24 How Workers Emotionally Feel About Being Involved in Missions This outcome of how m issionaries feel about being involved in missions is ve ry positive inde ed. The assumption that can safely be made is that, in spite of the stressors marked, re asons for others’ re signation indicated, possible re asons why the y could re sign, and care wante d, m issionarie s in ge ne ral fe e l ve ry positive about the ir involve m e nt in m issions. The y are e x cite d about the future , k nowing that the y are involve d in som ething very meaningful. They are happy in what they are doing, do not want to do anything else in spite of their higher-than-normal stress le ve ls in cross-cultural living, and are fe e ling fulfille d and satisfie d with no re gre ts. W he n the range of emotions m e ntione d as options to be m ark e d in the surve y are divide d into thre e parts of positive , ne utral and ne gative e m otions, it is cle ar how positive missionaries feel about their involvement in m issions. Each m issionary could m ark two options, but did not ne ce ssarily m ark two, but pe rhaps only one e m otion de picting their feelings. A total of 3048 (76.58%) of the 3980 choice s that we re m ade , we re positive one s, e .g. adapting we ll, don’t want to do anything e lse but be a m issionary, energetic, excited about the future, fantastic, fitting in we ll, fulfilled, happy, no re gre ts and satisfie d. In calculations of comparative outcomes below, the e motional description “Stressed” was divide d into the negative emotions category. Howe ver, in hindsight it is not necessarily a fact that stressed missionaries are unhappy being in missions. From re se arch done by Dodds & Dodds of Heartstream Resources, Inc., the average m issionary’s stre ss le ve l (600 points) is considerably higher than the average person’s stre ss level at hom e (200 points). Taking this into consideration, one can then assum e that it is alm ost a give n that m issionaries, especially in their first te rm, will be stressed. If the option “Stre sse d” re m ains in the negative category, 10.87% of the participant m issionarie s would fe e l re lative ly negative about their involve m e nt in m issions, and 12.53% ne utral. If the option “Stressed” (mark ed by 266 of the total 3980 emotional mark ings) is moved to the © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 25 m ore ne utral portion of e m otions, only 4.19% m issionarie s would fe e l re lative ly ne gative, while 19.22% (765) would feel neutral about being involve d in m issions. To e x plain this graphically, please see the table below. Under negative e m otions we re the following options: awk ward, burnt out, unce rtain if I want to continue , hate be ing in m issions, horrible, not fitting in, unhappy, and the borderline option “stre sse d”. In the ne utral zone of emotions would be the following options: unce rtain, worrie d about m y future , and just O K (surviving). Emotions If Option “Stressed” is Viewed as Negative Positive Ne utral Ne gative 76.58% 12.53% 10.87% If Option “Stressed” is Viewed as Neutral 76.58% 19.22% 4.19% Looking At Areas Least Marked Look ing at highest scores says much, but looking at the lowe st scores marked by 2,086 m issionaries is a significant message to mission leaders, traine rs and care rs of what is not m ost stre ssful, and whe n it com e s to re fre she rs and care wante d, what is not appre ciate d m ost. The lowe st score s we re as follows: • Lowest Scores of Stressors: The lowe st scores for Stre ssors m ark e d (from the issue m arked least) we re as follows: Natural Disaste rs 6, Food 12, C onflict with Nationals 33, Lack of Training 38, Marriage 42. • Lowest Score of Refreshers (from the issue m ark e d le ast): Traum a C are 10, He lp in C onflict R esolution 13, Service of a Psychologist 18, Field Visit by a Member C are W ork e r 35, Visiting te ache rs/spe ak e rs 53, Pe rsonal C ounse lling 57. • Lowest Scores for Care Wanted from the A gency (from the issue m ark e d le ast): Trauma Care 18, Service of a psychologist 21, Help in proce ssing grie f/loss 42, He lp in our fam ily dynam ics 44, He lp for our m arriage 55. • Lowest Score in Opinion Why Others Have Resigned (from the issue m ark e d le ast): Food 2, Weather 2, W riting Ne wsletters 3, Having to lead othe rs 5, Natural Disaste rs 7. • Lowest Score in Why I May Resign (from the issue m ark e d le ast): Food 4, W riting newsletters 6, Weather 8, Having to Lead O thers 10, R eligious R e sistance 17, Language Barrie r 21. • Lowest Scores of Suggested Training Topics to train MC Providers: The lowe st scores (more than a 100 pe rsons did not m ark all of the se ) that 2,086 m issionaries suggested to be taught as training topics for Membe r C are Provide rs are as follows (from the issue m arked least): Psychology 36 pe rsons m ark e d it, Furlough 40, Contingency Planning 44, Grie f and Loss 64, Hom e -Schooling 67, Suffe ring 89, Ne wsletter W riting 89, Personality Preferences 94. Each pe rson had five choices from 35 possible choice s that the y could m ark , and a total of 9773 choice s we re m ark e d by 2,086 pe rsons. • Lowest Scores of Emotions A bout Being a Missionary: The lowe st score s of how 2,086 missionaries felt about being a m issionary, we re as follows (starting from the lowe st score): 1 person mark e d the option “Horrible ”; “Hate Be ing In Missions” was m arked by 5, “Unhappy” 18, “Don’t W ant To C ontinue ” 19, “Not Fitting In” 23, and “Awk ward” 37. Afte r the se lowe st score s, the re we re m ostly positive emotions m arked. Each of the 2,086 persons could m ark two options, and a total of 3,980 options we re m ark e d. [If the option “Stre sse d” was vie we d as © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 26 ne utral in the light of it being normal that missionaries live with high stress le ve ls, the n 76.58% of participants felt positive, 19.22% neutral, and 4.19% ne gative .] Lowest Markings of Desired Care Factors The lowe st scores of what 2,086 missionaries said whe n they we re asked what care they wishe d to re ceive from their m ission agency during the com ing ye ar, are liste d be low. Be fore one m ake hasty assumptions about these figure s, one has to mention that the se figure s are not necessarily significant. This que stion was not ask e d what the y did not want, but rather what they wanted. The re fore, the le ast m ark e d care factors are not about what people do not want nor is it about what is least wanted. The le ast m ark e d are as are most probably merely what they needed less than several other care factors in the past ye ar. A practical explanation could be the typical m issionary who is hope fully re lative ly healthy on all spheres of his/her life. His/her frie ndships with colle ague s and local believers, re lationships with spouse and childre n, conference and other care factors re fre shed them greatly. In the ye ar before participating in the survey, he/she was not in traum a or grief, nor e xperienced problems to the extent of needing a psychologist. The author be lie ve s that this is the ave rage m issionary. If it is true that the average missionary has not ex pe rie nce d traum a and othe r huge problems in the past year, he/she will not mark trauma care or a psychologist as his/he r gre atest need for care on the field. Many in the Two-Thirds W orld do not ne ce ssarily k now what trauma care e ntails or that they need it after a traumatic e vent, because they usually naturally de brie f e ach othe r within the ir re lationship-orie nte d com m unitie s without k nowing the term for the proce ss that the y are alre ady doing pe rfe ctly we ll. Adde d to this, in som e com m unitie s, the re is ofte n a stigm a attache d to visiting a psychologist and more so in the Two-Thirds World. Look ing at de sire d he lp for fam ily dynamics and m arriage, married missionaries indicated in this survey that the ir spouse and childre n had been their ve ry best re fre sher of the past ye ar, above all othe rs. From this figure one can safely assume that the married participants of this survey are happily m arrie d and have stable family lives, and there fore is not in need of help in these areas, but the y rather prefer help and care in other ways. For these reasons the le ast m ark e d care factors are not ne ce ssarily significant at all. Care Factors Trauma care Service of a psychologist Help in processing grief/loss Help in our family dynamics Help for our marriage Number of Participants 18 21 42 44 55 The Role of Trauma Care for Missionaries A total of 118 (of 2,086) missionaries mark ed “Traum atic Happe nings” as the re ason why the y thought others re signe d. 160 pe rsons (7.67%) m ark e d “Traum atic Happenings” as the re ason why the y think they m ay re sign. 179 pe rsons (8.58%) m ark ed “Trauma Care” as one of the 35 training topics that is essential in the training of Me m ber C are Providers. “Trauma C are” as re fresher of the past ye ar was mentione d or place d first on the list of 25 options on the survey form on the we bsite , but it had the ve ry le ast m arkings of all 25 refreshers. The very same can be said of the position of “Trauma C are” in “Care W anted from the Agency” – it was m entioned first, ye t had the © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 27 le ast markings of 29 care options. In the list of topics that we re sugge ste d for training of Me mber C are Providers, “Trauma Care ” was m e ntione d first on the list of options, howe ve r, it was 24 th of 35 options in score rank ing. Number of Workers in Each Category of Financial Income The top percentage in the pie chart below indicate s the pe rce ntage incom e re ce ive d, com pared to their needs, e.g. 12% of the participants of the survey re ceive 0 to 20% of the incom e that the y ne e d. The ir ne e ds we re de fine d as the “percentage of what I financially need in order to do my missionary work without worries about money for general living expenses, personal development, air tickets, pension, medical insurance, visas, etc.” Be cause “Financial Pressure” is by far the highest stressor, thus a vital factor of stre ss in m issions, the details of the pie chart below are re peated for your e ase in the table dire ctly be low it. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 28 Financial Provision – Percentage Bracket of Personal Income Compared to what They Really Need in Order to live Comfortably Percentage Of People Who Marked This Option 0-20% 21-40% 11.55% 8.77% 41-60% 61-80% 14.29% 22.00% 81-100% 101%+ 28.19% 15.20% Opinion Why Missionaries Think Others Went Home It is significant how m ore than 2,000 m issionaries indicated that financial pre ssure was by far the highest stressor, and not conflict with co-workers. “Conflict” was indicate d as only the eighth highest stressor. Looking at the chart below, why m issionaries think they could possibly re sign in future, they also usually do not see or admit to the possibility of re signing due to conflict, as this option is not among the top te n re asons for possible re signation, but conflict with agency and colle agues only took 16 th and 17 th place in prom inence for re asons why they think they could leave. Howe ver, whe n they are aske d why others are re signing, they admit to conflict, marking it as the second highest re ason © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 29 why the y think others are leaving. It can be assumed that m issionarie s do not usually be lie ve that their conflict will cause their e rosion and attrition. In othe r words, the y are optim istic that the y are re silie nt and that the y will be able to re solve conflicts satisfactorily, able to re main on the field while working with colleagues in peace. Or, are m issionaries perhaps denying their fallibility whe n it comes to conflict? Missionaries need to pe rhaps be m ore strong-willed and tenacious than the average person back hom e – the se qualities will he lp them to survive in strange lands and culture s. Howe ve r, the re ality is that these very same qualities may bring them into conflict with others who are e qually strong-wille d and te nacious. Financial pressure is something that missionaries not only admit to as (by far!) their own highe st stre ssor, but also obse rve in othe rs, as well as the stre ss that it produce s. Spe cial attention needs to be given to raising support. The word “support” re fers to more than one k ind of support – it re fe rs to praye r, m oral, logistic, re -e ntry spiritual and financial support. Especially in developing nations and in nations whe re C hristianity is still in its first thre e ge ne rations within fam ilie s or churche s, thorough e ducation in support raising skills are of paramount importance. Ex cuses that the ir culture doe s not allow raising support is usually invalid, as the author observed especially Filipinos apply support raising skills and seeing good provision forthcoming from those efforts, e nabling the m to re main in missions for a life tim e . Since an e ntire chapte r is writte n on this subje ct, it is not ne ce ssary to e laborate furthe r he re . It is significant that missionaries, whe n ask e d why the y could possibly re sign and go hom e, mostly quote non-preventable re asons for going home, with the exception of only financial pre ssure and ove r-work as pre ve ntable re asons unde r the top te n chose n re asons. Unresolved conflict does not feature in this chart as one of the top ten re asons why m issionarie s think the y could re sign or go hom e. In the que stion about what m issionaries think a Member C are Provider should be taught whe n the y are traine d in Me m ber C are issues, “Conflict Resolution” feature s as the m ost im portant issue to be taught to Me m be r C are Provide rs. