Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Acknowledgements We recognize and thank the following people and agencies for making this handbook possible: The staff of the Hay River Community Health Services. The staff of Stanton Territorial Hospital, Northern Women’s Health Program and YK Public Health Mary McCreadie, Plain Language Program, NWT Literacy Council who revised the document in 2007 Department of Education and Culture, GNWT for providing funding for the printing of the 2015 revision. Revised 2014 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby - Revised 2015 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Important Phone Numbers Doctor, Nurse, or Midwife Ambulance Local Police: Community code + 1111 Local Fire: Community code + 2222 Stanton Territorial Hospital Toll free 1-800-661-0896 or (867)669-4111 Fort Smith Midwifery Program (867) 872-6253 Hay River Hospital (867) 874-7100 Inuvik Regional Hospital (867) 777-8000 Local Health Centre Hay River Public Health (867) 875-7205 Inuvik Public Health (867) 777-7246 Yellowknife Public Health Unit (867) 920- 6570 Breastfeeding Clinic at Yellowknife Public Health (867) 920- 6570 Moms, Boobs and Babies Yellowknife Breastfeeding Support Group (867) 444- 3374 Toll-free: 1-844-332-6627 1-844-33-BOOBS NWT Quitline 1-866-286-5099 Revised 2014 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby - Revised 2015 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Table of Contents Introduction page 1 Pregnancy Words and Drawing page 5 Prenatal Health Care Visits page 7 Food, Nutrients, Weight Gain page 14 Sex, Emotions, Physical Activity page 24 Alcohol, Smoking, Other Drugs page 28 Hot Tubs, X-rays, Toxoplasmosis page 36 Nine Months of Change page 38 High blood pressure, Diabetes in your pregnancy, Early labour page 52 When to call the nurse/doctor/midwife page 54 Breast Care and Breastfeeding page 56 Labour and Birth page 58 Travelling to Yellowknife to have your Baby page 80 Your New Baby page 82 Baby Gear – New or Second Hand page 86 Revised 2014 Revised 2015 - Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Internet Tips for Parents Page 77 Breastfeeding Support Breastfeeding Support Breastfeeding Clinic The purpose of this clinic is to support women through their breastfeeding experiences, both prenatally and postpartum. Appointments are Tuesday afternoons. Call 920-6570 to book a one-hour appointment. Common Reasons for Visiting the Breastfeeding Clinic Difficulty with technique o Latching o Positioning/holding Breast and nipple concerns o Cracked, sore nipples o Mastitis o Engorgement o Infections o Inverted nipples Page 7 of 82 Concerns with infant o Infant not gaining weight o Infant always hungry o Thrush o Infant refuses breast o Teething Other concerns o Not enough milk o Weaning o Lack of emotional or social support Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby - Revised 2015 Community Resources Moms, Boobs and Babies: o 867-444-3374 o 1-844-33BOOBS(26627) Post-Natal Classes: o Mondays from 1:30 to 3:30 at the Baker Center o For more information call 867-920-6570 Page 9 of 82 Revised 2015 - Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Introduction Who should use this handbook? This booklet is for pregnant women and their husbands or partners, and their friends and other support people. The booklet offers practical, hands-on information about: What to expect during pregnancy How to make sure you and your growing baby stay healthy You may be pregnant for the first time - or maybe you’ve been through this before. No two pregnancies are the same - just as no two people are exactly alike. Everyone has questions. We encourage you to talk to the nurse, doctor, or midwife – they are happy to help. Go to the prenatal classes in your community. Pregnant women need to take care of themselves – and they need their family and friends to support them, to stay healthy during pregnancy. 1 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 1 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Before I was a Mom Author unknown Before I was a Mom I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby. I didn’t worry whether or not my plants were poisonous. I never thought about immunizations. Before I was a Mom – I had never been puked on. Pooped on. Chewed on. Peed on. I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts. I slept all nights. Before I was a Mom I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests. Or give shots. I never looked into teary eyes and cried. I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin. I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep. Before I was a Mom I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn’t want to put it down. I never felt my heart break into a millions pieces when I couldn’t stop the hurt. I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much. I never knew that I could love someone so much. I never knew I would love being a Mom. 2 2 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Before I was a Mom – I didn’t know the feeling of having my heart outside my body. I didn’t know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby. I didn’t know that bond between a mother and her child. I didn’t know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy. Before I was a Mom – I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every ten minutes to make sure all was okay. I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment, or the satisfaction of being a Mom. I didn’t know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom. And before I was a grandma, I didn’t know that all those Mom feelings more than doubled when you see that little bundle being held by your baby. 3 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 3 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby A message for the partner and support persons Becoming a parent is very special. Maybe you already have children, or maybe this is your first time. Many people worry about being a good support to your wife and baby This is normal. The most important things you can do are to support and encourage your pregnant partner. Talk to your partner. Tell her how you feel about her being pregnant. Talk about how you feel about babies and being a parent. Understand your partner’s feelings. Learn what happens with a woman’s body during pregnancy and how you can help her stay healthy. Go to prenatal classes with your partner. Support her and learn what to expect during labour and delivery, and how to help take care of your baby. Help your partner feel safe and loved during pregnancy. Learn about sex during pregnancy. Get ready to share in your baby’s life – you’re a very important person for your new baby. Learn how to get involved with your new baby. Talk and sing to your baby – they love the sound of your voice – even before they are born. Touch and hold your baby – they love it when you cuddle and hold them. Be patient with yourself, your baby, and your partner. Give yourself time to learn all these new baby skills. 4 4 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Pregnancy Words and Drawing 10 basic words we use during pregnancy Amniotic membranes and amniotic fluids Amniotic membranes is the bag of water around the unborn baby. Amniotic fluids is the water inside the bag that protects the unborn baby. Areola - The areola is the dark area of the breast around the nipple. Braxton Hicks – Braxton Hicks are practice contractions. The tummy muscles get tight. Cervix - The cervix is the opening to the uterus or womb, inside the vagina. The mucus plug covers the opening during pregnancy. It prevents water or fluids from sex getting into the uterus. Placenta - The placenta feeds the unborn baby during the pregnancy, through the umbilical cord. The umbilical cord connects the unborn baby to the placenta. Uterus or womb – TheHealthy uterus or womb is the part of a woman’s Pregnancy body that holds the unborn baby, the umbilical cord, the Healthy Baby placenta, and the amniotic membranes and fluids. Vagina or birth canal – During labour the baby leaves the uterus and travels down the birth canal or vagina to be born. A pregnant woman’s tummy 5 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 5 Healthy Baby Vagina or birth canal – During labour the baby leaves the uterus and travels down the birth canal or vagina to be born. A pregnant woman’s tummy Areola Dark area around the nipples Uterus or womb Holds the unborn baby Amniotic Membranes and Fluid Bag of water around the unborn baby Umbilical Cord Carries nutrients from the placenta to the unborn baby Cervix Opening to uterus. Mucus plug is in here. Vagina the unborn Rectum HealthyWhere Pregnancy baby comes out Where poop comes out Healthy Baby Drawing taken from ‘What to Expect When You’re Expecting’ – Murkoff, Eisenberg & Hathaway Prenatal Health Care Visits 6 6 This section has basic information about 11 common tests pregnant women have during prenatal health care visits. It tells you how often you get the test, how it happens, and why it Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby happens. Healthy Baby Drawing taken from ‘What to Expect When You’re Expecting’ – Murkoff, Eisenberg & Hathaway Prenatal Health Care Visits This section has basic information about 11 common tests pregnant women have during prenatal health care visits. It tells you how often you get the test, how it happens, and why it happens. Use the form on the next page to help keep track of your prenatal history and your health care visits. Pregnant women regularly visit their doctor or nurse. You usually have your first visit when you’re about 2½ - 3 months / 8 - 12 weeks pregnant. After 3 months, you go about once a month until you’re 6 months / 28 weeks pregnant. After 6 months, you go every two weeks until you’re 8 months pregnant or 36 weeks pregnant. After 8 months, or 36 weeks pregnant, you go every week until you birth your baby. 7 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 7 Healthy Baby My Prenatal History 0B Date I found out I’m pregnant: Baby’s due date: Health Care Provider’s name: Date I first felt my baby move: Ultrasound date: Date of prenatal classes: Notes from Prenatal Visits Date My weight Comments Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 11 common tests for pregnant women 8 1) Test 26B 8 How often Pelvic exam / Pap smear 7B Usually once, when the pregnancy starts. Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How You lie down with your knees bent so the doctor Healthy Baby 11 common tests for pregnant women 1) Test Pelvic exam / Pap smear 26B 7B How often Usually once, when the pregnancy starts. How You lie down with your knees bent so the doctor or nurse can easily see your vagina and cervix. They take a swab of secretions from the cervix. Why To check for abnormal cells and sexually transmitted infections. 