Gadsden GAB A P u b l i c a t i o n o f B i s h o p March 2011 G a d s d e n View the Gab in color on-line at http://www.bishopgadsden.org/community_life/newsroom.html Darkening Shadow: No Longer America but North and South...and War V i n c e L a n n i e Sesquicentennial Anniversary of the Civil War (1861-2011) This is the first of a five-part series by Vince Lannie on the Civil War or The War Between the States: its origins; Fort Sumter as the trigger for actual warfare; the First Battle of Bull Run/Manassas as a bloody prelude to an even bloodier War; the burning of Columbia, SC as part of Sherman’s scorched-earth war strategy; and Gone With The Wind as a transitional novel linking the old and new south. This is an interpretive investigation and, inevitably, it exhibits conscious and even unconscious biases. Facts alone are objective; interpretation always subjective. The ultimate hope is to fuse fact and interpretation into a balanced and understandable picture. To this end, Lannie reminds us that he is a northerner by birth, a southerner by choice, and a Charlestonian by the grace of God. INSIDE THIS ISSUE: President’s Message From the Development & PR Office 2 5 Activities / Events 6 Birthdays 6 Chaplain’s Corner 11 Change was in the air in mid19th century America as national unity fragmented into a blundering northern and southern sectionalism. Both sides, on a collision course, failed to understand the consequences of their rigid positions. The industrial revolution expanded into northern society just as thousands of European immigrants landed on American shores and flooded crowded northeastern and midwestern cities. Rhett Butler, the ostracized Charlestonian in Gone With The Wind, described what he had observed in his visits up north. “The Yankees have thousands of immigrant [workers] …,factories, foundries, shipyards, [and] iron and coal mines-all the things…[the south] hasn’t got.” Butler was accurate in this assessment but he overlooked the serious social problems associated with this new industrial economy. Irish, German, French, and Italian newcomers spoke foreign tongues, worshipped different brands of Christianity, and practiced strange folkways. These Ameri- cans exhibited no cultural assimilation with Protestant and Anglo-Saxon Jamestown and Plymouth Rock, and were seen by many as corrupting traditional American values and symbols. As a result, nativist sentiment emerged to curb this ostensible immigrant defilement. The anti-foreign and anti-Catholic Know-Nothing political movement of this period stained American integrity with its intolerant, though understandable, yearning for a simpler age of religious and ethnic purity, The south, on the other hand, identified itself as an agrarian and rural society based on a cotton economy and an unlimited slave labor force. Slavery was considered indispensable for its flourishing cotton plantations which shipped raw cotton to northern ports and then across the Atlantic to profitable English textile mills. But just as new immigrants alarmed northerners, throngs of black men and women unnerved white southern racial sensibilities. Continued on Page 2 Page 2 Volume 254 President’s Message C . W i l l i a m Many of you know I was an English major and particularly enjoy words and the “turn of a good phrase.” Recently, as I listened to a program on NPR about types of music, it was said that a certain style of music lost its “cachet” when it lost a certain following. “Cachet” is a word I have always liked, but never once used; so I pondered it as I think it relates to Bishop Gadsden. Growing up, there were two situations that come readily to mind where I was particularly impressed by individuals, with their stylish or interesting homes and surroundings. One was a lady friend of my mother’s who, with her family, lived in a white two-story country home, complete with lake, circle drive, and American flag flying on the lawn. She was blonde and beautiful and prided herself on being an intelC i v i l T r aw i c k lectual. Their home was a social hub and there were lively discussions of art, history and politics. It was always fun to be invited there. The other was a man who owned “The Country Squire,” a restaurant where I waited tables during college. He and his wife lived on the same property as the restaurant in an old-brick home with double porches and columns, and filled with antiques. Joe was a perfectionist in every detail and a consummate restaurateur. He was handsome and “cut a dashing figure” as he wandered through the dark, torch-lit rooms visiting with diners. The patrons were always complimented when Joe would join their table for a few minutes. Whether a guest at his home or restaurant, you always felt special. As the years went by, these individuals died. Revisiting these settings, the home of my mother’s friend and Joe’s home and restaurant, I have found that they