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 30 Suggestions of What Needs to be Taught in Missionary/Member Care Courses Eve ry participating missionary could m ark a m aximum of five choices of topics that the y thought we re vital in the training of Missionary Care Providers. Here it is significant that conflict m anagement had the highest score, but “He lp in C onflict R e solution” was the re fre sher that had the second to lowe st score. When it comes to care wanted from the ir age ncy, “Help in our Family Dynamics” and “Help for our Marriage” was fourth and fifth le ast chosen. Since the family and marriage spheres are whe re m ost conflict happe ns naturally, these outcomes are surprising, but perhaps missionaries feel that they want to re m ain private in these areas and that they will be able to bring conflicts in the se are as to a good resolution. The author thinks that it may be possible that m ost missionaries do not k now or understand the corre lation betwe en confrontation and conflict. W ithout the application of loving confrontation, m ost conflicts cannot be solve d. As long as m issionaries re fuse to confront, frustration could incre ase and conflicts not satisfactorily re solved. Research by Dorothy Gish in 1983 re vealed that 549 m issionarie s indicate d the ir highest stressor as their inability to confront othe rs whe n ne ce ssary, and this is e specially true for wom en. Only after that came com m unicating across language and cultural barrie rs, time and effort needed to maintain donor re lationships (especially those of faith missions), and managing the amount of work and establishing work prioritie s. 1 Howe ve r, com ing back to confrontation, it is im portant to re m e m be r that without confrontation, conflicts re m ain unre solve d. Most attrition studies will not indicate financial pressure as one of the top re asons for attrition. Howe ver, the topic “Support R aising” as fourth highe st topic is significant in le arning to care for our m ission and aid staff. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 31 W hile missionary participants marked “Personal C ounselling” as the fifth most important topic for Member C are training, “Personal Counselling” ended as the sixth le ast m ark e d re fre sher of 2,086 participants, and “Service of a Psychologist” as the third le ast marked re fre sher. And ye t, participants feel that personal counselling is an important sk ill for a Me m ber C are Provide r. From this the assum ption could be m ade that pe rhaps not e nough traine d counse llors and psychologists are contributing to the we lfare of m issionaries on and off the field. The other possibility is that m issionarie s are pe rhaps shy to ack nowle dge the ir pe rsonal proble m s and pe rhaps do not go for he lp soon e nough. Maintaining spiritual disciplines was indicated as the fourth highe st stre ssor. Howe ve r whe n it cam e to topics for training of Member C are Provide rs, the topics “Maintaining Spiritual Disciplines” and “Spiritual Vitality” ended in 12 th and 13 th positions. “Maintaining Spiritual Disciplines” came 21st in the 44 choice s give n as re asons why the y thought othe rs we re leaving, and 26th of 43 re asons why they themselves could be le aving. The assumption he re could be that, although m issionaries are ge ne rally struggling to m aintain spiritual disciplines and concerned about the ir spiritual we lfare , the y do not be lie ve that it will be instrumental in their re signation or le aving the field. Is this perhaps part of the e nemy’s clever deception that missionaries believe they can e ffe ctive ly work without be ing vitally connecte d to the Life Giver and the O ne without W hom we can do nothing? (John 15:5). De aling with disappointments in third highest position chosen from a possible 35 topics for Me mber Care Provider training, m ission agencies and sending bodies have probably not give n e nough attention to this issue in the past, possibly due to ignorance about the high pre vale nce of this struggle and conce rn am ong m issionarie s. De aling with disappointm e nts has to do with the following: • unre alise d e x pe ctations; • the discre pancy be twe e n re ality and the ide al; • pe rsonal and others’ sin, failure and we aknesses, and the fact that socie tie s are be com ing incre asingly dysfunctional; • the re ality of suffe ring, including pe rse cution, including im prisonm e nt and torture ; • the spiritual m iscarriage or de ath of a vision or m inistry. The se are the stark re alities of not only life in itself, but to an added m e asure of those who dare to live on the edge and endeavour to extend the Kingdom of God. If we fail to ade quately prepare missionaries to live with these realities, we will be failing the m and the we lfare of m issions in ge ne ral. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 32 Comparative Results Comparing Answers between Marital Statuses Stressors The graph below was drawn sorting on the m ax im a of the pe rce ntage s to se le ct the orde r. In other words, highest differe nces dictated the order of stressor priorities be low. It is the re fore not true that loneliness is the fourth highe st stre ssor, but m e re ly that lone liness has the fourth highest difference when it is compared betwe en missionaries of various marital statuses. This m eans single or unmarried missionaries keenly feel lone ly in m ission settings whe n compared to m arrie d pe rsons’ lone line ss le ve ls, and since m arrie d persons have no struggle with singleness, the single s’ single ne ss has a high diffe rence whe n com pare d to the m arrie d pe rson’s lack of this stre ssor. Howe ve r, singleness in itself is not m arked as one of the top te n stressors of single s, but only as stre ssor number 22. Loneliness has less of a diffe re nce whe n the lone line ss le ve ls of various marital statuse s are com pare d, but it is stre ssor num be r 11 of all m arital statuse s put toge the r. Singleness as Stressor for Singles The “Other” marital statuses in the green colour of the chart above indicate those who are e ngaged, separated, divorce d or widowe d. O f those ne ve r m arrie d (720), 15% (108) mark ed “Singleness” as a stre ssor, while 20% of those who are se parate d in m arriage, marked “Singleness” as a stressor, and 9% of those divorced and a surprising 8% of those who are e ngage d, which could m e an the engage d m issionarie s we re possibly separated from their fiancé. Those who are widowe d are le ast lonely of work e rs who are not marrie d. Of those who we re never m arried, 10.97%) said that the care that the y are expecting from their mission agencies is to help them in their singleness issues, and 10.71% (of 720 persons) of the widowe d persons (2 of 28 persons) said the sam e . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 33 O nly the small perce ntage of 4.17% of singles who we re never marrie d, said that the ir single status m ay cause them to resign, and 6.35% of the divorce d and 3.57% of the widowe d said the same. These numbers are insignificant whe n standing on the ir own, and there fore the assum ption can be wrongly m ade that m issionarie s who are not m arrie d are all okay with it. The truth is that of all unm arrie d pe rsons, a significant 14.33% (121 of 844 singles) may struggle with their singleness as stressor, just like this spe cimen indicates. Teaching on singleness is important for both unmarrie d and marrie d pe rsons, so that both groups understand and can help. W hen m arried persons are asked whe the r the topic “Singleness” should be taught to Member C are Provide rs, ve ry fe w of the m mark it as one of their top five topics, as indicated on the chart above . W he n the author teaches on singleness whe re married pe rsons are in the audie nce , the y ofte n e x press gratitude for the information. The y ack nowle dge the ir total ignorance of the stre ssors and challenges of singles, e specially of the stre ssors of olde r and long-te rm single m issionarie s. Having m arrie d at a young age , the y ne ve r e x pe rie nce d the challe nge s of the single and the re fore do not re ally k now how to e ffe ctive ly walk alongside the m . More singles marked over-work as stre ssor compared to mark ing loneliness. Singles may ove r-work because they are lonely, bored because they do not have anything be tte r to do, or taken advantage of because their singleness spells availability. Looking at how the lone liness factor is one of the large differences in stre ssor inte nsity be twe e n m arrie ds and single s, it will be im portant for age ncie s and Me m be r C are Provide rs to give atte ntion to this aspect in singles, and for families to learn to inclusively adopt singles as part of their families on and off the field. Not e ve n half of the single s will e x pe rie nce lone liness. Howe ver, for some it is acute , and was indicate d as a highe r stre ssor to single m issionarie s than single ne ss. Marriage as Stressor for Married Couples 40 out of 1242 married persons (thus 3.22%) marked “Marriage” as a high stre ssor. 48 m arrie d persons (48 of 1242 = 3.86%) marked “He lp W ith O ur Marriage ” as the care the y want from the ir age ncy (Q .11) – this is le ss than 5% and the re fore is an insignificant stressor for marrie d missionaries. 8 More persons marked that they neede d he lp compared to those who said that marriage is one of their three top stre ssors. This appare nt discrepancy could be because not everyone wants to openly acknowle dge that the y have marriage problems, or, that their marriage proble m s are not conside re d as one of their top three stressors, or, that some who are happily married are stre sse d by othe rs who are struggling within their marriage. 65 of 1242 m arrie d pe rsons (5.23%) said that they may resign because of marriage problems. Since Q uestion 15 is pure ly a hypothetical question, this percentage is not re ally significant, but cannot be altoge the r ignore d eithe r. The corre lation of pe ople who m ark ed “Marriage ” both as stre ssor (Q ue stion 9) and as possible re ason for leaving m issions (Question 15) is 40%. Q uestion 16 (topics for training for MC Providers) did not have a marriage option – it was rathe r include d in the option “Fam ily Dynam ics”. Family Issues W he n com paring “Fam ily Issue s” and “Ne e ds of O ur C hildre n” with e ach othe r as Stre ssor, C are W anted, and as Sugge ste d Training Topic for MC Provide rs), 6.09% m ark ed “Family Issues” as a stressor, and 9.49% m ark e d “Ne e ds of our C hildre n” as stre ssor, a total of 15.58% which is significant. In the se ction “C are W ante d”, 4.65% wante d help with the ir children, and 2.11% wante d he lp in the ir fam ily dynam ics. O f those who marked “Fam ily Issue s” and “Ne e ds of our C hildre n” (325), 75 pe rsons (23.08%) marked “Help for O ur C hildren” and Help in our “Family Dynamics” as the care that the y need from their agency, and 71 (21.85%) m ark e d “Fam ily Dynam ics” as a © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 34 topic that is needed in training of MC Providers. Both of the se are ve ry significant for those who are m arrie d and have childre n. Refreshers Compared Between Marital Statuses R e fre shers in the bar chart above are com pare d in the ir priority be twe e n the various m arital statuses. According to this chart, singles are gre atly contributing towards and be nefiting from friendships with colleagues, especially since they have m ore time for this to happen if compared with m arried missionaries who give attention to their spouse and childre n. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 35 Care Expected from Agency Compared between Marital Statuses In the bar chart above , the care e x pe cte d from the ir age ncy is com pare d be twe e n m arital statuses. The ve ry highest difference is the unmarrie d missionary’s urge nt ne e d for som e one to liste n to the m , m ark e d by 25% of them , which is a significant pe rce ntage. The single doe s not usually have acce ss to one stable pe rson who can re gularly debrief them as spouses usually do for each other in m arriage. When singles do confide in someone, they often find that their listener goes into counseling or pre aching m ode, judging or berating them for what they are saying, thinking or fe e ling. Pe e r-tope e r debriefing in an emotionally safe and caring environment is important for singles to be able to off-load their concerns, feelings, dre ams and fears. This a ve ry simple manner of care that we all can do, but ofte n we are too busy with our own task s, goals and obje ctives in m issions to give attention and time to another, leading to m ore ove r-work and loneliness. As we love one another practically and m ode l our Lord’s love to e ach othe r, the world who watche s will be drawn to Him . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 36 Topics Suggested for Training of Missionary Care Providers Compared Between Marital Statuses Stressors Compared Between Age Groups © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 37 In the bar chart above, stressors are com pare d be twe e n the various age groups of m issionaries. Our youngest m issionaries experience the stress of financial pre ssure by far as their largest stressor and this stre ssor has by far the biggest diffe re nce be twe e n com paring stre ssors of the various age groups – this stre ssor is 12% highe r for the youngest work ers than for any other group. Mission leaders, trainers and Me m be r C are Providers there fore need to give special attention to help young re cruits, traine e s and m issionaries to raise support and get on the ir fe e t in this re gard. Anothe r significant diffe rence in stressor levels is the language barrie r felt k eenly by those age d 36 to 45. For those aged 46 to 60 years of age, their stressor that is higher than any othe r group is ove r-work and the needs of their ageing pare nts. The ir stre ssor of ove rwork is not significantly higher than for other age groups, e x ce pt if com paring this stre ssor with those older than 60. W hen it comes to the needs of their ageing parents, this stressor is highly significantly differing in intensity (on average 12% higher) whe n compare d to all othe r age groups. Comparison of Reasons for Their Possible Resignation between Marital Statuses W he n comparing the possible re asons why m issionaries of various age groups could possibly re sign or go home, the highest difference betwe en age groups are those who say that they will only re turn home whe n they are too old to continue. The age group 60 and above m arked this reason for possible re signation a huge ly significant 25% m ore than the next age group of 46 to 60, but the 46-60 age group in itse lf m ark e d this re ason for re signation an impressive 16% more than all the other age groups. Therefore, whe n looking at the option of “Too Old to Continue” as possible re signation option, those above the age of 45 on average marked it 20.5% more than all the othe r age groups which is of high significance and ve ry exciting and commendable indeed. It prove s that pe ople who are in missions and above the age of 45 re ally want to be in this work and fe e l that the y will be the re until the y no longe r are able to work . O the r significant diffe rences in re asons why work e rs both above 60 as we ll as those above 45 could resign are pe rsonal he alth issue s and the ne e ds of the ir elde rly pare nts. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 38 Comparison of Main Stressors with Reasons for Possible Resignation and Opinions Why Others Resigned The re are significant differe nces betwe en re asons others left, reasons why I m ay leave whe n com pared with the following stressors: “Conflict with C o-Work ers”, “Too Old to C ontinue”, “Task C ompleted”, “Health” and “Financial Pressures”. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 39 Stressors Compared Between Genders W he n comparing stre ssors betwe en genders, males are about 5% more stre sse d about both their financial pressure and the needs of their childre n. Fe m ale m issionarie s are about 5% more stre ssed than m ales about feeling inadequate. O the r than the se thre e diffe rences in stressors, no other stressors are significantly highe r than for the othe r ge nder. The only stressor that comes close to these three, is the stress that females feel about their ageing parents which they feel 4% more keenly than their male colle ague s, but this is not statistically significant at all. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 40 Top 9 Reasons for Possible Resignation Compared Between Genders The table above shows the outcomes of comparative re asons for possible re signation be twe e n male and female missionarie s. The re are two are as that significantly diffe r whe re 6% m ore males than females marked “Financial Pre ssure s” and “Ne e ds of O ur C hildren” as re asons why the y could possibly re sign. Two are as whe re fe m ale s m ark e d significantly higher than males, are health (9% higher) and ageing pare nts (13% higher) as possible re asons for re signation and re turning hom e . O the r than the se , othe r diffe re nce s are not significant. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 41 Issues Compared Between South African Missionaries and Those of Other Nationalities In this se ction we are com paring the stre ssors and othe r issue s of South African nationals with those from othe r nationalitie s, re gardle ss of whe re the y are work ing. Stressors – South Africans versus Other Nationalities W he n com paring the stre ssors of South African m issionarie s and those of othe r nationalitie s, the stre ssors am ongst the top 10 stre ssors are the following: • • • Financial Pre ssure – on average 10% more Visa R estrictions – 7% more O ve r-work - 6% m ore than their colleagues from other nationalities. Two stre ssors in which South African missionarie s do be tte r than the ir colle ague s of othe r nationalities, is the stre ss caused by feeling inadequate and by unre alize d goals. South Africans do re spectively 4.51% and 4.23% better than the ir colle ague s of othe r nationalitie s in the se two stre ssors. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 42 Refreshers of South A frican Missionaries Compared with the Refreshers of Missionaries from Other Parts of the Globe W he n comparing the refreshers of South Africans with the re fre shers of their colleague s of othe r nationalitie s, the y find the following re fre she rs m ore re fre shing: • Pe rsonal studie s – 4.25% m ore • R e ading book s – 3.51% m ore • Fie ld visit by sending church – 4.03% more re freshing than their colleagues from othe r nationalitie s. Fie ld visits seem important to m any South Africans, since field visit by se nding church, fie ld visit by family/friends, and field visit by a Member C are work er are all highe r than the fie ld visit averages of re fre shment from field visits for the ir colle ague s from othe r nationalitie s, although the se ave rage s are not significantly highe r. South Africans find the following areas significantly le ss re fre shing than their colleague s from othe r nations: • Frie ndship with the ir co-work e rs - 10% le ss re fre shing • The ir wife /husband/childre n – 5% le ss re fre shing • Frie ndship with nationals – 3% le ss re fre shing to South Africans. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 43 Care Wanted from Agency - South African Missionaries Compared with Other Nationalities W he n the care that South African m issionarie s want is com pare d with what othe r nationalities want, nothing is significantly different, e xcept that their desire to be listened to is 5.2% more than that of other nationalities. South Africans’ desire for prayer support com e s through in the non-significant com parative 3.12% m ore de sire for corporate inte rce ssion for individual needs and 3% m ore de sire for praye r partne rships on the fie ld. Their desire to fit their gifting to their role is a significant 6% lowe r com pare d to othe r nationalitie s’ de sire for the sam e . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 44 South African Missionaries’ Reasons for Possible Resignation Compared to Other Nationalities W he n the re asons for possible re signations of South African missionaries are com pare d with m issionarie s of othe r nationalitie s, the re are four significant diffe re nce s: • Financial pressures – 7.29% more of a possibility to re sign due to this re ason • Task completed – 8.19% more • Visa re strictions – 5.3% more • Age ing parents – A significant 9.7% less of a possibility to re sign due to this re ason. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 45 Suggestions for Topics of Training Compared Between South Africans and Global Workers W he n com paring South African m issionarie s’ suggestions for Me m be r C are Provide r training topics with that of m issionarie s of othe r nationalitie s, the re are thre e significant diffe re nce s: • C onflict m anagement – the y suggested this topic a ve ry significant 9.8% less than the ir colle agues of other nationalities. • Support raising – a significant 8.46% more than othe r nationalities • Stre ss m anageme nt – 6.61% less than othe r nationalities. The we ak ne ss of the South African curre ncy, the R and, as we ll as the fact that une m ploym e nt and crim e are rife in that country, are the cause s of the South Africans’ financial pre ssure s and the ir ne e d for training in raising the ir pe rsonal financial support. W ith the suggestions of both topics of “Conflict Manage m e nt” and “Stre ss Management” being significantly lowe r than that of othe r nationalities, South Africans (and e spe cially the ir C aucasian population) have re ce ntly be e n going through m uch change and have had to adjust without be ing able to confront situations. Be ing South African he rse lf, the author think s that the se issue s have influe nce d South African m issionarie s gre atly in the ir vie ws and life style . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 46 Comparison of Main Stressors with Reasons for Possible Resignation and Opinions Why Others Resigned This comparison above somehow m e asure s whe ther top stressors are the cause of past or future re signation, or in short, attrition. Although past re signation is based pure ly on the ir opinion, and future re signation is hypothetical in nature , it could neverthele ss also in som e measure reveal the difference betwe e n the ideal and re ality. For e xample, if one look s at the issue of conflict with co-work e rs. It se e m s that m ost m issionarie s ide alistically believe that they will not re sign due to unre solve d conflict, but re MAP’s statistics and the opinion that missionaries e x pre ss in this study, re fle ct re ality m ore stark ly than what is comfortable to see. Another example is the desire of missionaries to one day be able to say that they we nt home whe n the task was completed or whe n the y we re sim ply too old to continue, but the re ality seems to be somewhat different. O n the othe r hand, although financial pressures and language barrie rs are high stre ssors for m any, the y do not go hom e due to the se stre ssors. A furthe r investigation could be done to determine whe ther the same items we re marked by a participant in two or all three categories of this comparison. This will give gre ate r we ight to the specific item marked if the participant thinks for instance that “Financial Pre ssures” is a Stre ssor, Reason why he /she m ight le ave AND a R e ason why he /she think s othe rs m ight le ave m issions. The numbers here are just a comparison of the individual statistics – i.e . no allowance has be e n m ade for corre lations as e x plaine d above . © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 47 Comparing Financial Income Brackets with Other Variables Comparing Financial Income Brackets across Age Brackets Financial Income Categories Versus Age Groups Comparing Financial Income Brackets across Marital Statuses © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 48 Comparing