2) Test Blood tests 27B 8B How often Usually two or three times during the pregnancy. How Nurse or lab person takes blood from your arm. Why To test the iron level, to check for syphilis, Hepatitis B, HIV, German measles, chicken pox, and thyroid function. To find out your blood type. Pregnant women with Rh-negative blood type get a needle at 28 weeks, to protect the mother and baby. 9B Healthy Pregnancy You have a choice to do a blood test called a Healthy Baby Maternal Serum Screen that is done between 1519 weeks that can help detect Down Syndrome in your baby. You will have decisions to make if this test is positive. Talk to your nurse/doctor/midwife about this. 9 3) Test 28B Urine sample 10B How often Every visit if you live outside of Yellowknife. How You give a urine sample and the doctor, nurse, or Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby midwife dips a special stick in your urine. 1B 9 this test is positive. Talk to your nurse/doctor/midwife about this. 3) Test Urine sample 28B 10B How often Every visit if you live outside of Yellowknife. How You give a urine sample and the doctor, nurse, or midwife dips a special stick in your urine. Why To check for things that you don’t normally have in your urine, such as protein or a bladder infection. 1B 4) Test Blood pressure 12B How often Every visit. How The doctor, nurse, or midwife measures your blood pressure with a cuff and stethoscope. Why To see if your blood pressure is normal. If your blood pressure suddenly rises, it could be a warning sign of problems. 13B Weight Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 5) Test 14B How often Usually every visit. How How The Thedoctor, doctor,nurse, nurse,or ormidwife midwifeuses usesaascale scaleto toweigh weigh you. you. Why To keep track of how much you weight you gain during the pregnancy. 10 6) Test How often Every visit, after 4 months / 12 –14 weeks pregnant. How The doctor, nurse, or midwife uses an electronic tool called a Doppler. 16B 10 FHR – Fetal heart rate 15B Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Why To check the unborn baby’s heart beat. you. To keep track of how much you weight you gain during the pregnancy. Why 6) Test FHR – Fetal heart rate 15B How often Every visit, after 4 months / 12 –14 weeks pregnant. How The doctor, nurse, or midwife uses an electronic tool called a Doppler. Why To check the unborn baby’s heart beat. 16B 7) Test SFH – Symphysis fundal height 17B How often Every visit, after you’re 5 months / 20 weeks pregnant. How The doctor, nurse, or midwife uses a tape measure to measure the unborn baby. Why To see if the unborn baby is growing. 18B 8) Test Ultrasound 19B Once - usually when you’re 5 months / 18 - 20 weeks pregnant, or earlier if needed. Healthy Pregnancy How often How Healthy The ultrasound machineBaby uses sound waves to show a ‘picture’ of the baby. Why To help confirm the baby’s due date and position, the number of babies, and where the placenta attaches to the wall of the uterus, and to look at 11 babies parts. 9) Test How often How Glucose challenge test 20B Once – when you’re 6 – 6½ months / 24 - 28 weeks pregnant. Nurse or lab person takes blood from your arm after you have a special sugar drink that tastes like orange Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby pop. You need to not eat or drink anything for 4 hours 11 Why Why To help confirm the baby’s due date and position, thehelp number of babies, and where the and placenta To confirm the baby’s due date position, attaches to the wall of and the uterus, andplacenta to look at the number of babies, where the babies parts. attaches to the wall of the uterus, and to look at babies parts. 9) Test 9) Test How often How often How How Why Why Glucose challenge test Glucose challenge test Once – when you’re 6 – 6½ months / 24 - 28 weeks pregnant. 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To see if there is a bacteria that can cause an infection in during labour and It is treated with Tothe seebaby if there is a bacteria thatbirth. can cause an infection antibiotics labour. in the babyin during labour and birth. It is treated with antibiotics in labour. Non Stress Test Non Stress Test Pregnancy Healthy Late in pregnancy or during labour – only if you have Healthy Baby problems. Late in pregnancy or during labour – only if you have problems. 10) 10) Test Test How often How often 21B How How 21B Why Why 2B 2B 11) 11) Test Test How often How often 23B 23B How In hospital, the nurse straps two puck-like sensors to your belly to connect you to the monitor. One sensor measures the baby’s heart 12 rate and the other measures how often you have contractions. 12 Why To check the baby’s wellbeing and to record the baby’s heartbeat. On Motherhood 12 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby A Mother’s love is like a circle, By Art Urban Why To check the baby’s wellbeing and to record the baby’s heartbeat. On Motherhood By Art Urban A Mother’s love is like a circle, it has no beginning and no ending. It keeps going around and around ever expanding, touching everyone who comes in contact with it. Engulfing them like the morning’s mist, warming them like the noontime sun, and covering them like a blankey of evening start. A mother’s love is like a circle, it has no beginning and no ending. 13 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 13 Food, Nutrients, Weight Gain This section talks about why women need healthy foods, how much food they need, and what vitamins they need – especially folic acid. It also discusses how much weight a pregnant woman can expect to gain. Why do pregnant women need healthy foods? To give her baby the best chance to grow strong and healthy. To have more energy. To be more emotionally stable. To reduce the risk of infections and anemia. What does healthy eating mean? A pregnant woman needs a variety of different nutrients, and she usually needs to eat more than when she’s not pregnant. Eat an extra 100 calories per day during the first three months. You can get an extra 100 calories when you eat a muffin, half a cup of yogurt, or a banana. Eat an extra 300 calories during the final six months. You can get Healthy Pregnancy an extra 300 calories when you eat a plate of spaghetti and meat Healthy Pregnancy sauce, 1½ cups of caribou stew,Baby or a bowl of cereal with milk. Healthy Healthy Baby coloured are full of healthy Fruits and vegetables that are brightly vitamins and minerals so ‚eat a rainbow of natural colors‛. Drink at least eight glasses of water each day to stayfood healthy. Drink at least eight glasses of water each day to stay healthy. If you are planning a pregnancy, start prenatal vitamins a few If you are planning a pregnancy, months before you get pregnant. start prenatal vitamins a few 14 months before you get pregnant. Start taking prenatal vitamins when you know you’re pregnant. Start taking prenatal vitamins when you know you’re pregnant. Take a vitamin D supplement 1000 iu every day, even when you Takeare a vitamin D supplement 1000 iu every day, even when not pregnant. you are not pregnant. 14 A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 1B A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 1B Take a vitamin D supplement 1000 iu every day, even when you are not pregnant. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 1B Bread, Bannock, Grain, Cereal 29B Bannock, bread, bagels, tortilla, pita bread, hotdog What to eat and hamburger buns, crackers, biscuits. Whole wheat is best. Unsweetened, hot or cold breakfast cereals. Spaghetti, macaroni, other noodles. Rice. Carbohydrates - to get energy. Fibre - to help have regular bowel movements. Why eat it Vitamin B complex - to develop healthy skin, eyes, nerves, digestive system, growth. Healthy Pregnancy Folic acidHealthy – to form red blood cells and new cells. Baby Iron – to develop a good blood supply. 5 to 12 servings each day. One serving = How much 1 slice of bread15 or small piece of bannock. ½ hamburger or hotdog bun, bagel, or pita bread. ½ cup cooked rice or noodles. ¾ cup oatmeal or porridge or ½ to 1 cup cold cereal. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 2B Vegetables and Fruit 30B Healthy Pregnancy Raw, cooked, canned, dried, or frozen. Healthy Baby 15 much ½ cup cooked rice or noodles. ¾ cup oatmeal or porridge or ½ to 1 cup cold cereal. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 2B Vegetables and Fruit 30B Raw, cooked, canned, dried, or frozen. What to eat Unsweetened fruit or vegetable juices. Wild berries and greens, seaweed. Animal stomach contents, caribou and moose fat, organ meats of wild animals. Vitamin C – to repair tissue and resist infection. Vitamin A – to help cells grow. Why eat it Vitamin B complex – to develop healthy skin, eyes, nerves, digestive system, growth. Healthy Pregnancy Folic acid – to form red blood cells and new cells. Baby bowel movements. Fibre – toHealthy help have regular How much 5 to 10 servings each day. One serving = 1 medium fresh fruit or vegetable. ½ cup frozen or canned fruit or vegetable. ½ cup juice. 16 1 cup of salad. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 3B Milk and Milk Substitutes 31B 16 Milk – skim, 1%, 2%, homo, or buttermilk. Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Soy drinks. ½ cup frozen or canned fruit or vegetable. ½ cup juice. 1 cup of salad. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 3B Milk and Milk Substitutes 31B Milk – skim, 1%, 2%, homo, or buttermilk. Soy drinks. What to eat Yogurt, cottage cheese. Cheese – cheddar, mozzarella, parmesan, gouda, feta, etc. Animal stomach contents, fish heads and bones. Protein – to help all cells grow, including bones, muscles, and blood vessels. Why eat it Fat – to get energy and to help absorb vitamins. Calcium – to help build strong bones and teeth, to Pregnancy have aHealthy healthy nervous system. Healthy Baby Vitamin D, added to commercial milk – to help absorb calcium for strong bones. 3 to 4 servings each day. How much One serving = 1 cup milk. ¾ cup yogurt. 17 1 ½ ounces cheese or 2 slices processed cheese. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 4B Meat, Fish, Eggs, Birds, Beans 32B Beef, pork, lamb, Healthy caribou, moose, otherHealthy wild meat. Pregnancy Baby 17 How much 1 cup milk. ¾ cup yogurt. 1 ½ ounces cheese or 2 slices processed cheese. A Pregnant Woman’s Healthy Eating Food Guide 4B Meat, Fish, Eggs, Birds, Beans 32B Beef, pork, lamb, caribou, moose, other wild meat. Chicken, turkey, goose, duck, other wild birds. What to eat Fish and fish eggs – wild or from the store. Legumes – lentils, chickpeas, beans. Peanut butter, nuts, seeds such as sunflower seeds. Eggs – wild and from the store. Protein – to help all cells grow, including bones, Why eat it muscles, and blood vessels. Fat – to get energy and to help absorb vitamins. Iron – to develop a good blood supply. How much Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 2 to 3 servings each day. One serving = 3 ounces cooked meat, birds, or fish –the size of a deck of cards or the palm of your hand. 1 to 2 ounces dry fish or dry meat. 1 cup cooked lentils, 18 beans, or peas. ½ cup nuts or seeds, 2 Tablespoons peanut butter. 