have lost their appeal, their W a r c o n t i n u e d Though institutional slavery was an acknowledged reality, slaves clearly understood that they were property (“chattel”) owned by white folk. Blacks survived this involuntary servitude by reluctantly accepting their slave status and imploring God for ultimate liberation. “Lord, we need you now, Lord, we need your prayer, Stop this wicked slavery, Stop their wicked ways.” This prayer was echoed by northern abolitionists (always a minority) who attacked slavery as a fundamentally immoral institution. Henry Beecher Ward, a famous and powerful preacher, judged an “irreconcilable difference between liberty energy, and their glamour. It has become apparent to me that it was not the physical settings, but the “personalities” of the individuals who inhabited them, that gave them their “cachet.” In fact, the places now seem rather ordinary and lifeless. I search out retirement communities wherever I go and we have one of the most beautiful communities I have ever seen. However, I firmly believe that Bishop Gadsden’s appeal is found in the diversity, energy and interesting personalities of our residents. This is what gives Bishop Gadsden its “cachet” for those of us who already live and work here, those who are considering a possible move to a community such as ours, or those just coming for a visit. People often say that Bishop Gadsden is “different”…”special”…” wonderful”…”like no other.” I believe that what they are sensing is the distinct “cachet” that the residents of this community have given it. f r o m p g . 1 and slavery” and abhorred the south as an insidious “Empire of Slavery.” Southerners viewed slaves primarily in humanitarian and economic terms and felt responsible for their gradual “civilization” and “Christianization” from African savagery. To strengthen their case, southern apologists contrasted the economic conditions of slaves with northern and English urban workers (“hirelings”). This defense cited Charles Dicken’s vivid portrayal of a brutalized English working class and at the same time responded to Harriet Beecher Stowe’s trenchant attack on slavery as a moral and economic blight upon the land. The Hireling and the Continued on Page 8 Page 3 Volume 254 Meet your NeighborMary Newton K a t h e r i n e Last spring saw the arrival of Mary Newton from Greenville, SC. As a young women, she studied at Erskine for 2 years, then was accepted at UNC in Chapel Hill where she graduated with a major in English. With that behind her, she married and had 3 children. After her first husband died, Mary moved to Columbia and earned her Master's and then her PhD in psychology at USC. All this plus raising her 3 little girls, all by herself. After receiving her degrees, she was employed by the SC Dept. of Mental Health at Morris Village in Columbia where she applied her psychological skills for 20 years. Her second husband took her back to the upstate. Having grown up in South Carolina, Mary, like most Carolinians, has many South Carolina relatives. To her surprise, she found out that the receptionist who worked for the dentist her husband recommended, was her cousin! Mary is the family historian and is in charge of all the records. Her Stewart family has had reunions for over 100 years and the total rela- H a r m s tives number over 5000. That degree in English kicked in, and she compiled a large family history complete with genealogical records, anecdotes and thumbnail sketches of ancestors. After a heart valve replacement this fall, she is returning to her hobbies of travel, music, reading and writing. Her second husband promised that they would travel. And travel they did. Mary has gone on 5 world cruises. She recommends the Crystal Cruise Lines as one of the best. And perhaps she might have chosen to live in Honolulu and please go to Tahiti, her favorite place of all. Mary says that our clothes are better made, more stylish and upscale than in other countries. “So, come on. Let's go shopping!” In 1965, Mary was accepted into Mensa. To her surprise when she moved to the Columbia branch, the national office said, “Congratulations, President!” She was the first state president - over a total of 10 members in the entire state! She loves opera, particularly Verdi. She was listening to it when I arrived and then Verdi followed me down the hall when I closed the door to apt.123. The Story of Anglicanism and the Episcopal Church This year’s Lenten study will focus on the history of the Church of England and the Episcopal Church. In addition, the distinctive features of Anglicanism will be explored, such as tradition, scripture, bishops, authority, sacraments, worship and liturgy. The five-part study will be held on the following Wednesdays: March 16, 23 & 30, April 6 & 13 at 11:00 a.m. The meeting place will be the Myers Hall Activity Room. We hope you will attend! I N L ov i n