Financial Income Brackets with Years Spent in Missions W he n comparing the number of years that missionaries have spent in missions with their pre se nt financial income, the outcomes are interesting. W he n m issionarie s are shortte rm , they have less income. This could either re flect that for m issionarie s who are in m issions for two ye ars or less, those at home do not as easily support the m as the y do those who have proved to be committed, or that short-term m issionarie s do not k now how to e ffe ctively raise support, or both of these re asons. The positive side of the picture is the faithfulness with which m ost long-termers are supported. When m issionarie s are involve d in m issions for 3 to 9 ye ars, the re is e qually as m any who have 0 to 60% incom e, 61 to 100% income and 101% and above incom e. In othe r words, twice as m any missionaries who participated in this study have above 61% incom e than those who have be low 61% incom e . R e gardless of the above figures, readers need to be re minded that a large proportion of the participation specimen are Northern Americans and the specimen and their income is the re fore not a true reflection of the nature of the global m ission force today. O ne also ne e ds to take into consideration that, seeing that this survey was available online, those who have (for e xample) below 40% incom e m ore ofte n do not have com pute rs and would not e ven have known about the existence of this survey. Howe ve r, e ve n though the specimen of the participants of this surve y are not from e qual parts of the First W orld and Developing World, the nature of m an re m ains the sam e , and that is that, ofte n supporte rs will wait to se e if a m issionary te naciously holds on to the ir com m itment and calling, and whe n he or she does, m any are willing to stand with such a m issionary. For those who are in mission service for longer than 20 years, four time s as m any of these missionaries are in the income bracket 61% and above than be low 61%. Som e may reck on that this prove s that those who we re not ade quate ly supporte d, re signed, and they are therefore fewe r as years go along, but the author fe e ls that the © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 49 ne x t graph, m easuring desire to re main in missions against pre se nt financial incom e , prove s the opposite of this be lie f. Comparing Financial Income with Number of Years Willing to Remain in Missions W he n comparing number of ye ars that missionaries are willing to re main in m issions, the outcome proves that their present le vel of financial incom e doe s not de te rm ine the ir willingne ss to re m ain in m issions or the le ngth there of. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 50 Comparison between Financial Income Categories and Top 10 Emotions about being in Missions O n ave rage , whe n com paring the top te n e m otions about be ing in m issions with m issionarie s’ pre se nt incom e , the re is no significant corre lation be twe e n financial pre ssure or income and their e motions. This pattern continues down to the ones fe e ling ne gative about being in missions and not wanting to continue - financial incom e for the se are the sam e as what is re fle cte d in the chart above . C omparison of Financial Income betw een Agencies/Organizations Num be r of participants in incom e brack e ts from four age ncie s: Agency 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ AOG Baptist 16.80% 15.79% 68.00% 84.21% 15.20% 0.00% CCC YWAM 15.38% 52.71% 58.97% 39.86% 25.64% 7.43% The se figures in the table above are portrayed in the following bar chart below: © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 51 Financial Pressure as Stressor Stressor \ Financial Income Financial Pressures 0-60% 54.85% 61-100% 20.34% 101%+ 7.57% The table above prove s that whe the r a m issionary’s incom e is be low 60% or 61 to 100%, both income sections almost equally m ark e d Financial Pre ssure s as stre ssor, e x ce pt for a 8% diffe re nce . How to Raise Support Indicated as Care Needed from Agency Missionary Care Topic\Resource Category How to raise support 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ 24.65% 7.26% 1.26% The table above indicates that missionarie s who re ce ive 60% or le ss than what the y re ally nee d is confirm e d with a 13% highe r re gularity that the topic “How to R aise Support” is a m ust whe n Me m be r C are Provide rs are be ing traine d to care for m issionaries. In other words, whe n m issionaries’ income le vels are highe r, the y do not re gard Raising Support as important as they would do whe n their income s are lowe r. It m ay be unfair to assume that this tre nd proves that m issionarie s are losing e m pathy with the large bracket of their colleagues who do not re ce ive e nough incom e . Mission le aders and trainers nevertheless need to e nsure that those who struggle financially, are give n good support raising tools, including having the right attitude about raising the ir support, know the importance of building strong re lationships with their supporters, and k now how to communicate to potential supporte rs their enthusiasm and passion for what the y are doing. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 52 Financial Pressure as Opinion Why Others Might Leave Missions Opinion Why Others Might Leave versus Financial Income Financial Pressures 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ 57.76% 35.63% 27.13% Financial Pressure Indicated as Reason for Possible Resignation Reason for Possible Resignation vs. Financial Income Financial Pressures 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ 45.98% 21.49% 5.99% Support Raising as Suggestion for Topics for Missionary Care Training Suggested Topic for MCare Training vs. Financial Income Raising Support 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ 43.35% 25.02% 19.56% C omparing a S election of Nationalities Nationalitie s conside re d he re : First World: Unite d State s Unite d Kingdom Australia Singapore Norway Third World: Brazil Philippine s South Africa India Zam bia © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 53 Comparison of Stressors between Missionaries from the First versus the Developing World W he n comparing the stressors of missionarie s com ing from de ve loping nations with those from the First W orld, it is cle ar that the ir struggle with financial pre ssure is e x tre me – more than twice the number of missionaries from developing nations mark e d “Financial Pressures” as their highest stre ssor than First Worlders. This is whe re I believe that the First W orld has a responsibility to help those from developing nations to re ach the ir own pe ople. The author has been criticized for having this stance , but whe n one look s at how m any missionaries from the First World have an income that is m ore than what the y ne ed to live comfortably (101% plus above ne e de d incom e ), that in itse lf re fe rs us to what James 2:13-17 says. It is a concern whe n those from de ve loping nations are de pe nde nt on fore igne rs, but unle ss we te ach and e nable those from de ve loping nations to cre ate an income or raise their own support, we have no e x cuse but to he lp them. Rev Yohannan’s ministry in gathering funds in the W est for indigenous Indian missionaries is commendable. Indige nous m issionarie s in de ve loping nations k now how to survive on little, and can make limited re source s stretch far and they e ve n he lp m any othe rs around the m with the little that the y posse ss. The only other significant difference betwe e n stressors of those from First W orld nations com pared to those from de ve loping nations is that 7.24% m ore m issionarie s from de ve loping nations feel inadequate in their work in m issions. Part of this is that many of the se nations have sham e -base d culture s, but it also confirm s the fact that First W orlders who have been blessed by good e ducation, need to help those from developing nations to e nhance their skills in order that they may be adequately armed for their work in re aching the nations for C hrist. For m issionaries who are reading this and rece iving more than 90% of what you re ally ne e d for your basic ne e ds, are you supporting an indige nous m issionary from the de ve loping world? For all othe r m issionarie s, are you faithful in he lping indige nous m issionaries from the developing world in developing their skills so the y can raise the ir own incom e or for the m to raise support from othe rs? © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 54 Comparison of Stressors between Those Working in the First World and Developing Host Countries The re are only two stre ssors that are significantly sm alle r (or le ss m ark e d) whe n m issionaries who are work ing in the First W orld are com pare d to those work ing in a de ve loping nation. These are: the language barrier (10.71% le ss m ark e d as stre ssor) and cultural stre ss (9.39% le ss m ark e d as stre ssor). This is possibly be cause m ost pe rsons who completed the survey are Westerners and are from the First W orld, work ing in the First W orld. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 55 Comparing the Stressors of Those from the Developing World Working in the First World versus a First Worlder Working in the Developing World The above bar chart compares the stressors of the following: • Missionaries from developing nations work ing in the First World, ve rsus • Missionaries from the First W orld work ing in developing nations. This comparative study has interesting outcomes. Please note that the order or sequence of stre ssors m entioned above are not about the top te n stressors, but m erely the are as whe re the biggest diffe re nce s lie be twe e n First W orlde rs work ing in the de ve loping world, and missionaries from the de ve loping world work ing in the First W orld. Thre e stre ssors that m issionarie s from the de ve loping world did not m ark at all, we re lone liness, cultural stress (culture shock) and writing newsletters. This doe s not m e an that those from de ve loping nations do not e x pe rie nce the se stre ssors at all whe n work ing in the First W orld, but these stre ssors are simply not re garde d as one of the ir thre e highest stre ssors whe n work ing in the First World. O the r stre ssors lik e financial pre ssures and visa re strictions are by far their highest stressors and these two toge the r we re m ark ed by 95.83% missionaries from the developing world as at least one of the ir thre e highest stre ssors. Missionaries from developing nations work ing in the First W orld are at le ast 21.7% more likely to struggle with finances than their colle ague s from the First W orld work ing in developing countries, and a stagge ring 41.11% m ore lik e ly to struggle with visa re strictions. W he n looking at First Worlders’ stressors whe n they are work ing in de ve loping nations and comparing these with m issionaries from the developing world work ing in First W orld countrie s, the ir stre ssors se e m to be highe r in m ost cate gorie s than those of m issionaries form the developing world work ing in the First World. Howe ver, again, this has to do merely with the fact that so many de ve loping world m issionarie s (95.83%) © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 56 m ark ed “Visa Restrictions” and “Financial Pre ssures” as one of their thre e top stre ssors that not e nough choice-markings remained available to significantly im pact the othe r stre ssor-counts. C omparing of Top 1 0 S tressors Betw een Different W ork L ocations The stressors of those work ing in tribal situations are ve ry sim ilar to those work ing in sm all te ams, perhaps because sm all te am s usually work in tribal situations, but the biggest difference betwe en stre ssors of small teams and tribal situations, are that sm all te am missionaries m arked “Lack of Visible Positive R e sults” 5.7% m ore than those in tribal situations. The marking of the stressors “Financial Pressure ” and “O ve r-W ork ” for those working in urban are as are stagge ringly higher than that of the ir colle ague s work ing in small te ams and tribal situations – “Financial Pressure” was m ark e d twice as m uch by those in urban areas com pare d to those working in sm all te am s and tribal situations. “Over-work” was marked four times as much by those work ing in urban areas com pared to those work ing in small teams and tribal situations. Those work ing in rural are as had similar te nde ncie s to the ir urban colle ague s, but the y m ark e d “Financial Pre ssure” 7.15% less than those in cities, and “Over-work” was marked 7.62% le ss than the ir urban counterparts. Urban work ers marked these two stre ssors so many times that fe w choice s we re left to mark other stressors. Urban work ers’ stre ssor le ast marked was “Lack of Visible Positive Results”. It seems that God is work ing in our citie s in drawing urban dwe llers to Himself! Those who are significantly struggling with the lack of visible positive re sults are those work ing in sm all te am s. The highest stre ssors (by far) of those work ing in cities are financial pressures and overwork , and both these we re marked thre e times more than all of the ir othe r individual stre ssors. Financial pressures and over-work we re mark e d by a total of 41.38% of all urban work e rs as one of the ir thre e top stre ssors. