QUOTES This list of quotes will be updated at the beginning of each month. There are currently 1399 quotes Provided by Brian K. Rice / LCI **************************************************** ABANDONMENT: Above all, abandonment is the key to innovation. Peter Drucker ABANDONMENT: Planned, purposeful abandonment of the old and of the unrewarding is a prerequisite pursuit of the new and highly promising. Peter Drucker ABANDONMENT: In order to grow, a business must have a systematic policy to get rid of the outgrown, the obsolete, and the unproductive. Peter Drucker ABSURDITY: If at first an idea does not sound absurd, then there is no hope for it. Einstein ABSURDITY: Only those who attempt the absurd will achieve the impossible. M.C. Escher ABSURDITY: The philosophies of one age have become the absurdities of the next, and the foolishness of yesterday has become the wisdom of tomorrow. William Osler ACCOMPLISHMENT: Life is a long campaign where every victory merely leaves the ground free for another battle, and sooner or later defeat comes to every man, unless death forestalls it. But the final defeat does not and should not cancel the triumphs, if the latter have been substantial and for a cause worth championing. Theodore Roosevelt ACCOUNTABILITY: Our chief want in life is somebody who shall make us do what we can. Ralph Waldo Emerson ACCOUNTABILITY: Everyone needs someone who will ask him to give an account of himself, so that he can face into his life and confess who he really is. Elizabeth O’Connor ACTION, RIGHT ACTION: Whatever I think is right for me to do, I do. I do the things that I believe ought to be done. And when I make up my mind to do a thing, I act. Theodore Roosevelt ACTION: Be slow in action and when you act be steady. Bias of Priene ACTION: I put myself in the way of things happening, and they happened. Theodore Roosevelt ACTION: it is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, and comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat. Theodore Roosevelt ACTION: Surely the principles as well as the practice of Christianity are simple, and lead not to meditation only but to action. William Pitt to Wilberforce ACTION: the great end of life is not knowledge but action. T.H. Huxley ACTION: Think like a person of action and act like a person of thought. Starbucks ACTION: Launch early, iterate often. Google saying ACTION/THINKING: Think like a man of action, act like a man of thought. Henri Bergson ACTIONS: Our acts make or mar us; we are the children of our own deeds. Victor Hugo ACTORS: If there's anything unsettling to the stomach, it's watching actors on television talk about their personal lives. Marlon Brando ACTS: You should not consider a man’s age, but his acts. Sophocles, Antigone ADOLESCENCE: Adolescence is a kind of emotional seasickness. Arthur Koestler ADVENTURES: "I am looking for someone to share in an adventure that I am arranging and it's very difficult to find anyone." "I should think so - in these parts! We are plain quiet folk and have no use for adventures. Nasty, disturbing, uncomfortable things! Make you late for dinner! I can't think what anyone sees in them," said our Mr Baggins . . ." Gandalf to Bilbo ADVENTURES: "It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door: You step onto the road, and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to." Bilbo Baggin. ADVERSITY: Adversity has the same effect on a man that severe training has on the pugilist; it reduces him to his fighting weight. Josh Billings ADVERTISEMENTS: The most powerful art form on earth. Mark Fenske ADVERTISEMENTS: the richest and most faithful daily reflections that any society ever made of its entire range of activities. Marshall McLuhan ADVERTISING: Most advertising promises instant success, gratification, happiness. How you pay the bill is discussed later. Dick Keyes, Seeing Through Cynicism ADVICE: Advice is like kissing; it costs nothing and is a pleasant thing to do. Josh Billings ADVICE: Advice is seldom welcome. Those who need it most, like it least. Samuel Johnson ADVICE: No enemy is more damaging than bad advice. Sophocles, Electra AFFLUENCE: Affluence is a painful, contagious, socially transmitted condition of overload, debt, anxiety and waste resulting from the dogged pursuit of more. John de Graaf, PBS producer AFFLUENCE: We buy things we don’t need, made by people who don’t know or care about us, with money we don’t have, to impress people we don’t like. Dick Staub, The Culturally Savvy Christian AGNOSTICS: Amiable agnostics will take cheerfully about “man’s search for God.” To me, as I then was, they might as well have talked about the mouse’s search for the cat. C.S. Lewis. AMAZEMENT: There is no answer in the world to man’s amazement. Abraham Heschel AMBITION: If you deliberately plan to be less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be deeply unhappy for the rest of your life. Abraham Maslow AMBITION: Men’s ambition and their desire to make money are among the most frequent causes of deliberate acts of injustice. Aristotle, Politics AN AUTHORITATIVE GOD: Only if your God can say things that outrage you and make you struggle will you know you have gotten hold of a real God and not a figment of your imagination. So an authoritative Bible is not the enemy of a personal relationship with God. It is the precondition for it. Tim Keller, The Reason for God ANARCHY: Anarchy is the absence of any structure. ANGER: If a small thing has the power to make you angry, does that not indicate something about your size? Sydney J. Harris ANGER: the hardest battle I have had to fight, however, is one that no one knows about. It was a battle to control my own temper. That batter I never won until recent years. I now have won that fight and I consider it to be the hardest struggle – it certainly was the longest – of my career. Theodore Roosevelt ANSWERS: Someone, somewhere has to have a better answer. Jack Welch ANXIETY: The ancients looked at the anxious person and prescribed spiritual character change. Modernity talks instead about stress‐management techniques. Tim Keller, The Reason for God ANXIETY: We are plagued by anxiety, depression, vague discontent and a sense of inner emptiness. Christopher Lasch APATHY: Apatheism is a disinclination to care all that much about one’s own religion, and an even stronger disinclination to care about other people’s. APPRECIATION: The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated. William James ART: A work of art is someone’s act of attention, evoking ours. High Keanner, literary scholar ART: Art at its most significant is a distant Early Warning System that can always be relied on to tell the old culture what is about to happen to it. Marshall McLuhan ART: Art is a collaboration between God and the artist, and the less the artist does, the better. Andre Gide, Nobel Prize winner in literature ART: Art is a lie that makes us realize the truth. Pablo Picasso ART: Art is not a pleasure, a solace, or an amusement; art is a great matter. Art is an organ of human life, transmitting man’s reasonable perception into feeling. Tolstoy ART: Art is not what you see, but what you make others see. Edgar Degas painter ART: Art should cause violence to be set aside. Tolstoy ART: Art washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. Pablo Picasso ART: I was showing the America I knew and observed to others who might not have noticed. Norman Rockwell ART: The aim of art is to represent not the outward appearance of things, but their inward significance. Aristotle ART: The church is not the first place a creative genius would look to be trained in art. That statement alone reveals how much Christians have abdicated our responsibility to steward culture. Fujimura, Refractions ART: The first demand any work of art makes upon us is surrender. Look. Listen. Receive. Get yourself out of the way. Bruce Herman, An Experiment in Criticism ARTISTS: Artists are a canary in the cultural mines. Marshal McLuhan ARTISTS: Artists are often found at the margins of society, but they are, like the shepherds, often the first to notice the miracles taking place right in front of us. Fujimura, Refractions ARTISTS: Artists smell the poisoned air and sing. Fujimura, Refractions ATHEISM: A sort of crutch for those who can’t bear the reality of God. Tomn Stoppard ATHEISM: I want atheism to be true . . . It isn’t just that I don’t believe in God, and naturally, hope that I’m right in my belief. I don’t want there to be a God. Thomas Nagel, philosopher ATHEISM: There are no gods, no purposes, no goal-directed forces of any kind. There is no life after death. When I die, I am absolutely certain that I am going to be dead. That’s the end for me. There is no ultimate foundation for ethics, no ultimate meaning to life, and no free will for humans, either. William B. Provine, professor of Biological Sciences, Cornell University ATHEISM: We are here because one odd group of fishes had a peculiar fin anatomy that could transform into legs for terrestrial creatures, because comets struck the earth and wiped out dinosaurs, thereby giving mammals a chance not otherwise available. . . We may yearn for a “higher” answer, but none exists. Stephen Jay Gould ATHEISM: There is no God, no universe, no human race, no earthly life, no heaven, no hell. It is all a dream – a grotesque and foolish dream. Nothing exists but you, and you are but a thought, a useless thought, a homeless thought, wandering forlorn among the empty eternities. Mark Twain ATTENTION SPAN: Edutainment is a combination of education and entertainment that seeks to hold the interest of our increasingly shorter attention spans. ATTITUDE: A man is not hurt so much by what happens, as by his opinion of what happens. Michel De Montaigne ATTITUDE: the greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind. William James ATTITUDE: The winner’s edge is not in a gifted birth, in a high IQ, or in talent. The winner’s edge is in the attitude, not aptitude. Denis Waitley, author ATTITUDE: Your attitude, not your appitude, will determine your altitude. Zig Zigler AUTHENTICITY: To be authentic is literally to be your own author, to discover your native energies and desires, and then to find your own way of acting on them . . . When you write your own life, you have played the game that was natural for you to play. You have kept your covenant with your own promise. Warren Bennis AUTHENTICITY: Authentic leadership combines the quality of reality (things as they really are), identify (knowing who you really are) integrity (being who you really are), transperancy/vulnerability (displaying who you really are). Brian Rice AUTHORIAL INTENTION: The road to hell is paved with authorial intention. N.T. Wright AUTHORITY: Authority without wisdom is like a heavy axe without an edge, fitter to bruise than polish. Anne Bradstreet AUTHORITY: Ours is not to question why, ours is but to do or die. AUTHORITY: Society . . . is out of control because we are systematically destroying all of the authority and all of the control that our institutions once had. Peter Senge, Rethinking the Future BABYLON: We may live in the best Babylon in the world . . . but it is still Babylon, and we are called to come out of it. Tony Campolo BANK: A bank is a place that will lend you money if you can prove that you don’t need it. Bob Hope BEAUTY: Beautiful are the things we see, More beautiful those we understand, Most beautiful those we do not comprehend. Niels Steensen BEAUTY: What is beautiful is good and he who is good will soon also be beautiful. Sappho BEING: Life is a state of mind. “Being There” BELIEF: Man is what he believes. Anton Chekhov BELIEF: I do not seek to understand that I may believe, but I believe in order to understand. Anselm BELIEF: If you think you can do a thing or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right. Henry Ford BELIEF: One person with a belief is equal to a force of ninety-nine who have only interests. John Stuart Mill BENEDICTION, BLESSING: Long life. Honey in the Heart. No evil. And 13 thank‐yous. A parting blessing of the Tzutujil Indians of Guatemala BIBLE: No one understands scripture unless it is brought home to him, that is, unless he experiences it. Martin Luther BIOGRAPHY: There is no psychology; there is only biography and autobiography. Thomas Szasz, “antipsychiatrist” BLOGGING: Very few times in history do we have the opportunity to shape a new medium for communication. The blogosphere is one of those rare opportunities. Terry Teachout, Wall Street Journal BLOGS: For the first time ever, blogs convert readers and viewers into writers. And YouTube turns them into directors. Seth Godin, Meatball Sundae BOLDNESS: What you can do or think you can do, begin it. For boldness has magic, power, and genius in it. Goethe BOOKS: A book should serve as an ice‐axe to break the frozen sea within us. Franz Kafka BOOKS: A student who does not want his labor wasted must so read and reread some good writer that the author is changed, as it were into his flesh and blood. Martin Luther BOOKS: Books . . . are like lobster shells, we surround ourselves with’em, then we grow out of’em and leave’em behind, as evidence of our earlier stage of development. Dorothy Sayers BOOKS: Books are like imprisoned minds until someone takes them down from a shelf and frees them. Samuel Butler BOOKS: Books are the greatest of companions. Theodore Roosevelt BOOKS: If the book we are reading does not wake us, as with a fist hammering on our skull, why then do we read it. Franz Kafka BOOKS: In times when God seemed absent and life was unbearably lonely, books became my spiritual companions. Books keep me up late into the night. Books give comfort in the wee hours when sleep becomes a stranger. They teach me about people I have never met and ideas I have not yet considered. Books take me to places I may never see and times in history that I cannot visit. Their stories create new landscapes in my imagination. Rochelle Melander, A Generous Presence BOOKS: Never lend books, for no one ever returns them; the only books I have in my library are books that other folks have lent me. Anatole Francois Thibault BOOKS: No furniture is so charming as books. Sydney Smith BOOKS: Reading is a disease with me. Theodore Roosevelt BOOKS: Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested. Francis Bacon, Essays BOOKS/LOVE: But beware you be not swallowed up in books! An ounce of love is worth a pound of knowledge. John Wesley BOSSES: Employees don’t quite their companies, they quit their bosses. BROKEN: Every business has its broken washroom doors; its misdirections, its policies, procedures and methods that emphasize and reward wrong behavior, penalize or inhibit right behavior. Peter Drucker BUSINESS PURPOSE: There is only one valid definition of business purpose: to create a customer. Peter Drucker BUSY: The Chinese pictograph for busy is composed of two characters: heart and killing. BUSY: To allow oneself to be carried away by a multitude of conflicting concerns, to surrender to too many demands, to commit oneself to too many projects, to want to help everyone in everything, is to succumb to violence. Thomas Merton BUSY: There is more to life than merely increasing its speed. Gandhi BUSYNESS: I am so busy . . . as if our exhaustion were a trophy, our ability to withstand stress a mark of real character. The busier we are, the more important we seem to ourselves, and, we imagine, to others. Wayne Mueller, Sabbath BUYING: Buying is much more American than thinking. Andy Warhol CALLING, PASSION: Africa! Africa! Your sufferings have been the theme that has arrested and engages my heart – your sufferings no tongue can express; no Language impart. Wilberforce CALLING: For me it was merely a simple attraction, a heartfelt desire, a sort of emotional pull – and the happy inability to think of anything else. James Martin CALLING: God almighty has set before me two great objects: the suppression of the slave trade and the reformation of manners. Wilberforce CALLING: It is hoped and believed that the Lord has raised you up for the good of His church and for the good of the nation. John Newton writing to Wilberforce CAREERS: Successful careers are not planned. They develop when people are prepared for opportunities because they now their strengths, their method of work and their values. Peter Drucker, “Managing Oneself” CAUTION: Evolution favors the prudent neurotic. Robert Ornstein, The right Mind CEILINGS: No organization will rise above the passion of the leader. Ken Blanchard CELEBRITY: Shakespeare divided great men into three classes: those born great, those who achieved greatness, those who had greatness thrust upon them. It never occurred to him to mention those who hired public relations experts and press secretaries to make themselves look great. Daniel Boorstein CELEBRITY: Celebrity is possibly the most vital shaping force in our society. Richard Schickel, movie critic CELEBRITY: No country in the world is so driven by personality, has such a hunger to identify with personalities, larger‐than‐life personalities especially as America. Peter Jennings CHALLENGED, BEING: Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted. Emerson CHAMPIONS: Champions aren't made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them‐‐a desire, a dream, a vision. Muhammad Ali CHANGE: The real sadness of fifty is not that you change so much but that you change too little. Max Lerner CHANGE: In the digital era, change is not only the constant, it is the organizing principle and the foundation from which we build. No wonder we feel the turbulence of vertigo. Rex Miller, The Millennium Matrix CHANGE: Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world, indeed it’s the only thing that ever has. Margaret Mead CHANGE: Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has. Margaret Mead CHANGE: Only those most adaptive to change will survive. Darwin CHANGE: the future is now. Our world has changed. Even the dynamics of change have changed – and like it or not, we are all along for the ride. Rex Miller CHANGE: The largest enemy of change and leadership isn’t a “no.” It’s a “not yet.” “Not yet” is the safest, easiest way to forestall change. Seth Godin, Tribes CHANGE: To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly. Henri Bergson, philosopher CHANGE: Unless man quickly learns to control the rate of change in his personal affairs as well as society at large, we are doomed to massive adaptational breakdown. Alvin Toffler CHANGE: We are at that very point in teime when a 400 year old age is dying and another is struggling to be born – a shifting of culture, science, society and institutions enormously greater than the world has ever experienced. Dee Hock, the Trillion Dollar Vision CHANGE: We must always change, renew, rejuvenate ourselves; otherwise we harden. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe CHANGE: Be the change you wish to see in the world. Gandhi CHANGE: Change almost never fails because it’s too early. It almost always fails because it’s too late. Seth Godin, Tribes CHANGE: The driving reality of change requires the ability to adapt quickly. Adaptation requires that leaders continually scan the horizon; adjust to the ever-changing landscape, and reframe structure, mission, and resources to current realities. CHANGE: We are, at this very moment, passing through a change of age. Beneath a change of age lies a change of thought. Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, the Phenomenon of Man Change: When systems and structures are forced to undergo change, it creates enormous tension and insecurity, and often those people who call attention to these realities become the object of people’s fears and insecurities. It is easier to shoot the messenger than to be present to the complex realities that are being played out around us. Tim Keel, Intuitive Leadership CHARACTER, PERSEVERANCE: Evil cannot be done away with through one spasm of virtue. Theodore Roosevelt CHARACTER: Character is destiny. Heraclitus CHARACTER: Character is simply habit long continued. Plutarch, Morals CHARACTER: first say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do. Epictetus, Discourses CHARACTER: I have met with no character equal in any degree to his Lordship, his penetration is quick, judgment clear, wisdom great and his decisions correct and decided – nor does he in company appear to bear any weight on his mind, so cheerful and pleasant, that it is a happiness to be about his hand. John Scott writing about Horatio Nelson CHARACTER: In the leadership arena, character counts. I am not saying this casually. My convictions about character based leadership come from years of studies, observations, and interviews with leaders and with the people near them . . . I’ve never seen a person derailed from leadership positions for lack of technical competence. But I’ve seen lots of peole derailed for lack of judgment and character. Warren Bennis CHARACTER: It is character thorugh which leadership is exercised, it is character that sets the example. Peter Drucker CHARACTER: it is not merely the thing that is said, but the man that says it that counts, the character which breathes through the sentences. William Pitt the Elder CHARACTER: Man’s character is his fate. Heraclitus CHARACTER: Most of all, I believe whatever value my service may have, comes even more from what I am than from what I do. Theodore Roosevelt CHARACTER: No change of circumstances can repair a defect of character. Ralph Waldo Emerson CHARACTER: No man can lead a public career really worth leading, no man can act with rugged independence in serious crises, nor afford to make powerful and unscrupulous foes, if he is himself vulnerable in his private character . . . He must be clean of life so that he can laugh when his public or his private record is searched. Theodore Roosevelt CHARACTER: One quality cannot be learned, one qualification that the manager (leader) cannot acquire but must bring with him. It is not genius; it is character. Peter Drucker CHARACTER: Only perform such acts as you will not regret later. Pythagoras CHARACTER: Our aim is not to know what courage is but to be courageous, not to know what justice is but to be just, in the same way as we want to be healthy rather than to ascertain what health is, and to be in good condition of body, rather than to ascertain what good bodily condition is. Aristotle CHARACTER: Virtue is a state of war, and to live in it we have always to combat with ourselvesJean‐ Jacques Rousseau CHARACTER: We are to have a character that invites others to see the goodness of Christ and to be a character that intrigues and compels others to discover what it means to be forgiven and set free to live with passion and joy. Dan Allender, Leading Character CHARACTER: What is character but the determination of incident, what is incident but the illustration of character? Henry James CHARACTER: what you are speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you’re saying. Ralph Waldo Emerson CHARACTER: You can’t make a good deal with a bad person. Jimmy buffett CHARACTER: Character is a word that describes the default me. The person I am over the long haul in life. The person who emerges in the most difficult, challenging moments . . . Character then, is the deep current of what we are day after day after day. Gordon Macdonald CHARACTER: The virtue that is worth having is the virtue that can sustain the rough shock of actual living. Theodore Roosevelt CHARISMA: Dynamic leaders are the spark, the flame that ignites action. With vision, they generate and focus power . . . In their passion, their expansiveness, their drive, dynamic leaders are prone to excess: a deal too large, a bottom line too important, a cause too righteous, an image too pure, a lifestyle too rich, an enemy too hated, a bridge too far. Ira Chaleff, The Courageous Follower CHARISMA: For revivalists, as for actors, authority on stage derived not from erudition, nor from connections to elite society or respected institutions but from charisma – from their popularity as speakers, from their ability to personally connect with the audiences, from their authenticity and sincerity, and from the sill of their performances. Jeanne Kilde CHESS: Play the opening like a book, the middle game like a magician, and the engame like a machine. Rudolf Spielmann, Austrian CHILDREN: Children are better than books. Theodore Roosevelt CHILDREN: Oh, what a tangled web do parents weave, When they think their children are naïve. Ogden Nash CHOICES: Externals are not under my control; moral choice is under my control. Where am I to look for the good and evil? Within me, in that which is my own. Epictetus, Discourses CHOICES: Life is the sum of all your choices. Camus CHRIST: His teaching, even mangled and broken, have an incredible power to disrupt human systems, including the ones that claim to own him. Dallas Willard, Knowing Christ Today CHRIST: I believe because He fulfills none of my dreams, because He is in every respect the opposite of what He would be if I could have made Him in my own image. W.H. Auden CHRIST: Jesus Christ is a God whom we approach without pride, and before whom we humble ourselves without despair. Blaise Pascal CHRIST: Tell me your Christology and I will tell you who you are. Karl Barth,theologian CHRISTENDOM: The Christendom paradigm is coming apart at the seams. All the institutions and patterns of life that grew up during Christendom are having their foundations shaken . . . We live in the memory of great ways of understanding how to be a church and to be in mission. Those memories surround us like ruins of an ancient civilization. Loren Mead, the Once and Future Church CHRISTIANITY: If this is madness, I hope he will bite us all. A friend writing about Wilberforce’s conversion to Christianity CHRISTIANITY: The Christian ideal was not been tried and found wanting. It has been found difficult and left untried. G.K. Chesterton CHRISTIANS: Christians are people who let the reality of Jesus change everything about who they are, how they see, and how they live. Tim Keller, The Reason for God CHURCH AND STATE: Mixing the church and state is like mixing ice cream with cow manure. It may not do much to the manure, but it sure messes up the ice cream. Tony Campolo CHURCH: I have been learning a beautiful and harsh truth, that the Christian faith does not separate us from the world but immerses us in it; that the church, therefore, is not a fortress set apart from the city, but a follower of Jesus who loved, worked, struggled and died in the midst of the city. Archbishop Oscar Romero, Martyred CIRCUMSTANCES: Circumstances rule men and not men circumstances. Herodotus CLUELESS: Unfortunately, the disciples were most often the “duh!