g Caroline Lown September 13, 1920 ~ February 5, 2011 Jim Scott May 4, 1929 ~ February 5, 2011 Chilton Johnson September 18, 1923 ~ February 7, 2011 M e m o ry Bud Klauser April 26, 1923 ~ February 14, 2011 Hazel Parker February 20, 1922 ~ February 19, 2011 Page 4 Volume 254 Bishop Gadsden Woodworking Shop D r . A number of years ago some residents of BG had woodwork tools, and needed a place to use them. They appealed to Bill Trawick and he found an area for that purpose. It was originally housed in the area where Eliza's Attic is now located. George John and Jack Bretherton found that a new prospective resident, Tom Uffleman, had a large number of woodworking tools in Atlanta, and was willing to donate them. So, George and Jack made the trip to Atlanta and brought back the tools. It wasn't long before the shop outgrew the space. It was moved to the Environmental Services area where it now resides. Over the years tools have been donated, and others acquired until now there is a marvelously equipped shop available for residents to use. A number of residents have used the shop to make some beautiful furniture. Marcelle Furchgott says that some of the furniture made by Dr. Swenson could be compared to furniture made by Thomas Elfe (the renowned 18th century cabinetmaker of Charleston). A number of others have used the shop to make marvelous items, and to restore others. Among frequent users in the past have been: Dr. Orvar Swenson, George John, Jack Bretherton, Hal Aronson, Dr. Herb Arnold, Al Benjaminson, Bill Whitener, and others. They built the podium that Bill Trawick still uses, and a beautiful chest for the Sacristy in BG Chapel where silver and other items used by the priest are stored. At one time this group was hired by St. Philip's Episcopal Church to build an altar and altar rail. They used the money to buy more tools and supplies. In the past there has been a place residents could list an item that Wa l t E c t o r needed repairing; these men would take the damaged piece, and restore it beautifully. They made no charge for this work, but did accept donations that were used for tools and supplies. They built the two Christmas tree stands for the lakes, and the Manger scene. These men began to bond, and meet for drinks, etc. It became a sort of club. The shop is extremely well equipped, with all sorts of tools, including a lathe, planers, belt and disc sanders, a joiner, jig saw, band saw, and grinders. It has a vacuum system, and has plenty of work space. Unfortunately, several of the residents who were actively using the shop are no longer able to do so; therefore, the shop is lying fallow most of the time. The BG staff do use it for some of their needs. It is a shame that the shop is being used so little and it is hoped that some of the new residents, who may not know about this equipment, will be encouraged to begin using the shop again. It would be nice to revive the list of items needing repair that woodworking residents could restore. If you have any interest in knowing more about the shop, call Daniel Larrabee, staff, @ 406-6282, or Jack Bretherton, resident, @ 406-6329. However, please realize that these power tools can be dangerous for a novice. Therefore, BG requires that shop users sign a waiver statement before using the equipment. Also, users must sign in and out. We hope this well-equipped shop will see more use in the future, and that once again damaged items can be restored by the shop users. Woodshop located in Environmental Services Building Page 5 Volume 254 From the Development & PR Office K i m b e r ly “What exactly does your office do?” This is a question I receive frequently from new residents and sometimes from not-so-new residents. So, I thought the Gab would be a perfect spot to talk a little about the responsibilities of the Office of Development & Public Relations. Fundraising / Charitable Activities First and foremost, we are responsible for the philanthropic spirit associated with fundraising for the Resident Assistance Fund, the Guerry Endowment for Resident Assistance, capital campaigns and special projects that may occur, and the Century Society, which is made up of individuals who have included Bishop Gadsden in their estate plans. In addition to fundraising for Bishop Gadsden’s internal interests, the Office of Development & Public Relations manages the Generous Spirit Program which benefits other Charleston area non-profit organizations. Resident Assistance Fund - The heart and soul of our ministry here at Bishop Gadsden is our Resident Assistance Fund. This fund provides for community members who could not otherwise afford to live here or who deplete their funds due to extended life expectancy and/or unanticipated healthcare needs. We have appeals throughout the year to support this fund and all monies collected are used to meet our on-going resident assistance needs. The Guerry