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 57 Comparison of Refreshers in Various Work Locations W he n com paring the com pone nts that re fre she d pe rsons work ing in various work locations (e.g. tribal situation, in cities, in the countryside, or in sm all te am s), the bar chart above te lls the whole story. This information could encourage m ission and te am le aders not to bore their work ers with re freshers that are not m eaningful to the m . Just to highlight a fe w significant diffe re nce s, the following: • Small teams: Unlike in small te ams, friendship with colleagues is an e x tre m e ly significant high re fre sher for those work ing in cities and in rural are as. Those in sm all te ams could possibly find it difficult or claustrophobic to be together all day without the luxury of other colleagues (not part of the team) and friends bringing varie ty or flavour to the te am m embers. Yet, after-hours, the membe rs of sm all te am still need to be best friends with e ach other. Like in a marriage, giving each othe r bre athing space would be normal and even healthy, so that the members of sm all te ams have renewe d energy and input from re lating to outsiders within the age ncy or society whe n they get toge the r to work again. Ne ve rthe le ss, those from small teams have found the m utual care within the ir te am or de partm e nt significantly refreshing unlike the lack of m utual care as re fre she r de picte d in othe r work locations. Those in small teams found reading book s as the ir m ost significant re fre she r, with m utual care within the te am se cond be st. • In cities: The highest re fresher by far is their friendships with colle ague s, and this is significantly highe r than the ir colle ague s in rural and all othe r work locations. Second comes their frie ndship with nationals and third their attendance of conferences. Urban work ers’ re freshment from conferences is their fourth most im portant re fresher, and significantly highe r in im portance for urban work e rs com pared to confe re nce s’ re fre shing traits for those from all the othe r work locations. Confere nces are only one-third as re fre shing to those from small te ams and tribal situations com pare d to those work ing in citie s and only half as re fre shing whe n com pare d to those from rural are as. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 58 • Rural areas: The ir highest refre she r is the ir frie ndship with the ir colle ague s, se condly friendship with nationals, and together in third and fourth place s are the re fre shment from their spouse and/or family and from atte nding confe re nce s. • Tribal work: The se work e rs find that the ir highe st re fre she rs are the ir frie ndships with nationals, with co-work e rs, and the ir spouse and fam ily. Comparison of Care Wanted in Various Work Locations W he n com paring what care m issionarie s want, and com paring the se de sire s with m issionaries in various work locations, their needs are ve ry diffe re nt. For this re ason, m ission le ade rs, Me m be r C are Provide rs and traine rs ne e d to rathe r look at what re fre shes missionaries and what care they are asking for, com pare d to what the y fe e l the y want to do for missionaries in caring for them. Those work ing in tribal situations m ost of all want prayer partne rships on the fie ld, the n som e one to liste n to the m , frie ndships with co-workers, and a field visit by a Member Care Provider. Those work ing in sm all teams want personal de ve lopm e nt, frie ndships with co-work e rs and praye r partne rships on the field most of all. Those work ing in urban are as m ost of all want som eone to listen to them, re gular debriefing, friendships with co-workers and k nowing how to raise support. Those in rural are as want som e one to liste n to the m , re gular de briefing, friendships with co-work ers and k nowing how to raise support. The bigge st diffe rences in the bar chart above are about re gular debriefing. Those in urban and rural are as m arked re gular debriefing significant at least three times more than those in tribal and small team situations. This does not mean that tribal and small team work ers do not ne e d as much re gular debriefing, but pure ly that othe r ways of caring for the m we re m ore im portant to the m , e .g. praye r partne rships for those work ing in tribe s and pe rsonal de ve lopm e nt for those work ing in sm all te am s. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 59 C orrelation betw een Maintaining S piritual Disciplines and Being O v erworked/U nderstaffed Look ing at the data one -dim e nsionally, the following: Stressor Maintaining spiritual disciplines Over-worked Under-staffed Number of Participants 256 423 % of Total Participants 12.27% 20.28% 232 11.12% The number of participants that indicate d e ithe r “O ve r-work e d” or “Unde r-staffe d” toge ther with “Maintaining Spiritual Disciplines”: 138. This is 6.62% of the total number of participants. Look ing at it diffe re ntly and com paring the 138 to the num be r of participants that marked “Maintaining Spiritual Discipline s” we find that 53.9% of the participants indicating “Maintaining Spiritual Disciplines” as one of the ir stre ssors ALSO m ark e d O ve r-work e d or Unde r-staffe d as a stre ssor. Inte re sting to note is that not one participant marked both “Over-worke d” and “Unde rstaffed” as stre ssors, but out of the group of 655 participants that m arked eithe r “O ve rwork e d” or “Unde r-staffe d” as stre ssors (138) also m ark e d “Maintaining Spiritual Discipline s” – this is 21.1%. It is safe to say that there is definitely a link betwe en “Over-work ed/Under-staffe d” and “Maintaining Spiritual Discipline s” as stre ssors. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 60 S tressors C ompared betw een P ositive and Negative Emotions among P articipants Positive Emotions Em otions groupe d toge the r: Adapting we ll Don’t want to do anything e lse Ene rge tic Ex cite d about the future Fantastic Fitting in ve ry we ll Fulfille d Happy No re gre ts Satisfie d Negative Emotions Em otions groupe d toge the r: Awk ward Burnt out Don’t want to continue Hate be ing in m issions Horrible Not fitting in Stre sse d Unhappy © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 61 C om ment: In comparing those who are feeling relatively happy with those feeling re lative ly negative about being in m issions, similar stressors m arked by both groups as the ir top 5 stressors are as follows: Overworked Financial Pressure Maintaining Spiritual Disciplines Those Mostly Happy 19% 23% 6% Those Mostly Unhappy 24% 18% 5% Issues that we re marked as their top five stressors by one group but not by the other, are as follows: R ELATIVELY HAPPY:“Age ing Pare nts” 6% and “Fam ily Issue s” 6%. R ELATIVELY UNHAPPY: “C onflict with C o-work e rs” 7%; “Isolation” 8%. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 62 Correlation between Lack of Secular, Tertiary Training versus Feeling Inadequate The re seems to be no significant corre lation be twe en le ngth or abse nce of te rtiary training and fe e ling inade quate . Correlation between Lack of Theological or Missions Training versus Feeling Inadequate © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 63 The re se e m s to be no significant corre lation be twe en le ngth or lack of m issions/theological training and feeling inadequate in missions, e x ce pt for those who had 6 and m ore ye ars of m issions/the ological training. Ageing P arents as S tressor and Reason for Resignation Age Group Total in Age Group Ageing parents as Stressor Percentage 36-45 46-60 566 665 50 115 8.83% 17.29% 61+ Total 182 1413 8 173 4.40% 12.24% Ageing Parents as Reason for Resignation 127 161 15 303 Percentage 22.44% 24.21% 8.24% 21.44% “Age ing Pare nts” as stressor ranks 13 th for age group 36-45, ranks 3 rd for age group 4660, and 23 rd for age groups 61 and above. “Ageing Parents” is the re fore a significantly high stre ssor for m issionarie s in the age group 46 to 60. Needs of our Children Compared with Other Reasons for Possible Resignation for Married Missionaries “Ne e ds O f O ur C hildren” ranks 2 nd and “Family Issues” ranks 5 th as re ason for possible re signation for m arrie d participants be low: Reason for Resignation Financial Pressures Needs of our children Too old to continue Health Family Issues Ageing parents Task completed Visa restrictions Over-worked Other Traumatic Happenings Lack of visible positive results Conflict with my agency Transition/Change Conflict with co-workers © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches Married 27.86% 26.33% 21.01% 20.69% 19.97% 18.68% 17.07% 10.63% 9.26% 7.89% 7.81% 7.09% 6.36% 6.20% 5.88% www.thrivingmember.com P age 64 “Dealing with Disappointments in Missions” as Suggested Topic for Member Care Provider Training First World Nationalities W he n 2,086 missionaries we re asked what topics are most important for the training of Me m ber C are Providers, it is quite re ve aling that “De aling W ith Disappointm e nts in Missions” ended up in fourth m ost prominent place of 35 possible topics that the y could choose from. The number of participants indicating “Disappointm e nts in Missions” as suggestion for a topic for C are Work er Training from First W orld m issionarie s we re as follows: Country Suggest Australia Germany Norway Singapore Switzerland UK USA Total for group Total for all 67 14 7 5 8 58 238 397 651 Participants from First World 203 41 15 14 22 164 786 1245 2086 Percentage 33% 34% 47% 36% 36% 35% 30% 32% 31% Two-Thirds World Nationalities Be low is the number of participants from the Two-Thirds W orld countrie s sugge sting “De aling W ith Disappointments in Missions” as topic for Member C are Provide r training. Country Suggest Number of Participants from country 19 Percentage Malaysia 13 Indonesia India 2 4 4 20 50% 20% 23 65 84 175 27% 37% 107 651 302 2086 35% 31% Philippines South Africa Total for group Total for all 68% Comments on Disappointments in Missions Som e of the individual percentages here are quite high, but this is once again due to sm all sample sizes. The average for Third W orld C ountries is slightly highe r at 35.43% than First World Countries at 31.89%, but this difference is not big e nough to m ak e a de finite conclusion re garding a corre lation betwe en nationality and this topic suggestion. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 65 E m o tional S tr uggles A n alysed a cross A ge Gr oups The option “Em otional Struggles” was one of the Stressor options, one of the R e asons W hy You May Le ave , and O pinion why O the rs Have Le ft. The se thre e are be ing com pare d be low. Emotional Struggles as: Stressor Potential reason for leaving 18-25 yrs 15.75% 16.55% 26-35 yrs 29.45% 28.78% 11.33% 23.95% Opinion why others leave Age Group 36-45 yrs 46-60 yrs 33.56% 16.44% 33.09% 19.42% 25.24% 30.42% 61+ yrs 4.79% 2.16% 9.06% From the table above can be seen that “Emotional Struggles” are m ore of an issue for age s 26-45 than older age groups, and e spe cially so in the age group 36 to 45. The bottom row cannot re ally be considered here as the participant is giving an opinion on why othe rs might leave and not on themselves. The 36 to 45 age group’s indication of “Em otional Struggles” quite surprising, since the y are not ye t in the ir m e nopause or m idlife crisis, but pe rhaps this is about a m id-care e r crisis, as we ll as e spe cially unprocessed childhood wounding (but also later life wounding), that surface at this age . Highest S tressors C ompared betw een Agencies/Organisations The five highest stressors of four agencies are listed below. Some of the stre ssors had the sam e re sult, he nce the additional stre ssors liste d for som e age ncie s. Assemblies of God Over-worked Baptist Cultural stress Campus Crusade for Christ Over-worked Youth With A Mission Financial Pressures Financial Pressures Ageing parents Over-worked Language barrier Financial Pressures Conflict with co-workers Maintaining spiritual disciplines Needs of our children Over-worked Ageing parents Loneliness Language barrier © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches Financial Pressures My leader's leadership style Feeling inadequate Lack of visible positive results Under-staffed Maintaining spiritual disciplines My leader's leadership style www.thrivingmember.com P age 66 Most P opular S uggestions for Missionary C are Training Topics C ompared betw een Agencies/Organizations The five most popular suggestions for m issionary care training are listed below. Some of the suggestions had the same re sult, hence the additional sugge stions liste d for som e age ncie s. Assemblies of God Baptist Conflict management Dealing with disappointments in missions Stress management Culture shock Dealing with disappointments in missions Stress management Team dynamics Cross-cultural living Maintaining spiritual disciplines Conflict management Burnout Counselling skills Campus Crusade for Christ Team dynamics Support raising Conflict management Team dynamics Support raising Conflict management Dealing with disappointments in missions Ongoing personal development and growth Burnout Ongoing personal development and growth Stress management Youth With A Mission In spite of conflict not appearing as one of the ten top stre ssors of m issionarie s in this surve y, it nevertheless features in the suggestions for Member C are training topics in a prom inent place on e ach of the five most popular topics of four large st age ncie s that participate d. “Stre ss m anage m e nt” fe ature s as prom ine nt in thre e of the se four age ncies. Since most Assemblies of God and Baptist missionaries are usually financially fully supported by their re spective denominations, it is not surprising that raising support doe s not feature amongst their top five suggestions of topics for Member C are training. Howe ve r, whe n it comes to faith m issions like Campus Crusade for Christ and Youth With A Mission, support raising is an im portant topic to cove r in Me m be r C are training. Note: Appe ndix A be low contains the table s with num e ric value s of outcom e s as portraye d in bar and pie charts above. These are for persons who are inte re ste d in the num e ric value s rathe r than the charts. ---oOo—oOo--- Appe ndix A follows be low with surve y figures in tables. These figure s are repeating what appears in pie and bar charts above. © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 67 Appendix A Age Group Age Group 18-25 26-35 36-45 46-60 61+ Percentage 9.64% 22.63% 27.13% 31.88% 8.72% Gender Gender Percentage Female 52.68% Male 47.32% Marital Status Marital Status Percentage Divorced 3.02% Engaged 1.10% Married 59.54% Never Married 34.52% Separated 0.48% Widowed 1.34% Secular, Tertiary Training Tertiary Training Percentage 0-1 Years 8.01% 2-5 Years 51.87% 6+ Years No Training 19.51% 20.61% Theological or Missions Training Theological/Missions Training Percentage 0-1 Years 2-5 Years 6+ Years No Training 32.07% 38.88% 7.33% 21.72% Years Spent in Missionary Work Time Spent in Missionary Work 1 Year 2 Years 3-5 Years 6-9 Years 10-15 Years 16-20 Years 21+ Years Percentage 12.85% 8.39% 17.26% 17.93% 19.56% 9.35% 14.67% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 68 Years Wanting to Still Remain in Missionary Work Time participants wishes to remain in missions None 1 Year 2 Years 3-5 Years 6-10 Years 11+ Years Percentage 5.56% 2.73% 2.92% 11.17% 16.16% 61.46% Type of Work or Job Descriptions Type of Work Number Percentage Training/Education 902 43.24% Church Planting 709 33.99% Support Staff/Logistic Staff 370 17.74% Evangelism 244 11.70% Counselling 212 10.16% Youth 202 9.68% Relief and Development 157 7.53% Other 154 7.38% Children 152 7.29% Communication/Media 125 5.99% Health Care (Medical) 124 5.94% The Poor 121 5.80% Women 95 4.55% Arts/Music/Theatre 65 3.12% Intellectuals/Influentuals 38 1.82% Mercy Ships 30 1.44% 7 0.34% Sexually Maladjusted Physical Location of Work Physical Location Alone Number Percentage 69 3.31% Mobile/Traveling On a missions compound/base/community Other 264 12.66% 458 21.96% 42 2.01% Rural (town or countryside) 493 23.63% Small team 263 12.61% Tribal Urban (City) Working internationally © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 88 4.22% 1196 57.33% 277 13.28% www.thrivingmember.com P age 69 Cultural Environment of Work Cultural environment Home country Total 484 Similar to own culture 437 Very different culture 1165 Categories of Financial Income Financial Provision Percentage 0-20% 21-40% 11.55% 8.77% 41-60% 61-80% 14.29% 22.00% 81-100% 101%+ 28.19% 15.20% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 70 Top 10 Stressors Stressors Percentage Financial Pressures Over-worked 30.35% 20.28% Language barrier Maintaining spiritual disciplines 15.92% 12.27% Cultural stress Under-staffed 11.98% 11.12% Feeling inadequate Conflict with co-workers Ageing parents 10.74% 10.16% 9.54% Needs of our children Loneliness 9.49% 8.92% My leader's leadership style Lack of visible positive results 8.92% 8.20% Writing news letters Emotional struggles 7.67% 7.00% Transition/Change Visa restrictions Unrealised goals 6.66% 6.52% 6.42% Other Family Issues 6.33% 6.09% Isolation Being single 5.85% 5.80% Lack of moral support from home 5.66% Living in community Having to lead others 4.65% 4.51% Health Religious resistance Furloughs/Home-assignments Security Issues in a restricted access country Traumatic Happenings 4.46% 4.41% 4.17% Lack of prayer backing Homesickness 3.36% 3.31% Loss and grief Weather 2.49% 2.40% Conflict with my agency Marriage 2.11% 2.01% Lack of training Conflict with nationals Food 1.82% 1.58% 0.58% Natural disasters 0.29% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 3.98% 3.55% www.thrivingmember.com P age 71 Refreshers Refreshers Friendship with co-worker(s) Percentage 28.48% My wife/husband/children Friendship with nationals 26.37% 22.29% Attended a conference Reading books 11.41% 9.92% Field visit by family/friends Moral support from home 9.06% 8.92% Corporate worship Personal studies 8.87% 8.68% A caring leader Spiritual vitality Mutual care within my team/department Prayer partnership on field 8.34% 7.53% Local church on field Personal development 5.03% 4.94% Other Field visit by sending church 4.51% 3.16% Input (course/seminar) Regularly kept accountable 3.16% 2.97% Personal Counselling Visiting teachers/speakers 2.73% 2.54% Field visit by a Member Care worker Service of a psychologist 1.68% 0.86% Help in conflict resolution Trauma care 0.62% 0.48% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 6.57% 5.32% www.thrivingmember.com P age 72 Care Expected from Their Agency Care expected from agency Percentage Someone to listen to me Fitting my gifting to my role 22.63% 20.42% Personal development Friendships with co-workers 19.46% 19.37% Regular debriefing Regular accountability 16.01% 15.58% Prayer partnership on field How to raise support Mutual care within my team/department Help in leading others better Field visit by Member care worker(s) Other 14.96% 12.37% Corporate worship Input (course/seminar, etc.) 9.06% 8.82% Help in our team dynamics Corporate intercession for individual needs Help for burnout Help in stress management 8.15% Visiting speakers/teachers Personal Counselling 5.70% 5.18% Help in conflict resolution Reading books 4.99% 4.75% Help for our/my children Help in newsletter writing 4.65% 3.36% Help for our marriage Help in our family dynamics 2.64% 2.11% Help in processing grief/loss Service of a psychologist 2.01% 1.01% Trauma care 0.86% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 11.31% 10.98% 9.59% 9.25% 8.01% 7.91% 6.57% www.thrivingmember.com P age 73 Emotions about Being Involved in Mission Emotions About Missions Excited about the future Happy Don't want to do anything else Fulfilled Satisfied No regrets Stressed Just OK (surviving) Adapting well Worried about my future Fitting in very well Uncertain if I want to continue Burnt out Fantastic Energetic Awkward Not fitting in Don't want to continue Unhappy Hate being in missions Horrible Percentage 26.61% 22.53% 21.86% 21.62% 16.54% 15.77% 12.75% 10.35% 9.20% 7.77% 7.14% 5.80% 3.07% 2.59% 2.25% 1.77% 1.10% 0.91% 0.86% 0.24% 0.05% Financial Income Financial Income 0-20% 21-40% 41-60% 81-100% 101%+ © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches Number 241 183 298 459 588 www.thrivingmember.com P age 74 Reasons Why They Think Others Resigned/Went Home Reasons Why Missionaries Think Other Missionaries Resigned or Went home Financial Pressures Conflict with co-workers Percentage 41.99% 31.50% Family Issues Needs of our children Cultural stress Emotional struggles Over-worked 19.89% 18.65% 15.48% 14.81% 12.99% Health Unrealised goals Lack of visible positive results Conflict with my agency Marriage 10.55% 10.55% 8.25% 8.05% 7.14% Ageing parents Isolation My leader's leadership style Traumatic Happenings Loneliness 7.09% 6.81% 6.09% 5.66% 5.56% Lack of prayer backing Maintaining spiritual disciplines Visa restrictions Lack of moral support from home Transition/Change 5.51% 5.47% 5.27% 4.84% 4.22% Feeling inadequate Homesickness Other Language barrier Conflict with nationals 3.50% 3.50% 3.12% 3.07% 2.78% Lack of training Security Issues in a restricted access country Living in community Too old to continue 2.59% Being single Marrying an outsider Task completed Under-staffed Loss and grief 1.77% 1.73% 1.49% 1.44% 1.15% Religious resistance Furloughs/Home-assignments Natural disasters Having to lead others Writing news letters 0.96% 0.48% 0.34% 0.24% 0.14% Food Weather 0.10% 0.10% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 2.11% 1.97% 1.92% www.thrivingmember.com P age 75 Reasons Why They Could Possibly Resign Why missionaries think they could go home Financial Pressures Health Too old to continue Ageing parents Task completed Family Issues Needs of our children Visa restrictions Over-worked Other Traumatic Happenings Transition/Change Emotional struggles Unrealised goals Lack of visible positive results Conflict with my agency Conflict with co-workers My leader's leadership style Feeling inadequate Security Issues in a restricted access country Loneliness Lack of prayer backing Lack of moral support from home Marriage Loss and grief Maintaining spiritual disciplines Isolation Cultural stress Furloughs/Home-assignments Marrying an outsider Under-staffed Natural disasters Being single Homesickness Conflict with nationals Lack of training Living in community Language barrier Religious resistance Having to lead others Weather Writing news letters Food © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches Percentage 27.61% 20.90% 20.37% 18.60% 17.64% 17.26% 16.78% 11.27% 9.97% 8.63% 7.67% 6.86% 6.66% 6.33% 6.14% 5.85% 5.75% 5.13% 4.94% 4.75% 4.55% 3.84% 3.64% 3.50% 3.31% 3.12% 3.07% 2.59% 2.59% 2.44% 2.30% 1.77% 1.73% 1.73% 1.53% 1.34% 1.29% 1.01% 0.81% 0.48% 0.38% 0.29% 0.19% www.thrivingmember.com P age 76 Suggestions of what Topics Need to be Taught to Missionary Care Providers Suggestions on Topics for Missionary Care Conflict management Team dynamics Dealing with disappointments in missions Support raising Counselling skills Percentage 34.37% 33.27% 31.21% 30.54% 22.24% Stress management Cross-cultural living Ongoing personal development and growth Burnout Culture shock 22.05% 21.28% Listening skills Maintaining spiritual disciplines Spiritual vitality 19.65% 18.07% 14.29% Building relationships Confronting in love My relationship with my sending church Loneliness Debriefing Leadership style 13.76% 13.33% Family dynamics Transition/change Caring for staff from dysfunctional backgrounds Living in community Trauma care 9.68% 9.54% Moral purity Orientation of new staff Singleness 7.24% 6.90% 5.51% Personality preferences Newsletter writing Suffering 4.51% 3.31% 3.31% Home-schooling Grief and loss 3.21% 3.07% Contingency planning Furlough Psychology 2.11% 1.92% 1.73% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 21.09% 20.81% 19.99% 11.07% 11.03% 10.83% 10.40% 9.44% 9.16% 8.58% www.thrivingmember.com P age 77 Comparing Answers between Marital Statuses Stressors Compared between Marital Statuses Stressors Other Married Single Other Married Single Financial Pressures Language barrier 36 31 380 216 217 85 29.03% 25.00% 30.60% 17.39% 30.14% 11.81% Over-worked Loneliness 18 12 251 52 154 122 14.52% 9.68% 20.21% 4.19% 21.39% 16.94% Being single Needs of our children 11 5 2 186 108 7 8.87% 4.03% 0.16% 14.98% 15.00% 0.97% Cultural