1 to 2 eggs. 18 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 20 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 19 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 21 20 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How much weight should a pregnant woman gain? Pregnant women gain weight as their baby develops this is normal and healthy. During the first three months the average pregnant woman gains two to eight pounds. During the last six months, she gains about one pound a week. A healthy and safe amount of weight gain varies a lot from woman to woman – from 25 to 35 pounds total. Teenagers and light or thin women usually need to gain more weight. Heavy women probably won’t gain as much weight and they shouldn’t gain any more weight. Pregnant women should gain weight slowly and steadily. If you suddenly gain a lot of weight, tell your doctor, nurse, or midwife. Where do pregnant women gain the extra weight? 5B All weights vary from woman to woman Baby 7 ½ pounds Placenta 1 ½ pounds Amniotic fluid 2 pounds Uterus or womb 2 ½ pounds Breast tissue 2 ½ pounds Blood and extra fluid 7 pounds Muscle and fat 6 pounds Total 29 pounds 3B 22 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 21 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Facts about folic acid What is it? Folic acid is one of the B vitamins. It is also called folate or folacin. Why do pregnant women need it? Pregnant women need folic acid to help the baby’s spine, brain, and skull develop properly. Without folic acid, the baby is more likely to have neural tube defects at birth. What are Neural tube defects? Neural tube defects or NTDs affect a baby’s brain and / or their spinal cord. The unborn baby develops these defects during the first month of pregnancy. That’s why pregnant women need to eat enough folic acid before and / or during the first three months of pregnancy. How much folic acid is enough? To get enough folic acid, a pregnant woman needs to take a 0.4 mg folic acid supplement every day PLUS foods with lots of folic acid. If possible, women should take a folic acid supplement for 3 months or 12 weeks before they get pregnant. All women’s multivitamins or prenatal vitamins have folic acid. See the table on the next page for a list of foods with lots of folic acid. 23 22 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby What foods have lots of folic acid? 6B Vegetables Fruit and Juice Cereal, Bread, Grain Food group Food item Serving 34B % daily amount Nutri-grain cereal bar 1 bar 25% Cornflakes 1 cup 25% Special K cereal 1 cup 25% Orange Juice 1 cup 27% Tomato Juice 1 cup 12% Orange 1 medium 10% Spinach, raw 1 cup 27% Asparagus, cooked 5 spears 25% Brussel sprouts, cooked 1 cup 24% Green peas, cooked ½ cup 12% Romaine lettuce 1 cup 10% 24 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 23 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Sex, Emotions, Physical Activity Sex during pregnancy Does sexual intercourse hurt the unborn baby? Will it cause a miscarriage? Will it bring on labour? Generally, sex during pregnancy won’t hurt the unborn baby. Sex during pregnancy mostly depends on the pregnant woman’s physical health and how the couple feel about having sex during pregnancy. A pregnant woman may feel very tired or have nausea or other physical problems that leave her with little desire or energy for sex. Other physical problems MAY affect sexual intercourse: A miscarriage in the past Vaginal bleeding Pain Loss of fluid from the uterus Some couples experience no change, others have increased desire, and others have decreased desire. Often one person in the couple feels differently about sex than the other. A person may feel frustrated, reluctant, rejected, confused, afraid, uncomfortable, or have other emotions. Be patient and understanding with each other. Try different positions as the pregnancy advances – side-by-side, sitting, from behind, etc. Talk about your feelings, hold and touch each other. 25 24 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Emotions Most pregnant women experience big changes in their moods and emotions – some really positive and some quite difficult. And it’s hard to tell ahead of time what those changes will be. These changes are normal - and they won’t last forever. Changing hormones usually cause most of the changes. Single pregnant women, on their own, may find they cry or get mad more easily than other pregnant women. Talk to your partner, family, friends, or others you trust to get rid of unwanted fears. Tell your doctor, nurse, or midwife if you feel too emotional. Partners, family, and friends need to learn about and understand a pregnant woman’s changing emotions, and offer their support. 26 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 25 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Physical activity All people need regular exercise. Pregnant women get many benefits from regular exercise, before and after the birth. Easier labour, faster recovery from birthing Better stamina More energy Better circulation Less risk of diabetes during pregnancy Feel better about yourself, more positive self image Things to consider: If you are already physically active, you can generally continue doing what you are used to o If you don’t already exercise regularly: start slowly o Exercise at least 3 to 5 times a week for ½ to 1 hour each time. o Take 5 to 10 minutes to warm up. o Do 15 to 20 minutes aerobic exercises. Aerobic exercises are activities that usually make you breathe deeper and more quickly. Do cool-down exercises, such as stretching, for another 10 to 15 minutes. Walking quickly and swimming are good aerobic exercises, especially for women who start to exercise later in their pregnancy. 27 26 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby If during your exercise you can still carry on a conversation without being out of breath, you are not overdoing it. During the last six months, stay away from exercises where you lie on your back. You might get dizzy because the uterus puts pressure on the large veins that take blood from your legs to your heart. During the last three months, be careful with exercises, such as jogging, that put pressure on your joints and ligaments. The joints get a bit soft as they get ready for labour. Having good posture by standing and walking tall, helps with breathing and lessens back strain. Pelvic Floor Exercises: (Kegels) The pelvic floor exercises, called Kegel exercises, help make the muscles around the vagina strong. It is important to make these muscles strong: During pregnancy to help carry the weight of the baby. During birth to help muscles relax and stretch as your baby is born. After the baby is born to help with passing urine and bowel movements and help you enjoy sex more. You can do these exercises when you are standing, sitting or lying down. Pull up and tighten the pelvic floor muscles as if you were stopping the flow of pee, hold for 5 seconds, and relax these muscles for 10 seconds. Repeat 5 to 10 times, several times a day. 28 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 27 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Alcohol, Drugs, Smoking This section talks about how alcohol, street drugs, smoking, caffeine, and over-the-counter drugs affect a pregnant woman and her baby. Alcohol and pregnancy – a poor mix We all know that pregnant women should not drink. When a pregnant woman drinks, so does her unborn baby. Alcohol can kill the unborn baby’s cells or slow their growth - especially their brain. Many women drink before they know they’re pregnant. If you drank once in a while or only a small amount, the risk to your baby is low. If you drank lots or keep drinking, the risk to your baby is a lot higher. Pregnant women that drink – regularly or even once in a while need to stop. Get help, if you need it. Talk to your doctor, nurse, or midwife. Replace alcohol with other drinks. Your partner, family, and friends need to support you to make healthy choices: Sparkling drinks, such as bottled waters. Fruit or vegetable juices Non-alcoholic punch Non-alcoholic beer and wine Milk Water 29 28 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Baby Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder or FASD If a woman drinks when she is pregnant, her baby may be born with fetal alcohol spectrum disorder or FASD. People from all races and cultures around the world have babies with FASD. Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder covers a wide range of possible disabilities and challenges that babies born with FASD have to deal with - throughout their whole life. Lighter weight and shorter height than normal, at birth Smaller head Irregular or abnormal face, joints, arms, and legs Heart defects Poor coordination Mental retardation Hyperactivity Extreme nervousness Poor attention span Poor judgement Poor communication skills Learning disabilities Prevent FASD Don’t drink when you’re pregnant. If you see a pregnant woman drinking, tell her to stop, or tell the Health Unit, doctor or nurse so she can get help. 30 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 29 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Street drugs Street drugs include marijuana and hashish, narcotics such as heroin and methadone, cocaine, crack cocaine, and crystal meth. Pregnant women need to stay away from street drugs. They can cause problems for the unborn baby and the mother, and throughout a child’s life. Street drugs can make your unborn baby really sick, and they can still be sick after birth. Street drugs may cause your baby to have lower birth weight. Babies that suffer the effects of street drugs may have problems at school. The baby may go through withdrawal after birth. Taking narcotics causes the baby and/or mother to become addicted. Taking cocaine can cause other problems for the mother. The placenta can separate from the uterus and she can go into labour before the full nine-month term. 31 30 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Effects of smoking during pregnancy If a pregnant woman smokes, she needs to quit. And it’s never too late. It’s best to quit right away – but quit any time during pregnancy. Make sure your baby has a healthy new start to life. And light cigarettes don’t help. Smokers that switch to light cigarettes often end up smoking more and inhaling more deeply. If you do smoke and you want information on how to quit, please talk you your doctor, nurse, or nurse practitioner. How does smoking affect the baby? The poisons from the cigarette easily get into the unborn baby’s blood. The poisons include nicotine, carbon monoxide, arsenic, and other toxic things. The unborn baby gets less oxygen and they grow slower. The baby is more likely to have low birth weight. A newborn baby may have slower physical and mental development. A newborn may have more chest infections and hospital visits during their first year of life. They are more likely to get asthma. A breastfeeding baby gets small amounts of nicotine. Breast- or bottle-fed babies that live with people that smoke are more likely to refuse to eat, to spit up, and to be cranky. Studies show a higher risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome or crib death in homes where people smoke. 