Endowment for Resident Assistance In addition to the annual needs of the Resident Assistance Fund, Bishop Gadsden also operates the Guerry Endowment for Resident Assistance. In this fund, the principal is restricted; however, the interest generated by the principal can be used to meet our on-going resident assistance needs. Fa r f o n e Capital Campaigns and Special Projects - As Bishop Gadsden continues to address the current and future needs of our community, capital campaigns and special projects are initiated. These “item” specific fundraising campaigns are critical to the community’s quality of life. In recent years, we have seen the Dog Park and our naming opportunities for the Bistro, the Wine Cellar, the Sun Porch, etc., as examples of these special projects. The Century Society - The Century Society helps to ensure a positive future for Bishop Gadsden. Most gifts established by Century Society members go into the Guerry Endowment for Resident Assistance and can include, but are not limited to, bequests, charitable gift annuities, donations of life insurance or property. The Generous Spirit Program - Begun in late 2009, the Generous Spirit Program offers both the residents and the staff of Bishop Gadsden opportunities to jointly support area charitable organizations. Nearly every month throughout the year, an area non-profit is chosen as the beneficiary of the program. Past organizations include Pet Helpers, Trident United Way, Ronald McDonald House and the Alzheimer’s Association. Public Relations/Branding The Office of Development & Public Relations is responsible for the promotion of the public image of Bishop Gadsden, as well as the press and media coverage of the community. We generate the concept, design and writing for all of our advertising materials, including those that are printed and/or on-line. Additionally, all social networking activities including those for Facebook, Twitter and our Bishop Gadsden Blog, are generated from our office. All in all, the Office of Development & Public Relations has a wonderful time fundraising for our community and for other area non-profits which we support, as well as using our creative energy on promotional and branding materials. The Beginning of Lent: Ash Wednesday Service Join us on the first day of Lent for the Ash Wednesday communion service with the imposition of ashes. The service will be held in our chapel on Wednesday, March 9 at 10:30 a.m. During the days prior to Ash Wednesday, please return the palm crosses and fronds from last year’s Palm Sunday. Page 6 Volume 254 W h a t ’ s H a p p e n i n g ! B Y K a t i e J a y n e , C y n t h i a M a r t e r r e , C h r i s t y S m i t h a n d S h e i l a H o w l a n d 3 2 1 M a r c h Stella Barnett Jean Rodgers Marjie Mengedoht Betty O’Connor Polly Graustein Louise Dougherty Jeanne Herndon Wilhelmina Wright Margaret Wieters Elizabeth Leonard Herb Arnold Geoff Place West Woodbridge Colton Smith Betty Parker 3 5 5 6 7 7 7 8 10 11 11 11 11 12 12 4 1. George and Louise Thorne with their daughter, Diane. 2. Violet Dawson and Jean Simmons enjoying each other’s company. 3. Ann Zlatoper, Margaret Meynardie and Al Benjaminson dressed in red for the “Everything Red Party”. 4. Charlotte Harrell and Mildred Rooke are all smiles at the “Smile Social”. 5. Best friends, Elise Scarborough and Dottie Ewald, smile for the camera. 5 B i r t h d ays ! Min Richardson Marcia Weiss Fred Thomas Frances Melton Taki Andriadis Dottie Ewald Martha Walder Jean Howe Lillian McGougan Betty Murrell Jan Beebe Connie Hare Pat Sporn Charlotte Harrell Septima Murray 14 14 15 16 17 17 19 19 19 21 25 25 26 27 29 Mr. Emmons was blown away by the balloons his family ordered for him through our Valentine’s Day delivery service to benefit Employees Helping Employees. Page 7 Volume 254 W h a t ’ s H a p p e n i n g ! B Y K a t i e J a y n e , C y n t h i a M a r t e r r e , C h r i s t y S m i t h a n d S h e i l a H o w l a n d Clarice Foster mixing her homemade granola in one of the Myers Hall Country Kitchens. You Don’t Want to Miss… March 2 — 4:00 PM Traveling Serendipity Singing Group - Blackmer Hall March 3 — 10:30 AM Traveling Serendipity- Morse Activity Room March 3 — 3:00 PM Baking Dog and Cat Treats for Pet Helpers MH Gathering Room March 8 — 12:00 PM MH Lunch Out: Jack’s Cosmic Dogs - MH Front Door March 9 — 4:00 PM Improv Group from Yale: Just Add Water- Blackmer March 11 — 4:00 PM Two Thousand Years of Botanical Art Lecture -Blackmer March 16 — 2:30 PM Jewelry Making w/Black Market Minerals MH Living Room March 16 — 11:00 AM BINGO w/Nativity School 8th Graders Morse Activity Room March 17 — 3:00 PM Leprechaun Scavenger Hunt - MH Activity Room March 17 — 8:00 PM An Evening of Irish Songs - Polly’s Pub March 18 — 3:00 PM Wild West Party with Country Line Dancing MH Activity Room March 22 — 5:00 PM Oyster Roast - Palm Court March 24 — 3:00 PM