stress Feeling inadequate Maintaining spiritual disciplines Under-staffed Isolation Lack of moral support from home Conflict with co-workers 18 16 155 112 77 96 14.52% 12.90% 12.48% 9.02% 10.69% 13.33% 9 165 82 7.26% 13.29% 11.39% 13 14 148 61 71 47 10.48% 11.29% 11.92% 4.91% 9.86% 6.53% 14 64 40 11.29% 5.15% 5.56% 2 140 70 1.61% 11.27% 9.72% Emotional struggles Ageing parents 5 11 61 132 80 56 4.03% 8.87% 4.91% 10.63% 11.11% 7.78% Lack of visible positive results Visa restrictions 13 13 109 79 49 44 10.48% 10.48% 8.78% 6.36% 6.81% 6.11% My leader's leadership style Writing news letters Family Issues 8 11 7 109 84 96 69 65 24 6.45% 8.87% 5.65% 8.78% 6.76% 7.73% 9.58% 9.03% 3.33% Health Other 9 9 54 82 30 41 7.26% 7.26% 4.35% 6.60% 4.17% 5.69% Transition/Change Unrealised goals 9 6 79 89 51 39 7.26% 4.84% 6.36% 7.17% 7.08% 5.42% Living in community Loss and grief Security Issues in a restricted access country Religious resistance Having to lead others Furloughs/Homeassignments Lack of training 5 8 43 25 49 19 4.03% 6.45% 3.46% 2.01% 6.81% 2.64% 8 56 19 6.45% 4.51% 2.64% 7 5 65 51 20 38 5.65% 4.03% 5.23% 4.11% 2.78% 5.28% 6 59 22 4.84% 4.75% 3.06% 6 18 14 4.84% 1.45% 1.94% Lack of prayer backing Traumatic Happenings 5 5 41 50 24 19 4.03% 4.03% 3.30% 4.03% 3.33% 2.64% Homesickness Marriage 3 1 38 40 28 1 2.42% 0.81% 3.06% 3.22% 3.89% 0.14% Weather Conflict with my agency 2 1 34 29 14 14 1.61% 0.81% 2.74% 2.33% 1.94% 1.94% Conflict with nationals Food Natural disasters 0 0 1 24 6 2 9 6 3 0.00% 0.00% 0.81% 1.93% 0.48% 0.16% 1.25% 0.83% 0.42% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 78 Refreshers Compared between Marital Statuses Other Married Never Married Married Never Married 9 82 83 7.26% 6.60% 11.53% 15 137 86 12.10% 11.03% 11.94% Corporate worship 9 85 91 7.26% 6.84% 12.64% Field visit by a Member Care worker 3 23 9 2.42% 1.85% 1.25% 17 108 64 13.71% 8.70% 8.89% Field visit by sending church 6 41 19 4.84% 3.30% 2.64% Friendship with co-worker(s) 28 293 273 22.58% 23.59% 37.92% Friendship with nationals 36 259 170 29.03% 20.85% 23.61% Help in conflict resolution 1 8 4 0.81% 0.64% 0.56% Input (course/seminar) 4 44 18 3.23% 3.54% 2.50% Local church on field 9 64 32 7.26% 5.15% 4.44% 26 78 82 20.97% 6.28% 11.39% Mutual care within my team/dept 7 75 55 5.65% 6.04% 7.64% My wife/husband/children 6 536 8 4.84% 43.16% 1.11% Other 6 50 38 4.84% 4.03% 5.28% Personal Counselling 4 24 29 3.23% 1.93% 4.03% Personal development 5 53 45 4.03% 4.27% 6.25% Personal studies 7 118 56 5.65% 9.50% 7.78% Prayer partnership on field 10 49 52 8.06% 3.95% 7.22% Reading books 11 124 72 8.87% 9.98% 10.00% 4 37 21 3.23% 2.98% 2.92% 11 7 0.00% 0.89% 0.97% Refreshers A caring leader Attended a conference Field visit by family/friends Moral support from home Regularly kept accountable Service of a psychologist Spiritual vitality Other 17 83 57 13.71% 6.68% 7.92% Trauma care 2 6 2 1.61% 0.48% 0.28% Visiting teachers/speakers 3 34 16 2.42% 2.74% 2.22% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 79 Care Expected from Agency Compared between Marital Statuses Other Married Never Married 14 92 61 11.29% 7.41% 8.47% 14 106 69 11.29% 8.53% 9.58% 6 133 61 4.84% 10.71% 8.47% 21 22 255 222 150 160 16.94% 17.74% 20.53% 17.87% 20.83% 22.22% Help for burnout Help for our marriage 5 3 105 48 55 4 4.03% 2.42% 8.45% 3.86% 7.64% 0.56% Help for our/my children Care expected from agency Corporate intercession for individual needs Corporate worship Field visit by Member care worker(s) Fitting my gifting to my role Friendships with co-workers Other Married Single 5 89 3 4.03% 7.17% 0.42% Help in conflict resolution Help in leading others better 5 13 64 133 35 83 4.03% 10.48% 5.15% 10.71% 4.86% 11.53% Help in newsletter writing Help in our family dynamics 8 1 37 38 25 5 6.45% 0.81% 2.98% 3.06% 3.47% 0.69% Help in our team dynamics 11 104 55 8.87% 8.37% 7.64% 4 5 22 79 16 53 3.23% 4.03% 1.77% 6.36% 2.22% 7.36% How to raise support Input (course/seminar) 18 9 144 111 96 64 14.52% 7.26% 11.59% 8.94% 13.33% 8.89% Mutual care within my team/dept 23 133 80 18.55% 10.71% 11.11% Other Personal Counselling 10 6 120 54 63 48 8.06% 4.84% 9.66% 4.35% 8.75% 6.67% Personal development Prayer partnership on field 23 21 243 171 140 120 18.55% 16.94% 19.57% 13.77% 19.44% 16.67% Help in processing grief/loss Help in stress management Reading books 8 66 25 6.45% 5.31% 3.47% Regular accountability Regular debriefing 18 20 200 187 107 127 14.52% 16.13% 16.10% 15.06% 14.86% 17.64% Service of a psychologist Someone to listen to me 32 15 239 6 201 0.00% 25.81% 1.21% 19.24% 0.83% 27.92% 9 9 0.00% 0.72% 1.25% 6 80 33 4.84% 6.44% 4.58% Trauma care Visiting speakers/teachers © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 80 Reasons Why They Could Possibly Resign, Compared between Marital Statuses Reasons for resignation Ageing parents Other 21 232 Never Married 135 Married Other Married Single 16.94% 18.68% 18.75% Being single 5 1 30 4.03% 0.08% 4.17% Conflict with co-workers 4 73 43 3.23% 5.88% 5.97% Conflict with my agency 6 79 37 4.84% 6.36% 5.14% Conflict with nationals 1 16 15 0.81% 1.29% 2.08% Cultural stress Emotional struggles 6 6 30 54 18 79 4.84% 4.84% 2.42% 4.35% 2.50% 10.97% Family Issues 18 248 94 14.52% 19.97% 13.06% Feeling inadequate 6 55 42 4.84% 4.43% 5.83% Financial Pressures 25 346 205 20.16% 27.86% 28.47% Food 0 1 3 0.00% 0.08% 0.42% Furloughs/Home-assignments 4 25 25 3.23% 2.01% 3.47% Having to lead others 0 8 2 0.00% 0.64% 0.28% Health 29 257 150 23.39% 20.69% 20.83% Homesickness 3 16 17 2.42% 1.29% 2.36% Isolation Lack of moral support from home Lack of prayer backing 5 25 34 4.03% 2.01% 4.72% 7 44 25 5.65% 3.54% 3.47% 8 45 27 6.45% 3.62% 3.75% Lack of training 5 11 12 4.03% 0.89% 1.67% Lack of visible positive results 5 88 35 4.03% 7.09% 4.86% Language barrier 2 15 4 1.61% 1.21% 0.56% Living in community Loneliness 1 7 10 25 16 63 0.81% 5.65% 0.81% 2.01% 2.22% 8.75% Loss and grief 3 37 29 2.42% 2.98% 4.03% Maintaining spiritual disciplines 2 34 29 1.61% 2.74% 4.03% Marriage 4 65 4 3.23% 5.23% 0.56% Marrying an outsider 4 3 44 3.23% 0.24% 6.11% My leader's leadership style 5 67 35 4.03% 5.39% 4.86% 2 20 15 1.61% 1.61% 2.08% 13 327 10 10.48% 26.33% 1.39% Natural disasters Needs of our children Other 7 98 75 5.65% 7.89% 10.42% Over-worked Religious resistance Security Issues in a restricted access country Task completed 7 1 115 11 86 5 5.65% 0.81% 9.26% 0.89% 11.94% 0.69% 7 52 40 5.65% 4.19% 5.56% 21 212 135 16.94% 17.07% 18.75% Too old to continue 33 261 131 26.61% 21.01% 18.19% Transition/Change 8 77 58 6.45% 6.20% 8.06% Traumatic Happenings Under-staffed 15 5 97 28 48 15 12.10% 4.03% 7.81% 2.25% 6.67% 2.08% Unrealised goals 12 72 48 9.68% 5.80% 6.67% Visa restrictions 19 132 84 15.32% 10.63% 11.67% 0.00% 0.64% 0.00% 0.00% 0.32% 0.28% Weather 8 Writing news letters 4 © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 2 www.thrivingmember.com P age 81 Suggestions for Topics for Missionary Care Training Compared between Marital Statuses Building relationships Burnout Caring for staff from dysfunctional backgrounds Conflict management 16 30 184 260 Never Married 87 144 14 117 39 Confronting in love Contingency planning Counselling skills Cross-cultural living Culture shock Dealing with disappointments in missions Debriefing Family dynamics Furlough Grief and loss Home-schooling Leadership style Listening Skills Living in community Loneliness Maintaining spiritual disciplines Suggested Topics Other Married Other (%) Married Single 12.90% 24.19% 14.81% 20.93% 12.08% 20.00% 66 11.29% 9.42% 9.17% 470 208 31.45% 37.84% 28.89% 16 3 28 23 35 159 24 270 274 252 103 17 166 147 130 12.90% 2.42% 22.58% 18.55% 28.23% 12.80% 1.93% 21.74% 22.06% 20.29% 14.31% 2.36% 23.06% 20.42% 18.06% 31 390 230 25.00% 31.40% 31.94% 14 4 1 5 2 10 25 9 22 20 137 165 28 35 58 129 246 107 100 233 75 33 11 24 7 78 139 75 108 124 11.29% 3.23% 0.81% 4.03% 1.61% 8.06% 20.16% 7.26% 17.74% 16.13% 11.03% 13.29% 2.25% 2.82% 4.67% 10.39% 19.81% 8.62% 8.05% 18.76% 10.42% 4.58% 1.53% 3.33% 0.97% 10.83% 19.31% 10.42% 15.00% 17.22% Moral purity My relationship with my sending church Newsletter writing Ongoing personal development and growth Orientation of new staff Personality preferences Psychology Singleness Spiritual vitality 7 28 102 106 42 97 5.65% 22.58% 8.21% 8.53% 5.83% 13.47% 0 27 53 234 16 179 0.00% 21.77% 4.27% 18.84% 2.22% 24.86% 12 7 1 8 17 82 44 25 28 188 50 43 10 79 93 9.68% 5.65% 0.81% 6.45% 13.71% 6.60% 3.54% 2.01% 2.25% 15.14% 6.94% 5.97% 1.39% 10.97% 12.92% Stress management Suffering Support raising Team dynamics Transition/change Trauma care 26 2 52 35 14 16 290 41 344 422 112 109 144 26 241 237 73 54 20.97% 1.61% 41.94% 28.23% 11.29% 12.90% 23.35% 3.30% 27.70% 33.98% 9.02% 8.78% 20.00% 3.61% 33.47% 32.92% 10.14% 7.50% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 82 Comparisons between Age Groups Stressors Compared between Age Groups Stressors 18-25 26-35 36-45 46-60 61+ 18-25 26-35 36-45 46-60 61+ Financial Pressures 92 158 161 183 39 45.77% 33.47% 28.45% 27.52% 21.43% Language barrier 19 69 83 114 47 9.45% 14.62% 14.66% 17.14% 25.82% Over-worked 37 90 116 154 26 18.41% 19.07% 20.49% 23.16% 14.29% 5 21 50 115 8 2.49% 4.45% 8.83% 17.29% 4.40% Under-staffed 20 37 54 90 31 9.95% 7.84% 9.54% 13.53% 17.03% Feeling inadequate 30 56 52 69 17 14.93% 11.86% 9.19% 10.38% 9.34% Maintaining spiritual disciplines Cultural stress 25 70 76 67 18 12.44% 14.83% 13.43% 10.08% 9.89% 15 68 74 75 18 7.46% 14.41% 13.07% 11.28% 9.89% 9 28 33 41 23 4.48% 5.93% 5.83% 6.17% 12.64% Ageing parents Unrealised goals Conflict with co-workers Loneliness Needs of our children 9 54 71 65 13 4.48% 11.44% 12.54% 9.77% 7.14% 25 52 54 42 13 12.44% 11.02% 9.54% 6.32% 7.14% 5 31 68 77 17 2.49% 6.57% 12.01% 11.58% 9.34% Other 10 34 26 41 21 4.98% 7.20% 4.59% 6.17% 11.54% Emotional struggles 23 43 49 24 7 11.44% 9.11% 8.66% 3.61% 3.85% My leader's leadership style Writing news letters 23 43 55 58 7 11.44% 9.11% 9.72% 8.72% 3.85% 23 33 41 47 16 11.44% 6.99% 7.24% 7.07% 8.79% Being single 13 54 35 17 2 6.47% 11.44% 6.18% 2.56% 1.10% Lack of visible positive results Homesickness 11 37 58 48 17 5.47% 7.84% 10.25% 7.22% 9.34% 18 18 18 12 3 8.96% 3.81% 3.18% 1.80% 1.65% Living in community 18 34 21 23 1 8.96% 7.20% 3.71% 3.46% 0.55% Visa restrictions 15 42 37 31 11 7.46% 8.90% 6.54% 4.66% 6.04% Health 5 12 23 38 15 2.49% 2.54% 4.06% 5.71% 8.24% Religious resistance 5 19 20 33 15 2.49% 4.03% 3.53% 4.96% 8.24% Transition/Change 9 34 44 43 9 4.48% 7.20% 7.77% 6.47% 4.95% Isolation 11 25 43 34 9 5.47% 5.30% 7.60% 5.11% 4.95% Family Issues 10 24 34 48 11 4.98% 5.08% 6.01% 7.22% 6.04% 13 24 29 39 13 6.47% 5.08% 5.12% 5.86% 7.14% 4 8 28 31 12 1.99% 1.69% 4.95% 4.66% 6.59% 1 12 25 41 8 0.50% 2.54% 4.42% 6.17% 4.40% Lack moral support from home Security Issues in a restricted access country Furloughs/Homeassignments Having to lead others 7 28 23 28 8 3.48% 5.93% 4.06% 4.21% 4.40% Traumatic Happenings 5 13 21 26 9 2.49% 2.75% 3.71% 3.91% 4.95% Lack of prayer backing 7 14 24 18 7 3.48% 2.97% 4.24% 2.71% 3.85% Weather 6 9 15 13 7 2.99% 1.91% 2.65% 1.95% 3.85% Lack of training 7 10 11 8 2 3.48% 2.12% 1.94% 1.20% 1.10% Loss and grief 1 7 19 21 4 0.50% 1.48% 3.36% 3.16% 2.20% Conflict with my agency 2 6 12 20 4 1.00% 1.27% 2.12% 3.01% 2.20% Marriage 2 8 12 18 2 1.00% 1.69% 2.12% 2.71% 1.10% Food 4 6 0 0 2 1.99% 1.27% 0.00% 0.00% 1.10% Conflict with nationals 2 4 11 13 3 1.00% 0.85% 1.94% 1.95% 1.65% Natural disasters 1 1 2 0 2 0.50% 0.21% 0.35% 0.00% 1.10% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 83 Reasons for Resignation Compared between Age Groups Reasons for Resignation Too old to continue Health Financial Pressures Task completed Ageing parents Needs of our children Family Issues Visa restrictions Over-worked Emotional struggles Other Traumatic Happenings Loneliness Conflict with my agency Isolation Conflict with coworkers Transition/Change Unrealised goals Lack of visible positive results Feeling inadequate Security Issues in a restricted access country My leader's leadership style Homesickness Loss and grief Marrying an outsider Lack of prayer backing Lack of moral support from home Furloughs/Homeassignments Marriage Cultural stress Maintaining spiritual disciplines Being single Lack of training Under-staffed Natural disasters Religious resistance Living in community Conflict with nationals Language barrier Weather Having to lead others Writing news letters Food 18-25 18-25 26-35 36-45 46-60 19 21 73 23 17 12 39 16 23 23 21 14 18 42 79 149 71 68 78 83 59 63 40 47 47 33 71 102 157 110 127 131 106 83 50 46 39 52 19 194 164 164 119 161 107 108 66 60 27 57 39 21 99 70 33 45 15 22 24 11 12 3 16 8 4 9.45% 10.45% 36.32% 