‐ciples” because they just didn’t get it. Len Sweet COACHING: A whole cottage industry has grown u around the teaching that good leaders ought to be good coaches. But that thinking assumes that a single person can both inspire the troops and impart necessary skills. Of course it is possible that great leaders may also be great coaches, but we see that only occasionally. Rob Gofee and Gareth Jones COMEDY: God writes a lot of comedy. Garrison Keillor COMFORT ZONES: Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. Mark Twain COMMITMENT: At the moment of commitment, the universe conspires to assist you. Goethe COMMITMENT: I saw the shallowness of my commitment. I saw the incompleteness of my love. Mine was a negotiated abandonment, and that meant it was not a true abandonment at all. Anne Rice, Called out of Darkness COMMITMENT: If your organization requires success before commitment, it will never have either. Seth Godin, Tribes COMMITMENT: Life is a great adventure, and you cannot with the great prizes unless you are willing to run certain risks, unless you are willing to pay certain penalties. Theodore Roosevelt COMMITTEE: A committee is a cul-de-sac down which ideas are lured and then quietly strangled. Sir Barnett Cocks COMMITTEE: A group of men who individually can do nothing but as a group decide that nothing can be done. Fred Allen COMMUNICATION, DISTORTION: I am interested in making up a good case for distortion, as I am coming to believe it is the only way to make people see. Flannery O’Conner Communication: Information is “giving out” while communication is “getting through.” Sydney Harris COMMUNICATION: The orator is the embodiment of the passions of the multitude. Before he can inspire them with any emotion he must be swayed by it himself. Before he can move their tears his own must flow. To convince them he must himself believe. Winston Churchill COMMUNICATION: To relate what we witness and try to make sense for others, of that long ago event, is what shepherding is all about. It is, I believe, job enough to keep us all meaningfully occupied for the rest of our lives. Jerry Levin COMMUNICATION: You can have brilliant ideas, but if you can’t get those ideas across, they don’t do anybody any good. Lee Iacocca. COMMUNICATION: I have been much concerned that in this world we have so largely lost the ability to talk with one another . . . We have had neither the time nor the skill nor the dedication to tell one another what we have learned, not to listen, nor to hear . . . We hunger for…the rare words and acts that harmonize simplicity and truth. COMMUNICATION: Nearly all leaders are eloquent in voice, and many are eloquent in writing as well. They do not merely have a promising story; they can tell it persuasively. A mark of the future leader is a generous degree of linguistic intelligence – the capacity and the inclination to use words well. When such linguistic intelligence is yoked to a considerable personal intelligence, one has the makings of an effective communicator and, perhaps a promising leader. Howard Gardner, Leading Minds COMMUNICATORS: What orators lack in depth, they make up in length. Charles de Montesquieu Community: He who loves his dream of community more than the Christian community itself becomes a destroyer of the latter; even though his personal intentions may be ever so honest and earnest and sacrificial. Dietrich Bonhoeffer COMMUNITY: It is distinctive of matured technological man that he must and can maintain a large number of contacts, which are decently personal and yet relatively noncommittal. Walter Ong, Presence of the Word COMPASSION: It is the task of a good man to help those in misfortune. Sophocles COMPASSION: No act of kindness, no matter how small is ever wasted. Aseop, Fables COMPETITION: If you work for the government, it’s dog eat dog. If you work in the corporate world it’s just the other way around. Anonymous radio announcer COMPLACENCY, ENTITLEMENT: The moment you believe you are entitled to something is exactly when you are ripe to lose it to someone who is fighting harder. COMPLACENCY: I’ve seen – both in myself and my competition – how satisfaction can lead to a lack of vigilance, then to mistakes and missed opportunities. Success and satisfaction may be our goals, but they can also lead to bad habits that will impede greater success and satisfaction. Gary Kasparov COMPLACENCY: Self-satisfaction accompanied by unawareness of actual dangers or deficiencies. Webster Dictionary COMPROMISE: Every civilization finds it necessary to negotiate compromises with its own values. Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir CONCLUSIONS: True conclusions cannot come from faulty assumptions. CONFIDENCE: We ought to do everything both cautiously and confidently at the same time. Epicetus, Discourses CONFLICT: To be human is to be in conflict, to offend and to be offended. John Howard Yoder CONFORMITY: it’s impossible to stand out when your goal in life is to fit in. CONFUSION: Life is one great big blooming, buzzing confusion. William James and David Naugle CONSEQUENCES: When from an evil action you have gained profit, know that you have married misery. Menander CONSISTENCY: One face to the world, another at home makes for misery. Amy Vanderbilt CONSULTANT: The client pays for the consultant’s mistake. The consultant gets no credit when the company does well. Peter Drucker CONSUMERISM: Buying is purposive activity motivated and directed by the belief that the consequences of buying make life that much happier. John O’Shaughnessy CONSUMERISM: Consumerism focuses entirely on this world and its pleasures, so that death itself is the ultimate disproof of all that consumers hold dear. It may be for this reason that in our era death is the great taboo topic that people rarely talk about. Gordon Wenham CONSUMERISM: Know not to revere human things too much. Aeschylus CONSUMERISM: The idea that Christianity and consumerism are completely compatible . . . is the great insanity of our times. Win Butler CONSUMERISM: How many things there are which I do not need. Socrates upon seeing an auction at a marketplace. CONTENTMENT: I make myself rich by making my wants few. Thoreau CONTROL: Sooner or later we will come to the edge of all that we can control and find life, waiting for us there. Rachel Naomi Remem, My Grandfather’s Blessing CONTROL: There is something which unties magic and applied science while separating both from the wisdom of earlier ages. For the wisdom of old the cardinal problem had been how to conform the soul to reality, and the solution and been knowledge, self‐discipline, and virtue. For magic and applied science alike the problem is how to subdue reality to the wishes of men: the solution is a technique and both, in the practice of this technique, are ready to do things hitherto regarded as disgusting and impious. C.S. Lewis CONVENTIONALITY: The conventional view serves to protect us from the painful job of thinking. John Kenneth Galbraith CONVERSATION: A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That’s why there are so few good conversations; due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet. Truman Capote CONVERSATION: Conversation is not simple. Good conversation is rare. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words CONVERSATIONS: What truly matters in our lives is measured through conversation. Peter Block, Stewardship: Choosing Service Over Self‐Interest CONVERSATIONS: A conversation is a dialogue, not a monologue. That’s why there are so few good conversations: due to scarcity, two intelligent talkers seldom meet. Truman Capote CONVERSATIONS: I have measured out my life with coffee spoons. T. S. Eliot CONVICTION OF SINFULNESS: It was not so much the fear of punishment by which I was affected, as a sense of my great sinfulness in having so long neglected the unspeakable mercies of my God and Saviour; and such was the effect which this thought produce, that for months I was in a state of the deepest depression, from strong convictions of my guilt. Indeed nothing which I have ever read in the accounts of others, exceeded what I then felt. Wilberforce COUNTER‐CULTURAL: If Jesus preached in New York what he preached in Galilee, we’d lay him in his grave again. (Woody Guthrie) I guess that’s why we hear a lot about God’s blessing and God expanding our territory, but very little about a cross or love for enemies. Shane Claiborne COUNTER‐CULTURAL: The greatest paradox and humor of God’s audacious power; a stuttering prophet will be the voice of God, a barren old lady will become the mother of a nation, a shepherd boy will become their king, and a homeless baby will lead them. Shane Claiborne COURAGE: The bravest are surely those who have the clearest vision of what is before them, glory and danger alike, and, nothwithstanding, go out to face it. Thucydides, the History of the Peloponnesian War COURAGE: Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman, before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish into air. John Quincy Adams COURAGE: Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear; not absence of fear. Mark Twain COURAGE: Courage is rightly esteemed to be the first of human qualities because it is the quality which guarantees all others. Winston Churchill COURAGE: Courage is the ladder on which all the other virtues mount. Clare Booth Luce COURAGE: Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen. Winston Churchill COURAGE: Fortune is not on the side of the fainthearted. Sophocles, Phaedra COURAGE: God will not have his work manifest by cowards. Ralph Waldo Emerson COURAGE: History, despite its wrenching pain, cannot be unlived, but if faced with courage, need not be lived again. Maya Angelou COURAGE: Tell a man he is brace, and you help him become so. Thomas Carlyle COURAGE: The task of leaders is to say no to what is wrong and evil. I wish I could have been more courageous . . . I played a very large part in bringing about the demise of a firm that I had been a large part of for 23 years, and that I loved. William Durbin, chairman of the Board for the law firm of Justin and Gilchirst COURAGE: The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. Martin Luther King, Jr. COURAGE: What counts is not necessarily the size of the dog in the fight‐‐ it's the size of the fight in the dog. Dwight D. Eisenhower COURAGE: When the Nazis came to get the Communists, I was silent, because I was not a communist. When they came to get the Socialists, I was silent. When they came to get the Catholics I was silent. When they came to get the Jews,I was silent. And when they came to get me, there was no one left to speak. Martin Niemoeller, Confessing Pastor of the Lutheran Church COURAGE: You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the things which you think you cannot. Eleanor Roosevelt COURAGE: Always do the things you fear the most. Courage is an acquired taste, like caviar. Erica Jong CREATIVITY, CHAOS: You must harbor chaos if you wish to give birth to a dancing star. Friedrich Nietzsche CREATIVITY: Creativity is about coming out of hiding and exposing yourself. Practicing creativity is about humiliating yourself in public. Doug Hall, Jump Start Your Business Brain CREATIVITY: Creativity is just connecting things. Steve Jobs CREATIVITY: The failure to think creatively is as much self-imposed as it is imposed by the parameters of our jobs and our lives. “What if” often leads to “Why not” (or what now) and at that point we must summon our courage and find out. Gary Kasparov CREDIBILITY: Here is a great question to ask: Why would anyone want to be led by you? CREDIBILITY: The word of command is useless in the fight unless a reasonable number of those to whom it is uttered not only listen to it but act upon it; and the man who utters it will not find that the other men to whom he utters it will pay much heed to it unless they know that he is prepared himself to show the way. Theodore Roosevelt CRISIS: A crisis is a terrible thing to waste. Dick Clark, CEO Merck CRISIS: Moments of crisis produce a redoubling of life in man. Chateaubriand CRISIS: The soul gets by on a series of crises. E. Stanley Jones CRITICISM: He has the right to criticize who has the heart to help. Abraham Lincoln CRITICISM: it is better to go steadily in the discharge of duty to the best of our ability, leaving all eles to the calmer judgment of the future and to a kinder Province. CRITICISM: No one ever does anything worthwhile for which they are not criticized. CRITICISM: Nothing is more helpful than criticism, provided the criticism is in good faith . . . that is, it is honest, intelligent, and meant to aid instead of hamper. Theodore Roosevelt CRITICISM: Swim up stream. Go the other way. Ignore the conventional wisdom. But be prepared for a lot of folks to wave you down and tell you you’re headed the wrong way. Sam Walton CRITICISM: The trouble with most of us is that we would rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism. Norman Vincent Peale CRITICISM: There are many occasions when the highest praise one can receive is the attack of some given scoundrel. Theodore Roosevelt CRITICIZED, BEING: Ronald Reagan – called old, senile, not grasping the complexities of global issues; Fred Astair – can’t act, can’t sing, slightly bald, can dance a little; Lucille Ball – don’t pay attention to her. She’s great at parties, but I can’t see any future for her in movies; Clark Gable - will fall on his face in his new role in Gone With the Wind; Elvis Presley – you ain’t going nowhere son, you ought to go back to driving a truck; Albert Einsten – shows no promise; Charles Lindbergh – He will never make it across the Atlantic, he’s doomed. CRITICS: Critics are like pigs at the pastry cart. John Updike Crosses: The people who bear crosses are working with the grain of the universe. John Howard Yoder CULTURE: Company cultures are like country cultures. Never try to change one. Try, instead, to work with what you’ve got. CULTURE: Disciples do not follow the gospel in a vacuum but wend their Christian way through particular times and places, each with its own problems and possibilities. Kevin Vanhoozer. CULTURE: My first language is broadcast, my second is print, and my most recent is digital. The difference between my approach to using the computer and my children’s is obvious . . . I work with my computer, but my children live with it. Rex Miller, The Millennium Matrix CULTURE: the ideal of culture as thanksgiving was replaced by culture as a statement of autonomy. Theodore Turnau CURIOSITY: Remaining receptive to unpackaged reality will inolve vigilance and curiosity and determined hospitality. It will require an eye and an ear for new stories. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything CURIOSITY: The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing. One cannot help but be in awe when he contemplates the mysteries of eternity, of life, of the marvelous structure of reality. It is enough if one tries merely to comprehend a little of this mystery every day. Never lose a holy curiosity. CUSTOMERS: The paramount job of every single employee in an organization is to, directly or indirectly, get and keep customers. Jeffrey Fox, How to Become a Rainmaker CYNICISM: I am not at all cynical, I’m only experienced – that’s pretty much the same thing. Oscar Wilde CYNICISM: If I am saved from cynicism at all it is by some sense of personal loyalty to the spirit and genius of Christ. Reinhold Niebuhr CYNICISM: No matter how cynical you get, it’s never enough to keep up. Lily Tomlin CYNICISM: Reality’s a nice place to visit, but you wouldn’t want to live there. John Barth CYNICISM: Cynicism dominates the assumptions of our political and cultural life. We not only do not recognize the cynicism; we confuse it with democratic deliberation and political wisdom. Jeffrey Goldfarb CYNICISM: No cynicism can outdo life. Anton Chekov DARK SIDE: Leaders . . . often bring with that the baggage of being a loner, a need for achievement and recognition, the instincts for competition, a tendency toward political maneuvering, the quest for power or control, the fear of losing that control, and the insecurity of not being able to live up to their advertising. Rex Miller, The Millenium Matrix DEAD HORSE: When you discover you are riding a dead horse. Dismount. Dakota Indian proverb DEATH: Dying is about becoming more human. DEBATE: it is good to rub and polish our brain against that of others. Michel de Montaigne DECEIT: Argument turns into banter, analysis into fatuous assertion. George Steiner DECISION MAKING: Few things are less likely to succeed than hasty person decisions. And the same applies to most of the other top-management decisions. Peter Drucker DECISION MAKING: I’ve learned one thing in politics. You don’t make a decision until you have to. Margaret Thatcher DECISION MAKING: If there is no benefit to making the decision at the moment and no penalty in delaying it, use that time to improve yoru evaluation, to gther more information, and to examine other options. Gary Kasparov DECISION MAKING: Opposite paris working in harmony; this has become a theme of our quest to perfect decision-making. Calculation and evaluation. Patience and opportunism, intuition and analysis, style and objectivity…Success comes from balancing these forces and harnessing their inherent power. Gary Kasparov DECISION MAKING: Without a decision maker, you’ll never make a decision. Peter Drucker DECISIONS: Any human decision or action starts to get old the moment it has been made. Peter Drucker DECISIONS: If you board the wrong train, it is no use running along the corridor in the other direction. Dietrich Bonhhoeffer DECISIONS: Make good decisions and you’ll succeed, make bad ones and you’ll fail. Gary Kasparov DECISIONS: the most important decisions we make in life are not made by post‐Enlightenment left‐ brain rationality alone. N. T. Wright DECLINE: Every institution is vulnerable, no matter how great. No matter how much you’ve achieved, no matter how far you’ve gone, no matter how much power you’ve garnered, you are vulnerable to decline. Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall DECLINE: I’ve concluded there are more ways to fall than to become great. . Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall DECLINE: while no leader can single-handedly build an enduring great company, the wrong leader vested with power can almost single-handedly bring a company down. . Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall DEDICATION, UNDERSTANDING: It takes a passionate commitment to really thoroughly understand something, chew it up, not just quickly swallow it. Most people don’t take the time to do that. Steve Jobs DEEP GENERALIST: Never have I seen or read of a man with such an amazing array of interests. Edumund Morris speaking about Theordore Roosevelt DEFINE REALITY: The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. Max DePree, in The Art of Leadership DEFINITION: All of the great leaders have had one characteristic in common: it was the willingness to confront unequivocally the major anxiety of their people in their time. This, and not much else, is the essence of leadership. John Kenneth Galbraith DEMOCRACY: As I would not be a slave, so I would not be a master. This expresses my idea of democracy. Abraham Lincoln DEPRESSION: People have always been depressed, but – during the early eighties – there just seemed to be this overwhelming public consensus that being depressed was the most normal thing anyone could be. In fact, being depressed sort of meant you were smart. Chuck Klosterman, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs DESIRE: If you don’t get what you want, it is a sign either that you did not seriously want it, or that you tried to bargain over the price. Rudyard Kipling DESIRE: Lord, grant that I may always desire more than I can accomplish. Michelangelo DESIRING GOD: We usually begin the journey toward God thinking, “What do I have to do to get this or that from him?” But eventually we have to begin thinking, “What do I have to do to get him?” If you don’t make that transition, you will never actually meet the real God, but will only end up believing in some caricature version of him. Tim Keller, The Reason for God DESTINATION: Light at the end of the tunnel, hell, we don’t even have a tunnel; we don’t even know where the tunnel is. President Johnson talking about the Vietnam war DETERMINATION; What most of us lack is not knowledge of the faith but the spiritual determination to carry out what we already know, regardless of the personal consequences. James Houston DETERMINATION: Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing. Abraham Lincoln DETERMINATION: We can do anything we want to if we stick to it long enough. Helen Keller DIALOGUE: Crushing truths are lightened by their acknowledgement. Remember again. Remember rightly. Re‐vision. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything DIALOGUE: Have more talk. Shakespeare DIALOGUE: To get others to come into our ways of thinking, we must go over to theirs; and it is necessary to follow, in order to lead. William Hazlitt DIALOGUE: Whoever is afraid of dialogue is hiding something. Sheikh Reda Shata DIFFICULTIES: It is difficulties that show what men are. Epicetus, Discourses DIFFICULTY: Every difficulty slurred over will be a ghost to disturb your repose later on. Frederic Chopin DIFFICULTY: The period of great gain in knowledge and experience is the most difficult period in one’s life. 14th Dalai Lama DIGNITY: Our lives are of great worth if we accept with good grace the situation Providence places us in and go on living lovingly. Takashi Nagai DISCERNMENT: Frivolity, inexperience, simplicity believe everything that is said; vanity, conceit, selfsatisfaction believe everything flattering that is said; envy, spite, corruption believe everything evil that is said; mistrust believes nothing at all. Soren Kierkegaard, Works of Love DISCERNMENT: One recognizes one’s course by discovering the paths that stray from it. Albert Camus DISCIPLINE, INTENTIONALITY: If discipline sounds dull, or even impossible in today’s fast-paced world, you should take a few minutes to consider how you might benefit from targeting just a few small areas of your life for efficiency. Having a good work ethic doesn’t mean being a fanatic, it means being aware and then taking action. Gary Kasparov DISCIPLINE: Discipline is doing what you really don’t want to do so that you can do what you really want to do. John Maxwell DISCIPLINE: If you wish to be a good reader, read; if you wish to be a good writer, write. Epictetus, Discourses DISCIPLINE: Discipline is all about cultivating habits that become part of your lifestyle. Robin Crow DISCIPLINE: No life can ever grow great until it is focused, dedicated and disciplined. Harry Emerson Fosdick DISCIPLINE: You will never be the person you can be if pressure, tension and discipline are taken out of your life. Herbert Bayard Swope DISCOVERY: One does not discover new continents without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time. Andre Gide DISILLUSIONMENT: Never have people been more the masters of their environment. Yet never has a people felt more deceived and disappointed. For never has a people expected so much more than the world could offer. Daniel Boorstein, The Image DISSATISFACTION, OF SELF: We are never so much disposed to quarrel with others as when we are dissatisfied with ourselves. William Hazlitt DOUBT, ABOUT ATHEISM: The horrid doubt always arises whether the convictions of man’s mind, which has been developed from the mind of the lower animals, are of any value or at all trustworthy. Charles Darwin DOUBT: A man was meant to be doubtful about himself, but undoubting about truth. This has been exactly reversed. We are on the road to producing a race of men too mentally modest to believe in the multiplication table. Chesterton DREAM: You are never to old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. C.S. Lewis DREAMS: However vague they are, dreams have a way of concealing themselves and leave us no peach until they are translated into reality, like seeds germinating underground, sure to sprout in their search for the sunlight. Lin Yutang DUALISMS: Our mind is capable of passing beyond the dividing line we have drawn for it. Beyond the pairs of opposites of which the world consists, other, new insights begin. Hermann Hesse DUMBED-DOWN: Accessble is not the same as dumbed-down. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words EASTER: Easter means that in a world where injustice, violence and degradation are endemic, God is not prepared to tolerate such things – and that we will work and plan, with all the energy of God, to implement victory of Jesus over them all. Tim Keller, The Reason for God ECONOMISTS: Economists are people who see something works in practice and wonder if it would work in theory. Ronald Reagan. Eden: Even if we were to find another Eden we would not be fit to enjoy it perfectly nor stay in it forever. Henry Van Dyke EDEN: Even should we find another Eden, we would not be fit to enjoy it perfectly nor stay in it forever. Henry van Dyke EDUCATION: An education isn't how much you have committed to memory, or even how much you know. It's being able to differentiate between what you know and what you don't. Anatole France EDUCATION: Education is not the filling of a bucket, but the lighting of a fire. William Butler Yeats EFFECTIVENESS: Effective leaders – and effective people understand that there is no difference between becoming an effective leader and becoming a fully integrated human being. Warren Bennis EFFECTIVENESS: An effective leader is not someone who is loved or admired, buts someone whose followers do the right things. Popularity is not leadership; results are. Mentoring is all about reproducing your values (and results) in others. Pat Mesiti EFFECTIVENESS: Effectiveness is, after all, not a subject, but a self‐discipline. Peter Drucker EFFORT: I wish to preach, not the doctrine of ignoble ease, but the doctrine of the strenuous life, the life of toil and effort, of labor and strife; to preach that highest form of success which comes, not to the man who desires mere easy peace, but to the man who does not shrink from danger, from hardship, or from bitter toil, and who out of these wins the splendid ultimate triumph. Theodore Roosevelt EGO: Beware small generals. EGO: Remember, you are just an extra in everyone else’s play. F.D.R. EGO: The presence of a gargantuan personal ego contributes significantly to the failure of companies. Charismatic leaders succeed admirably in achieving their personal ambitions, but they fall short when it comes to building and sustaining great companies. Jim Collins, From Good to Great EGO: The great majority of heads of government, in my experience, are hardened egoists, corrupted by exercising power even if not already corrupted by getting there. Paul Johnson, Heroes ELDERLY: It is good even for old men to learn wisdom. Aeschylus ELDERLY: Old age and the passage of time teach us everything. Sophocles ELDERLY: Seek the friendship of the elderly. Strabo ELOQUENCE: Eloquence is the poetry of prose. William Bryant EMPATHY: The human psyche isn’t designed to withstand the full gravity of planetary suffering. Numbness and exhaustion are natural reactions. Feeling helpless and hopeless is nearly inevitable. The heart can only stretch so far so many times before it is worn thin and wrong dry. Shane Hipps EMPOWERING OTHERS: A leader is best when people barely know he exists. Not so good when people obey and acclaim him. Worse when they despise him. But of a good leader who talks little when his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say, “We did it ourselves.” Lao-Tzu (604-531 BC) EMPOWERING: (Words on the tombstone of Andrew Carneigie, the father of the U.S.steel industry) here lies a man who knew how to bring into his service, men better than he was himself. EMPOWERING: If you want to build for one year from now, grow wheat. If you want to build for ten years from now, grow trees. If you want to build for one hundred years from now, grow people. Chinese proverb EMPOWERING: It’s easy to hire, but it’s much harder to develop . . . If you want to grow your organization, you have to grow your people first. Howard Behar, It’s Not About the Coffee EMPOWERING: No man will make a great leader who wants to do it all himself, or to get all the credit for doing it. Andrew Carnegie EMPOWERING: The best minute spent is one I invest in people. Ken Blanchard, The One Minute Manager EMPTINESS: This is one of our fears of quiet; if we stop and listen, we will hear this emptiness. Wayne Mueller, Sabbath END TIMES: if the world has not approached its end, it has reached a major watershed in history, equal in importance of the turn from the Middle ages to the Renaissance. It will demand from us a spiritual blaze; we shall have to rise to a new height of vision, to a new level of life. Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn ENEMIES: Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them. Abraham Lincoln ENEMIES: If a man has a very decided character, has a strongly accentuated career, it is normally the case of course that he makes ardent friends and bitter enemies. Theodore Roosevelt ENEMIES: Pay attention to your enemies because they are the first to discover your mistakes. Antisthenes ENEMY: It is the enemy who can truly teach us to practice the virtues of compassion and tolerance. 14th Dalai Lama ENTERTAINMENT: Anyone who tries to make a distinction between education and entertainment doesn’t know the first thing about either. Marshall McLuhan ENTERTAINMENT: I really believe entertainment in a lot of ways has become a way for people to come together. It has, in fact, become – I’m convinced of this, it’s become a replacement for religion; in the same way people used to quote scripture, they’re now quoting Seinfeld. Michael Wolfe ENTERTAINMENT: It is not any “ism” but entertainment that is arguably the most pervasive, powerful, and ineluctable force of our time – a force so overwhelming that is has finally metastasized into life. Neil Gabler, Life the Movie ENTERTAINMENT: We don’t need to worry about people unconsciously absorbing archaic, secret message when they’re six years old; we need to worry about all the entertaining messages people are consciously accepting when they’re twenty‐six. Chuck Klosterman, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs ENTHUSIASM: Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm. Ralph Waldo Emerson ENTHUSIASM: Nothing great was ever achieved without enthusiasm. Ralph Waldo Emerson ENVY: Debunking others is envy’s defining mission. David Naugel, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives ENVY: Each vainly magnifies his own success. Resents his fellow’s, wishes it were less. William Cowper ENVY: Envy cannot bear to admire or respect, it cannot . . . be grateful. Dorothy Sayers ENVY: Few men have the natural strength to honor a friend’s success without envy. Aeschylus ENVY: The consuming desire to have everybody else as unsuccessful as you are. Frederick Buecnher ENVY/UNHAPPINESS: An agreeable sensation arising from contemplating the misery of another. The Devil’s Dictionary EVIL: Great men are almost always bad men. Lord Acton EVIL: It’s not enough not to be evil. We also actively try to be good. Sergey Brin, Google EVIL: Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from a religious conviction. Blaise Pascal EVIL: Nothing is easier than to denounce the evildoer; nothing is more difficult than to understand him. Fyodor Dostoevsky EVIL: The only way for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing. Edmund Burke EVOLUTION: Evolution didn’t create the human animal to be happy. We’re not designed to reach a continuous state of happiness. Evolution created in humans an animal who always wants more. David Buss, in Urban Tribes EXAMPLE, LEAD BY: You don’t lead by pointing a finger and telling people someplace to go. You lead by going to that place and making a case. Ken Kesey EXAMPLE: Example is contagious behavior. Charles Reade, 19th century English novelist EXAMPLE: Example is not the main thing in influencing others, it is the only thing. Albert Schweitzer EXAMPLE: Example is the most potent of all things . . . You must feel that the most effective way in which you can preach is by your practice. Theodore Roosevelt EXAMPLE: Example is the most potent of all things. Theodore Roosevelt EXAMPLE: the story of Theodore Roosevelt is the story of a small boy who read about great men and decided that he wanted to be like them . . . and he succeeded. Hermann Hagedorn EXCELLENCE; Excellence is doing the best we can with what we have. Bill Hybels EXCELLENCE: Excellence is not an act but a habit. Aristotle EXCELLENCE: Nature has proclaimed that difficulty should precede every work of excellence. Quintillian EXCELLENCE: Once you fly, you will walk with your eyes skyward. For there you have been and there you will go again. Leonardo da Vinci EXCELLENCE: We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. Aristotle EXCELLENCE: The key to pursuing excellence is to embrace an organic, long-term learning process, and not to live in a shell of static, safe mediocrity. Usually growth comes at the expense of pervious comfort or safety. Josh Waitzkin EXCELLENCE: What is the difference that allows some to fit into that narrow window to the top? And, what is the point? If ambition spells probably disappointment, why pursue excellence? In my opinion, the answer to both questions lies in a well-thought-out approach that inspires resilience, the ability to make connections between diverse pursuits, and day-to-day enjoyment of the process. The vast majority of motivated people, young and old, make terrible mistakes in their approach to learning. Josh Waitzkin EXECUTION: Execution is the strategy. EXECUTION: Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do. Goethe EXECUTION: Execution is the strategy. Sam Geist EXPERIENCE: Experience is a matter of sensibility and intuition, of seeing and hearing, the significant things, of paying attention at the right moment, of understanding and coordinating. Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him. Aldous Huxley EXPERIENCING GOD: Thinking about God is no substitute for tasting God and talking about God is no substitute for giving people ways to experience God. Matthew Fox EXPERTISE: Once we reach a certain level of expertise at a given discipline and our knowledge is expansive, the critical issue becomes: how is all this stuff navigated and put to use? I believe the answers to this question are the gateway to the most esoteric levels of elite performance. Josh Waitzkin EXPERTS: Never try to be an expert if you are not. Build on your strengths and find strong people to do the other necessary tasks. Peter Drucker EXPLORE: Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Ralph Waldo Emerson EXPOSURE: The fact is, you’re always on the record, everyone is a critic (or could me), and the Web remembers forever. Seth Godin, Meatball Sundae FAILURE, CREATIVITY: You can’t create without making messes and generating chaos and blundering down blind alleys and crawling back up again – you can’t create with those efforts which end in disaster, because it’s the disasters which show you how to get things right. Eric Tucker, High Flyer FAILURE, DEFEAT: Only an inexperienced soldier belives that all is lost after being defeated for the first time. Simon Bolivar FAILURE: A leader’s failure is never isolated, involving only the leader. Usually the failure of a leader involves basic patterns of hiding and blaming throughout the whole organization, patterns that must be uprooted. Dan Allender, Leading Character FAILURE: Everything fails. It is just a matter of when. Henry Petroski, To Engineer is Human FAILURE: Failure is not an option. Gene Kranz, Apollo 13 Failure: Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently. Henry Ford FAILURE: God uses people who fail – cause there aren’t any other kinds around. Unknown FAILURE: He who has never failed somewhere, that man can not be great. Herman Melville FAILURE: I can asure you that there is the greatest practical benefit in making a few failures early in life. T.H. Huxley FAILURE: I learnt what one ought not to do – and that is always something. Duke of Wellington FAILURE: If you are not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're playing it safe. Woody Allen FAILURE: If you are not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're playing it safe. Woody Allen FAILURE: If you fell down yesterday, stand up today. H.G. Wells FAILURE: If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down but the staying down. Mary Pickford Failure: The fact that you have been knocked down is interesting, but the length of time you remain down is important. Austin O’Malley FAILURE: The man who has never made any mistakes has never made anything. Theodore Roosevelt FAITH: Faith as the plain man knows, is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. Elton Trueblood, apologist FAITH: Faith is not belief in spite of evidence, but life in scorn of consequences. Kirsopp Lake, New FAITH: I believe that god can and will bring good out of evil. For that purpose he needs men who make the best use of everything. I believe God will give us all the power we need to resist in all time of distress. But he never gives it in advance, lest we should rely upon ourselves and not on him alone. Dietrich Bonhoeffer FAITH: My hosanna has passed through the purgatory of doubt. Dyodor Dostoyevsky FAME: At a young age, I came to know that there is something profoundly hollow about the nature of fame. Josh Waitzkin (8 time national chess champion, holder of 21 national martial arts championships and world championships) FAMILIARITY: Though familiarity may not breed contempt, it takes off the edge of admiration. William Hazlitt FANATIC: A fanatic is someone who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything FANATICISM: They charge me with fanaticism. If to be feelingly alive to the sufferings of my fellowcreatures is to be a fanatic, I am one of the most incurable fanatics ever permitted to be at large. William Wilberforce FATE: The lot of man – to suffer and die. Homer FEAR: When men are ruled by fear, they strive to prevent the very changes that will abate it. Alan Paton FEAR: As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. Nelson Mandela FEAR: Fear is a pair of handcuffs on your soul. Faye Dunaway FEAR: He has not learned the lesson of life who does not every day surmount a fear. Ralph Waldo Emerson FEAR: I’ve grown certain that the root of all fear is that we’ve been forced to deny who we are. Frances Moore Lappe FEAR: No passion so effectually robs the mind of all its powers of acting and reasoning as fear. Edmund Burke FEAR: Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less. Marie Curie FEAR: There are only a few things in life from which I derive intense pleasure, speaking is not one of them. Churchill FEAR: There are very few monsters who warrant the fear we have of them. Andre Gide FEAR: There’s been very little written about scaring the pants off employees to improve results. But as Richard Nixon said, “people react to fear, not love – they don’t teach that in Sunday School, but it’s true.” Leander Kahney, Inside Steve’s Brain FEAR: We must travel in the direction of our fear. John Berryman FEAR: You miss 100% of the shots you never take. Wayne Gretzky (the Great One) FLATTERY: Abhor flatterers as you would deceivers; for both, if trusted, inure those who trust them. Isocrates FLATTERY: Flattery is like cologne water, to be smelt of, but not swallowed. Josh Billings FOCUS: Focus means saying no. Steve Jobs FOCUS: It is not enough to be busy, so too are the ants. The question is what are we busy about? David Thoreau FOCUS: The ability to identify and focus on the few necessary things is a hallmark of great leadership. Andy Stanley FOCUS: The power to organize and concentrate wholly upon a given matter, in an instant, leaving nothing out, and then, when this is dispatched, drop it as if it had never existed, and go on to the next matter. Owen Wister FOCUS: What counts is not the number of hours you put in, but how much you put in the hours. FOOLISHNESS: If fifty million people say a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing. Anatole Francois Thibault FOOLS: Any fool can find fault, but it takes a winner to find solutions. Chris Brady FOOTBALL: Football is a mistake. It combines two of the worst elements of American life: violence and committee meetings. George F. Will FREEDOM: If you want total security, go to prison. There you're fed, clothed, given medical care and so on. The only thing lacking . . . is freedom. Dwight D. Eisenhower FREEDOM: In many areas of life, freedom is no so much the absence of restrictions as finding the right nes, the liberating restrictions . . . If we can only grow intellectually, vocationally, and physically through judicious constraints – why would it not also be true for spiritual and moral growth. Tim Keller, The Reason for God FREEDOM: Man is born free, and everywhere he is in chains. Rousseau FREEDOM: The freedom question, then, is not whether we can do whatever we want but whether we can do what we most deeply want. Gerald May, The Awakened heart FRIENDS: He (Charles de Gaulle) had devoted followers, but no friends. Paul Johnson, Heroes FRIENDS: If you want a friend in Washington, get a dog. Harry Truman FRIENDS: Other dogs bit their enemies. I bite my friends for their salvation. Diogenes FRIENDSHIP WITH CHRIST: To know him in yoru world now is to live interactively with him right where you are in your daily activities. Dallas Willard, Knowing Christ Today FRIENDSHIP, ENVY: Every time a friend succeeds, I die a little. Gore Vidal FRIENDSHIP: Many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart. Eleanor Roosevelt FRIENDSHIP: Opposition is true friendship. William Blake FRIENDSHIP: The only way to have a friend is to be one. Ralph Waldo Emerson FUTURE: The future is not a result of choices among alternative paths offered by the present, but a place that is created – created first in the mind and will, created next in activity. The future is not some place we are going to, but one we are creating. GARDENING: To see plants rise from the earth and flourish by the superior skill and bounty of the labourer fills a contemplative mind with ideas which are more easy to be conceived then expressed. The more I am acquainted with agricultural affairs, the better I am pleased with them. I can nowhere find so great satisfaction as in those innocent and useful pursuits. George Washington GENEROSITY: Generous and authentic leadership will always defeat the selfish efforts of someone doing it just because she can. Seth Godin. Tribes GENIUS: he (Wittgenstein) was perhaps the most perfect example I have ever known of a genius as traditionally conceived, passionate, profound, intense and domineering.” Bertrand Russell GENIUS: No institution can possibly survive if it needs geniuses or supermen to manage it. Peter Drucker GENIUS: Talent hits a target no one else can hit. Genius hits a target no one else can see. Arthur Schopenhauer GLORY OF GOD: Earth’s crammed with heaven, And every common bush aflame with God: But only he who sees, takes off his shoes, The rest sit round it, and pluck blackberries. Elizabeth Barrett Browning GLORY: Glory is a powerful incentive. Inevitably dreams are dashed, hearts are broken, most fall short of their expectations because there is little room at the top . . . The world of actors and musicians is brimming with huge expectations, wild competitiveness, and a tiny window of realistic possibility. Josh Waitzkin GLUTTONY: A glutton is one who raids the icebox for a cure for spiritual malnutrition. Frederick Buechner GOALS: Goals are emotional. If a goal is not working for you, you’re not connected to it. Raise it, make it meaningful, make it touch something in you that you want. Or take it off your list. Howard Behar GOALS: Regardless of the methods we use to motivate ourselves, we have to create our own goals and standards and then keep raising them. Gary Kasparov GOALS/PLANS: Without goals and plans to reach them, you are like a ship that has set sail with no destination. Fitzhugh Dodson GOD: God is of no importance unless he is of supreme importance. Abraham heschel GOD: God, then, is our spouse and sovereign, and claims exclusive rights to our love and loyalty. If we succumb to idolatry, we are guilty of infidelity and disloyalty. David Naugel, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives GOD: Take God very seriously but don’t take yourself seriously at all. Teresa of Avila GOD: The hardness of God is kinder than the softness of man, and His compulsion is our liberation. C.S. Lewis, Surprised by Joy GOD: We are talking about God; so why are you surprised if you cannot grasp it? I mean, if you can grasp it, it isn’t God. Augustine GOD: We want God to be palatable and to fit our needs and realities, so we don’t have to practice a daily discipline. Fujimura, Refractions GOD’S WILL: God’s will is the best thing that could happen to us under any circumstances. Danny Morris and Charles Olsen, Discerning God’s Will Together GOD’S WILL: I distrust those people who know so well what god wants them to do, because I know it always coincides with their own desires. Susan B. Anthony GODs: The gods we worship write their names on our faces; be sure of that. Therefore it behooves us to be careful what we worship, for what we are worshipping we are becoming. Emerson Good and Evil: In general, good and evil grow together, intertwine around each other, and grow out of each other in remarkable and complicated ways. Cornelius Plantinga GOOD AND EVIL: There is only one good, namely knowledge, and one only evil, namely, ignorance. Socrates GOOD: There is no such thing as a good man. Good for what is the question. Peter Drucker GOODNESS: Badness can be got easily and in shoals; the road to her is smooth and she lives very near us. But between us and goodness the gods have placed the sweat of our brows; long and steep is the path that leads to her. Hesiod, Works and Days GOODNESS: Evil rolls across the ages, but so does good. Good has its own momentum. Corruption never wholly succeeds. Creation is stronger than sin and grace stronger still. Creation and grace are anvils that have worn out a lot of our hammers. Cornelius Plantinga Jr., Not the Way Its Suppose to Be GOOGLE: I think, therefore I Goggle. David Smith, columnist, The Guardian GOOGLE: It’s Google’s world. WE just live in it. Chris Tulles, vice-president, Topix Inc. GOVERNMENT: Government does not solve problems. It subsidizes them. Ronald Reagan GOVERNMENT: Giving money and power to the government is like giving whiskey and car keys to teenage boys. P. J. O’Rourke, Parliament of Whores GRACE: Alas, my poor heart, here we are, fallen into the pit we were so firmly resolved to avoid! Well, we must get up again and leave it forever. St. Francis de Sales GRACE: Grace is a curious thing. We love receiving it, but we really don’t like seeing it given out so lavishly to others. Ed Cyzewski GRACE: If . . . we remember God’s grace, then we lose the pride that would make us a Pharisee and the despair that would make us a cynic. Merold Westphal, Suspicion and Faith GRATITUDE: All goods look better when they look like gifts. Chesterton, Saint Francis of Assisi GRATITUDE: Don’t it always seem to go, that you don’t know what you’ve got ‘til it’s gone? Joni Mitchell, Big Yellow Taxi GRATITUDE: Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. William Arthur Ward GRATITUDE: Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but parent of all the others. Cicero GRATITUDE: Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but parent of all the others. Cicero GRATITUDE: If the only prayer you said in your whole life was “thank‐you,” that would suffice. Meister Eckhart, German mystic GRATITUDE: Sometimes the most grateful pilgrim is the one whose road has been the rockiest. James Martin GREAT COMMANDMENT: He (St. Ignatius) loved God and loved the world, and those two things he did quite well. James Martin GREAT MINDS: Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people. Admiral Human Rickover GREATNESS: We do no great things. We do only small things with great love. Mother Teresa GREATNESS: Greatness is always built on this foundation: the ability to appear, speak and act, as the most common man. Shams‐ud‐din Muhammed Hafiz GREATNESS: Greatness is not a function of circumstances. Greatness, it turns out, is largely a matter of conscious choice and discipline. Jim Collins GREATNESS: I’ve determined that companies must meet two criteria to become great. They must enable (empower) – not simply encourage – organizational learning, and they need to demand a passion for greatness. Amit Mukherjee (HBR, Dec 2007) GREATNESS: One thing I have learned as a competitor is that there are clear distinctions between what it takes to be decent, what it takes to be good, what it takes to be great, and what it takes to be among the best. Josh Waitzkin GREATNESS: Really great men have a curious feeling that greatness isnot in them, but through them. John Ruskin GROWING: We are either “living a little more or dying a little bit” at every moment. There is no standing still, no maintaining a perfect equilibrium. Norman Mailer / Gary Kasparov GROWTH: Always dream and shoot higher than you know you can do. Don’t bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be beter than yourself. William Faulkner GROWTH: Growth is the only evidence of life. John Henry Newman GROWTH: I never cease to be amazed that organizations do not insist that their leaders be continually improving and persistently working toward becoming the best leaders they can be. James C. Hunter GROWTH: It’s never too late to be who you might have been. George Eliot GROWTH: Man’s task is to make of himself a work of art. Henry Miller GROWTH: One grows or dies. There is no third possibility. Oswald Spengler GROWTH: The development of the individual can be described as a succession of new births at consecutively higher levels. Maria Montessori Growth: The meaning of earthly existing lies, not as we have grown used to thinking, in prospering, but in the development of the soul. Alexander Solzhenitsyn GROWTH: We aim above the mark to hit the mark. Ralph Waldo Emerson HABITS: A habit, I say, is longtime training , my firend. And this becomes men’s nature in the end. Aristotle HABITS: The second half of a man’s life is made up of nothing but the habits he has acquired during the first half. Fyodor Dostoevsky HAPPINES: In Christianity, the happy life . . . is a life in which we see and love God supremely in relationship to all things, and in which we see and love all things properly in relationship to God, who we love the more. David Naugel, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives HAPPINESS: All people are in search of happiness. There is no exception to this whatever different methods are employed. Blaise Pascal HAPPINESS: For certainly by sinning, we lost both piety and happiness; but when we lost happiness, we did not lose the love of it. Augustine HAPPINESS: Growth itself contains the germ of happiness. Pearl s. Buck HAPPINESS: Half of the world is on the wrong scent in pursuit of happiness. Henry Drummond HAPPINESS: Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know. Ernest Hemingway HAPPINESS: Happiness is good health and a bad memory. Ingrid Bergman HAPPINESS: I believe that the very purpose of our life is to seek happiness. That is clear. Whether one believes in religion or not, whether one believes in this religion or that religion, we are all seeking something better in life. So I think the very motion of our life is towards happiness. Dali Lama, The Art of Happiness HAPPINESS: I serve You and worship You that I may be happy in You, to whom I owe that I am a being capable of happiness. Augustine, Confessions HAPPINESS: if we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we always want to be happier than other people, which is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are. Charles de Montesquieu HAPPINESS: If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion. 14th Dalai Lama HAPPINESS: If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or objects. Albert Einstein HAPPINESS: If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem. Richard Bach HAPPINESS: It is a Christian duty . . . for everyone to be as happy as he can. C.S.Lewis HAPPINESS: Most people are about as happy as they make up their mind to be. Abraham Lincoln HAPPINESS: The saints love their own happiness. Jonathan Edwards HAPPINESS: There is not any things in this world, perhaps, that is more talked of, and less understood, than the business of a happy life. It is every person’s wish and design; and yet not one of a thousand . . . knows wherein that happiness consists. Seneca HARD WORK: it is better to wear out than to rust out. There will be time enough for repose in the grave. Richard Cumberland HARD WORK: The heights by great men reached and kept, Were not attained by sudden flight, But they while their companions slept, Were toiling upward in the night. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow HARD WORK: There are two kinds of people: those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group, there is a lot less competition there. Indira Gandhi HARDNESS: To deaden yourself against any hurt is to deaden yourself also against the hurt of others. Max Lerner HARDSHIP: he who knows no hardships will know no hardihood. He who faces no calamity will need no courage. Mysterious though it is, the characteristics in human nature which we love best grow in a soil with a strong mixture of troubles. Harry Emerson Fosdick HATRED: A virtuous man cannot hate another virtuous man. Meander HEART: All real formation work is “heart work.” The heart is the wellspring of all human action. All of the devotional masters call us constantly, almost monotonously, toward a purity of heart. Richard Foster HEART: As it is the nature of the body to be developed by appropriate exercises, I t is the nature of the soul to be developed by moral precepts. Isocrates HEAVEN: Assemble in your imagination all the friends that you enjoy being with most. The companions that evoke the deepest joy, your most stimulating relationships, the most delightful of shred experiences, the people with whom you feel completely alive – that is a hint of heaven. Eugene Peterson HEAVEN: Either there is pie in the sky or there is not. If there is not, then Christianity is false, for this doctrine is women into its whole fabric. If there is, then this truth, like any other, must be faced, whether it is useful at political meetings or not. C.S. Lewis HERESY: It is the customary fate of new truths to begin as heresies. Thomas Huxley HEROISM: let him who write heroic poems make his life a heroic poem. John Milton HIGHLY INTENTIONAL: (This quote is in light of Ben Franklin’s personal focus on developing 13 different virtues he felt worthy of his attention and which he organized a demanding schedule of improvement around.) But on the whole, though I never arrived at Perfection I had been so ambitious of obtaining, but fell far short of it, yet I was by the endeavor made a better and a happier man than I otherwise would have been, if I had not attempted it. Ben Franklin HIGHLY INTENTIONAL: Press on. Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not. Nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not. Unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education alone will not. The world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. Calvin Coolidge HISTORY: History rhymes, it does not repeat. Mark Twain HISTORY: The Past stood ever at his elbow and was the counselor upon which he most relied. He seemed to be attended by Learning and History, and to carry into current events an air of ancient majesty. Winston Churchill speaking about another British statesman HOLINESS: Holiness is not the same as niceness or even goodness in the usual sense. Robert Ellsberg HONESTY: If way to the Better there be, it exacts a full look at the Worst. Thomas Hardy, poet HONESTY: If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance. G. B. Shaw HOPE: All shall be well and all shall be well and all manner of things shall be well. Julian of Norwich HOPE: Hope is a mode of knowing, a mode within which new things are possible, options are not shut down, new creation can happen. N.T. Wright HUMAN NATURE: Human nature hasn’t changed a bit. What has changed is the environment we live in. Seth Godin, Meatball Sundae HUMAN NATURE: Human beings, left to their own devices, don’t act like robots or rational computers. We don’t all do the same things, and we don’t do things for the same reasons. Seth Godin, Meatball Sundae Humanity, Messy: What we are is a set of walking contradictions. Lewis Smedes HUMANITY: Man is the only animal that laughs and weeps; for he is the only animal that is struck with the difference between what things are and what they ought to be. William Hazlitt HUMBLE: I long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish humble tasks as though they were great and noble. The world is moved along, not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushed of each honest worker. Helen Keller HUMILITY, LEARNING: The more one learns, the more he understands his ignorance. Louis L’Amour HUMILITY: No leader is worth his salt who won’t set up chairs. Peter Drucker HUMILITY: Every man I meet is in some way my superior, and in that I can learn of him. Ralph Waldo Emerson HUMILITY: I am just a simple monk. Dalai Lama (the title means Ocean of Wisdom) HUMILITY: I was surprised to find myself so much fuller of faults than I had imagined. Ben Franklin HUMILITY: it will do you no harm to find yourself ridiculous. Resign yourself to be the fool you are. T.S. Eliot HUMILITY: Only the humble person will et God be God. Such people are realistic about who they actually are. Dallas Willard, Knowing Christ Today HUMILITY: The foundation of our philosophy is humility. Saint John of Chrysostom HUMILITY: The more fruit rice stalks bear the lower they bow. HUMOR: Against the assault of laughter, nothing can stand. Mark Twain HUMOR: When the going gets tough, the tough get to laughing. Unknown HUMOR: You can pretend to be serious, but you can’t pretend to be witty. Sacha Gultry HUMOR: You put new ideas over by making people laugh. All new ideas are looked upon as dangerous, and people fight them as they fight tigers. But all clowns are considered harmless. So you get a man laughing and before he knows it you’ve passed your ideas on to him. William Woodward, Bunk HUMOR: Laughter is the shortest distance between two people. Victor Borge I WAS SILENT: When the Nazis came to get the Communists, I was silent, because I was not a communist. When they came to get the Socialists, I was silent. When they came to get the Catholics I was silent. When they came to get the Jews,I was silent. And when they came to get me, there was no one left to speak. Martin Niemoeller, Confessing Pastor of the Lutheran Church IDEALS: Only those are fit to live who do not fear to die, and none are fit to die who have shrunk from the joy of life and the duty of life. Both life and death are parts of the same Great Adventure . . . Unless men are willing to fight and die for great ideals, including love of country, ideals will vanish, and the world will become one huge sty of materialism . . . All of us who give service, and stand ready for sacrifice, are the torchbearers . . . The torches whose flames are brightest are borne by the gallant men at the front . . . These are the torchbearers, these are they who have dared the Great Adventure. Theodore Roosevelt IDEAS: All the forces in the world are not as powerful as an idea whose time has come. Victor Hugo IDEAS: How many ideas have there been in the history of man which were unthinkable ten years before they appeared. Fyodor Dostoevsky IDEAS: Ideas are dangerous. G. K. Chesterton IDEAS: Ideas do not make their way in history except they be carried by persons and institutions. IDEAS: Ideas have consequences. IDEAS: Neither man nor nation can exist without a sublime idea. Fyodor Dostoevsky IDEAS: Not to engage in the pursuit of ideas is to live like ants instead of like men. Mortimer Adler IDEAS: Once you wake up thought in a man you can never put it to sleep again. Zora Neale Hurston IDEAS/FEAR: In a battle between two ideas, the best one doesn’t necessarily win. No, the idea that wins is the one with the most fearless heretic behind it. IDENTITY: (We) live in a deranged age, more deranged than usual, because in spite of great scientific and technological advances, man has not the faintest idea of who he is or what he is doing. Walker Percy IDENTITY: It seems to me that at bottom each person is asking, 'Who am I, really? How can I get in touch with this real self, underlying all my surface behavior? How can I become myself? Carl Rogers IDENTITY: The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change. Carl Rogers IDOLATRY: Idolatry is the practice of ascribing absolute value to things of relative worth. Frederick Buechner IGNORANCE: The problem with interviewing famous people is that – much of the time – they don’t know anything. . . Celebrity journalism is usually just attractive people trying to make up answers to questions they barely understand. Chuck Klosterman, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs IGNORANCE: Everybody is wrong about everything, just about all the time. Chuck Klosterman, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs IGNORANCE: Never before have so many known so little about so much of great importance. Eric Metaxas, Screwtape on the Da Vinci Code ILLITERATE: If I have learned anything from working in journalism, it’s that people who read newspapers apparently can’t read newspapers. Chuck Klosterman, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs IMAGE OF GOD: The conclusion I dread is not, “So there’s no God after all,” but “So this is what God’s really like. Deceive yourself no longer.” C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed IMAGE OF GOD: You can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out he hates all of the same people you do. Anne Lamott IMAGE: Thning hair, splotchy skin, love handles, cellulite, stretch marks, and wrinkles become sources of preoccupation, depression, and great effort. The funny thing is Jesus never talked much about thick hair, ripped abs youthful skin, or sexy legs. Shane Hipps IMAGES: Despite the constant bombardment of images for commercial and entertainment purposes . . . modern people prefer to think of themselves as disengaged voyeurs. The disengagement is an illusion. Margaret Miles, Image as Insight IMAGINATION: Demons are known to work on men’s imagination until everything is other than it is. Thomas Aquinas IMAGINATION: You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus. Mark Twain IMAGINATION: Imagination is more important than knowledge. Albert Einstein IMPROVEMENT: if improvement in playing a sport takes consistent practice and coaching, how much more do we need practice and coaching to instill spiritual discernment along with moral skills and sensibilities? Rex Miller, The Millenium Matrix INCOMPETENCE: Everyone rises to their level of incompetence. Laurence J. Peter INDIFFERENCE: The enemy of life is indifference. Elie Wiesel INDIVIDUALISM, SELFISH: When no firm and lasting ties any longer unite men, it is impossible to obtain the cooperation of any great number of them unless you can persuade every man whose help is required that he serves his private interests by voluntarily uniting his efforts to those of all the others. Alexis de Tocqueville, Democracy in America INDIVIVDUALNESS: Few are those who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts. Albert Einstein INDIVIVDUALNESS: Figure out who you are and then do it on purpose. Dolly Parton INDIVIVDUALNESS: To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best night and day, to make you everybody else – means to fight the harest battle which any human being can fight; and neer stop fighting. E.e. comings INDIVIVDUALNESS: No man should part with his individuality to become another. No process is so fatal as that which would cast all men into one mold. William Ellery Channing INEVITABILITY: There is absolutely no inevitability as long as there is a willingness to contemplate what is happening. Marshall McLuhan INFLUENCE: Genuine influence means people pick up where you left off because they believe. Annette Simmons, The Story Factor INFLUENCE: The early Christians out‐thought, outlived, and out‐died their pagan counterparts. This certainly cannot be said of pop‐Christians. Dick Staub, The Culturally Savvy Christian INFLUENCE: The loves of a few men move the lives of many. History itself seems to turn in one direction rather than another with the turning of an emperor’s heart. INFLUENCE: They will forget what you said. They will forget what you did. But they never will forget how you made them feel. Maya Angelou INFLUENCE: You cannot antagonize and influence at the same time. John Knox, Scottish Reformer INJUSTICE: the worst case of injustice is for someone to believe he is just while he is not. Plato, the Republic INJUSTICE: In the state where court cases and great injustices abound, citizens will never become friends. Plato, Laws INNOVATION, FAILURE: Publicly acknowledge a risk taker, a rule breaker, even a failure, and explain why every successful organization needs them. Tom Kelley, The Art of Innovation INNOVATION: Good artists copy, great artists steal. Picasso INNOVATION: Orville Wright did not have a pilot’s license. Gordon MacKenzie, Orbiting the Giant Hairball INNOVATION: The problem is never how to get new, innovative thoughts into your minds, but how to get old ones out . . . Make an empty space in any corner of your mind and creativity will instantly fill it. Dee Hock INNOVATION: We don’t think, let’s be innovative. Trying to systemize innovation is like somebody who’s not cool trying to be cool. It’s painful to watch. Steve Jobs INNOVATION: We have always been shameless about stealing great ideas. Steve Jobs INSANITY: That’s the truest sign of insanity – insane people are always sure they’re just fine. It’s only the sane people who are willing to admit they’re crazy. Nora Ephron INSPIRATION: Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration. Thomas Edison INSPIRATION: We’re on the prowl for inspiration. We want something extra‐authentic, something to shake our nerves and rattle our brains. We need something to keep us from throwing in the towel and losiong our minds – something to get us out of bed. Gospel, the news we call good, is always a media issue. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything INSPIRE: A true leader inspires others to lead themselves. Ari D. Kaplan INTEGRATION: An integrated character (is) a oneness, primarily with self but also with life. Stephen Covey. INTEGRITY: He (Lincoln) inevitably did the right thing, however easily it might have been avoided. Paul Johnson, Heroes INTEGRITY: In all things resolve to act as though the whole world would see what you do; for even if you conceal your deeds for the moment later you will be found out. Isocrates INTEGRITY: What madness is the course I am pursuing? I believe all the great truths of the Christian religion, but I am not acting as though I did. Wilberforce INTENTIONALITY, WORK ETHIC: The ability to push yourself to the limit day after day, and to do so effectively . . . is a talent that we should all try to cultivate. Gary Kasparov INTENTIONALITY: In life there is no such obligation to move. If you can’t find a useful plan, you can watch television, stick with business as usual, and believe that no news is good news. Human beings are brilliantly creative at finding ways to pass time in unconstructive ways. Gary Kasparov INTERNET: The internet is fundamentally about connecting with people of common interest, facilitating person-to-person conversations, collaboration, assistance, and collective learning. The internet inverts the power curve away from centralized control and content to distributed power and member-generated content. The internet is about the exponential value of networks, the power of conversation, and liberation from past obstacles of time, location, gender, age, ethnicity, disability and tradition. Rex Miller, Millenium Matrix INTERNET: The net is a planet spanning virtual ecosystem, a cognitive rain forest teeming with new concepts and connections, issues and inquires, studies and speculations, proposals, predictions and unlimited potential. H. Campbell INTUITION, PARADIGMS: When we tackle a problem, we never start from scratch; we instinctively, even unconsciously, look for a past parallel. We work out the authenticity of the parallels and see if we can work out a similar recipe from these slightly different ingredients. Gary Kasparov INTUITION: A woman’s guess is much more accurate than a man’s certainty. Kipling INTUITION: You are here because you know something. What you know you can’t explain but you feel it. You felt it your whole life. There is something wrong with the world, but you don’t know what it is. But its’s there like a splinter in your mind. Morpheus in the Matrix JESUITS: We study like students. We clean like housewives. And we still have to find the time to pray like monks. Aside from that, we kind of get on each other’s nerves. JESUS, SERVANT: Some of us are trying to figure out what it means to be a people who follow one who relinquished his rights rather than asserted them, who considered submission a higher value than freedom. JESUS: I believe because he fulfills none of my dreams, because he is in every respect the opposite of what he would be if I could have made him in my image. W.H. Auden JESUS: The vision of Christ that thou does see / Is my vision’s greatest enemy. William Blake JESUS: To those who knew Him, he in no way suggested a milk and water person; they objected to Him as a dangerous firebrand. Dorothy Sayers JOURNEY: Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Ralph Waldo Emerson JOURNEY: Everything in my life brought me here. Rainer Marie Rilke JOURNEY: If there’s no end to pursue, why undergo the journey in the first place? A journey without a destination is a vagrancy; not a voyage. Len Sweet JOURNEY: it is good to be between a ruined house of bondage and a holy promised land. Leonard Cohen JOURNEY: It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters in the end. Ursula K. LeGuin JOURNEY: It will be neither a return nor a departure but a continuing. John McGahern, The Leavetaking JOURNEY: It’s not about the destination; it’s about the journey. UltraMarathon Cycling Assoc. JOURNEY: it’s not about the journey or the destination; it’s about what you do once you get there. JOURNEY: Life is a journey. Enjoy the ride. Nissan JOURNEY: Life is not about journeys or destinations; it’s about how you look while you’re traveling. Michael Blewett JOURNEY: Once a journey is designed, equipped, and put in process, a new factor enters and takes over. . . . It has a personality, temperament, individuality, uniqueness. A journey is a person in itself, no two are alike. . . . We find after years of struggle that we do not take a trip; a trip takes us. John Steinbeck, Travels With Charley JOURNEY: The expense is reckoned, the enterprise is begun. It is of God’; it cannot be withstood. Edmund Campion JOURNEY: To journey without being changed is to be a nomad. To change without journeying is to be a chameleon. To journey and to be transformed by that journey is to be a pilgrim. Mark Nepo, The Exquisite RisK JOURNEY: with what end in view do you again and again walk along difficult and laborious paths? Augustine JOURNEY: By experienced we have learned that the path has many and great difficulties connected with it. Jesuits JOY: Be joyful even though you have considered all the facts. Wendell Berry JOY: In every real man, the will for life is also the will for joy. Karl Barth JOY: Man is more himself, man is more man‐lilke, when joy is the fundamental thing in him, and grief the superficial. Melancholy should be an innocent interlude, a tender and fugitive frame of mind; praise should be the permanent pulsation of the soul. Chesterton, Orthodoxy JOY: Solemnity flows out of men naturally; but laughter is a leap. It is easy to be heavy; hard to be light. Satan fell by the force of gravity. JOY: The joy of living is his who has the heart to demand it. Theodore Roosevelt JOY: You can be a great deal too solemn about Christianity to be a good Christian . . . in your philosophy and your religion – you must have mirth. If you do not have mirth, you will certainly have madness. Chesterton, Lunacy and Letters JUDGING: Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of truth and knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods. Albert Einstein JUDGMENT: We have much to be judged on when he comes, slums and battlefields and insane asylums, but these are the symptoms of our illness and the result of our failure sin love. In the evening of life we shall be judged on love, and not one of us is going to come off very well, and were it not for my absolute faith in the loving forgiveness of my Lord, I could not call on him to come. Madeleine L’Engle JUSTICE: Justice is like a train that’s nearly always late. Yevgeny Yevtushenko JUSTICE: The unweary, unostentatious, and inglorious crusade of England against slavery may probably be regarded as among the three or four perfectly virtuous pages comprised in the history of nations. William Lecky, Irish historian KINDNESS: Shall we make a new rule of life tonight: always to try to be a little kinder than is necessary. James Barrie KNOWLEDGE: I shall need to have been dead several years before I shall thoroughly understand the meaning of creation and the omnipotence of God. Martin Luther KNOWLEDGE: I’m not young enough to know everything. James Barrie KNOWLEDGE: Knowing a variety of paths is very useful. Broaden your knowledge. It is necessary to polish your own path. Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings KNOWLEDGE: Leaders get paid to know, and even when they don’t know, they get paid to know. Howard Behar, It’s Not About the Coffee KNOWLEDGE: Whatever the risk of corruption from intercourse with the world around, such a risk must be encountered if a great idea is fully to be understood and much more if it is to be fully exhibited. John Henry Newman KNOWLEDGE: The mind unfettered finds its way to God. KNOWLEDGE/IGORANCE/GOOD/EVIL: There is one only good, namely, knowledge; and one only evil, namely ignorance. Socrates LANGUAGE: I we’re going to live and think freely, we get to seek our redemptive language, keep it in our heads, treasure it, and talk about it as if our very souls depend on this good, new, saving way of putting things. Ancient wisdom suggests that our souls do. We live or die by words. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything LAUGHTER: I can think of no better way of redeeming this tragic world today than love and laughter. Too many of the young have forgotten how to laugh and too many of the elders have forgotten how to love. Theodore Hesburgh LAW: It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can stop him from lynching me, and I think that's pretty important. Martin Luther King, Jr. LAZINESS: Shun idleness. It is a rust that attaches itself to the most brilliant metals. Voltaire LAZINESS: Laziness is the mother of all evils. Sophocles LEAD: The first duty of a leader is to lead. Theodore Roosevelt LEADERSHIP, PROJECTION: A leader is a person who has an unusual degree of power to project on other people, his or her own shadow, or his or her light. Parker Palmer LEADERSHIP: If you want to (need to, must!) lead, then you can. It’s easier than ever and we need you. But if this isn’t the right moment, if this isn’t the right cause, then hold off. Seth Godin, Tribes LEADERSHIP: Leadership is not magnetic personality . . . it is not making friends and influencing people – that is salesmanship. Peter Drucker LEADERSHIP: Leadership is the lifting of a man’s vision to higher sights, the raising of a man’s performance to a higher standard, the building of a man’s personality beyond its normal limitations. Peter Drucker LEADERSHIP: No one’s a leader if there are no followers. Malcolm Forbes LEADERSHIP: T he first thing you people need to know about leadership is that most ofyou simply don’t have it in you. Coach Bobby Knight (speaking to a college course of business majors) LEADERSHIP: The foundation of effective leadership is thinking through the organization’s mission, defining it, and establishing it clearly and visibly. Peter Drucker LEADERSHIP: The leader sets the goals, sets the priorities, and sets and maintains the standards. Peter Drucker LEADERSHIP: The leader’s first task is to be the trumpet that sounds a clear sound. Peter Drucker LEADERSHIP: The only definition of a leader is someone who has followers. Peter Drucker LEADERSHIP: There is always a tendency to believe that a hundred small men can furnish leadership equal to that of one big man. That is not so . . . Nothing can fully take the place of the indispensable work of leadership. Theodore Roosevelt LEADERSHIP: What a great stateman must be most anxious to produce is a certain moral character is his fellow citizens, namely a disposition to virtue and the performance of virtuous actions. Aristotle, Ethics LEADERSHIP: Whenever I meet a Buddhist leader, I meet a holy man. Whenever I meet a Christian leader, I meet a manager. (anonymous) LEADERSHIP: Without committed followers, you have nothing but a title. Tom Atchison LEADERSHIP: A leader is best when people barely know he exists; not so good when people obey and admire him; worst when they despise him. Lao‐tzu LEARINING, FREEDOM: Liberty without learning is always in peril, learning without liberty is always in vain. John F. Kennedy LEARN: Try to learn something about everything and everything about something. T.H. Huxley LEARNING FOCUS: the whole secret of life is to be interested in one thing profoundly and in a thousand things well. Horace Walpole LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE, FAILURE TO: A failure is a man who has blundered but is not able to cash in on the experience. Elbert Hubbard LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE, FAILURE TO: Human beings, who are almost unqiue in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so. Douglas Adams LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE, FAILURE TO: One never believes other people’s experience, and one is only very gradually convinced by one’s own. Vita Sackville-West LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE, FAILURE TO: That men do not learn very much from the lessons of history is the most important of all the lessons that history has to teach. Aldous Huxley LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE, FAILURE TO: We learn from experience that men never learn from experience. George Bernard Shaw LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE, FAILURE TO: What experience and history teach is this—that nations and governments have never learned anything from history, or acted upon any lessons they might have drawn from it. G.W.F. Hegel LEARNING FROM EXPERIENCE: Experience enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again. Franklin P. Jones. LEARNING: Learning is what survives when what has been learned has been forgotten. B.F. Skinner LEARNING: I didn’t begin to learn anything until after I had finished my studies. Anatole Francois Thibault LEARNING: I hear and I forget, I see and I remember, I do and I understand. Chinese proverb LEARNING: If you are thinking of becoming a Christian, I warn you, you are embarking on something which is going to take the whole of you, brains and all . . . One reason why it needs no special education to be a Christian is that Christianity is an education itself. C.S. Lewis LEARNING: it is essential to continually challenge ourselves. The only way to develop is to venture into the unknown, to take risks and to learn new things. Gary Kasparov LEARNING: Never seem wiser, nor more learned, than the people you are with. Wear your learning like your watch, in a private pocket; do not pull it out and strike it merely to show you have one. Lord Chesterfield LEARNING: The dogmas of the quiet past are inadequate to the stormy present. The occasion is piled high with difficulty, and we must rise to the occasion. As our case is new, so we must think and act anew. Abraham Lincoln LEARNING: The only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn . . . and change. Carl Rogers LEARNING: To live is not to learn but to apply. Legouve LEARNING: The one time you are surely learning something is when you are nervously attempting something new, even if it is simply solving a routine problem in a novel way. Gary Kasparov LEARNING: The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were when we created them. Albert Einstein LEFT BIAS: What I remember most about college is that I could do and write the silliest things and receive plaudits, as long as my lunacy was leftward. Marvin Olasky LEGACY: Generations may be judged by their epic battles or their grand contributions to the history of humanity, but individuals, for the most part, are judged on the sum of smaller deeds. Ethan Watters, Urban Tribes LEGACY: If you would not be forgotten, as soon as you are dead and rotten, either write things worth reading or do things worth the writing. Benjamin Franklin LEGACY: It is a good thing to die in the harness at the zenith of one’s fame, with the consciousness of having lived a long, honorable and useful life. After we are dead it will make not the slightest difference whether men speak well or ill of us. But in the days or hours before dying it must be pleasant to feel that you have done your part as a man . . . and that your children and children’s children, in short all those that are dearest to you, have just cause for pride in your actions. Theodore Roosevelt LEGALISM: Rightful moral outrage easily mutates into self-deceptive moral smugness. Miroslav Volf LEGALISM: Some Christian groups, however, focus so narrowly on what offends them that they fail to comprehend the mentality of the marginalized – the very people they are especially obligated to reach. Darren Sarisky LIBERALISM: A God without wrath brought men without sin into a kingdom without judgment through the ministrations of a Christ without a cross. Richard Niebuhr, theologian LIES, TRUTH: I’m not a liar . . . I am gifted in fiction. David Mamet in the film, State and Main LIFE CHANNELS: Dwell as near as possible to the channel in which your life flows. Thoreau LIFE LONG LEARNING: (This is about Theodore Roosevelt.) Learning was literally a vital part of Roosevelt’s leadership. His preparation for leadership through self-mastery began with books at his side. His years of leadership were constantly informed and enlarged by reading and writing, conversation, correspondence, and an extraordinarily broad . . . quest for experience. Roosevelt understood that a leader must continuously learn if he is to remain an effective teacher. TR’s approach to learning unified his forays into the realms of thought and action; it also bound together his life and his leadership. Roosevelt’s thirst for learning was never quenched. James M. Strock LIFE LONG LEARNING: (This is about Theodore Roosevelt.) There is apparent throughout his life a surprising determination. The energies and talents he possessed were not placed at birth in some natural harmony; they were though the passing years organized and directed by a sustained and splendid act of will. Elting Morison. LIFE LONG LEARNING: As soon as any man has ceased to be able to learn, his usefulness as a teacher is at an end. When he himself can’t learn, he has reached the stage where other people can learn from him. Theodore Roosevelt LIFE LONG LEARNING: Associate with those you can learn from. Let friendly relations be a school of erudition, and conversation be refined teaching. Make your friends your teachers and blend the usefulness of learning with the pleasure of conversation. Enjoy the company of people of understanding . . . We have little to live and much to know and you cannot live if you do not know. It takes uncommon skill to study and learn . . . Choose a subject and let those around you serve up quintessential knowledge . . . Make knowledge your friend. Baltasr Gracian, 1650 LIFE LONG LEARNING: Continual learning and growth is critical for leaders. We serve changing organizations in a changing world… We can easily become so busy leading and serving that we do not take the time for renewal and growth. Study, learning and continued renewal are essential to leadership… it is difficult to lead when we are not growing. New learning is empowering. It is renewing and creates the energy needed for leadership. Leaders must carve out time for their own learning and growth even as they expect it of the people they lead. Walter Wright LIFE LONG LEARNING: Do not let all your learning lead to knowledge; let it lead to action. Proverb LIFE LONG LEARNING: Hanging out on Planet Earth as a human invites the opportunity to learn and grow. Every day is chock-full of chances. Marcia Hughes, Emotionally Intelligent Teams LIFE LONG LEARNING: I keep learning. Francisco de Goya, written when he was long deaf, old and infirm, on one of his last drawings. LIFE LONG LEARNING: Increasingly, an educated person will be somebody who has learned how to learn. Peter Drucker. LIFE LONG LEARNING: No man has the right to be ignorant. Louis L'Amour LIFE LONG LEARNING: That is one of the grat secrets of becoming a great leader – never stop becoming. Jeff O’Leary LIFE LONG LEARNING: There is a theory of human behavior that says people subconsciously retard their own intellectual growth. They come to rely on clichés and habits. Once they reach the age of their own personal comfort with the world, they stop learning and their mind runs on idle for the rest of their days. They may progress organizationally, they may be ambitious and eager, and they may even work night and day. But they learn no more. The bigoted, the narrow-minded, the stubborn, and the perpetually optimistic have all stopped learning. Philip Crosby LIFE PURPOSE: The purpose of life is not to be happy – but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you have lived at all. Leo Rosten LIFE: As a well spend day brings happy sleep, so a life well spent brings happy death. Leonardo da Vinci LIFE: I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. Diane Ackerman LIFE: I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life. Henry David Thoreau LIFE: In a civilization which has lost the meaning of life, the most useful thing a Christian can do is to live… this life alone can break the illusions of the modern world by showing everyone the utter powerlessness of a mechanistic view. Jacques Ellul, the Presence of the Kingdom LIFE: life is a long lesson in humility. James Barrie LIFE: Life is a mystery, love is a delight. Therefore I take it as axiomatic that one should settle for nothing less than the infinite mystery and the infinite delight. Walker Percy LIFE: Lord, let me live until I die. Thea Bowman, who offered this prayer when she found out she had cancer LIFE: Only those are fit to live who do not fear to die; and none are fit to die who have shrunk from the joy of life and the duty of life. Theodore Roosevelt LIFE: People living deeply have no fear of death. Anais Nin LIFE: The average man, who does not know what to do with this life, wants another one which shall last forever. Anatole Francois Thibault LIFE: The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time. Jack London LIFE: We live in a Newtonian world of Einsteinian physics ruled by Frankenstein logic. David RusselL LIFE: You can get all A’s and still flunk life. Walker Percy LISTENING: Genuine listening is rare. All too often, we find others uninteresting or irrelevant when they fail to say what we want to hear. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything Listening: Someone once asked Joan of Arc why God spoke only to her. She responded, ‘Sir, you are wrong. God speaks to everyone. I just listen.’ LITERATURE: By turns sardonically funny, anguished, or burning in slow fury, Solzhenitsyn accomplished something truly rare in all literature, the moral impaling of an entire political system with sustained literary power. David Aikman LITTLE THINGS: it is the little things that run the world. E. O. Wilson, Harvard insect biologist LITTLE THINGS: The only road is the Little Way . . . the only way do go great things is to choose to treat of little things well. Walker Percy. LIVING: I don’t want to get to the end of my life and find that I have lived just the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well. Diane Ackerman LIVING: I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life. Thoreau LIVING: I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry‐rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow than a sleepy and permanent planet. The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. Jack London LONELINESS: If you are lonely while you're alone, you are in bad company. Jean‐Paul Sartre Loneliness: Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets. Paul Tournier LONLINESS: As long as the human being is lonely, all of the good of creation cannot sate him. As long as the human being has no one with whom to share her experiences, as long as the human being feels alienated, separate from, and empty, then all of the objective goods of the universe will be irrelevant. That is the experience of loneliness – to feel apart from, severed from, alienated, and empty. Rabbi Marc Gafni LONLINESS: We have all known the long loneliness and we have learned that the oly solution is love and that love comes with community. Dorothy Day LOOKING AHEAD: The secret of success in war is learning what lies on the other side of the hill. Duke of Wellington LORDSHIP OF CHRIST: There is not a single inch of the whole terrain of our human existence over which Christ does not proclaim, Mine, Mine, Mine. Abraham Kuyper LORDSHIP: There is not a square inch in the whole domain of our human existence over which Christ, who is sovereign over all, does not cry, “Mine.” Abraham Kuyper LOVE OF GOD: All my studies, my vigils, and my labors have been for love of Thee. Thomas Aquinas LOVE YOUR ENEMIES: “I don’t like that man. I’m going to have to get to know him better.” Abraham Lincoln LOVE: there is no better laboratory for learning to love than ministry. There is also no better place to learn the art of forgiveness than in the life of the church. The church is filled with people. People are broken and sinful. Spend enough time in the church and you will be hurt. Kevin Harney, Leadership From the Inside Out LOVE: Fall in love, stay in love, and it will decide everything. Pedro Arrupe LOVE: God wants us to love him eternally with our whole hearts – not in such a way as to weaken our earthly love, but to provide a kind of cantus firmus to which the other melodies of life provide their counterpoint. Dietrich Bonhoeffer LOVE: I am a baby Christian when it comes to loving, I am just learning. So far were my daily thoughts from loving people that I have a lifelong vocation now before me in learning how to find Christ in every single person whom I meet. Anne Rice, Called out of Darkness LOVE: If we are going to lead like Jesus, we must let the dangerous power of love to fill our lives. Kevin Harney, Leadership From the Inside Out LOVE: If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they are yours; if they don’t, they never were. Buddhist Proverb LOVE: It is probably impossible to love any human being simply too much. We may love him too much in proportion to our love for God; but it is the smallness of our love for god, not the greatness of our love for the man that constitutes the inordinacy. C.S. Lewis LOVE: Late have I loved you, beauty so old and so new; late have I loved you. Augustine, Confessions. LOVE: Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries, avoid all entanglements, lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket – safe, dark, motionless, airless – it will change. It will not be broken, it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy is damnation. C.S. Lewis LOVE: Reordered love implanted in a transformed heart is the distinctive mark of the Christian. David Naugel, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives LOVE: Such is each one as is his love. Augustine LOVE: The measure of love is to love without measure. St. Francis de Sales LOVE: The worth and excellency of a soul is to be measured by the object of its love. Henry Scougal, 17th century Puritan pastor. LOVE: There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread. Mother Teresa LOVE: To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. C.S. Lewis LOVE: To practice the daily love of neighbor and enemy calls into question one’s smallest and greatest competitive feelings, one’s common angry reactions to slights both great and small. Anne Rice, Called out of Darkness LOVE: Too late have I loved Thee. Augustine LOVING GOD: Is it easy to love God? It is easy to those who do it. C.S. Lewis LUCK: Luck is not a reliable strategy. . Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall Lukewarm: We have daintily gone to church while living like the rest of the world. Richard Rohr MAN: A man is a measure of all things: of what is, that it is, and of what is not, that it is not. Protagoras MANAGEMENT: I am the world’s worst manager. Peter Drucker MARRIAGE: In domestic affairs I defer to my wife Katie. Otherwise I am led by the Holy Ghost. Martin Luther MARRIAGE: The problem is, of course, that we are not naturally very good at the love which will make a long marriage beautiful – even when we try. Dick Keyes, Seeing Through Cynicism MARRIAGE: To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the living cup, Whenever you’re wrong admit it, Whenever you’re right, shut up. Ogden Nash MEANING: The map is not the territory. Count Korzybski MEANING: Words don’t mean, people mean. MEDIOCRITY: The signature of mediocrity is not an unwillingness to change. The signature of mediocrity is chronic inconsistency. . Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall MEDIOCRITY: There’s just so much mediocrity that my average talent stands out as great. Billy Joel MEDIUM: The medium is the message. Marshall McLuhan MEETINGS: If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve its full potential, that word would be meetings. Dave Barry MEETINGS: Meetings are indispensable when you don’t want to do anything. John Kenneth Galbraith MEETINGS: Peple who enjoy meetings should not be in charge of anything. Thomas Sowell MEMBERSHIP: I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member. Mark Twain MEMBERSHIP: I refuse to live in any country that would elect me to public office. James Carville MEMORY: A clear conscience is usually a sign of bad memory. Steve Wright, comedian MEN: Men are mostly afraid of being afraid. William Pollack, In a Time of Fallen Heroes MEN: Next to the striking of fire and the discovery of the wheel, the greatest triumph of what we can civilization was the domestication of the human male. Max Lerner MENTOR: Those who can do. Those who believe others can also, teach (mentor). John E. King, lawyer, aphorist MENTOR: If I have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants. Newton MENTORING: Master bridge builders are ideal teachers who use themselves as bridges over which they invite their students to cross, then, having facilitated their crossing, joyfully collapse, encouraging them to create bridges of their own. MENTORING: Mentoring is not crating someone in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves. Steven Spielberg. MENTORING: The overall intent is tot each the protégé how to think correctly as a leader. Ninety-five percent of mentoring is about helping the protégé develop proper thinking. Chris Brady MENTORING: The teacher is the needle and the disciple is the thread. Zen proverb MESSY and MYSTERIOUS: Our broken world is poised on a precarious fulcrum and wobbles between glory and the grotesque, beauty and brokenness, grace and tragedy. Saints are those who live their faith close to this tottering hinge. James Smith METRICS: Bigness doesn’t automatically translate into success, but neither does smallness automatically equal godliness. Dave Gibbons, The Monkey and the Fish METRICS: Numbers aren’t bad by themselves, but maybe what we’re counting is. Dave Gibbons, The Monkey and the Fish MID-LIFE CRISIS: We hear a great deal of talk about the midlife crisis of the executive. It is mostly boredom. At 45, most executives have reached the peak of their business careers, and they know it. After 20 years of doing very much the same kind of work, they are very good at their jobs. But they are not learning or contributing or deriving challenge and satisfaction from the job. And yet they are still likely to face another 20 if not 25 years of work. That is why managing oneself increasingly leads one to begin a second career. Peter Drucker, “Managing Oneself” MIDDLE AGE: Middle age is when you’ve met so many people that every new person you meet reminds you of someone else. Ogden Nash MIDDLE AGE: Middle age is when your age starts to show around your middle. Bob Hope MIND: A mind, like a home, is furnished by its owner, so if one’s life is cold and bare he can blame none but himself. Louis L’ Amour MINORITY: My type of thinking is not wanted in the present age, I have to swim so strongly against the tide. Wittgenstein MISSION, PURPOSE: Do you want to sell sugar water for the rest of your life, or do you want to change the world? Steve Jobs challenging John Sculley to leave Pepsi and come work for Apple MISSION: The vocation of the church ist o perform the practices of Christ in ways that are both appropriate to and transformative of our particular place and time. Kevin Vanhoozer MISTAKES: I would never promote a man into a top level job who has not made mistakes, and big ones at that. Otherwise, he is sure to be mediocre. Peter Drucker MODELING THE WAY: Example is not the main thing in influencing other people; it’s the only thing. Abraham Lincoln Modeling: There is but one way to train up a child in the way he should go, and that is to travel it yourself. Abraham Lincoln MODELS: All models are worng; some models are useful. George E.P. Box MODERNITY: Nearly all that I loved [poetry, beauty, mythology] I believed to be imaginary; nearly all that I believed to be real [mechanistic materialism] I thought grim and meaningless. C.S. Lewis Surprised by Joy MODERNITY: If anything characterizes modernity it is the loss of the sense of transcendence – of a reality that exceeds and encompasses our everyday affairs. Peter Berger, quoted in the Soul of Christianity Money: Just the very act of letting go of money, or some other treasure does something within us. It destroys the demon ‘greed.’ Richard Foster MORALITY: Externals are not under my control; moral choice is under my control. Where am I to look for the good and the evil? Within me, in that which is my own. Epictetus, Discourses MOTHERS: Women are always like their mothers; that is their tragedy. Men are never like their mothers, and that is theirs. Oscar Wilde MOTIVATION: Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly. Stephen Covey MOTIVATION: Study while others are sleeping, work while others are loafing, prepare while others are playing, and dream while others are wishing. William Ward MOTIVATION: Those who take active responsibility to foster their motivation on a regular basis will outperform those who do not. It is the responsibility of the leader to keep him or herself hungry on a regular basis. Chris Brady MOTIVE: God regards not the greatness of the work, but the love with which it is performed. Brother Lawrence MOVIES: Movies do not only portray a world; they propagate a worldview. Bryan Stone MOZART: I even have to confess that if I ever get to heaven, I would first seek out Mozart, and only then inquire after Augustine, St. Thomas, Luther, Calvin and Schleiermacher. Karl Barth MUSIC: There have always been cultures without counting, cultures without painting, cultures bereft of the wheel or the written word, but never a culture without music. John Barrow, The Artful Universe Expanded MUSIC: I have no use for cranks who despise music, because it is a gift of God. Next after theology, I give to music the highest place and the greatest honor. Martin Luther MUSIC: Music doesn’t just happen, it is what we make it, and what we make of it. People think through music, decide who they are through it, express themselves through it . . . It is less a ‘something’ than a way of knowing the world, a way of being ourselves. Nicholas Cook MUSIC: Music is “the inarticulate speech of the heart.” Van Morrison MUSIC: People think through music, decide who they are through it, express themselves through it . . . it is less a something than a way of knowing the world, a way of being ourselves. Nicholas Cook MUSIC: The harmony of the spheres has collapsed into the song of the self. Daniel Chua MUSIC: The harmony of the spheres has collapsed into the song of the self. Daniel Chua MUSIC: The ultimate end of final purpose of all music . . . is nothing other than the praise of God and the recreation of the soul. Bach MUSIC: There have been cultures without counting, cultures without painting, cultures bereft of the wheel or the written word, but never a culture without music. John Barrow MUSIC: Where words fail, music speaks. Hans Christian Andersen MYSTICS: in the days ahead you either be a mystic who has experienced God, or nothing at all. Karl Rahner, theologian MYSTICS: Only mystics, clowns and artists in my experience speak the truth . . . I find myself in complete agreement with those who wish to reinstate the mystics, the clowns and artist alongside the scholars. To modify Wittgenstein; what we cannot imagine, we must confine to silence and unbelief. Malcolm Muggeridge MYTH-MAKING. (Myth-making) is also a very active secular and adacemic pastime – and a human one as well; perhaps it is some kind of human necessity. Dallas Willard, Knowing Christ Today NEEDINESS: Nothing about us except our neediness is, inthis life, permanent. C.S. Lewis NETWORKING: I used to say that networking is the most underrated management skill. Now I believe it may be the most important management skill, bar none. Haravey Mackay, Swim with the Sharks NEW IDEAS: history warns us . . . that it is the customary fate of new truths to bein as heresies and to end as superstitions. T.H. Huxley NOBLE: In war, resolution; in defeat, defiance; in victory, magnanimity; in peace, good will. Churchill OBSTACLES: A hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. Christopher Reeve OBSTACLES: If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn't lead anywhere. Frank A. Clark OBSTACLES: Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off the goal. Author Unknown OBSTACLES: Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. Michael Jordan OBSTACLES: One who gains strength by overcoming obstacles possesses the only strength which can overcome adversity. Albert Schweitzer OBSTACLES: The block of granite which is an obstacle in the pathway of the weak becomes a stepping‐ stone in the pathway of the strong. Thomas Carlyle OBSTACLES: The obstacle is the path. Zen Buddhist Saying OBSTACLES: We find no real satisfaction or happiness in life without obstacles to conquer and goals to achieve. Maxwell Maltz OFFEND: don’t offend the people who count and don’t count the people who offend. Amy Brennan ONE LIFE: If we’ve only got one try, if we’ve only got one life, if time was never on our side, then before I die, I want to burn out bright. Jon Foreman, Burn Out Bright. OPINIONS, OF PEOPLE: All men have a natural fear of making a mistake – by believing too well of a person. However, the error of believing too ill of a person is perhaps not feared, at least not in the same degree as the other. Soren Kierkegaard, Works of Love OPINIONS: Opinions are the stock in trade of thoughtful people, to be earned and held strongly until further evidence requires their modification. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words OPINIONS: Perhaps the best we can do in our efforts to tell the truth is to take the measure of our own slant on it and be accountable for our point of view. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words OPPORTUNITIES, MISSED: Alas for those who never sing, but die with all their music in them. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. OPPORTUNITY, WORK ETHIC: Opportunity is missed by most because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. Thomas Edison OPPORTUNITY: if opportunity isn’t provided at a young age, it can be created later in adulthood through discipline and imaginative involvement in the pursuits we care about. You can – and must – look for ways to experiment and to push the boundaries of your capacity in different areas. Gary Kasparov OPPORTUNITY: Opportunity favors the prepared mind. If opportunity knocks at the door you have to open it. You have to be receptive to it and I was. Peter Drucker OPPORTUNITY: The reason so many people never get anywhere in life is because when opportunity knocks, they are out in the backyard looking for four leaf clovers. Walter P. Chrysler OPPOSITION: Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted. Ralph Waldo Emerson OPTIMISM: When pessimistic people run into obstacles they give up. When optimistic people encounter obstacles, they try harder. Martin Seligman OPTIMIST: What is an optimist? . . . He or she is a person who has the conviction that god knows, can do, and will do what is best for mankind. Pedro Arrupe, One Jesuit’s Spiritual Journey ORAL CULTURES: The strongly oral cast of the Hebrew and Christian Scriptures bespeaks a culture not only temporally but temperamentally quite different from ours, with a sense of the world and a psychological structure which is different not merely by reason of position in time and of social institutions generally but also specifically by reason of the way in the way in which it is oriented toward the word itself. Walter Ong, The Presence of the Word ORATORY: Of all the talents bestowed upon men, none is so precious as the gift of oratory . . . Abandoned by party, betrayed by is friends, stripped of his offices, whoever can command this power is still formidable. Theodore Roosevelt PACE OF LIFE: There is more to life than increasing its speed. Mahatma Ghandhi PAIN: We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. Kenji Miyazawa PARADIGM CHANGE: Humans seem to have a predisposition to be open and curious about new theories, but it also seems true that they do not abandon old theories until convinced the new ones are better – that is, more useful, compact, and accurate. Paul Lawrence, Driven PARADIGMS: All crises begin with the blurring of a paradigm and the consequent loosening of the rules for normal research. As the process develops, the anomaly comes to be more generally recognized as such, more attention is devoted to it by more of the field’s eminent authorities. The field begins to look quite different; scientists express explicit discontent, competing articulations of the paradigm proliferate and scholars view a resolution as the subject matter of their discipline. Thomas Kuhm, The Structure of Scientific Revolutions PARADOX: How wonderful that we have met with paradox. Now we have some hope of making progress. Niels Bohr PARTNERSHIP: You can do something I can’t do. I can do something you can’t do. Together, let us do something beautiful for God. Mother Teresa PASSION: Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive. Howard Thurman PASSION: I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no brief candle to me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment; and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations. George Bernard Shaw PASSION: I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. George Bernard Shaw PASSION: In everyone’s life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. Albert Schweitzer PASSION: It is stern work, it is perilous work to thrust your hand in the sun and pull out a spark of immortal flames to warm the hearts of men. Joyce Kilmer PASSION: Man is so made that whenever anything fires his soul, impossibilities vanish. Jean de la Fontaine PASSION: Passion is a good thing only as long as we realize that too much of a good thing is bad. PASSION: Seek out that particular mental attitude which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive… and when you have found that attitude, follow it. William James PASSIONS, AFFECTIONS: The deepest things we know are found in the form of defining affections and passions. A person or a society is better known through what is feared, love, grieved over, and hoped for than through its factually stated ideas and thoughts. Don Saliers, professor PASTORS: he must be of a high and great spirit that undertakes to serve the people in body and soul, for he must suffer the utmost danger and unthankfulness. Martin Luther. PASTORS: Pastors are supposed to be more than lost travelers with more questions than answers. DeYoung, Why We’re Not Emergent PATTERNS: All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. Tolstoy, Anna Karenina PEACE, LACK OF INNER: Those who are at war with others are not at peace with themselves. William Hazlitt PEACE: Go placidly amid the noise and the haste and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Max Ehrmann, Desiderata PEOPLE: it’s all about the people has always meant, It’s not about me. It’s about us and what we can do together. Howard Behar PEOPLE: To handle yourself, use your head. To handle others, use your heart. Eleanor Roosevelt People: You can tell a lot about which direction your life is heading by looking at the people with whom you’ve chosen to spend your time and share your ideas. John Maxwell PERCEPTION: The real act of discovery consists not in finding new lands, but in seeing with new eyes. Marcel Proust PERFECTION: Perfection consists in doing His will, in being what He wills us to be. Therese of Lisieux PERFORMANCE: Words are words, explanations are explanations, promises are promises – but only performance is reality. Harold Geneen, CEO of ITT PERSEVERANCE: So we must daily keep things wound: that is, we must pray when prayer seems dry as dust; we must write when we are physically tired, when our hearts are heavy, when our bodies are in pain. We may not always be able to make our “clock” run correctly, but at least we can keep it wound, so that it will not forget. Madeleine L’Engle, Walking on Water PERSONAL GROWTH: In the area of personal growth, the operative fundamental is that the lesson continues until the lesson is learned. If an organization is not moving forward, it is because the leader is not addressing the issues in his or her path. PERSPECTIVE, LIMITED. Because we cannot see the paths we have not taken, we become, by default, advocates for the path our life is on. Ethan Watters, Urban Tribes PERSPECTIVE: A proper perspective is worth 50 IQ points. Dave Gibbons, The Monkey and the Fish PERSPECTIVE: I cannot go on . . . All that I have written seems to me like so much straw compared to what I have seen and what has been revealed to me. Thomas Aquinas PERSPECTIVE: Perspective is a view of things in their true relationship or importance. Webster Dict. PERSPECTIVE: The difference between leaders and followers is perspective. The difference between leaders and effective leaders is better perspective. Effective leaders have better perspective. J. Robert Clinton PERSPECTIVE: You see things from here that you don’t see from there. Ariel Sharon, about his change in the Palestinian issue once he became Prime Minister of Israel PERSUASION: I simply made up my mind what they ought to think, and then did my best to get them to think it. Theodore Roosevelt PESSIMISM: the secret of happiness is to face the fact that the world is horrible, horrible, horrible. Bertrand Russell PETS: You enter into a certain amount of madness when you marry a person with pets. Nora Ephron PLANNING: I see only one move ahead, but it is always the correct one. Jose Paul Capablanca, Third World Chess Champion, Cuban PLANNING: In preparing for battle, I have always found that plans are useless, but planning is indispensable. Dwight D. Eisenhower PLANNING: Your lack of prior planning does not constitute an emergency on my part. PLAY: The joy of life is a very good thing, and while work is the essential in it, play also has its palce. Theodore Roosevelt POET: A poet’s work is to name the unnameable, to point at frauds, to take sies, start arguments, shape the world, and stop it from going to sleep. Salman Rushdie POETIC: The poetic word need not be a high‐sounding phrase. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything POETRY, WORDS: Words must be the ordinary words that we hear about us to which the imagination must give an iridescence. Then only are words really poetic. Robert Frost POETRY: Today the only poetry worthy of the name is eschatological, that is, poetry which rejects the present inhuman world in the name of a great change. The reader of today is in search of hope, and he does not care for poetry that accepts the order of things as permanent. Milosz POLITICIANS: I judge he is now decidedly on the right tract . . . I hope the Lord will make him a blessing both as a Christian and a statesman. How seldom do these characters coincide!! But they are not incompatible. John Newton writing about Wilberforce POLITICIANS: Sometimes I hear our countrymen abroad saying: Oh you mustn’t judge us by our politicians. I always want to interrupt and answer, You must judge us by our politicians. Theodore Roosevelt POLITICS: Good politics tempers our excesses and bad politics excesses our tempers. Mardy Grothe POLITICS: If you do not know how to lie, cheat, and steal, turn your attention to politics and learn. John Billings POP ART: (Pop art is) mass produced, low‐cost, young, sexy, witty, transient, glamorous, gimmicky, expendable and popular. Richard Hamilton, creator of the first piece of “pop art” POSITIONING: Positioning is an organized system for finding windows in the mind. It is based on the concept that communication can only take place at the right time and under the right circumstances. Al Ries, Positioning POSITIONING: Positioning is the process by which you get your product into the minds of prospective customers. Al Ries, Positioning POSITIVITY: People who feel goo d about themselves produce good results. Ken Blanchard, The One Minute Manager POSSESSIONS: All the goods of this world . . . are finite and limited and radically incapable of satisfying the desire that perpetually burns with us… Simone Weil POSTMODERNISM: Postmodernism is xenophobic to the past. Thomas Oden POSTMODERNITY: Modernism was not always that bad. Postmodernism isn’t always that good. And the line between the two is sometimes imaginary, or at least relatively unimportant. DeYoung, Why We’re Not Emergent POTENTIAL: if I were to wish for anything, I should not wish for wealth and power but for the passionate sense of the potential, for the eye which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible. Soren Kierkegaard POTENTIAL: Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is. Anne Frank POTENTIAL: I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free. Michelangelo POTENTIAL: If an organism fails to fulfill its potentialities, it becomes sick. Rollo May POTENTIAL: Leadership is communicating to people their worth and potential so clearly that they come to see it in themselves. Stephen Covey POTENTIAL: Man’s main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. Erich Fromm POTENTIAL: One isn’t necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Maya Angelou Potential: Treat a man as he appears to be and you make him worse. But treat a man as if he already were what he potentially could be, and you make him what he should be. Goethe POVERTY: Today it is very fashionable to talk about the poor. Unfortunately, it is very unfashionable to talk with them. Mother Teresa POWER, ABUSE OF: I shall give a propangandist reason for starting the war, never mind whether it is plausible or not. The victor will not be asked afterward whether he told the truth or not. In starting and waging a war it is not right that matters but victory. Close your hearts to pity. Act brutally. The stronger man is right . . . Be harsh and remorseless! Be steeled against all signs of compassion! Whoever has pondered over this world order knows that its meaning lies in the success of the best by means of force. Hitler POWER, ABUSE OF: Nature has left this tincture in the blood, That all men would be tyrants if they could. Daniel Defoe POWER: Always be slightly wary of people in positions of power, but be especially wary when that person in power is yourself. Mardy Grothe POWER: Those who have more power Are liable to sin more; no theorem in geometry is more certain than this." Gottfried Wilhelm von Leibniz POWER: A friend in power is a friend lost. Henry Brooks Adams POWER: I acquired and exercised power in ever-growing measure . . . I want them to feel my power. Churchill POWER: I love ruling. Margaret Thatcher POWER: It is easier to develop great power than it is to know how to use it wisely. Walter Lippman POWER: Material power that is not counterbalanced by adequate spiritual power that is, by love and wisdom, is a curse. Arnold J. Toynbee POWER: Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power. Abraham Lincoln, widely attributed, but apocryphal POWER: Power does not corrupt men; fools, however, if they get into a position of power, corrupt power. George Bernard Shaw POWER: Power intoxicates men. When a man is intoxicated by alcohol he can recover, but when intoxicated by power, he seldom recovers. James F. Byrnes POWER: The effect of power and publicity on all men is the aggravation of self, a sort of humor that ends by killing the victim's sympathies. Henry Brooks Adams POWER: The real cause, the effective one, that makes men lose power is that they have become unworthy to exercise it. Alexis de Tocqueville POWER: To be big! To be powerful! This is and has always been the longing of those who are little or feel they are little. Alfred Adler POWER: You don't lead by hitting people over the head‐‐ that's assault, not leadership. Dwight D. Eisenhower POWER: He (Churchill) loved power, and sought it greedily always, most anxious to posses it in all its plentitude and most reluctant to relinquish it. Paul Johnson, Heroes PRACTI CE: You must walk down the path of a thousand miles step by step, keeping at heart the spirit which one gains from repeated practice with whomever one can get to practice with, and knowledge attained from whatever experiences you can come by, without impatience. Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings PRACTICE: Practicing a thousand days is said to be discipline, and practicing ten thousand days is said to be refining. Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings PRAYER: (Prayer is) a familiar conversation with the Divine Majesty in one’s soul. St. Jane de Chantal PRAYER: Act as if everything depended on you, pray as if everything depended on God. Ignatius (And its opposite: Pray as if everything depended on you. Act as if everything depended on God.) PRAYER: If I should neglect prayer but a single day, I should lose a great deal of the fire of faith. Martin Luther PRAYER: Prayer is better than sleep. From the hazzan, or call to worship PRAYER: To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing. Martin Luther PREACHING: When I preach I regard neither doctors nor magistrates, of whom I have above forty in my congregation; I have all my eyes on the servant maids and on the children. And if the learned men are not well pleased with what they hear, well, the door is open. Martin Luther PREDICTION: Prediction is very difficult, especially about the future. Niels Bohr PREGNANCY: If pregnancy were a book, they would cut the last two chapters. Nora Ephron PREPARATION: In playing ball, or in life, a person occasionally gets the opportunity to do something great. When that times comes, only two things matter: Being prepared to seize the moment and having the courage to take your best swing. Hank Aaron PRESENCE: it has been my experience that presence is a more powerful catalyst for change than analysis. Rachel Naomi Remen, My Grandfather’s Blessing PRIDE: As long as you are proud, you cannot know God. C.S. Lewis PRIDE: But the idea of questioning God’s motives will always be a fiercely Americanthing to do; it’s almost patriotic to get in God’s face. Chuck Klosterman, Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs PRIDE: For here is great misery, proud man. Augustine PRIDE: I often quote myself. It adds spice to my conversation. George Bernard Shaw PRIDE: If I had one sermon to preach, it would be a sermon against pride. The more I see of existence … the more I am convinced of the reality of the old religious thesis, that all evil began with some attempt at superiority . . . Chesterton, The Common Man PRIDE: Nothing is more securely lodged than the ignorance of the experts. F.A. Hayek PRIDE: One of the problems with being too high is that there is a long way to fall. Josh Waitzkin PRIDE: The lust for ridiculously large audiences, high ratings, and a fast track to immediate celebrity is a form of madness. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything PRIDE: The only good ideas are the ones I can take credit for. R. Stevens PRIDE: Whoever thinks that he alone has speech, or possesses speech or mind above others, when unfolded such men are seen to be empty. Sophocles, Antigone PRIDE/WIT: Wit is educated insolence. Aristotle, Rhetoric PRINCIPLE: In matters of principle, stand like a rock; in matters of taste, swim with the current. Thomas Jefferson PRIORITIES: The difference between man and animal is tha man is capable of establishing priorities. Mikhail Botvinnik PRIORITIES: Aim at heaven, and you will get earth thrown in. Aim at earth and you will get neither. C.S. Lewis PRIORITIES: The things which matter most must never be at the mercy of things which matter least. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe PRISONS: Prisons are to crime what greenhouses are to plants. Harry Whittington PRIVACY: Privacy is dead. Get over it. Scott McNealy, Sun Microsystems founder PROBLEM SOLVING: Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems. Rene Descartes PROBLEM SOLVING: No problem was solved by the mind that created it. Einstein PROGRESS: it is not strange . . . to mistake change for progress. President Fillmore PROGRESS: Progress might have been all right once, but it has gone on too long. Ogden Nash PROMOTION: Promotion decisions are what I call life and death decisions for managers. Peter Drucker PROPHET: The prophet lets us know what we do not want to know; he troubles and solicits us, makes us tremble, de‐centering the ‘I,’ the self which has a tendency to organize everything around itself and to ensure that everything tht it gives out is returned with interest. John Caputo PROPHETS/RADICALS: Christians should be trouble makers, creators of uncertainty, agents of a dimension incompatible with society. Robert Ellsberg PROSPERITY: I am concerned about the cynical immorality of our nation. Strange crates we are; we can stand all that God and nature send upon us save only plenty. If I wished to destroy a nation I would make it rich and powerful and self-interested and it will destroy itself. John Steinbeck PROSPERITY: The most difficult moment for the church will come when everything is permitted us. Then we will be ashamed because we are not ready to bear witness. Alexander Men, Russian Orthodox Priest and Martyr PROVERBS: Write a wise saying and your name will live forever. Anonymous (Apparently this saying wasn’t wise enough!) PURPOSE AND PROVIDENCE: The moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issue from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would come his way. William Murray PURPOSE, BUSINESS: There is only one valid definition of business purpose: to create a customer. Peter Drucker PURPOSE, GOALS: If we could first know where we are going and whither we are tending, we could better judge what to do and how to do it. Abraham Lincoln, “House Divided” speech PURPOSE: The greatest use of life is to spend it for something that will outlast it. William James PURPOSE: The world makes way for the man (and woman) who knows where he/she is going. Ralph Waldo Emerson. PURPOSE: All of us are born for a reason, but all of us don’t discover why. Success in life has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It’s what you do for others. Danny Thomas (entertainer) PURPOSE: Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it because what the world needs is people who have come alive. Howard Thurman, theologian, civil rights activist PURPOSE: I am appalled at the aimlessness of most people’s lives. Fifty percent don’t pay any attention to where they are going, forty percent are undecided and will go in any direction. Only ten percent know what they want, and even all of them don’t go toward it. Katherine Anne Porter (Pulitzer winning author) PURPOSE: I want to be thoroughly used up when I die. PURPOSE: It is not enough to be busy. The question is: what are we busy about? Henry David Thoreau PURPOSE: My question – that which at the age of fifty brought me to the verge of suicide – was the simplest of questions, lying in the soul of every man . . . a question without an answer to which one cannot live. It was: “What will come of what I am doing today or tomorrow? What will come of my whole life? Why should I live, why wish for anything, or do anything?” it can also be expressed thus: Is there any meaning in my life that the inevitable death awaiting me does not destroy? Leo Tolstoy, A Confession PURPOSE: The leader for the time being, whoever he may be, is but an instrument, to be used until broken and then to be cast aside; and if he is worth his salt he will care no more when he is broken than a soldier cares when he is sent where his life is forfeit in order that the victory may be won. In the long fight for righteousness the watchword for all of us is spend and be spent. It is of little matter whether any one man fails or succeeds; but the cause shall not fail, for it is the cause of mankind. Theodore Roosevelt PURPOSE: We do not determine our purpose, we detect it. Viktor Frankl PURPOSE: What we are trying to do may be just a drop in the ocean, but the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. Mother Teresa PURPOSE: The man who knows how will always have a job. The man who knows why will always be his boss. Ralph Waldo Emerson PURPOSE/JOY: We run, not because we think it is doing us good, but because we enjoy it and cannot help ourselves. The human spirit is indomitable. Roger Bannister, first man to run a sub four minute mile on May 6, 1954 PURPOSES OF GOD: Often God seems to work out his purposes for us slowly, indirectly, and despite ourselves. David Lyle Jeffrey PUZZLES: There are only three great puzzles in the world. The puzzle of love, the puzzle of death, and between each of these and part of both of them, the puzzle of God. God is the greatest puzzle of all. Niall William, As It Is In Heaven QUESTIONS: Computers are useless. They can only give you answers. Pablo Picasso. Questions are what matters. Questions and discovering the right ones, are the key to staying on course. Gary Kasparov QUESTIONS: Questioning yourself must become a habit, one strong enough to surmount the obstacles of overconfidence and dejection. Gary Kasparov QUESTIONS: There are few things as useless – if not as dangerous – as the right answer to the wrong question. Peter Drucker QUESTIONS: When you think you have all the answers, you don’t even ask the questions. Peter Drucker RATIONALISM: We are a puzzled and confused generation, embracing any and every kind of non‐ rationalism that may offer us a spiritual shot in the arm while lapsing back into rationalism (in particular, the old modernist critiques) whenever we want to keep traditional or orthodox Christianity as bay. N. T. Wright READING, BOOKS: The man who does not read books has no advange over the man who can’t read them. Mark Twain READING; Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body. Joseph Addison READING: Study has been my sovereign remedy against the worries of life. I have never had a care that an hour’s reading could not dispel. Charles de Montesquieu READING: (T)he act of reading, which, at its best, is spacious, full-bodied, wholehearted, and infused with the breath of life. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words READING: A good book contains more wealth than a good bank. READING: Books represent the accumulated knowledge and wisdom of the ages, available for pennies on the dollar. Books preserve the greatest thoughts, the greatest ideas, and the greatest insights of human experience. Chris Brady READING: If you read a book a week, in a year you’ll have read 52 books. In ten years 520 books. You’ll be in the top 1% of your field. You’ll be more motivated, better educated; you’ll become the leader in your field. Jim Rohm READING: Many times the reading of a book has made the future of a man. Ralph Waldo Emerson READING: Not all readers are leaders but all leaders must be readers. Harry Truman READING: Noted 18th century scholar Dr. Samuel Johnson once sat in discussion with the King of England. “I suppose, Dr. Johnson, that you read a great deal” said the King. “Yes Sire” replied Johnson, “but I think a great deal more.” Our reading should not just be for enjoyment, but should foster growth in our minds and persons. Reading should lead to better thoughts, which in turn lead to better actions, which then lead to better habits, which then produce better results, which then produce a better future. Chris Brady READING: People who hope to successfully influence what goes on around them will develop the habit of reading great books. William J. O’Neil (founder of Investor’s Business Daily) READING: Reading is a means of thinking with another person’s mind; it forces you to stretch your own. Charles Scribner, Jr. READING: Reading is the mind what exercise is to the body. Sir Richard Steele READING: Reading maketh a full man, conference a ready man, and writing an exact man. Francis Bacon, Of Studies READING: Reading with prayer and laughter and self‐examination is often like fighting off demon‐ possession. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything READING: The best book is the one that sets us off on a train of thought that carries us far away from and far beyond the book itself. READING: There are more secrets in my trade than in any other. Thoreau READING: We need story, poetry, play and song to replenish the wellsprings of imagination, to feed the spirit, to foster compassion. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words READING: We will be addressed and changed if we read well. We will be challenged and confronted and convicted and offended, bothered, unsettled, and sometimes bored. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words READING: What we become depends on what we read after all of the professors have finished withus. The greatest university of all is a collection of books. Thomas Carlyle READING: it’s a good plan to have a book with you in all places and at all times. If you are presently without, hurry without delay to the nearest shop and buy one of mine. Oliver Wendell Holmes REALISM: In all matters we should hope and pray for the best, nevertheless, we should be prepared for the worst. Martin Luther REALISM: The professional pessimist sees one half of the picture, the professional optimist the other. The former calls the latter superficial and is in turn pronounced defeatist. Each possesses a distorted fragment of the Christian faith. The bible’s realism exceeds that of the worst cynic, for it knows what man has done to God. At the same time its hope surpasses the wildest utopian fantasy, for it has concrete experience of what this same god will do for man. Edmond La B. Cherbonnier REALITY: (Reality) is that which, when you stop believing in it, doesn’t go away. Philip K. Dick REALITY: Besides being complicated, reality, in my experience, is usually odd. It is not neat, not obvious and not what you expect… Reality, in fact, is usually something you could not have guessed. C.S. Lewis REALITY: it is the work of the prophet ‐ the poet, the songwriter, the teacher, the preacher – to seek out reality and to never stop questioning it. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything REALITY: Our world of great bargins, low prices, satisfaction guaranteed was always a false world. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything RECESSION: A recession is when the nest guy loses his job. A depression is when you lose yours. Recover is when Jimmy Carter loses his. Ronald Reagan campaigning against Carter RECONCILIATION: You and I ought not to die before we have explained ourselves to each other. John Adams in a letter to Thomas Jefferson REFORM: It is essential to the triumph of reform that it shall never succeed. William Hazlitt REGRET: Never indulge yourself on the sinner’s stool. If you did any harm, that won’t undo it, you’ll merely rake it up. The sinner’s stool is often the only available publicity spot for the otherwise wholly obscure egotist. Theodore Roosevelt RELATIONSHIP: Anyone who doesn’t need company is either greater than a man, and is a God, or lesser than a man, and is a beast. Aristotle RELATIONSHIP: In the beginning is relationship. Martin Buber RELATIONSHIP: The more I’m around people, the more I love my dog. T‐shirt RELATIONSHIPS: Every relationship worth keeping sustains, at the very least, splintered glazes, hairline fractures, cracks. And aren’t these flaws the prerequisites of intimacy. Stephanie Kallos, Broken For You RELEVANT: Whoever marries the spirit of this age will find himself a widower in the next. William Inge RELIGION: Religion is responsibility or it is nothing at all. Jacques Derrida RELIGION: Religion is the temple after God has left it. Bono, U2 RELIGION: Religion makes the “strange” familiar and the familiar strange. RELIGIONLESS: You leave religion with a tremendous sense of liberation, and the, years later, you discover that something really important is missing . . . and you either start all over again and go back and try to reclaim it or else you substitute something else for it. Robert Stone, National Book Award winner for Damascus Gate Repentance: Most of us prefer remorse to repentance. We would rather feel badly about the damage we have done than get estimates on the costs of repair. Barbara Brown Taylor REPUTATION: You can’t build a reputation on what you are going to do. Henry Ford RESILENCY: The signature of the truly great versus the merely successful is not the absence of difficulty, but the ability to come back from setbacks, even cataclysmic catastrophes, stronger than beore. . Jim Collins, How the Mighty Fall RESILIENCE: Mental resilience is arguably the most critical trait of a world-class performer, and it should be nurtured continuously. Josh Waitzkin RESOLVE: We’re here to do whatever it takes. Ronald Reagan RESONANCE, POSITIVITY: A man should never be appointed to a managerial position if his vision focuses on people’s weaknesses rather than on their strengths. Peter Drucker, The Practice of Management RESOURCES, PEOPLE: When we get down to the actual work‐a‐day world, the man wo in the long run succeeds is the man who understands from the beginning that his tools will ofte be imperfect . . . and who goes on and does the best he can in spite of the mistakes and shortcomings of his associates, and in spite of the imperfections of what he has to work with. Theodore Roosevelt RESOURCES: We must use the tools we have. Abraham Lincoln RESPONSIBILITY, DEMOCRACY: The best, most efficient, most profitable way to operate a business is to give everybody in the company a voice in saying how the company is run and a stake in the financial outcome, good or bad. Jack Stack, The Great Game of Business RESPONSIBILITY: I am your servant. You have the right to dismiss me when you please. What you have no right to do is ask me to bear responsibility without the power of action. Winston Churchill Responsibility: I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty. John d. Rockefeller, Jr. RESPONSIBILITY: If not me, who? If not now, when? Rabbi Hillel RESPONSIBILITY: If not you, then who? RESPONSIBILITY: If we are not our brother's keeper, at least let us not be his executioner. Marlon Brando RESPONSIBILITY: If you cannot feed a hundred children, well then, feed one. Mother Teresa RESPONSIBILITY: Personal leadership means dealing with the truth, owning it, and being responsible for what you know and what you don’t know. Howard Behar, It’s Not About the Coffee RESPONSIBILITY: The worker is not the problem. W. Edwards Demming RESPONSIBILITY: Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree. Martin Luther RESPONSIBILITY: My rule always was, to do the business of the day in the day. Duke of Wellington RESURRECTION: it is love that believes the resurrection. Wittgenstein RESURRECTION: Resurrection was always bound to get you in trouble, and it regularly did. N.t. Wright RESURRECTION: resurrection was never a way of setline down and becoming respectable. N.T. Wright RESURRECTION: The world cannot cope with a Jesus who comes out of the tomb, who inaugurates God’s new creation right in the middle of the old one. N.T. Wright REVOLUTION: In a broad sense, what leaders do is stage revolutions. Noel Tichy REWARD: The king of glory does not reward his servants according to the dignity of the offices they hold, but according to the love and humility with which they fulfill their offices. St. Francis de Sales RISK: One does not discover new continents without a willingness to lose sight of the shore for a very long time. Andre Gide, Nobel Prize Winner RISK: One does not discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore. Andre Gide RISK: Take into account that great love and great achievement involve great risk. 14th Dalai Lama ROOTS: A man’s rootage is more important than his leafage. Woodrow Wilson SACRIFICE: There are no victories at bargain prices. Dwight D. Eisenhower SACRIFICE: the important thing is this: to be able at any moment to sacrifice what we are for what we can become. Charles Dubois SAINT: Living with a saint is more grueling than being one. Robert Neville SAINTS: Be a crazy dumb saint of your own mind... Have no fear or shame in the dignity of your experience, language and knowledge. Jack Kerouac SAINTS: Born a saint, die a sinner born a sinner, die a saint. Doug Horton SAINTS: Sainthood emerges when you can listen to someone's tale of woe and not respond with a description of your own. Andrew V. Mason SAINTS: Sainthood is acceptable only in saints. ~ Pamela Hansford Johnson SAINTS: "To err is human. To forgive takes restraint; To forget you forgave Is the mark of a saint." ~ Suzanne Douglass SAINTS: (To be a saint) means to live in such a way that one’s life would not make sense if God did not exist. Cardinal Suhard SAINTS: A man does not have to be an angel in order to be a saint. Albert Schweitzer SAINTS: A saint has to be a misfit. A person who embodies what his culture considers typical or normal cannot be exemplary. Martin E. Marty SAINTS: Don’t call me a saint. I don’t want to be dismissed that easily. Dorothy Day SAINTS: I've gone from saint to whore and back to saint again, all in one lifetime. Ingrid Bergman SAINTS: In order to be a saint, you have to seriously want to be one. Mother Teresa SAINTS: The saints differ from us in their exuberance, the excess of our human talents. Moderation is not their secret. It is in the wildness of their dreams, the desperate vitality of their ambitions, that they stand apart from ordinary people of good will. Phyllis McGinley SAINTS: We are not saints. We know we make mistakes, but at least our heart is with the right cause. ~ Dwight Eisenhower SAINTS: The saints have never attached importance to what their hands do; they did what they had to do but they did it for love. ~ Pere Jacques Bunol SALES: While more sales may ease the symptoms of a current situation or keep it onlife support, more sales definitely do not cure anything. Scott McKain SALES: While more sales may ease the symptoms of a current situation or keep it on life support, more sales definitely do not cure anything. Scott McKain, The Collapse of Distinction SAMENESS: That sea of similarity. Scott McKain, The Collapse of Distinction SANCTIFICATION: Our sanctification did not depend upon changing our works, but in doing for God’s sake that which we commonly did for our own. Brother Lawrence SEARCHING: The young man who rings the bell at the brothel is unconsciously looking for God. SECOND HALF: The one prerequisite for managing the second half of your life: You must begin long before you enter it. Peter Drucker, “Managing Oneself” SECRETS, LONLINESS: Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets. Paul Tournier SECURITY: In his will is our peace. Dante SEDUCTION: It’s the beautiful things that get us. Perhaps the greatest seduction is not the ANTI‐GOD but the ALMOST GOD. Shane Claiborne SELF‐AWARENESS: Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, “Where have I gone wrong? Then a voice says to me, “This is going to take more than one night.” Charles M Schulz SELF‐AWARENESS: Getting to know yourself is extremely difficult. Thales SELF‐AWARENESS: I believe the real difference in America is not between conservatives and liberals, fundamentalists, charismatics, republicans and democrats; the real difference is between the aware and the unaware. Brennan Manning SELF‐AWARENESS: If you do not tell the truth about yourself , you cannot tell it about other people. Virginia Woolf SELF‐AWARENESS: If you would be a real seeker after truth, it is necessary that at least once in your life you doubt, as far as possible, all things. Rene Descartes SELF‐AWARENESS: Know thyself. Oracle of Apollo at Delphi SELF‐AWARENESS: Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom. Aristotle SELF-AWARENESS: Resolve to be thyself; and know that he who finds himself, loses his misery. Matthew Arnold SELF-AWARENESS: The life of every man is a diary in wich he means to write one story, but writes another. And his humblest hour is when he compares the volume as it is with what he vowed to make it. James Barrie SELF‐AWARENESS: the unexamined life is not worth living. Socrates SELF‐AWARENESS: To know oneself, is above all, to know what one lacks. It is to measure oneself against the Truth, and not the other way around. Flannery O’Connor SELF‐AWARENESS: Whenever you find yourself in the majority, it’s time to pause and reflect. Mark Twain SELF-AWARENESS: to known oneself is, above all, to know what one lacks. It is to measure oneself against Truth, and not the other way around. The first product of self-knowledge is humility, and this is not a virtue conspicuous in any national character. Flannery O’Connor, Mystery and Manners SELF‐AWARNESS: For this is the journey that men make; to find themselves. If they fail in this, it doesn’t much matter what else they find . . . James Michener SELF-DECEPTION: it is in the darkness of their eyes that men get lost. Black Elk SELF-DECEPTION: Nothing is so difficult as not deceiving oneself. Wittgenstein Self‐Discipline: The first and best victory is to conquer self. Plato SELF‐DISCIPLINE: When it comes to self‐discipline, people choose one of two things. Either they choose the pain of discipline which comes from sacrifice and growth, or they choose the pain of regret which comes from taking the easy road and missing opportunities. John Maxwell. SELF‐IMPORTANCE: Self‐importance is man’s gretest enemy. What weakens him is feeling offended by the deeds and misdeeds of his fellow man. Self‐importance requires that one spend most of one’s life feeling offended by something or someone. Carlos Castaneda SELF-LEADERSHIP: He knows not how to rule a Kingdom what cannot manage a Province. Nor can he wield a Province that cannot order a City. Nor can he order a City that knows not how to regulate a Village. Nor he a Village that cannot guide a Famiy. Nor can that man govern well a Family that knows not how to govern Himself. Hugo Grotius SELF-LEADERSHIP: You must rule yourself before you rule others. Mark Beliles SELF‐PREOCCUPATION: My generation is introspective at a level somewhere between self‐absorption and narcissism. DeYoung, Why We’re Not Emergent SELF: Dare to be yourself. Ralph Waldo Emerson SELF: How much larger your life would be if your self could become smaller in it . . . You would break out of this tiny and tawdry theatre in which your own little plot is always played, and you would find yourself under a freer sky, in a street full of splendid strangers. Chesterton, Orthodoxy SELF: Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you. Ralph Waldo Emerson SELF: The self is not something ready‐made, but something in continuous formation through choice… John Dewey SELFISHNESS: The cause of all sins in every case lies in the person’a excessive love of self. Plato, Laws SENSE OF HUMOR: There is only one line to be adopted in opposition to all tricks; that is the steady, straight line of duty, tempered by forbearance, levity and good nature. Always try to keep in good humor with the world. Duke of Wellington SERIOUSNESS: Seriousness is not a virtue. Chesterton, Orthodoxy SERVANT LEADER: The leader is the servant of his followers in that he removes the obstacles that prevent them from doing their jobs. In short, the true leader enables his or her followers to realize their full potential. Max DePree, Leadership is an Art SERVANT: If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else. Booker T. Washington SERVANT: One of the indisputable lessons of life is that we cannot get or keep anything for ourselves alone unless we get it for others. Richard Sneed SERVICE: In the long run no man or women can really be happy unless he or she is doing service. Happiness springing exclusively from some other cause crumbles in your hands, amounts to nothing. Theodore Roosevelt SEXUAL SIN: If you think you can’t fall into sexual sin, then you’re godlier than David, stronger than Samson, and wiser than Solomon. Bill Perkins SHOPPING: Men buy; women shop and then purchase 80% of everything. Elizabeth Pace SILENCE: My dear, you’ve missed so many opportunities to say nothing. SILENCE: Silence is golden when you can’t think of a good answer. Muhammad Ali, More Than a Hero SILENCE: Silence is one great art of conversation. William Hazlitt SIMILARITY: Whatever you may be sure of, be sure of this, that you are dreadfully like other people. James Russell Lowell SIMPLE: I have always studied to be simple. John Calvin SIMPLICITY: After nearly sixty years of writing history, and also of observing contemporary history makes in action, I am convinced that successful government depends less on intelligence and knowledge than on simplicity – that is the ability to narrow aims to three or four important tasks which are possible, reasonable and communicable. Paul Johnson, Heroes SIMPLICITY: It is simplicity that makes the uneducated more effective than the educated when addressing popular audiences. Aristotle SIMPLICITY: simplicity is complexity resolved. Constantin Brancusi, Romanian sculptor Sin, Roman Empire: Wealth has made us greedy, and self‐indulgence has brought us, through every form of sensual excess, to be, if I may so put it, in love with death. Livy, History of Rome SIN: What happened in Eden may be hard to understand, but it makes everything else understandable. Peter Kreeft Sin: Devotion to what is wrong is complex and admits of infinite variations. Seneca SIN: Neither the language of medicine nor of law is adequate substitute for the language of sin. Contrary to the medical model, we are not entirely at the mercy of our maladies. The choice is to enter into the process of repentance. Contrary to the legal model, the essence of sin is not (primarily) the violation of laws but a wrecked relationship with God, one another, and the whole created order. ‘All sins are attempts to fill voids,’ wrote Simone Weil. Because we cannot stand the God‐shaped hole inside of us, we try stuffing it full of all sorts of things, but only God may fill it. Barbara Brown Taylor, Speaking of Sin SIN: Nothing is easier than sinning. Martin Luther SIN: Our lives are not rightly ordered. St. Augustine SIN: Sin is not simply doing bad things, it is putting good things in the place of God. Tim Keller, The Reason for God SIN: Sin is the steadfast refusal to be your one true self. Kierkegaard (paraphrase) SIN: The deep truth about us is that we are all morally flimsy, covertly willing to sell out at some terrible price. Marilyn McCord Adams SIN: The primary way to define sin is not just the doing of bad things, but the making of good things into ultimate things. It is seeking to establish a sense of self by making something else more central toyour significance, purpose and happiness than your relationship to God. Tim Keller, The Reason for God SIN: The world is now flooded with abnormalities so prevalent that they seem all too normal. David Naugel, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives SIN: What am I to myself but a guide to my own self‐destruction. Augustine SIN: You are depraved by prosperity and you cannot be reformed by adversity. St. Augustine SIN: Sin is the despairing refusal to find your deepest identity in your relationship and service to God. Sin is seeking to become oneself, to get an identity apart from him. Tim Keller, The Reason for God SIN: Sin is the forgetfulness of God’s goodness. Evagrius of Pontus (paraphrase) SIN: Sin is: in despair not wanting to be oneself before God . .. Faith is: that the self in being itself and wanting to be itself is grounded transparently in God. Kierkegaard SIN: We are our own devils; we drive ourselves out of our Edens. Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe SINCERITY: Always be sincere whether you mean it or not. SKEPTICISM: The freedom of our day is the freedom to devote ourselves to any values we please, on the mere condition that we do not believe them to be true. Robert Bellah SKEPTICISM: Something in the human mind says it’s hopeless: The existence of God is something that human beings can never entirely discount, or entirely prove. Why torture yourself trying to answer a question like that? Get a hobby. Work out regularly. Eat low fat. Forget about what Yeats called “vague immensities . . .” Yet something deep in your soul says, go ahead. Seek the ultimate answers. Maybe the human brain can actually know some transcendent divinity. Yeah. Good one. Don’t hurt yourself, OK? Frank Gannon SLAVERY: When I hear anyone arguing for slavery, I feel a strong impulse to see it tried on him personally. Abraham Lincoln SLOTH: it believes in nothing, cares for nothing, seeks to know nothing, interferes with nothing, enjoys nothing, loves nothing, hates nothing, finds purpose in nothing, lives for nothing, and remains alive for there is nothing it would die for. Dorothy Sayers SLOTH: Our lack of love for God can make us spiritually lazy, morally negligent, and intellectually idle. David Naugel, Reordered Love, Reordered Lives SLOTH: Sloth fails to find God supremely significant and attractive so as to pursue him enthusiastically. Peter Kreeft SOLITUDE: In secret, a brother went to see Abba Moses and begged him for a word. And the old man said: go sit in your cell, and your cell will teach you everything. SOLITUDE: In solitude I get rid of my scaffolding: no friends to talk with, no telephone calls to make, no meetings to attend, no music to entertain, no books to distract, just me – naked, vulnerable, weak, sinful, deprived, broken – nothing. Henri Nouwen Solutions: There is always an easy solution to every human problem – neat, plausible, and wrong. H. L. Mencken SORROW: All sorrows can be born if you put them into a story or tell a story about them. Isak Dinesen SOVEREIGNTY OF GOD: I am only an instrument that God is using for the moment. Afterwards, things will be as God wants them. Alexander Men, Russian Orthodox Priest and Martyr SPEECH: Always when you are about to say anything, first weigh it in your mind; for with many the tongue outruns the thought. Let there be but two occasions for speech – when the subject is one which you know thoroughly and when it is one on which you are compelled to speak. On these occasions alone is speech better then silence; on all others, it is better to be silent than to speak. Isocrates SPEECH: Nature has given us one tongue and two ears so that we would listen twice as much as we speak. Neno of Elea SPEECH: Wise is he who can compress many thoughts into few words. Aristophanes SPEECH/TALKATIVE: A man who takes pleasure in speaking continuously fools himself in thinking he is not unpleasant to those around him. Sophocles SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP: Christian leadership rises from bended knees, tearful eyes, and broken hearts. Joshua Choonmin Kang, Deep-Rooted in Christ SPIRITUAL LEADERSHIP: The central question is, are the leaders of the future truly men and women of God, people with an ardent desire to dwell in God’s presence, to listen to God’s voice, to look at God’s beauty, to touch God’s incarnate Word and to taste fully God’s infinite goodness? Henri Nouwen, In the Name of Jesus SPIRITUALITY: I firmly believe that mankind was once wiser about spiritual things than we are today. Henry Ford SPIRITUALITY: it is easier to spend your life manipulating an institution then it is to deal with your own soul. Parker Palmer SPIRITUALITY: We aren’t as deeply acquainted with our religion as we might thing. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything STATUS QUO, CHANGE: Question the status quo at all times, especially when things are going well. When something goes wrong, you naturally want to do it better the next time, but you must train yourself to want to do it better even when things go right. Failing to do this leads to stagnation and eventual breakdown. Gary Kasparov STATUS QUO: Leaders conduct planned conflict against the status quo. Hyrun Smith STATUS QUO: Warren Bennis says he wants to publish books “that disturb the present in the service of a better future. STEWARDSHIP: Anyone can make a world suffer and cry. It requires no imagination. Child’s play, and no challenge at all. But to fix the broken jugs of despair, unkindness, illness and ill fortune – this takes a creative mind. Tanith Lee STEWARDSHIP: Polishing up the world, making it, where (we) can better. And where we can’t, comforting it. Tanith Lee STILLNESS: To the mind that is still, the world surrenders. Taoist saying STORIES: Why was Solomon recognized as the wisest man in the world? Because he knew more stories, proverbs, than anyone else. Scratch the surface in a typical boardroom and we’re all just cavemen with briefcases, hungry for a wise person to tell us a story. Scott McKain, The Collapse of Distinction STORIES: marketing is the act of telling stories about the things we make – stories that sell and stories that spread. Seth Godin, Tribes STORIES: Scratch the surface in a typical boardroom and we’re all just cavemen with briefcases, hungry for a wise person to tell us stories. Scott Mckain STORY: A man is always a teller of tales, he lives surrounded by his stories and the stories of others, he sees everything that happens to him through them; and he tries to live his own life as if were telling a story. Jean‐Paul Sartre, Nausea STORY: We don’t need list of rights and wrongs, tables of do’s and don’ts. We need books, time, silence. “Thou shalt not” is soon forgotten, but ‘Once upon a time lasts forever.’ STORY: God writes straight with crooked lines. STORY: The only safe place is inside a story. Athol Fugard STORY: Those who control the stories rule the world. Dick Staub, The Culturally Savvy Christian STORY: To be a person is to have a story to tell. Isak Dinesen STORY: We tell ourselves stories in order to live. Joan Didion STORY: The stories that mater also complicate our lives. Good stories are always slightly precarious places to go. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words STRANGE: If you haven’t found something strange during the day, it hasn’t been much of a day. John Wheeler STRATEGIC PLANNING: it is rarely possible – or even particularly fruitful – to look to far ahead. A plan can usually cover no more than 18 months and still be reasonably clear and specific. So the question in most cases should be – “where and how can I achieve results that will make a difference within the next year and a half?” Peter Drucker, “Managing Oneself” STRATEGY: Strategy without tactics is the slowest route to victory. Tactics without strategy is the noise before defeat. Sun Tzu STRATEGY: Tactics is knowing what to do when there is something to do; strategy is knowing what to do when there is nothing to do. Savielly Tartakower STRATEGY: The strategist’s method is to challenge the prevailing assumptions with a single questin: Why? Kenichi Ohmae, Japanese author STRATEGY: Why is the question that separates visionaries from functionaries, great strategists from mere tacticians. Gary Kasparov STRENGTH: Weak is the new strong. STRENGTHS: In my regiment nine‐tenths of the men were better horsemen that I was, and probably two‐thirds of them better shots than I was, while on the average they were certainly hardier and more enduring. Yet after I had had them a very short while they all knew, and I knew too, that nobody else could command them as well as I could. Theodore Roosevelt STRENGTHS: It takes far more energy and far more work to improve from incompetence to low mediocrity than it takes to improve from first-rate performance to excellence. Peter Drucker STRENGTHS: Nothing destroyes the spirit of an organization faster than focusing on people’s weaknesses rather than on their strengths, building on disabilities rather than on abilities. Peter Drucker STRENGTHS: The focus must be on strength . . . the greatest mistake is to try to build on weakness. Peter Drucker STRESS: Reality is the leading cause of stress amongst those in touch with it. Jane Wagner STRESS: Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency. Natalie Goldberg STRESS: Stress is the non‐specific response of the body too any demand for change. Hans Seyle, Stress Without Distress STRESS: Stress tolerance is the skill of holding the world’s parade of unpleasant surprises at bay. Marcia Hughes, Emotionally Intelligent Teams STRIVING: Men are most deeply moved not by the reaching of the goal, but by the grandness of effort involved in getting there or failing to get there. Max Lerner STUMBLE: A stumble may prevent a fall. Thomas Fuller STUMBLE: Keep on going and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down. Charles F. Kettering STUMBLE: We stumble and fall constantly even when we are most enlightened. But when we are in true spiritual darkness, we do not even know that we have fallen. Thomas Merton SUCCESS: Here is the task and I have got to do it to the best of my ability; and that is all there is about it. The Theodore Roosevelt odore Roosevelt SUCCESS: I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has had to overcome while trying to succeed. Booker T. Washington SUCCESS: If you have accomplished all that you have planned for yourself, you have not planned enough. Edward Everett Hale SUCCESS: Some peter out and some pan out. James Barrie SUCCESS: Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire. Arnold H. Glasgow SUCCESS: The much commoner type of success in every walk of life and in every species of efforts is that which comes to the man who differs from his fellows not by the kind of quality which he possesses but by the degree of development which he has given that quality. This kind of success is open to a large number of persons, if only they seriously determine to achieve it. It is the kind of success which is open to the average man . . . who has no remarkable mental or physical attributes, but who gets just as much as possible in the way of work out of the aptitudes that he does possess. It is this kind of success that is open to most of us. Yet some of the greatest successes in history have been those of this class. SUCCESS: the true nature of a nation’s success is not gross national product, but gross national happiness. SUCCESS: Judge your success by what you had to give up to get it. 14th Dalai Lama SUCCESS: Successful people shoot for the stars, put their hearts on the line in every battle, and ultimately discover that the lessons learned from the pursuit of excellence mean much more than the immediate trophies and glory. In the long run, painful losses may prove much more valuable than wins – those who are armed with a healthy attitude and are able to draw wisdom from every experience “good” or “bad,” are the ones who make it down the road. They are also the ones who are happier along the way. Josh Waitzkin SUCCESS/FAILURE: Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts. Winston Churchill. SUFFERING: I’d rather die young, having lived a life crammed with meaning, than to die old, even in security, but without meaning. Mev Puleo, 1996 SUFFERING: Jesus didn’t die to save us from suffering – he died to teach us how to suffer. Mev Puleo, 1996 SUFFERING: Life brings sorrows and joys alike. It is what a man does with them – not what they do to him – that is the true test of his mettle. Theodore Roosevelt SUFFERING: Life is truly known only to those who suffer, lose, endure adversity, and stumble from defeat to defeat. Anais Nin SUFFERING: They say of our temporal suffering, “No future bliss can make up for it,” not knowing that heaven, once attained, will work backwards and turn even that agony into a glory. C.S. Lewis SUFFERING: Though Christianity does not provide the reason for each experience of pain, it provides deep resources for actually facing suffering with hope and courage rather than bitterness and despair. Tim Keller, The Reason for God SUFFERING: We must now preach to men for whom experience has made it obvious that god does not rule. G.C. Berkouwer SUPERIORS: A man should live with his superiors as he does with his fire; not too near, lest he burn; not too far off, lest he freeze. Diogenes SURVIVAL: Man's unique reward, however, is that while animals survive by adjusting themselves to their background, man survives by adjusting his background to himself. Ann Rand SUSPICION: suspicion is dangerous, but that does not mean that we should suspend our suspicions. It means, rather, that we should suspect our suspicions, knowing their danger. Merold Westphal SYNCRETISM: Christianity doesn’t compete with pop culture. It is pop culture. Walter Kim, new York Times columnist TAKE CHARGE: When in command, take charge. TALENT: If a man has talent and cannot use it, he has failed. Thomas Wolfe TALENT: Like the proverbial tree falling in the forest with no one around to hear, talent undiscovered may as well not exist. TEACHERS: He spoke softly, moved deeply, taught those who were ready to learn. Gems were after thoughts, hidden beneath the breath, and you could pick them up or not – he hardly seemed to care. I was amazed how much of his subtle instruction went unnoticed. Josh Waitzkin TEAM: It takes great willpower and self-confidence to surround ourselves with smart, talented people who we know will confront us. NO one enjoys being contradicted or corrected. Gary Kasparov TEAM: personally I have never been able to understand why the head of a big business, whether it be the Nation, the State or the Army, or Navy should not desire to have very strong and positive people under him. Theodore Roosevelt TEAM: The leader finds greatness in the group. Theodore Roosevelt TEAMS: I surrounded myself with people who were far more talented and gifted then I was. This was the secret to EDS’s success – the multiplier effect of all this talent. Ross Perot Teamwork: My idea fo a team is a whole lot of people doing what I tell them to do. (Sign on a T‐shirt) TECHNOLOGY: Technology is the knack of so arranging the world that we don’t have to experience it. Max Frisch, Homo Faber TELEVISION: Television has achieved the status of “meta-medium’ an instrument that directs not only our knowledge of the world but our knowledge of ways of knowing as well. Neil Postman, Amusing Ouselves to Death TELOS: And so the Spirit sweeps through the universe with resounding, inspiring, and igniting power, evoking the response of renewed vitality until the last day. This is the purpose and action of God. Hildegard of Bingen TELOS: Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever. Westminster Shorter Catechism THEOLOGIAN: if you are a theologian you truly pray. If you truly pray, you are a theologian. Evagrius Ponticus, desert father 385 THEOLOGY: the science of living blessedly forever. John Perkins / J.I. Packer THEOLOGY: Theology has to stop explaining the world and start transforming it. Jose Miguel Bonino, liberation theologian THEORY/PRACTICE: it is far easier . . . to develop and preserve a spiritual outlookon life, than it is to make our everyday actions harmonize with that spiritual outlook. Evelyn Underhill THINKING: A great many people think they are thinking when they are really rearranging their prejudices. William James THINKING: Acting without thinking is like shooting without aiming. B.C. Forbes THINKING: An honest religious thinker is like a tightrope walker. He almost looks as though he were walking on nothing but air. His support is the slenderest imaginable. And yet it really is possible to walk on it. Ludwig Wittgenstein THINKING: I am, therefore I will think. Ann Rand THINKING: The mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be ignited. Plutarch TIME, EXPOSURED: Time will reveal everything. It is a babbler and speaks even when not asked. Euripides TIME, STRATEGIC: It’s not the amount of time that really counts – it’s the quality of your study and how you use your time. Becoming a 24/7 fanatic who counts every minute and second isn’t going to make you a success. The keys to great preparation are self-awareness and consistency. Gary Kasparov TIMES: in times like these, it helps to recall that there have always been times like these. Paul Harvey TIMING: Ninth‐tenths of wisdom consists in being right in time. Theodore Roosevelt TOOLS: If the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail. Abraham Maslow TOOLS: We shape our tools and afterward out tools shape us. Marshall McLuhan TOYS: Gear is to men what jewelry is to women. Dan Allender, Leading Character TRADITION: Again, friends, do not forget that we are proposing no new principles. The doctrines we preach reach back to the Golden Rule and the Sermon on the Mount. They reach back to the commandments delivered at Sinai. All that we are asking is to apply those doctrines in the shape necessary to make them available for meeting the living issues of our own day. Theodore Roosevelt TRADITION: Bless their past and they will bless your future. Damn their past, and they will damn your future. Harold Korver, pastor TRANSFORMATION: The opportunity for conversion is brief, and our lives are littered with missed opportunities. Alan Jones, Soul Making TRANSITIONS: Not in his goals, but in his transitions is a man shown to be great. Ralph Waldo Emerson TRAVEL: The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page. St. Augustine TRIBES: If oral culture is tribal and literature culture is individual, the electronic age is essentially a tribe of individuals. Shane Hipps TRINITY: The doctrine of the Trinity overloads our mental circuits. Despite its cognitive difficulty, however, this astonishing, dynamic conception of the triune God is bristling with profound, wonderful, life‐shaping, world‐changing implications. Tim Keller, The Reason for God TRUST: All shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well. Julian of Norwich TRUST: Followers buy in to the leader before anything else. The vision may be compelling, but is the leader worth following? The rewards may be inspiring, but can the leader be trusted? The environment may be inviting, but does the leader care about his or her own people? The resources may be abundant but does the leader have character? Chris Brady TRUST: I did not have to know everything, and that, in seeking to know everything, I’d been, all of my life, missing the entire point. Anne Rice, Called out of Darkness TRUST: Leadership is built on trust; extraordinary leadersip is built on extraordinary trust; extraordinary trust is built on a leader’s adherence to shared tenets of personal morality. James Strock, Roosevelt TRUTH, CRUELTY: it is the certainty that they possess the truth that makes men cruel. Anatole Francois Thibault TRUTH: Every truth without exception – and whoever may utter it – is from the Holy Spirit. Thomas Aquinas TRUTH: It (truth) always demands fresh lyricization, new ways of putting it, new wine and new wineskins, new ways of listening for the word of the Lord. David Dark, Sacred of Questioning Everything TRUTH: No faith can command a man’s final and absolute allegiance, that is to say not faith can be a man’s real religion, if he knows that it is only true for certain places and certain people. Leslie Newbigin TRUTH: Only by participating in the truth can you share in the meaning of truth. St. Gregory of Sinai TRUTH: Plato is dear to me, yet dearer is truth. Aristotle TRUTH: The truth is mightier than eloquence, the Spirit greater than genius, faith more than education. Martin Luther TRUTH: Truth is relentlessly narratival. Walter Brueggemann TRUTH: We hate the truth, and people hide if from us; we want to be flattered and people flatter us; we like being deceived, and we are deceived. Blaise Pascal TRUTH: When the dogmatic principle in religion is slighted, religion goes along for a while on generalized emotion and ethical intention . . . and then loses the force of its impulse, then the essence of its being. Lionel Trilling TRUTH: You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you odd. Flannery O’Connor TRUTH/ERROR: Unless one carefully examines in order to ascertain if one’s path is the path of truth, the slightest initial distortion later becomes a large distortion. Miyamoto Musashi, The Book of Five Rings TV, SPECTATORS: The spectator experience is passive, mesmeric, undiscriminating and therefore, not conducive to the refinement of the critical faculties: logic and imagination; linguistic precision, historical awareness and a capacity for long, intense absorption. Mark Miller, Boxed-In: The Culture of TV UNDERSTANDING: To get others to come into our ways of thinking, we must go over to theirs; and it is necessary to follow, in order to lead. William Hazlitt UNHAPPINESS: O why are so haggard at the heart, so care‐coiled, care‐killed . . . so cogged, so cumbered. Gerard Manley Hopkins UNHAPPINESS: Unhappiness is not knowing what we want and killing ourselves to get it. Don Herold UNKNOWN: There are known knowns. There are things we know that we know. There are known unknowns. That is to say there are things that we now know we don’t know. But there are also unknown unknowns. There are things we don’t know we don’t know. Donald Rumsfeld URGENCY: I don’t have a sense of crisis, I have a sense of urgency that never changes, whether we’re doing well or we’re doing poorly. Louis Gerstner VALUES, SELF‐DESTRUCTION: The things that will destroy America are prosperity‐at‐any=prince, safety‐ first instead of duty first, the love of soft living, and the get‐rich‐quick theory of life. Theodore Roosevelt VALUES: It is easier to exemplify values than teach them. Theodore Hesburgh VERBS: Verbs I think, matter most. Asked for his name, God gave Moses a verb. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words VICE: it has been my experience that folks who have no vices have very few virtues. Abraham Lincoln VIRTUE, SELF‐AWARENESS: If you wish to become virtuous, first acknowledge that you are not. Epictetus VIRTUE; Cities must be beautified not with beautiful buildings, but with the virtues of their citizens. Zeno of Elea VIRTUE: All of us are experts at practicing virtue at a distance. Theodore Hesburgh VIRTUE: Before virtue, Gods have placed sweat. Hesiod VIRTUE: Virtue is not wronging others, but not wishing to wrong others. Democritus VIRTUES: All the virtues are cultivated by studying and learning. Xenophon VISION, DIRECTION: You can’t really predict exactly what will happen, but you can feel the direction that we’re going in. And that’s about as close as you can get. Then you just stand back and get out of the way, and these things take on a life of their own. Steve Jobs VISION: God hates visionary dreaming; it makes the dreamer proud and pretentious. Dietrich Bonhoeffer. VISION: Hitch your wagon to a star. Ralph Waldo Emerson VISION: I dream of things that are not and ask why not. Robert F. Kennedy VISION: If I had asked my customers what they wanted, they’d have said a faster horse. Henry Ford VISION: Leaders inspire a shared vision. They gaze across the horizon of time, imagining the attractive opportunities that are in store when they and their constituents arrive at a distant destination. Kouzes and Posner VISION: Radio has no future. Heavier‐than‐air flying machines are impossible. X‐rays will prove to be a hoax. Lord Kelvin, physicist, 1899 VISION: Sometimes we have the dream but we are not ourselves ready for the dream. We have to grow to meet it. Louis L'Amour VISION: The (atomic) bomb will never go off. I speak as an expert in explosives. Admiral William Leahy VISION: The first goal need not be the final one, for a sailing ship sails first by one wind, then another. The point is that it is always going somewhere, proceeding toward a final destination. Louis L'Amour VISION: The very essence of leadership is that you have to have a vision; you can’t blow an uncertain trumpet. Theodore Hesburgh VISION: Throughout the centuries there were men who took first steps down new roads armed with nothing but their own vision." Ayn Rand VISION: To accomplish great things, we must dream as well as act. Anatole France, French novelist VISION: To be one of the most well‐known and respected organizations in the world known for nurturing and inspiring the human spirit. Starbucks vision VISION: We need leaders of inspired idealism, leaders to whom are granted great visions, who dream greatly and strive to make their dreams come true; who can kindle the people with the fire from their own burning souls. Theordore Roosevelt VISION: You must have a long‐range vision to keep you from being frustrated by short‐term failures. Charles Noble VISION: Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens. Carl Jung VISION: If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants. Isaac newton VISION/DREAMS: Dreams are answers to questions we haven’t yet figured out how to ask. Fox Mulder, X‐Files VISION/DREAMS: If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. Henry David Thoreau VISION/DREAMS: The dream was always running ahead of me. To catch up, to live for a moment in unison with it, that was the miracle. Anais Nin VITAL OPTIMISM: Success is for the people at the precipice. The entrepreneurs, innovators, risk takers, and dreamers. We remind you to never stop thinking. Proactively seek out fresh answers. Find partners. Remember that you are only as smart as the people you surround yourself with. Seek out people who are smarter than you are . . . Become cosmonauts of change. Motivate forward. Find your buzz. Remember that life is continual uncovering. Most of all, discover the things that thrill you and do them. In the end, they are the only reason to get up in the morning. Pat Hanlon, Thinktopia creed VOCATION: Live your own joyfully. VOCATION: Vocation does not come from willfulness. It comes from listening. I must listen to my life and try to understand what it is truly about - quite apart from what I would like it to be about - or my life will never represent anything real in the world, no matter how earnest my intentions. That insight is hidden in the word vocation itself, which is rooted in the Latin for "voice." Vocation does not mean a goal that I pursue. It means a calling that I hear. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am. Parker Palmer, Let Your Life Speak VOCATION/WORK: Most of us have jobs that are too small for our spirit. Studs Terkel VOCATION/WORK: The pitcher cries for water to carry and a person for work that is real. Marge Piercy VOCATION/WORK: The work exists for the person as much as the person exists for the work. Robert Greenleaf VOICE: We forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to be like other people. Arthur Schopenhauer WAR: I hate battles . . . you lose your friends and your best men. Duke of Wellington WAR: I hope to God I have fought my last battle. It is a bad thing always to be fighting. While I am in the thick of it I am too much occupied to feel anything. But it is wretched just after. It is quite impossible to think of glory. Both mind and feelings are exhausted. I am wretched even at the moment of victory, and I always say that next to a battle lost, the greatest misery is a battle gained. Duke of Wellington WAY OF CHRIST: The Christian way is different – both harder and easier. Christ says, “Give me ALL. I don’t want just this much of your time and this much of your money and this much of your work – so that your natural self can have the rest. I want you. Not your things. I have not come to torture your natural self . . . I will give you a new self instead. Hand over the whole natural self – ALL the desires, not just the ones you think wicked but the ones you think innocent – the whole outfit. I will give you a new self instead.” The almost impossibly hard thing is to hand over your whole self to Christ. But it is far easier than what we are all trying to do instead. For what we are trying to do is remain what we call “ourselves” – our personal happiness centered on money or pleasure or ambition – and hoping, despite this, to behave honestly and chastely and humbly. And that is exactly what Christ warned us you cannot do. C.S. Lewis WEALTH: He who dies wealthy, dies disgraced. Andrew Carnegie WELLS: If we desire fresh, cool water, we must dig a deeper well. We will not find pure, refreshing water by digging many shallow wells. Twenty‐first century humans are masters of digging shallow wells spiritually, intellectually, and creatively, and it is killing us. Dick Staub, The Culturally Savvy Christian WIFE, MARTYR: What should the wife of saint be called? A martyr? Frank Earl WISDOM: A mind, like a home, is furnished by its owner, so if one's life is cold and bare he can blame none but himself. You have a chance to select from some pretty elegant furnishings. Louis L'Amour WISDOM: A sword is never enough. The mind is also a weapon, but like the sword it must be honed and kept sharp. Louis L'Amour WISDOM: He who can properly summarize many ideas in a brief statement, is a wise man. Euripides WISDOM: In pursuit of knowledge, every day something is acquired. In pursuit of wisdom, every day something is dropped. Lao Tzu WISDOM: Money can be lost or stolen, health and strength may fail, but what you have committed to your mind is yours forever. Louis L'Amour WISDOM: Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it. George Santayana WISDOM: We are in the Information Age. And it really won’t be the quality of information but the quality of interpreting that information that will make the difference. WISDOM: Wisdom comes at the price of suffering. Aeschylus, Agamemnon WISDOM: Wisdom comes from good judgment, answered the master. But how does one obtain good judgment asked the apprentice. By experiencing enough bad judgment answered the master. WISELY STRATEGIC: I see you’ve been busy. Now tell me what you’ve accomplished. James A. Autry WOMEN: I don’t think a woman should be in any government job whatsoever . . . mainly because they are erratic. And emotional. Men are erratic and emotional, too, but the point is a woman is more likely to be. President Richard Nixon on why he would not appoint a woman to the Supreme Court WOMEN: There is a real penalty for a woman who behaves like a man. The men don’t like her and the women don’t either. WOMEN: What does a woman want? Freud famously asked. Simple. She wants a partner who cares what she wants, Daniel Goleman famously answered. WOMEN: Women have for centuries been recognized as talented listeners, nurturers, motivators, excellent communicators. These very qualities that we once were told were unbusinesslike are precisely the qualities that business needs most to tap human potential. Mary Cunningham Agee WONDER: The sole origin of philosophy is wonder. Socrates WORDS: He was not a word musician. His ear was satisfied with the approximate word. Mark Twain speaking about Fenimore Cooper WORDS: Our lives are lived in relationship to words, written and spoken, sacred and mundane. They are manna for the journey. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words WORDS: Words are entrusted to us as equipment for our life together, to help us survive, guide, and nourish one another. Marilyn Chandler McEntyre, Caring for Words WORDS: Words are of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind. Rudyard Kipling WORDS: Words with me are instruments. I wish to impress upon the people to whom I talk the fact that I am sincere, that I mean exactly what I say, and that I stand for the things that are elemental in civilization. Theodore Roosevelt WORK ETHIC, INTENTIONALITY: Without the ceaseless work ethic, Michael Jordan is merely another talented athlete gliding through an admirable career, but nothing historic. WORK ETHIC: I’m a great believer in luck and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it. Thomas Jefferson WORK: Live for your days on, not your days off. Marcia Hughes, Emotionally Intelligent Teams WORKS: We may all have a closet full of works that we are not proud of, works that need permission to come out. Fujimura, Refractions WORLDVIEW, MORALITY: Declining morality is not the cause of a war of worldviews but evidence of it. During times of titanic cultural upheaval, central moral battles rise to the surface. As the old order passes and a new order rises up, the old moral restraints begin to fall away before the new boundaries have stabilized. Rex Miller, Millennium Matrix WRINKLES: Age wrinkles the body. Quitting wrinkles the soul. Douglas MacArthur WRINKLES: You don’t get old from living a particular number of years; you get old because you have deserted your ideals. Years wrinkle your skin; renouncing your ideals wrinkles your soul. Worry, doubt, fear, and despair are the enemies which slowly bring us down to the ground and turn us to dust before we die. Douglas MacArthur WRITING: Unprovided with original learning, uninformed in the habits of thinking, unskilled in the art of composition, I resolved to write a book. Edward Gibbon, the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire WRITING: Writing a book is an adventure. To begin with, it is a toy and an amusement; then it becomes a mistress. Winston Churchill WRITING: Your manuscript is both good and original, but eh part that is good is not original and the part that is original is not good. Samuel Johnson YES: Those who think “no” is the most powerful word are missing something. “Yes” is the most powerful word. Yes is freeing and inspiring. It means permission. It means possibility. It means you give yourself and others the chance to dream. Saying yes makes you feel good. Howard Behar, It’s Not About the Coffee YOUTH: I see no hope for the future of our people if they depend on the frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless beyond words. When I was a boy we were taught to be discreet and respectful of elders, but the present youth are exceedingly wild and impatient of restraint. Greek poet Hesiod, 800 B.C. YOUTH: When you’re young, you don’t know what you don’t know. We just did it. ZEAL: Moderation in all things, except in zeal for Christ.
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