Spring Gardening: Planting a Mini Vegetable Garden MH Activity Room March 28 — 11:00 AM Piano Music w/Nancy Union - Morse Activity Room (Above) Betsy Ferguson & Carol enjoying the sing-a-long during Hat Ladies Valentine Social. (Right) Marjorie Peale in the Hat Ladies Promenade as part of the Valentine Social with the date p U t n e Resid etings Me Hall Myers t 11:00 AM 3/10 a ttages y a d s Thur rtment/Co 0:00 AM Apa 16 at 1 / 3 y a ter esd Wedn Read Clois 1:00 AM 17 at 1 / 3 y a d Thurs Page 8 Volume 254 C i v i l W A r c o n t i n u e d Slave was a stinging poetical rebuttal to Uncle Tom’s Cabin, insisting that a plantation slave’s status surpassed his northern and English counterpart. “In hireling states” hordes of workers “suffer from want of food and clothing” while no slave “suffers from want.” The poem ended in an edifying epiphany: “The negro learns each civilizing art That softens and subdues the savage heart. And slowly learns but surely, while a slave The lessons that his country never gave.” The Mexican War (1848) elevated, unintentionally, the slavery issue and its extension into the larger and more volatile political arena. Mexico had been forced to cede a large tract of western land to the United States-land divided into territories and eventually into states. This resulted in north and south jockeying for increased political power in Washington, especially in the Senate where each state, regardless of size or population, had two seats and only two. It was primarily in the Senate that the south sought equal political power with the north. Several decades earlier this equality had been solemnized by the Missouri Compromise (1820) which mandated the existence of slavery south of 36 30’ latitude and forever excluded it above that line. But this compromise was thunderingly upset by the Mexican land surrender, much of which fell below the Missouri latitude. Renewed sectional bitterness exploded over this issue and a titanic struggle raged in Congress. Once again another compromise was crafted to solve the issue, but its most important provision remained controversial. Deceptively simple, “popular sovereignty” ruled that the people of any territory could exclude slavery even though it was constitutionally protected as legal. Yet the Compromise of 1850 became law as the “olive branch” temporarily conquered the “sword.” But not for long. A few years later the Supreme Court litigated the issue and all hell broke loose. In its landmark Dred Scott Decision (1857), the Court decreed that slaves remained property protected by the Constitution and enjoyed no legal rights in any part of the country. No governmental law or compromise or group of people could exclude slavery from any federal territory. All compromises to the contrary were null and void and “popular sovereignty” was a dead legal issue. The north’s hostile response was to condemn, and even ignore, the Dred Scott Decision, f r o m p g . 2 and some even appealed to a “higher law” that transcended the Supreme Court and even the Constitution. The newly formed Republican Party voiced absolute opposition to the extension of slavery into any territory. The Democratic Party, on the other hand, split into two separate wings over the issue. The Northern wing advocated “popular sovereignty” as the only practical solution while southern Democrats appealed to the Supreme Court’s decision for its position. To further strengthen its case, the south framed the slavery question within the broader and more controversial issue of states rights as the ultimate question for solution. The presidential campaign of 1860 was waged, not over the institution of slavery per se, but over the preservation of the union and whether an individual state could “lawfully get out” of it. The Republican platform promised not to interfere with slavery in the existing southern states and Lincoln admitted that he had neither the “right” nor the “inclination” to do so. But at the same time he denied that slavery was free to extend into the territories. The south understood the implications of this position and warned that Lincoln’s election meant certain secession from the Union. Lincoln won a divided election and South Carolina seceded in December. A dark shadow now clouded national unity and sectionalism was about to tear it asunder. “The Union First” proclaimed the north. “Secession Forever” countered the south. War! Page 9 Volume 254 The 7 Dimensions of Wellness Wendy DeBona Bishop Gadsden has so many activities to offer you balance and a better quality of life. Have you driven down the road with a flat tire? Did you ignore the signs and keep driving? It’s a “bumpy ride” when something is “out of whack.” How many Dimensions of Wellness are you working on every day? Physical Wellness Optimal physical health is more than the absence of disease. It includes a variety of behaviors including regular