11.44% 8.46% 5.97% 19.40% 7.96% 11.44% 11.44% 10.45% 6.97% 8.96% 8.90% 16.74% 31.57% 15.04% 14.41% 16.53% 17.58% 12.50% 13.35% 8.47% 9.96% 9.96% 6.99% 12.54% 18.02% 27.74% 19.43% 22.44% 23.14% 18.73% 14.66% 8.83% 8.13% 6.89% 9.19% 3.36% 29.17% 24.66% 24.66% 17.89% 24.21% 16.09% 16.24% 9.92% 9.02% 4.06% 8.57% 5.86% 3.16% 54.40% 38.46% 18.13% 24.73% 8.24% 12.09% 13.19% 6.04% 6.59% 1.65% 8.79% 4.40% 2.20% 9 15 33 57 8 4.48% 3.18% 5.83% 8.57% 4.40% 16 13 19 13 3 7.96% 2.75% 3.36% 1.95% 1.65% 9 27 44 34 6 4.48% 5.72% 7.77% 5.11% 3.30% 15 15 34 30 37 36 48 44 9 7 7.46% 7.46% 7.20% 6.36% 6.54% 6.36% 7.22% 6.62% 4.95% 3.85% 11 34 38 37 8 5.47% 7.20% 6.71% 5.56% 4.40% 14 31 24 25 9 6.97% 6.57% 4.24% 3.76% 4.95% 9 29 26 28 7 4.48% 6.14% 4.59% 4.21% 3.85% 10 25 27 40 5 4.98% 5.30% 4.77% 6.02% 2.75% 11 11 9 9 11 18 25 15 4 19 12 17 8 17 4 33 2 4 1 6 5.47% 5.47% 4.48% 4.48% 2.33% 3.81% 5.30% 3.18% 0.71% 3.36% 2.12% 3.00% 1.20% 2.56% 0.60% 4.96% 1.10% 2.20% 0.55% 3.30% 8 23 21 19 5 3.98% 4.87% 3.71% 2.86% 2.75% 9 14 15 13 3 4.48% 2.97% 2.65% 1.95% 1.65% 8 7 10 19 22 15 29 8 4 5 3.98% 3.48% 2.12% 4.03% 3.89% 2.65% 4.36% 1.20% 2.20% 2.75% 8 17 22 15 3 3.98% 3.60% 3.89% 2.26% 1.65% 5 6 4 2 5 4 2 18 6 9 6 2 11 4 5 1 2 2 2 10 10 16 15 1 5 8 1 2 2 2 6 14 12 9 7 15 11 2 3 2 1 1 2.49% 2.99% 1.99% 1.00% 2.49% 1.99% 1.00% 0.00% 0.00% 0.50% 0.50% 0.50% 3.81% 1.27% 1.91% 1.27% 0.42% 2.33% 0.85% 1.06% 0.21% 0.42% 0.42% 0.42% 1.77% 1.77% 2.83% 2.65% 0.18% 0.88% 1.41% 0.18% 0.35% 0.35% 0.00% 0.00% 0.30% 0.90% 2.11% 1.80% 1.35% 1.05% 2.26% 1.65% 0.30% 0.45% 0.30% 0.15% 0.55% 0.00% 2.75% 1.10% 0.00% 0.00% 1.65% 2.20% 1.65% 1.10% 0.55% 0.00% 1 1 1 26-35 © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 36-45 46-60 61+ 5 2 3 4 3 2 1 61+ www.thrivingmember.com P age 84 Stressors Compared between Genders Female Male Female Male Ageing parents Stressors 120 79 10.92% 8.00% Being single 100 21 9.10% 2.13% Conflict with co-workers 108 104 9.83% 10.54% Conflict with my agency 18 26 1.64% 2.63% Conflict with nationals 15 18 1.36% 1.82% 133 117 12.10% 11.85% Emotional struggles 97 49 8.83% 4.96% Family Issues 53 74 4.82% 7.50% Feeling inadequate 144 80 13.10% 8.11% Financial Pressures 309 324 28.12% 32.83% 8 4 0.73% 0.41% Furloughs/Home-assignments 41 46 3.73% 4.66% Having to lead others 48 46 4.37% 4.66% Health 48 45 4.37% 4.56% Homesickness 49 20 4.46% 2.03% Isolation Lack of moral support from home Lack of prayer backing 73 49 6.64% 4.96% 59 59 5.37% 5.98% 30 40 2.73% 4.05% Lack of training 20 18 1.82% 1.82% Cultural stress Food Lack of visible positive results Language barrier Living in community Loneliness 96 75 8.74% 7.60% 164 168 14.92% 17.02% 74 23 6.73% 2.33% 128 58 11.65% 5.88% Loss and grief Maintaining spiritual disciplines Marriage 37 15 3.37% 1.52% 125 131 11.37% 13.27% 20 22 1.82% 2.23% My leader's leadership style 100 86 9.10% 8.71% 4 2 0.36% 0.20% 78 120 7.10% 12.16% 231 192 21.02% 19.45% 39 44 3.55% 4.46% Natural disasters Needs of our children Over-worked Religious resistance Traumatic Happenings 36 38 3.28% 3.85% 112 120 10.19% 12.16% Unrealised goals 61 73 5.55% 7.40% Visa restrictions 59 77 5.37% 7.80% Weather 28 22 2.55% 2.23% Writing news letters 84 76 7.64% 7.70% Under-staffed © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 85 Top 10 Reasons for Possible Resignation Compared between Genders Reasons for Resignation Ageing parents Female Male 263 125 Grand Total 388 Female Male 23.93% 12.66% Being single 31 5 36 2.82% 0.51% Conflict with co-workers 60 60 120 5.46% 6.08% Conflict with my agency 53 69 122 4.82% 6.99% Conflict with nationals 12 20 32 1.09% 2.03% Cultural stress 28 26 54 2.55% 2.63% 82 57 139 7.46% 5.78% 169 191 360 15.38% 19.35% Emotional struggles Family Issues Feeling inadequate 51 52 103 4.64% 5.27% Financial Pressures 271 305 576 24.66% 30.90% Food Furloughs/Home-assignments Having to lead others 3 1 4 0.27% 0.10% 33 21 54 3.00% 2.13% 3 7 10 0.27% 0.71% 273 163 436 24.84% 16.51% Homesickness 22 14 36 2.00% 1.42% Isolation 38 26 64 3.46% 2.63% Lack of moral support from home 30 46 76 2.73% 4.66% Lack of prayer backing 38 42 80 3.46% 4.26% Lack of training 14 14 28 1.27% 1.42% Lack of visible positive results 62 66 128 5.64% 6.69% Language barrier 10 11 21 0.91% 1.11% Living in community 21 6 27 1.91% 0.61% Loneliness 59 36 95 5.37% 3.65% Loss and grief 46 23 69 4.19% 2.33% Maintaining spiritual disciplines 25 40 65 2.27% 4.05% Marriage 25 48 73 2.27% 4.86% Marrying an outsider 43 8 51 3.91% 0.81% My leader's leadership style 51 56 107 4.64% 5.67% Natural disasters 21 16 37 1.91% 1.62% 154 196 350 14.01% 19.86% 91 89 180 8.28% 9.02% 115 93 208 10.46% 9.42% 10 7 17 0.91% 0.71% Health Needs of our children Other Over-worked Religious resistance Security Issues in a restricted access country Task completed 51 48 99 4.64% 4.86% 209 159 368 19.02% 16.11% Too old to continue 232 193 425 21.11% 19.55% Transition/Change 75 68 143 6.82% 6.89% Traumatic Happenings 97 63 160 8.83% 6.38% Under-staffed 28 20 48 2.55% 2.03% Unrealised goals 58 74 132 5.28% 7.50% Visa restrictions 128 107 235 11.65% 10.84% Weather 5 3 8 0.45% 0.30% Writing news letters 1 5 6 0.09% 0.51% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 86 C omparison of Issues betw een S outh African Missionaries and Those of O ther Nationalities Stressors Stressors Global Financial pressures Over-worked Language barrier Maintaining spiritual disciplines Cultural stress Under-staffed Feeling inadequate Conflict with co-workers Lack of visible positive results Visa restrictions Writing news letters Emotional struggles Ageing parents Needs of our children Loneliness My leader's leadership style Unrealised goals Family Issues Isolation Being single Lack of moral support from home Living in community Having to lead others Health Furloughs/Home-assignments Religious resistance Traumatic Happenings Lack of prayer backing Homesickness Loss and grief Weather Conflict with my agency Marriage Lack of training Conflict with nationals Food Natural disasters 29.51% 19.78% 15.80% 12.40% 11.93% 11.09% 11.09% 10.26% 7.95% 5.97% 7.85% 6.91% 9.84% 9.47% 9.11% 9.11% 6.80% 6.12% 5.60% 6.02% 5.29% 4.55% 4.66% 4.50% 4.40% 3.77% 3.77% 3.19% 3.35% 2.41% 2.30% 1.99% 2.15% 1.83% 1.62% 0.63% 0.31% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches South Africa 39.43% 25.71% 17.14% 10.86% 12.57% 11.43% 6.86% 9.14% 10.86% 12.57% 5.71% 8.00% 6.29% 9.71% 6.86% 6.86% 2.29% 5.71% 8.57% 3.43% 9.71% 5.71% 2.86% 4.00% 1.71% 6.29% 1.14% 5.14% 2.86% 3.43% 3.43% 3.43% 0.57% 1.71% 1.14% 0.00% 0.00% www.thrivingmember.com P age 87 Refreshers of South African Missionaries Compared with Those from Other Nationalities Refreshers Friendship with co-worker(s) Global 29.30% South Africans 19.43% My wife/husband/children 26.79% 21.71% Friendship with nationals 22.55% 19.43% Attended a conference 11.56% 9.71% Reading books 9.63% 13.14% Field visit by family/friends 8.90% 10.86% Personal studies 8.32% 12.57% Moral support from home 9.05% 7.43% Corporate worship 8.90% 8.57% A caring leader 8.32% 8.57% Spiritual vitality Mutual care within my team/department Prayer partnership on field 7.54% 7.43% 6.44% 8.00% 5.29% 5.71% Local church on field 5.08% 4.57% Personal development 4.87% 5.71% Other 4.50% 4.57% Field visit by sending church 2.83% 6.86% Input (course/seminar) 3.19% 2.86% Regularly kept accountable 2.93% 3.43% Personal Counselling 2.62% 4.00% Visiting teachers/speakers 2.46% 3.43% Field visit by a Member Care worker 1.47% 4.00% Service of a psychologist 0.89% 0.57% Help in conflict resolution 0.63% 0.57% Trauma care 0.52% 0.00% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 88 Care Wanted from Agency – South African Missionaries Compared with Those from Other Nationalities Care Wanted from Agency – South Africans Compared with Other Nationalities Someone to listen to me Global South Africa 22.19% 27.43% Fitting my gifting to my role 20.93% 14.86% Personal development 19.15% 22.86% Friendships with co-workers 19.78% 14.86% Regular debriefing 15.96% 16.57% Regular accountability 15.49% 16.57% Prayer partnership on field 14.70% 17.71% How to raise support 12.51% 10.86% Mutual care within my team/department 11.25% 12.00% Help in leading others better 11.30% 7.43% Field visit by Member care worker(s) 9.42% 11.43% Corporate worship 8.90% 10.86% Corporate intercession for individual needs 7.74% 10.86% Input (course/seminar) 8.74% 9.71% Help in our team dynamics 8.27% 6.86% Other 9.31% 8.57% Help for burnout 7.95% 7.43% Help in stress management 6.70% 5.14% Visiting speakers/teachers 5.70% 5.71% Personal Counselling 5.18% 5.14% Help in conflict resolution 4.87% 6.29% Reading books 4.76% 4.57% Help for our/my children 4.40% 7.43% Help in newsletter writing 3.35% 3.43% Help for our marriage 2.67% 2.29% Help in our family dynamics 2.09% 2.29% Help in processing grief/loss 1.99% 2.29% Service of a psychologist 0.94% 1.71% Trauma care 0.78% 1.71% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 89 Financial Income Category Comparisons Financial Income Categories Compared across Age Groups Age Group 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ 18-25 26-35 36-45 46-60 61+ 5.37% 9.44% 8.82% 9.20% 1.77% 3.50% 9.44% 15.00% 17.50% 4.75% 0.77% 3.74% 3.31% 5.18% 2.21% Grand Total 9.64% 22.63% 27.13% 31.88% 8.72% Financial Income Compared across Marital Statuses Row Labels 0-60% 61101%+ 100% 1.15% 1.34% 0.53% Divorced Grand Total 3.02% Engaged Married 0.43% 17.55% 0.48% 32.55% 0.19% 9.44% 1.10% 59.54% Never Married Separated 14.77% 0.29% 15.24% 0.10% 4.51% 0.10% 34.52% 0.48% 0.43% 0.48% 0.43% 1.34% Widowed Comparing Income Categories with Present Length of Service in Missions Financial Support/ Years in Service 1 Year 2 Years 3-5 Years 6-9 Years 10-15 Years 16-20 Years 21+ Years 0-60% 61-100% 134 76 133 128 123 59 69 © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches 90 68 176 185 225 111 192 101%+ 44 31 51 61 60 25 45 Grand Total 268 175 360 374 408 195 306 0-60% 50.00% 43.43% 36.94% 34.22% 30.15% 30.26% 22.55% 61-100% 33.58% 38.86% 48.89% 49.47% 55.15% 56.92% 62.75% 101%+ 16.42% 17.71% 14.17% 16.31% 14.71% 12.82% 14.71% www.thrivingmember.com P age 90 Comparing Present Financial Income Categories with Number of Years Willing to Remain in Ministry If All Resources were Available Number of Years Willing to Remain (Percentage of Each Income Group Total) Resources Currently Available 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ None 1 Year 8.31% 2.35% 4.20% 2.20% 3.79% 5.36% 2 Years 3-5 Years 3.05% 10.94% 2.58% 10.51% 3.79% 13.88% 6-10 Years 11+ Years 12.05% 63.30% 19.01% 61.51% 16.09% 57.10% Financial Income Categories Compared with Emotions about Missions Emotion 0-60% 61-100% 101%+ Excited about the future Don't want to do anything else Fulfilled 28.81% 26.55% 21.77% 18.28% 22.35% 28.39% 15.24% 25.21% 24.29% Happy Satisfied 21.19% 13.71% 22.83% 18.34% 24.61% 17.03% No regrets Stressed 16.62% 12.74% 16.05% 13.47% 12.93% 10.41% Adapting well Just OK (surviving) 9.00% 11.91% 8.31% 9.46% 12.62% 9.78% Worried about my future Fitting in very well Uncertain if I want to continue Fantastic Burnt out 10.25% 6.79% 6.88% 7.16% 5.05% 7.89% 6.37% 5.73% 4.73% 2.77% 3.60% 1.91% 2.87% 4.42% 2.52% Energetic Awkward 2.49% 1.39% 1.91% 2.29% 2.84% 0.95% Don't want to continue Not fitting in 0.83% 1.11% 0.57% 1.43% 2.21% 0.00% Unhappy Hate being in missions 1.11% 0.14% 0.57% 0.29% 1.26% 0.32% Horrible 0.00% 0.10% 0.00% © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 91 S tressors C ompared Betw een P ositiv e and Negativ e Emotions among P articipants Positive Emotions Em otions groupe d toge the r: Adapting we ll Don't want to do anything e lse Ene rge tic Ex cite d about the future Fantastic Fitting in ve ry we ll Fulfille d Happy No re gre ts Satisfie d 5 Top Stressors of Those Who Felt Positive about Missions Financial Pressures Over-worked Maintaining spiritual disciplines Family Issues Ageing parents Percentage 22.86% 19.41% 6.07% 6.00% 5.62% Stressors Compared among those who Marked Negative Emotions about Being in Missions Em otions groupe d toge the r: Awk ward Burnt out Don't want to continue Hate be ing in m issions Horrible Not fitting in Stre sse d Unhappy 5 Top Stressors of those Who Felt Negative about Missions Over-worked Financial Pressures Isolation Conflict with co-workers Maintaining spiritual disciplines Percentage 23.53% 18.38% 8.46% 7.35% 4.78% ---oO o—oO o--- © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com P age 92 Resources Used in This Chapter 1 International Journal of Frontier Missions: Member Care, Volume 12, Number 4, OctDe c 1995, n.p. ---oO o—oO o—oO o--- © Copyright 2014, BrendanBosches www.thrivingmember.com
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