32 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 31 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How does smoking affect the mother? The mother is more likely to have problems with the placenta. She’s more likely to bleed early or late in the pregnancy. It’s more likely that her bag of water will break too soon. The mother is more likely to miscarry the baby or deliver the baby early. A woman that smokes AND takes the birth control pill has a much greater risk of a heart attack and other heart diseases. And the risk increases if she keeps smoking. Women who smoke tend to experience menopause earlier. Women who experience early menopause are more likely to develop osteoporosis – thin and brittle bones that break easily. Caffeine We don’t know all the effects of caffeine on an unborn baby. We do know that caffeine enters the baby’s blood and that they can’t use it. Caffeine in large amounts may be harmful to your unborn baby. We recommend pregnant women drink no more than 1 ½ mugs of coffee or 4 cups of tea each day. Pregnant women can make more healthy choices, such as: Fruit or vegetable juices Milk Water with a slice of lemon or lime 33 32 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Over-the-counter drugs Pregnant women often have morning sickness or heartburn. They may get a cold or be constipated. A pregnant woman may want to take over-the-counter drugs to feel better. We recommend that pregnant women talk to their doctor, nurse, or midwife. Only take medicine that your health care provider recommends or prescribes. This helps prevent unneeded risks to your baby. Medicine for heartburn - antacids Heartburn is common, especially late in the pregnancy. Help prevent heartburn – eat smaller meals and more often, drink milk, and stay away from fried and spicy foods. Don’t drink during a meal - wait 30 minutes after you finish a meal to drink. Use antacids if your doctor, nurse, or midwife agrees, and only as the package says. Large doses of some antacids can hurt your unborn baby if you take them for a long time during pregnancy. Use safer products, such as Tums or Maalox, if you need them and your doctor, nurse, or midwife agrees. Women on a salt restricted diet need to stay away from products such as Alka Seltzer. 34 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 33 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Medicine to help reduce nausea Pregnant women usually have nausea during the first three months. Help prevent nausea the same way as heartburn – eat smaller meals and eat more often. Stay away from products such as Gravol – they can endanger your unborn baby’s healthy development. Talk to your doctor, nurse, or midwife if your nausea or morning sickness is really bad. Sometimes they prescribe Diclectin, a medicine approved for pregnant women. Try lemon or ginger to reduce nausea – some women find this helps. Medicine for colds and allergies Medicines for colds and allergies include things such as pain relievers, decongestants, and antihistamines. We recommend pregnant women stay away from cold and allergy medicines. We don’t know how they affect an unborn baby. When a pregnant woman gets a cold, the best things she can do are - get lots of rest, drink lots of fluids, and use a steamer or kettle to put moisture in the air. Talk to your doctor, nurse, or midwife if your cold lasts longer than 10 days, or if you need medicine for an allergy. 35 34 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Medicine to help you have a bowel movement Pregnant women can get constipated. Help prevent constipation – eat more foods with fibre, such as bran, prunes, and fruit juices. Drink more water. Talk to your doctor, nurse, or midwife to ask what medicine they recommend. Medicine to reduce inflammation and pain Tylenol is the only safe painkiller to use during pregnancy. 36 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 35 Healthy Baby Hot Tubs, X-rays, Toxoplasmosis This section talks about saunas and hot tubs, x-rays, and an infection call toxoplasmosis. Saunas, hot tubs, steam rooms Pregnant women should stay away from saunas, hot tubs, and steam rooms. Too much heat can hurt your unborn baby. But a warm bath can be very relaxing – just do not let yourself become too hot. Keep the temperature below 38.9° C or 102° F if you have a warm bath. Ask another adult to help you get in and out. Get out right away if you feel faint or dizzy, have stomach pain or a fast heartbeat, or if your hands or feet tingle. X-rays Pregnant women should stay away from X-rays, including dental x-rays. X-rays produce radiation. Radiation can damage the unborn baby’s organs during the third and fourth week. It can damage the brain and spinal cord during the whole pregnancy. 37 36 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Baby Toxoplasmosis Toxoplasmosis is an infection caused by a parasite. The parasite can harm an unborn baby if a pregnant woman gets infected. Pregnant women can get toxoplasmosis if they eat raw or undercooked meat or eggs that contain the parasite. Cat litter can also contain the parasite. To help prevent toxoplasmosis: If you have a cat - wash your hands well after you pat it or hold it. Ask someone else to empty the litter box. Wash your hands well before and after you handle raw meat. Wear gloves when working in the garden. Wash all root vegetables such as carrots, potatoes well before eating them. If your children have a sand box, cover it to keep any cats out. If a pregnant woman gets infected, she might not show any signs that she’s sick. Most infected people don’t. They might have a slight fever and swollen glands two to three weeks after they are exposed, and a rash a day or two after that. The only way to find out if you have toxoplasmosis is to ask your nurse or doctor to do a blood test. 38 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 37 Healthy Baby Nine Months of Change for Mother and Unborn Baby This section gives a summary of some of the changes that a pregnant woman and her unborn baby experience during pregnancy. We divided the information into three main sections: 1) First trimester: 1 - 3 months or 1 to 12 weeks 2) Second trimester: 4 - 6 months or 13 to 26 weeks 3) Third trimester: 7 - 9 months or 27 weeks to labour For each trimester we show: How the unborn baby changes What to expect by the end of the trimester How the mother changes and what she can do to be more comfortable 39 38 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Baby First trimester: 1 – 3 months or 1 - 12 weeks How the unborn baby changes: Grows from a single cell to three- inches long. 5 weeks: Heart starts to beat, arms and legs show as buds. 6 weeks: Spine, brain, ears, and eyes start to develop; lungs, digestive system, kidneys begin to appear. 7 weeks: Muscles, bones, and blood vessels start to develop. 8 weeks: All major organs nearly formed. What to expect by the end of the first trimester: Uterus the size of an orange - feel it above the public bone. Unborn baby’s sex organs are formed and fingers and toes are fully developed. Hear the unborn baby’s heartbeat. 40 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 39 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How the mother changes during the first trimester First month / 1 – 4 weeks What you can do No period Hormones stop the menstrual cycle – the uterine wall lining builds up to cushion and feed the baby. Eat a variety of foods every day from the four food groups. Exercise every day, in fresh air. Know this is normal. Wear a cotton bra that has good Tingling, tender, swollen breasts Hormones change breasts, to prepare them for breastfeeding. support, no under-wires and wide shoulder straps. Totally tired Sleep or nap when you need to. Being pregnant uses lots of energy. Peeing more often Drink less in the evening. The uterus presses on the bladder and it can’t hold as much. 41 40 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 1½ -3 months / 5 – 12 weeks Breast changes – areola darkens and tiny glands appear What you can do Choose to wear a comfortable bra that supports your breasts well. Breasts keep changing to get ready for breastfeeding. 24B Light-headedness 25B Your blood system adapts slowly when you stand or sit. Get up or change position slowly. Exercise and eat regularly. Use good posture. Eat less food, more often. Eat unsalted crackers or dry toast before you get out of bed. Get out of bed slowly. Stay away from fatty and fried foods. Nausea and vomiting Hormones, tension, and being tired cause this. Usually lasts about eight to 12 weeks. Drink clear tea, apple juice, ginger ale. Try herbal teas such as: fennel, anise, raspberry leaf, peppermint, spearmint and camomile. Eat cold meals to avoid food odours. Don’t drink when you eat – wait ½ hour or more. Ask your nurse/doctor/midwife about pills, if needed. 42 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 41 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 1½ -3 months / 5 – 12 weeks What you can do Wear small pads, cotton lined underwear, looser pants. Thin, milky vaginal discharge Changing hormones cause this. Shower or bath often. Keep the area clean and dry. Call your nurse/doctor/midwife if it’s itchy, frothy, smelly, or coloured. 43 42 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Second trimester: 4 – 6 months or 13 - 26 weeks How the unborn baby changes 16 weeks: Grows fine hair all over, bone and blood vessels grow, finger and toenails present, genitals formed. 20 weeks: Hair grows on head, may start to suck their thumb, kidneys produce urine – released into the amniotic fluid. 24 weeks: Teeth develop, skin wrinkled and covered with vernix – white cheesy stuff – to lubricate and protect the skin. What to expect by the end of the second trimester: Mother gains 10 to 15 pounds, on average. Unborn baby weighs about 1½ pounds. Unborn baby has strong movements. 44 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 43 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How the mother changes during the second trimester 3 – 4 months / 13 – 15 weeks What you can do Know that this is ‘Mask of pregnancy’ appears A brownish tan on your face or in a line running from your navel to the pubic area. 4 months / 16 weeks to birth normal. Stay out of bright sunlight. What you can do Breast fluids may leak Know that this is normal. This is colostrum – a water-protein fluid that comes before breast milk. Recognize the sensation – bubbling, fluttering, knocking. Unborn baby moves Note the date and tell the Also called quickening. doctor, nurse, or midwife. It’s an important sign. 45 44 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 5 months / 20 weeks to birth What you can do Tingling, numb fingers Put your hands on your shoulders and rotate your elbows in a circle. Swelling causes pressure on nerves and blood vessels. Do pelvic tilt exercises. Sit in straight-backed chairs. Low back pain appears Wear comfortable, low-heeled Happens as the ligaments attached to the uterus stretch, the spine curves because of the big belly, and pelvic joints get soft. Poor posture also a cause. Often worse at night. shoes. Sleep on a firm mattress and use pillows for support. Try heat, massage or warm baths. Apply cold. Don’t do any heavy lifting. Put legs up when you sit or lie down. Legs throb, varicose veins appear Pressure in abdomen causes blood to pool in leg veins. Walk - to increase circulation. Ask your nurse/doctor/midwife about wearing support hose. Do not wear knee-highs and garters, or sit with legs crossed. 