Derek my husband for such a short time,
I remember the day we were given the diagnosis of
your disease. It was a Tuesday in March 2009 and,
while it was a shock to me, it was devastating for you.
We only got married in 2006 and planned a long life
together.
We continued with our day to day living, learning as we
went along. We did up a bucket list and with the help
of our friends and family we fulfilled some of our list.
We had a short time together but did a lot in that time.
We had our ups and downs and a lot of laughs but as
time went on and Alzheimer’s took hold, time was not
on our side. Things went downhill very quickly for you.
They said it was because of your age and being so
young with the diagnosis.
There were good times, bad times and very sad times but I learned lots of lessons looking after you.
Patience was a big one for me. I wanted everything done yesterday but you did it in your time. I laugh now as it
stands to me and not everything has to be done yesterday.
I look at you now and wonder where in the world you are inside of your head. There are fleeting moments when you
open your eyes and say ‘hello’ and I wonder do you see me. In my heart I say yes you do and hope we are still
connected in some way.
Today you are well looked after and I could not wish for any better care for you in Baltinglass. The staff are amazing
and always have a smile for both patients and visitors. That is your home now and as much as it’s great to know you
are well taken care of, I miss you every day and wish we could be together again.
Thank you for the time you gave me, the love you showed me and the funny stories you told me over and over and
over again.
Till we meet again.
Love always
Teresa xxx