exercise, proper nutrition to maintain a healthy bodyweight, and limiting poor habits such as smoking and excessive alcohol. Our Wellness Center and swimming pool are open 24 hours a day for a “no excuses” addition to your busy schedule. Social Wellness The ability to effectively live up to the demands of our personal roles without harming others. We are sons/daughters, mothers/fathers, friends/neighbors. This means practicing good communication skills, developing intimacy with others and satisfying our need for companionship. Check the weekly calendar and get involved in a club or support group. Have fun and meet interesting people! Environmental Wellness The awareness of the state of the earth and our immediate surroundings. Being socially responsible by reducing pollution, reusing containers and bags and recycling paper, glass and plastic. Although you may feel overwhelmed by all the “green” efforts, if every individual made adjustments in their life, the impact on the environment would be great. Shhhhhhh! Insider’s Tip: Watch for a limited edition, fabulous, one of a kind tote bag to be handed out at the Wellness Walk this year on May 26th!! Practice walking and enjoying the green surroundings on the walking trails here on campus! Walk with a friend to include Social Wellness! Emotional Wellness This is the core of Wellness, known as our feelings. If our life is going smoothly it is contentment, ease, confidence and hopefulness. Things out of balance? Anxiety, depression, mood swings and a darkness takes over our general demeanor. Learning how to deal with the ups and downs of life. Being able to recognize emotions, understand them and then deal with them in a constructive manner. Our informed and loving staff are available at every turn to give advice and guide us through the “bumpy” times and “celebrate” our accomplishments! Need help? Just ask. Spiritual Wellness This very personal dimension is a set of guiding beliefs, principles and values that help give a dimension to one’s life. It involves a high level of faith, hope and commitment that provides a sense of meaning and purpose. We can express our spiritual side through nature, music, art, meditation and good deeds towards others. Next time you exit the front gate, pause for a minute and look up at the steeple on St. James Episcopal Church. It is a beautiful sight as the skies and seasons change. Simple things that can improve our feeling of wellbeing. Take a walk to the Chapel and “kill two birds with one stone”. Intellectual Wellness Focused on learning, this is any activity that helps explore the world around you and expands your mind. To include reading, using a computer, hobbies, taking any new course to sharpen your mind. Attending a lecture or seminar on campus, using one of our bountiful libraries, using the Dakim or Posit Science Brain Fitness systems or reading the morning paper. Try to learn something new every single day! Occupational Wellness My father always said to find my passion and you’ll “never work a day in your life!” Do what you love and love what you do! So many of our residents are still working, serving on committees, consulting, tutoring, teaching and volunteering. This is finding where you “fit” and answering “a call to serve”. There are many ways here at BG to make a difference by sharing your talents to enhance a wide variety of experiences. Step up and volunteer! You’ll feel good about it. Honest. Page 10 Volume 254 Meet Yo ur N eighbor: Mary Mahony Raht-Smith B y Mary Mahony Raht-Smith was born in Charleston in 1920, the third child in what was to become a family of TEN children! Her childhood was a very happy and fun one! Her education was obtained at Craft School, Ashley Hall and The College of Charleston. She added to this with a pilot’s license after flying lessons and a navigation course at The Citadel. In 1940 Mary married Graham Raht of San Antonio, Texas and began her life as a Navy wife. The war years were spent in Carmel, CA as her husband was serving in the Pacific Theatre aboard Destroyer Escorts, first as executive officer and then as skipper. It was here Mary learned to play golf, her favorite sport, at Pebble Beach. In 1945 Mary returned home to give birth to their son, Scott, with her mother’s caring support. Graham arrived three weeks later after bringing a destroyer back to the US from China. He found mother and child doing quite well. Now, a nomadic life truly began and Mary enjoyed it all as it suited her adventuresome spirit and her pleasure in meeting interesting and dynamic people. Duty stations took her around the perimeter of the US and to Southern France. Two of these tours were favorites with Mary. Graham was given command of a destroyer home ported in Charleston! When his destroyer was sent to join the Sixth Fleet in the Mediterranean, Mary was able to follow and visit many interesting and beautiful places. An