46 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 45 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 5 months / 20 weeks to birth What you can do Eat regularly. Drink six to eight glasses of water or juice a day – prune juice. Hard, dry bowel movements Hormones and a different diet slow down the bowel’s activity. The larger uterus puts pressure on the bowel. Eat high fibre foods – whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. Exercise regularly. Ask your nurse/doctor/midwife before you use a suppository, laxative, or enema. Sleep or nap on your left side. Ankles, feet, hands, and face swell The tissue has extra fluid – from changing hormones, more blood volume, and pressure from the unborn baby. Put up your legs and feet. Don’t lie on your back, or wear tight clothing. Do exercises that stimulate blood flow. Talk to your nurse/doctor/midwife. 6 months / 25 weeks to birth Purple or red marks appear on stomach and breasts What you can do Massage your skin with non- perfumed lotion or oil to help stop the itching. Changing hormones and stretched skin cause this. 47 46 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 6 months / 25 weeks to birth More and more tired Your pregnant body and the unborn baby make more, and new, demands. False labour contractions Uterus may contract irregularly and you have pain in your tummy (Braxton Hicks Contractions). These contractions prepare your body for labour, but you’re not in labour yet. What you can do Eat a healthy diet. Rest often - rest before you get tired. Know your limits and stop before you reach them. Use breathing exercises. Call the nurse or doctor if the contractions are too painful. Get up and walk around to help the pain go away. Keep good posture. Stay well-rested. Put up your feet when you sit or Muscle cramps, especially at night The unborn baby puts pressure on abdominal nerves. lie down. To relieve pain, gently push your foot against a firm surface or have someone gently push against your foot. Massage. Daily exercise helps. 48 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 47 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Third trimester: 7 – 9 months or 27 weeks to birth How the unborn baby changes 28 weeks: Starts to grow fat, hiccups, lungs developed, eyes open, body grows to fit size of head. 32 weeks: Weighs about 4 to 4 ½ pounds, about 18 inches long, can store iron, calcium, other nutrients. 36 weeks: Grows more fat, sheds the vernix – the white cheesy stuff that helps to protect the unborn baby. What to expect by the end of the third trimester Mother feels lighter – the unborn baby moves lower into the pelvic area. The unborn baby can store mother’s antibodies, resist some diseases. The unborn baby is fully developed. 49 48 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How the mother changes during the third trimester 8½ months / 36 weeks What you can do Eat mild, non-acid foods such as yogurt or buttermilk. Eat small meals and often. Heartburn, gas, constipation Changing hormones and pressure of the uterus on the stomach and intestines cause this. Stay away from fried, fatty, and spicy foods. Try herbal teas : fennel or anise Drink after you eat, not during. Raise your head and shoulders when you rest. Do not bend or lie down flat right after you eat. Ask your nurse/doctor/midwife for help. Don’t stand for long periods of time. Hemorrhoids Pressure prevents blood circulating well in the veins – made worse if also constipated. Keep stools soft – eat fruits, vegetables, and fibre; drink lots of water. Avoid constipation, Warm baths and witch hazel compresses. 50 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 49 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 8½ months / 36 weeks What you can do Keep good posture. Try stretching arms over your Shortness of breath Less lung capacity as the baby grows. The top of the uterus presses on the diaphragm. head in a circular motion. Air out rooms - breathe fresh air. Sleep in a semi-sitting position. Get lots of rest and do not exercise too hard. Wear loose clothes, especially around your chest and stomach. Sudden groin pain Ligaments that support the uterus suddenly stretch – happens when you move suddenly – such as sneeze, cough, or stand up quickly. Loose mucus plug Snotty discharge, sometimes pink or yellow, from your vagina. You see signs in your underwear or when you wipe after peeing. Try to not move suddenly. Bend a bit at the hips if you expect to cough or sneeze. Try warm heat to painful areas. Wear a panty liner. Know that your body is getting ready for labour – but that labour isn’t starting yet. 51 50 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 9 months / 37 – 38 weeks Improved breathing The uterus settles down into the pelvis. Feels like the baby dropped - called lightening. Peeing more often The bladder holds less because the uterus presses down on it. What you can do Tell the doctor, nurse, or midwife. Do pelvic floor exercises. (Kegel) Know this is normal. Do pelvic floor exercises. (Kegel) 3 – 4 days to birth Increased contractions, burst of energy, baby moves less, lose a bit of weight Changing hormones as baby gets ready to be born. What you can do Do not do heavy activities. Save your energy. Get things ready for birthing. 52 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 51 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby High blood pressure, diabetes in your pregnancy, early labour During pregnancy – the nine months of change - some women may have certain problems. This section gives basic information about three possible problems: high blood pressure, diabetes in your pregnancy, and premature or early labour. If you live in a community outside Yellowknife and the nurse or midwife get too concerned, they may send you to Yellowknife or Edmonton. High blood pressure Pregnant women get their blood pressure checked at each prenatal visit. If the nurse, doctor, or midwife gets concerned, they may need to check your blood pressure more often. You and your unborn baby can get really sick if your blood pressure gets too high. You may get headaches, spots or sparkles before your eyes, pain in your upper tummy, or more swelling in your hands or feet. If your blood pressure stays too high, you NEED go to the hospital. 53 52 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Diabetes in your pregnancy - gestational diabetes Pregnant women do a sugar drink test at a prenatal visit when they’re about 6-7 months / 24-28 weeks pregnant. A woman gets tested again if the test results are high. If the test results are high, she probably has ‘diabetes in your pregnancy’. This means that the pregnancy has changed your body and it does not properly use sugar and starch. Women with this condition have to really watch what they eat. They have to regularly check their blood sugars - prick a finger and put a drop of blood on a machine. When it’s close to time to deliver the baby, the doctor will do more tests at the hospital to make sure you and the baby are healthy. Premature or early labour Sometimes a pregnant woman’s water breaks too early. If this happens, you need to get to Yellowknife or Edmonton. Sometimes a pregnant woman has lower back pain that does not go away. If this happens, go see your nurse, doctor, or midwife and ask them to check this out. Sometimes a pregnant woman feels like they have a bladder infection. Or they have cramps like they have during a bad monthly period, except the cramps do not go away. If this happens, go see your nurse, doctor, or midwife. 54 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 53 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby When to Call the Nurse/Doctor/Midwife Pregnant women and their partners need to watch for certain warning signs, and call the nurse/doctor/midwife if needed. Watch for these warning signs and make the call if you experience any of these things: 1) Chills and fever over 38° C or 100° F 2) Any contact with German measles 3) Fainting or dizziness 4) Blurred or double vision, or seeing spots before your eyes 5) Severe headache that lasts longer than two hours 6) Sudden weight gain and swelling hands and feet 7) Abdominal pain that won’t go away. 8) Vaginal bleeding 9) Peeing that hurts or burns 10) Coloured, frothy, foul-smelling, or itchy vaginal discharge 11) A gush or leaking fluid from the vagina 12) Severe nausea and vomiting – more than two to three times a day after the first three months 55 54 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 13) No fetal movement in two hours. We need 6 fetal movements in a two hour period. Sit down and put your hands on your tummy. If you still have less than 6 movements in 2 hours-you need to have a check-up done soon. 14) Painful, tender and warm red area on your leg When you call, be ready to answer these questions: How long this been happening? How long have you felt this way? Give dates and times if you can. How bad is it? Is it really awful? How often does it happen? What makes it better? Give details if you can. What makes is worse? Give details if you can. 56 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 55 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Breast Care and Breastfeeding This section has a few tips about how to take care of your breasts when you’re pregnant, and how to get ready for breastfeeding. Breast Care Pregnant women can do a few small things to help take care of their breasts, and get ready for breastfeeding. Bath regularly. Use very little or no soap, and rinse thoroughly. Stay away from drying agents such as alcohol and perfumed soaps. They remove natural lubrication and can irritate your nipples. Buy a bra that’s comfortable and big enough to support your breasts. (one without under-wires is best) Picture yourself breastfeeding Breastfeeding is the natural way to feed your newborn. Breast milk contains the most easily digested form of protein available. And breastfeeding is much more than feeding babies the best food they can get. It is a special relationship between a mother and her baby. 57 56 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Baby Reasons for breastfeeding your baby Breast milk is made just for your baby. It changes to meet your baby’s needs, as they get older. Breast milk contains hormones to help babies grow and antibodies to fight infection. Breast milk has a laxative effect - babies have fewer problems with constipation and diarrhea. Breastfed babies develop better jaws and gums because of the sucking motion they use when they breastfeed. Breastfed babies have higher developmental scores than formula fed babies. Breastfed babies have fewer speech problems. Breastfed babies less often have juvenile diabetes, small bowel disease, allergies, ear infections, anemia, and asthma. Reasons for breastfeeding for the mother Helps the uterus shrink back to pre-pregnancy size. Reduces the chance of osteoporosis and pre-menopausal breast cancer. Promotes a strong bond between mother and baby. Easy to use – always there and ready. Costs less. Less time lost away from work because of a sick baby. Decreases health care costs. Lose weight in a different way than mothers that don’t breastfeed, because your body works hard to produce milk. Makes no garbage and uses no non-renewable resources. 58 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 57 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Labour and Birth This section has information about the following things related to labour and birth: Signs that your body is getting ready for labour When should I go to the hospital Three stages of labour What to take to the labour room Tips for the labour support person Tips for breathing during labour How to be comfortable during labour Pain relief, induction, C-section During labour the baby, the umbilical cord, the membranes and fluid, and the placenta move out of the uterus or womb through the cervix or opening. The cervix gets thin and dilates or opens. Transition is the time during labour when the cervix opens the last bit it needs to open, to allow the baby to come through. The baby moves down the birth canal or vagina, and out. The placenta or afterbirth comes out after the baby. Contractions happen when the muscles in the uterus get tight, to help you give birth. Contractions happen all through labour - you feel your tummy get hard and it hurts. Also called ‘pain in your tummy’. Back labour is when you feel all the pain in your back. 59 58 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Signs That Your Body is Getting Ready for Labour Following are some signs that your body is getting for labour. You may have some of these signs ‚on and off‛ for several days before labour starts. * The baby “drops’ into the pelvis (also called lightening or engagement). This can happen up to 4 weeks before labour starts. When the baby ‚drops‛ you may be able to breathe easier and you’ll have more pressure on your bladder and feel like you need to pee more often. * Nesting (a burst of energy and a need to have everything ready) may happen a few days before labour starts. Be careful not to do too much. You’ll need your energy for labour and birth. *Loss of mucus-plug. As your cervix opens, the ‚cork‛ of mucus may start to come out. This mucus plug may be passed 1 to 2 weeks before you go into labour. *A pink or bloody discharge from your vagina. As the cervix opens tiny blood vessels break and they may tint the mucus from your vagina pink or streak it with blood. This ‚show‛ usually means labour will start in the next day or two. *Diarrhea. Some women may have loose bowel movements and nausea just before labour starts. *Feel more pressure in pelvis and bottom. Some women feel crampiness (like menstrual cramps) and groin pain especially if this is their second or more pregnancy. Low back pain may also happen. * More tightenings of the uterus (Braxton Hicks Contractions). You may feel your uterus tighten up and harden more often. These practice contractions may come more often, may be stronger and even painful. 60 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 59 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby When Should I go to the Hospital? Most women go into labour in the 2 weeks before or after their baby is due. Because it is hard to know when you will go into labour, it is a good idea to be ready a few weeks before your baby is due. You should go into the hospital when: > Contractions are happening every 2 to 4 minutes apart for an hour. Time your contraction from the beginning of one contraction to the beginning of the next contraction. If this is not your first baby, go to the hospital when your contractions are every 5 minutes apart. >Contractions are getting stronger and you are no longer comfortable. >You feel a gush or trickle of fluid from your vagina. This means your ‚bag of waters‛ has broken. Sometimes you may have a very slow leak. It may feel wet in your underpants. >If you have less than 6 movements in 2 hours. >There is a sign that there is a problem, such as bleeding from the vagina. 61 60 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Three stages of labour Labour happens in three general stages. This section gives some details about what to expect during each stage of labour and what to do to be more comfortable. Early labour - before you go to the hospital. First stage Active first stage – At the hospital, up to when you’re ready to start pushing. Lasts 4 to 12 hours. Second stage Pushing the baby out. Lasts 30 minutes to 2 hours. Third stage Pushing the placenta out. Labour usually lasts for 10 to 14 hours for most women with their first pregnancy. Labour usually lasts from six to 10 hours for women who have been pregnant more than once. Remember labour lasts as long as it needs to. Believe in yourself and trust and listen to what your body is telling you to do. It will be help you during your labour. 62 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 61 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Early labour – Before you go to hospital What happens? How do I feel? The cervix gets thinner and shorter – the opening stretches from a few millimetres to about four centimetres. Contractions feel like menstrual cramps, and last 30 to 45 seconds. To start, contractions may be irregular and spread out. As labour progresses, contractions come closer together. Backache, pelvic pressure. ‘Show’ – a pinkish mucus discharge – the mucus plug in the cervix comes out through the vagina. Usually your water breaks - as a small trickle or a big gush. Feel excited, relieved, and not sure what to expect. Sociable and talkative. Impatient and eager for progress between contractions. What should I do? Carry on with usual activities as long as possible. Alternate activities with rest periods. Sleep if at night. Time the contractions and use comforts of labour that help. Call the midwife, nurse, or doctor. Eat a light meal if you’re hungry. Have a warm bath or shower, if someone is near and your water hasn’t broken. Breathe normally until you can’t talk or walk through a contraction. Then start slow breathing, as needed. 63 62 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Active first stage – At the hospital, up to when you start pushing What happens? How do I feel? To start, contractions come every 3 to 5 minutes, and last 45 to 60 seconds. They build to every 2 to 3 minutes, and last 60 to 90 seconds. More ‘show’ – pinkish mucus discharge. The cervix dilates or opens, from 4 to 8 cm. Transition happens when the cervix dilates from 8cm to 10 cm. During transition - may feel nauseated, hot or cold, restless, sleepy between contractions, backache, rectal pressure, urge to push; may sweat, find it hard to relax; legs may tremble. During transition – feel more irritable, sensitive, overwhelmed, want to give up, exhausted, bewildered, frustrated, discouraged, out of control, normal to cry. May withdraw into yourself and the labour, have doubts, wonder if you can cope, don’t want to talk or be distracted. Have trouble saying what you need, harder to concentrate during contractions and relax after. Surprised, overwhelmed, even frightened at the urge to push. What should I do? Use any and all comforts of labour that might help. Continue to relax and breathe slowly, deeply. Concentrate on each contraction, relax and rest between. Do not push or hold your breath when contractions get strong and happen every two to three minutes. 64 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 63 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Second stage – pushing the baby out What happens? How do I feel? Contractions come every 2 to 3 minutes, last 60 to 90 seconds. Feel an irresistible urge to push. May feel groin pressure and burning as the baby’s head moves down the birth canal. Push when your body tells you to. The doctor/nurse/midwife may ask you to stop pushing when the baby’s head crowns. Feel surprised, overwhelmed, or frightened by the urge to push. Feel a burst of energy, excited. Pressure on your bum makes you anxious and hesitant to push. Between contractions feel drowsy, peaceful, tired, may sleep. May poop – this is normal. What should I do? Get into your birthing position – half sit, squat, lie on side, etc. If sitting, move your chin towards your chest, bend your elbows, and grip your legs with your hands. Push down into your bum when you feel the urge to push, and slowly let your breath out. Breathe in and keep pushing until the urge to push is gone. It’s the same way you push when you have a poop. Rest and relax entire body when the contraction is done. 65 64 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Third stage – pushing the placenta out What happens? How do I feel? Contractions may stop after the birth, but may start again. The uterus is the size of a grapefruit and it rises in the tummy. The uterus gets smaller and pushes out the placenta or afterbirth. This takes five to 20 minutes. You may have a gush of blood before you deliver the placenta, or during. You may not be aware that you delivered the placenta. You will get a needle with hormone to help the uterus contract or get smaller - an oxytocin injection. Feel total joy, relief, wonder, excitement, pride and fulfillment, grateful, disbelief. Some mothers don’t experience any particular feelings. Feel very hungry and thirsty. Focus on the baby. Want to know that the baby is normal. Sleep when excitement dies down; or may be too excited to sleep. What should I do? Stay relaxed. Push gently if you need to push out the placenta. Lie back. Enjoy the baby and keep the baby warm. Be together with your baby and your partner or support person. Start breastfeeding. 66 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 65 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Skin to Skin Why is Skin-to-Skin so important? Skin-to-skin is a way of holding your baby that both babies and parents find enjoyable. The baby wears only a diaper and is held in an upright position on the mother’s bare chest. A light blanket can be draped across the baby’s back. When babies are held skin-to-skin they can hear their mother’s heartbeat and breathing, and smell and feel her skin. This is familiar and comforting to newborns. Skin-to-Skin… Stabilizes your baby’s heart rate, breathing and blood sugar. Keeps your baby warm through your body heat. Promotes bonding and getting to know your baby. Helps your baby to be calmer and cry less. Helps you to be more confident and relaxed. Helps your milk flow and may improve your milk supply. Promotes a good latch. This means that you are less likely to develop sore nipples and your baby will get more milk. This can be possible with any birth, including caesarean birth. Hold your baby skin-to-skin as soon after birth as possible for at least one hour. Continue holding your baby skin-to-skin often and for long periods. Premature babies benefit from this too. Sometimes this is called Kangaroo Mother-Baby care. Older babies will also enjoy skin-to-skin holding. 