outstanding event during this time was when Graham’s ship was sent to Monte Carlo to be an American presence honoring Bastille M a ry S m i t h Day, the Rahts were invited to attend church services in Monaco and a dinner dance given by Prince Rainier - very exciting! Following this, Graham was ordered to the Staff of the 6th Fleet aboard the USS Salem home ported in Villefranche - scarcely a hardship tour! Mary lived at Cap Ferrat for the next 2 1/2 years and once again did a lot of Fleet following - the flagship was seldom in it’s homeport. Europe became very familiar and loved. Graham’s final tour was with the Joint Chiefs of Staff in Washington, DC. Sadly, he died suddenly and unexpectedly in February 1960. Thus ended a very special chapter in Mary’s life. Mary returned to Charleston and began another chapter. During the next 18 years she was a “Pink Lady” at Roper Hospital, worked at Historic Charleston Foundation as Assistant to the Director, was Director of Volunteers at Roper and lastly managed the rebuilding of a plantation on an uninhabited island near Beaufort. The latter was a true challenge. Lured by her love of travel, Mary returned many times to Europe. On one of these occasions she met Traver Smith, then Managing Director of Ford in Portugal, and several years later they were married. They settled in Charleston and still managed travels to Portugal and to Traver’s farm in New Hampshire. In 1998 the Smiths moved into Bishop Gadsden when it opened its first independent living apartments. Traver died in 2003 but Mary continues to spend summers in New Hamshire and enjoys visits from her wonderful step-children and grandchildren. Mary is a bit limited by macular degeneration but keeps a favorite saying in mind: To sigh, to weep, to scream, All are equally cowardly. One must follow down the path of life Where destiny has led you, with faith and courage, And afterwards, like me, die Page 11 Volume 254 What is Lent? F r a n k Lent, taken from the La t i n t e r m m e a ni n g “springtime,” is the preparatory season for the great feast of Easter. It is forty days long in keeping with Jesus’ forty day sojourn in the wilderness when he fasted and prayed, and was tempted by Satan. Ac- R u s s , C h a p l a i n cording to the calendar the season of Lent is actually forty-six days long, but the six Sundays of Lent are always considered as feast days because they are commemorations of the resurrection of Jesus from the dead, and therefore are not fast days as the weekdays of Lent are. The season of Lent begins on Ash Wednesday and continues through Holy Saturday of Holy Week (the day before Easter Day). Going Green at Bishop Gadsden Can We Do More? Warren Watts, Admin & Finance Committee As most of you know, BG considers itself a green community. Management over the last several years has made a concerted effort to conserve natural resources and costs to the benefit of us all. They have reworked electrical systems; gone to more efficient lighting; changed air conditioner chilling systems; metered water sprinklers better; separated waste; used biodegradable containers in the café; and a host of other things that skip my “old” mind. Yet with all of these improvements the cost of electricity and water is up more than 15% since 2008. This is our 3rd largest cost after payroll and food. Inflation? Yes! But with the resident turnover of nearly 40% since 2008, we should again remind ourselves of the things we did when we lived in our own homes. Doing these things will cut that inflation! 1. When you go on vacation remember to turn up your thermostat a few degrees in the summer and down in the winter. 2.When you leave your residence in the daytime remember to turn out the lights. 3.When you go to dinner in the evening, leave only one light burning until you return. 4.When you’re on vacation unplug your TV and computer. Unplug items on your kitchen counter that you don’t use daily. 5.As you replace incandescent bulbs, buy florescent bulbs. (Remember that three fluorescent bulbs use less electricity than one 100 W incandescent.) 6. Cottage residents check to see if your outside porch lights are burning 24 hours a day. (The switch is at the entrance door.) 7. Call environmental if your faucets or toilets are leaking or running. 8. Make a concerted effort to separate trash and plastic containers. “Go Greener BG!” Welcome New Residents Mayo & Ellen Read Elizabeth Darling Helen LaPorte Jack Lillich The Gadsden Gab is a monthly publication written by and for the residents of Bishop Gadsden. Submissions are welcomed from all residents and are used on a space-available basis. Committee members are: Katie Jayne, Managing Editor Marilou Watts, Editor Vince Lannie Suzanne Mersereau Kent Freeman Walt Ector Katharine Harms www.bishopgadsden.org Permit #032 PAID Non-Profit Org. U.S. Postage
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