67 66 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby What to take to the labour room The ‘labour bag’ Things a pregnant woman might need during labour. Lollipops or other candy to keep your mouth moist Lip gloss or Vaseline for dry lips Oil or lotion for back rubs; aromatherapy oils Something to read Coins for the phone and vending machine Light snack for yourself and your support person Housecoat and slippers Picture – a place to focus Music for relaxing The ‘hospital bag’ For the mother For the baby Underwear Diapers Nursing bra and pads Sleeper, T-shirt, sweater Toothbrush, hair brush Socks or booties Sanitary pads Hat Nightgown and robe Receiving blanket Loose fitting clothes Heavy blanket, if winter Car seat 68 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 67 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Tips for the labour support person A pregnant woman may ask her partner or a friend to be her support person during labour. As a support person, you share in a big life event. Your job is to help two important people – the mother and the baby. To help, go to prenatal classes with the pregnant woman and keep these things in mind during labour: Offer the mother a backrub or massage Keep lights low and room quiet Wipe her face with a cool cloth Offer her a drink, ice chips to suck, popsicles, sips of juice Time her contractions for her Help her to relax, remind her to change positions and to pee often Ask if she wants a shower – and take a change of clothing, shorts, or bathing suit so you can go in the shower with her Encourage her - let her know she’s doing a good job Find answers to her questions Be with her Keep your sense of humour Ask what you can do to help Take care of yourself too 69 68 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Tips for breathing during labour Breathing during labour and delivery helps to: Focus your attention away from the pain and contractions Help you relax better and calm you Provide the oxygen you and the baby need Let everyone know that a contraction is beginning or ending General tips for breathing during labour There is no ‚right way‛ to breathe during labour. The right way for you to breathe is whatever feels right for you. Cleansing breath or greeting breath: At the beginning and end of each contraction, breathe in as deeply as you can and breathe out completely. Imagine you are breathing in energy and blowing out tension. Focal Point Focus on a picture or other object to help you think about something other than the pain. Some women close their eyes to focus. Imagine your cervix opening up and the baby moving downward. Relax your shoulders and the muscles in your abdomen and pelvis. Patterned breathing Change your breathing pattern during the contraction if you need to. For example, breathe slowly and deeply at the beginning and end of the contraction, and more shallowly at the peak. 70 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 69 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Before you start pushing, ask the nurse, midwife or doctor if your cervix is fully dilated. If you push too early, you may get tired and the labour lasts longer. To stop pushing, use quick blowing or panting breaths until the contraction ends. Slow, rhythmical, deep breathing – early labour As the contraction begins, take a deep breath, relax, and focus Breathe slowly, easily, and rhythmically- in through your nose and out through your mouth. When the contraction ends, take another deep breath. Between contractions, take normal breaths and relax. Patterned breathing – active first stage Speed up your breathing if it helps you cope better – if you can’t relax with the slow rhythmical breathing. As the contraction begins, take a deep breath, relax, and focus. As the contraction becomes stronger, take shallower breaths through your mouth. Try not to breathe too quickly. Find the speed and depth that works best for you. When the contraction ends, take another deep cleansing breath and relax. 71 70 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Pushing breathing – when you are fully dilated As the pushing contraction starts, take a slow deep breath. If sitting, move your chin towards your chest and bend your elbows, grip your legs behind your knees with your hands, and push. Between contractions, lie or sit back, relax, and get ready for the next contraction. When the baby’s head is out, the midwife or doctor may ask you to stop pushing and pant. This helps you birth the baby slowly and gently. 72 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 71 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby How to be comfortable during labour A woman and her support person can use different things to help her be more comfortable during labour. Use these, along with focussed breathing, to relieve the pain with each contraction. 1) Comfort positions, including the birthing ball and birthing stool 2) Massage 3) Shower and bath 4) Hot and cold packs 5) Relaxation, music and aromatherapy 6) Drinking and peeing 1) Comfort positions A woman in labour should regularly move and change positions. This helps to increase her comfort and make her contractions stronger and more regular. Here are eight common comfort positions for the 1st and 2nd stages of labour. Walk – 1st stage of labour Encourages the baby to move down. Helps relieve backache. May help make contractions less painful and more productive. 73 72 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Stand – 1st stage of labour Encourages the baby to move down. Helps contractions be less painful and more productive. Can be tiring for longer periods. Lean forward while standing – more restful, relieves backache. Rock or sway your hips while standing. Slow dance with your support person – while they hold you and massage your lower back. Sit upright – 1st and 2nd stages of labour Uses gravity to help the baby move down. Can be a restful change. Useful during electronic fetal monitoring. Use a birthing ball. Half sit – 1st and 2nd stages of labour May be a helpful resting position. Sit on the toilet to help relax the perineum for bearing down. Lean forward and rest against the support person or birthing ball. 74 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 73 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Kneel – 1st and 2nd stages of labour Take the pressure off hemorrhoids. Relieve backache. Lean on a chair, bed, or birthing ball to reduce strain on hands and wrists. Helps with back labour. Lie on your side – 1st and 2nd stages of labour Takes pressure off hemorrhoids. Helps you relax between contractions. Helps slow down a rapid second stage of labour. Safe if you take pain medication. May be a good position to deliver. Squat Helps the baby descend - takes advantage of gravity and widens the pelvic outlet. Need less effort than other positions if you don’t have a strong urge to push. Use a birthing stool on the bed or floor to squat. 75 74 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 1) Massage Many women like some massage during labour to help them relax and to reduce the pain. Here are three basic ways to massage a woman during labour: 1) Stroke the abdomen lightly and rhythmically. Use two hands to make circles on the abdomen or use one hand and move it back and forth over the lower abdomen. 2) Firmly stroke or knead her shoulders, back, thighs, feet, or hands – areas that need to relax. 3) Press with your palm or fist on her lower back to relieve backache. Use firm and constant pressure throughout the contraction. You can use a rolling pin or tennis ball to help. 2) Shower or bath Many women find a shower or bath very comforting during labour. The water can help their contractions feel less painful. Shower – the mother stands or sits in the shower, and leans against the wall for support during contractions. Direct a spray of water to the painful area, such as the back or abdomen. Bath – the mother sits in a warm tub to relax. If your water breaks, check with the midwife or doctor before you use a bath. 76 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 75 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 3) Hot and cold packs Hot packs relax muscles and provide soothing relief. Wrap them in a towel and put them on the mother’s shoulder, lower abdomen, and back. Hot packs are helpful for back labour. Cold packs relieve low back pain. Wrap them in a towel and put them on the mother’s lower back. Put a cool cloth on the mother’s face or neck if she feels too warm during labour. 4) Relaxation, music and aromatherapy A woman can practice and learn to relax during labour, to reduce muscle tension. Focus and concentrate on a loved person or an object to take your attention away from the contractions. Concentrate totally and breathe gently. Visualize a special place, a soothing memory, or how the contraction makes the cervix open. Use music to create a pleasant, relaxing feeling. Some scents, such as lavender, can help lessen the feeling of pain. Add these scents to your massage oil. 5) Drinking and peeing Women in labour need and want to drink, even if they don’t want to eat. Offer them water, tea, juice, a popsicle, ice chips, or sour lollipops between contractions. A woman in labour needs to pee at least every two hours. A full bladder may make the labour last longer. 77 76 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Pain relief, induction, C-section This section gives basic information about three areas where women may need special help from the hospital during labour and birthing: i) Pain relief ii) Induction iii) Caesarean section birth Women may need special help at any stage of labour. Talk to your doctor, nurse, or midwife about what is possible, so you know and understand what can happen and why it happens. Pain relief Labour is just about always painful. The hospital can use drugs to ease the pain. Some women don’t need pain relief, other women do. Here are four common ways the hospital offers pain relief. Entonox – a gas that is 50% nitrous oxide and 50% oxygen. The woman breathes the gas through a mask. She holds the mask and controls the amount she gets. Morphine – a narcotic doctors use to relieve pain and encourage the woman to relax and become drowsy. Fentanyl – an intravenous medicine the woman gets that acts quickly and lasts only for a short time. Epidural analgesia – a drug the doctor injects into the spine area that takes the pain away from the tummy and groin. 78 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 77 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Induction Induction happens when the hospital uses a drug to make the labour start, before it starts by itself. Here are three common reasons that a doctor may choose to induce labour: A pregnant woman is 10 days or more past her due date and has no labour. The doctor is worried about the effects of high blood pressure or diabetes during pregnancy. The doctor is worried that the baby doesn’t have enough fluid around them. Here’s how induction works: 1) The mother gets a drug, tampon-like or a gel, to open the cervix and to start contractions. This drug is put into the vagina to get the cervix ready for the labour. 2) The doctor breaks the bag of water with a tool that looks like a big crochet hook. You may feel really wet after this happens. This may start labour or make labour quicker. 3) The mother gets a drug by IV (intravenous) that helps her uterus contract. The drug can also make contractions stronger and more effective. The mother will have to stay in bed and will be looked after closely by a nurse. During induction the hospital monitors the mother and baby more closely. 79 78 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Caesarean section or C-section Doctors use a C-section when a woman can’t deliver the baby through her vagina. A Csection is surgery - the doctor cuts through the abdomen to deliver the baby, to protect the mother’s and baby’s life and health. Here are some examples of when a mother may need a C-section: Baby is positioned feet first or sideways. Labour is not normal – baby not coming through the birth canal the way it should. Baby is in distress – for example, lacking oxygen. Baby’s cord or the placenta cuts off the baby’s oxygen. Mother has heart problems. Mother has active genital herpes. Just because you delivered a baby by C-section in the past does not mean that your next baby has to be delivered this way. If your pregnancy was normal with no problems, talk to your doctor about having your baby delivered vaginally. 80 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 79 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Travelling to Yellowknife to have your Baby You stay at a boarding home when you come to Yellowknife to have your baby. You will attend Healthy Pregnancy Group, which is group prenatal care, once a week to make sure you and your baby are healthy. The boarding home gives you a ride. You may have questions between your visits to the doctor. If you do, please call 669-4155 or go to the hospital’s labour and delivery ward. You can go to the hospital ahead of time, and look through the place where you’ll have your baby – the OBS Unit or Obstetrics Unit. Call 669-4359 to set up a tour. There are lots of things you can do while you’re in Yellowknife. Here are some suggestions. Centre for Northern Families 5610 – 50th Avenue Phone: 873-2566 Offers a warm, friendly place to go – fun activities, nutritious snacks, and a great way to meet other women. Healthy Baby Club – every Monday and Wednesday from 1:00 to 4:00 pm Sewing Circle – every Tuesday from 6:30 to 9:30 pm Cooking Class – every Friday from 7:00 to 8:30 pm 81 80 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby May have free used baby clothes, toys, and other baby gear. Remember to keep exercising Walking is good for you and your baby. Yellowknife has good walking trails around Frame Lake, right next to downtown. The City clears the trails during winter. There is also the Field House walking track. Go swimming at the Ruth Inch Memorial Pool. Call 920- 5682 to find out the schedule or check the website: http://www.yellowknife.ca/Page3205.aspx Prince of Wales Northern Heritage Centre Go see the great northern exhibits, artwork, and other displays. Call 873-7551 for more information. Visitors Centre Learn more about things to do while you’re in Yellowknife. Phone 873-4262. Just off the highway into town, across the street from the Explorer Hotel. Public Library 2nd floor Centre Square Mall – 49th Street and 49th Avenue. Phone 920-5642 Read books, magazines, newspapers; use the computers, some activities. Call for more info or a schedule. Shopping for second hand baby clothes? Salvation Army Thrift Store at 4701 Franklin Avenue. Phone 766-2942 St. Pats flea market – usually every Friday afternoon 2:00 to 6:00 pm and Saturday morning at the parish hall, corner of 52nd Avenue and 52nd Street. Phone 920-4961 82 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 81 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Your New Baby This section briefly outlines what your new baby looks like and what they see and hear in early life. It has a list of common, popular names for girls and for boys. What your new baby looks like Parents always think their new baby is beautiful. Some babies show bruises and swelling from their trip down the birth canal. Some babies have a moulded, melon- shaped head at birth – this disappears in time. New babies have no control over their body - they make movements that seem pointless, their body tone is tense and jerky. This changes gradually over the first month as they gain more control over their body. Newborns may have slightly yellow skin. Jaundice causes this – a harmless condition that may happen a few days after birth. Feed your baby often and make sure they are peeing and pooing. A newborn’s hair and eye colour often changes. A newborn has a thin covering of fine soft hair all over their body. It’s called lanugo and it goes away around the fourth month. 83 82 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby What your new baby sees and hears A newborn sees patterns of light and dark. Patterns such as checks, stripes, or circles stimulate them more than colours. A newborn can see things close to their face. Their vision gets hazy if something is more than about eight inches away. Your new baby quickly begins to recognize and get excited about your face or toys they know well. Your new baby can follow an object that moves from the side to the centre of their body. New babies make and hear sounds. Towards the end of the first month, you’ll hear cooing noises, sighs, and grunts. But crying is a baby’s main way to communicate. 84 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 83 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Common, popular names for boys or girls Aaron Adam Alexander Andrew Anthony Austin Benjamin Brandon Caleb Cameron Christian Christopher Connor Daniel Dylan Ethan Elijah Eric Gabriel Hunter Jack Jackson Jacob James Jason John Jonathan Jordan Jose Joseph Joshua Justin Kevin Kyle Logan Luis Luke Matthew Michael Nathan Nicholas Noah Robert Ryan Samuel Thomas Tyler William Zachary 85 84 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Common, popular names for boys or girls Abigail Alexandra Alexis Alyssa Amanda Amber Anna Ashley Brianna Chloe Courtney Destiny Emma Emily Elizabeth Gabrielle Grace Haley Hannah Isabella Jasmine Jenna Jennifer Jessica Julia Jordan Kaitlyn Katherine Kayla Lauren Madeline Madison Maria Mary Megan Morgan Natalie Nicole Olivia Rachel Rebecca Samantha Sarah Sierra Sophia Stephanie Sydney Taylor Victoria 86 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 85 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Baby Gear – New or Second Hand? New baby gear costs a lot of money. Most parents use at least some second hand baby gear. Use the basic tips in this section to make sure your baby gear is safe. Baby gear includes: Crib or cradle Playpen Stroller Baby gate Car seat General safety tips 1) Find out how old the item is, how people treated it, and if any parts are broken or missing. 2) Look for a CSA sticker. The Canadian Standards Association regularly tests different products and updates their safety standards. Check each product for the latest update. 3) Remember that it’s not worth it to save some money if you put your new baby at risk. 87 86 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Crib or cradle Basic safety tips for a crib or cradle: Place the crib away from windows, curtains, blind cords, lamps, electric plugs, and extension cords. Check often to make sure the frame is solid. Tighten loose screws regularly. NO bumper pad. Sides lock in place. Good mattress support. Popcan CANNOT fit through the rails. Firm mattress, 6” thick or less. Fits snugly - less than one-inch gap on any side. NO comforter, soft pillows, or stuffed toys. NO gap between the lower edge of the end panels and upper edge of mattress support. 88 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 87 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Playpen Basic safety tips for a playpen: Make sure the sides are solid or have mosquito-type netting - so your baby can’t poke their fingers through or get their buttons stuck. Check that the playpen has no more than two wheels or castors - so it doesn’t move too much. Make sure the walls are at least 18 inches or 48 cm high and that the playpen is strong and stable. Stroller Basic safety tips for a stroller: Choose a sturdy stroller, with big enough wheels to go over the ground where you live. Use a stroller that’s the right size to support your child, so they can’t tip it over easily. Do up the straps to keep the child from falling forward or tipping the stroller over. 89 88 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Baby gate Basic safety tips for a baby gate: Look for a gate you can bolt to the wall or doorway. Do not use accordion-type gates – they are banned in Canada. Car seats for newborns Basic safety tips to take your newborn home from hospital: Use an infant car seat that faces backwards. Put the infant car seat in the middle of the back seat if possible. Check the directions about how to put the seat belt through the car seat. Make sure the seat belt is tight enough. Put down the handle, if your infant car seat has one. If it has a canopy, you may have to put that down too. Follow manufacturer’s instructions Basic safety tips for car seats: Only use a car seat that meets the Canadian Motor Vehicles Safety Standards. Use the kind and size of car seat that best suits your baby’s age, height, and weight. Safety standards tell you when to change the car seat, as your baby gets older, taller, and heavier. See ‚Best Beginnings‛ for details about car seat safety for kids. 90 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby 89 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby Children Learn What They Live Adapted from Dorothy Law Nolte If children live with fault-finding, they learn to judge harshly. If children live with anger, they learn to fight. If children live with mean teasing, they learn to be shy. If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty. If children live with respect, they learn to be patient. If children live with encouragement, they learn to be strong. If children live with praise, they learn to like others. If children live with fairness, they learn justice. If children live with safety, they learn to have faith. If children live with approval, they learn to help themselves. If children live with acceptance and friendship, they learn to find love in the world. 91 90 Healthy Pregnancy Healthy Baby
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