The Grapevine Summer Term 2014 Hinton Road, Fulbourn, Cambridgeshire, CB21 5DZ www.cambridge-steiner-school.co.uk - 01223 882727 Registered Charity No. 1028116. Registered in England Company No. 2866985 Editorial W elcome to this year’s edition of The Grapevine – The Cambridge Steiner School’s annual School magazine. This magazine is produced annually to document some of the beautiful and wonderful things that happen in our School throughout the year, that Parents might otherwise not get to see or hear about. Join us on a journey from Parent and Child groups, through Kindergarten and into the Primary School, to gain a deeper understanding of the elements that comprise the Steiner Waldorf education that is offered here. The education offered at The Cambridge Steiner School takes account of the needs of the whole child – academic, physical, emotional and spiritual. It is based on an understanding of the relevance of the different phases of child development, and aims to develop a love of learning and an enthusiasm for School. We endeavour to produce very able young people, who have a strong sense of self and diverse capacities that enable them to become socially and economically responsible citizens. Our Kindergartens and Parent and Child groups aim to create a peaceful atmosphere, allowing the children plentiful time for imaginative play with natural materials, and Contents offering craft activities such as weaving, painting and finger-knitting. Formal learning begins in Primary School, where teachers use creative methods to teach literacy and numeracy against the backdrop of an extremely varied and exciting curriculum, which includes knitting, music, French, cooking, botany, myths, and legends, plus sports and games, capoeira, and drama workshops. A massive thank you to all the Staff at the School, whose dedication and energy makes our School truly shine, and also to all the Parent volunteers, whose work is vital. Volunteering is a great way to get involved in the School, to get to know other staff and parents, and also helps to demonstrate to our children what community is all about. Thanks to Parveen Bird, John Bird and Paul Minett at The Big Issue for helping to format this magazine (please do buy a copy of The Big Issue next time you pass a vendor and support the great work that they do.) Have a great Summer holiday and see you all in September! Trishna Shah “Our highest endeavor must be to develop free human beings who are able of themselves to impart purpose and direction to their lives. The need for imagination, a sense of truth, and a feeling of responsibility—these three forces are the very nerve of education.” Rudolf Steiner 2. Editorial 3. Contents 4. Word from The Administrator and Primary School Team 5. Word from The Trustees 6 - 25. Class Updates 26 - 27. Craft Group Update and School Shop 28. Work party weekends 29. Volunteering at School 30. The May Fair 31. The Multicultural Festival 32 - 33. Empowered mothering 34. Image - Martinmas lanterns made by Kindergarten children 35. Adverts 36. Watercolour painting from Class 1/2 2 3 Word from the Administrator and Primary School Team Reflecting Back: The year has been marked out by the joyous celebration of our many festivals: we baked dragon bread and made apple juice at Michaelmas; the children created beautiful rangoli patterns with Trishna for Diwali; we returned to the old people’s home and sang for Saint Martin’s; we quietly walked our advent spiral by candle light; the teachers (and other members of the community!) brought the children their gift of the ‘Oberufer’ Christmas Play; everyone got dressed up for Carnival, and, to finish off the day, the children enjoyed a surprise visit from our friends at the Cambridge Community Circus; the year drew to a close with our Saint John’s celebration, complete with beautiful flowers, a colourful and bountiful fruit salad, and a crackling fire! Looking outwards: This year the children took part in the nationwide campaign ‘Jump Rope for Heart’ and collectively raised over £800 for the British Heart Foundation! Behind the Scenes: Ann Swain joined the Primary School staff for a wonderfully insightful training day exploring the different ways that children learn and how to address pupils’ special educational needs (SEN). The Primary School team also attended a maths conference in London hosted by Jamie Word from the Trustees York, a Waldorf maths educator, teacher-trainer, and author of Waldorf maths books in the Making Math Meaningful® series. It was an inspiring and fun-filled day! Looking forward: We are really excited about the future developments we have planned for the Primary School next year, and beyond. One of our ‘big five’ vision aims is the pursuit of ‘excellence and quality of education’ based on Steiner Waldorf principles and building on our strengths. As well as working on developing and extending our school’s core curriculum, we have been exploring ways to deliver specialist subjects to the children, using the strengths and skills already present within our community where possible. It has been wonderful to have Hellen working on craft projects with the children this term (perhaps you were lucky enough to catch a glimpse of their freshly washed wool drying in the courtyard), and we are delighted that she will be continuing to teach crafts with the children next year. German will be returning to our weekly timetable, and other specialist teachers will be joining our team, to teach gardening and cooking, and to help lead and co-ordinate the development of our Outdoor Curriculum. Finally, we are very excited to welcome Saeko Soya back to the school as our new Eurythmy teacher! In the last Grapevine we said we were looking forward to a relatively quiet period of consolidation and slow growth, and we haven’t been disappointed: things have been going so well that it sometimes seems the main purpose of Trustee meetings is to drink too much coffee and eat chocolate. Which isn’t to say that we haven’t had our fair share of problems over the past year, but, by and large, they’ve simply been dealt with and gone away. Not that we can take all the credit for the smooth running of the school, and nor would we wish to. Our teaching staff, from Parent and Child at one end to Class 5 at the other, 4 have been as hard-working and dedicated as ever, both inside the classroom and out. Our administrative team have worked wonders with the budget and the development of the Business Plan, which has already achieved many of its short-term goals. And, of course, all of you, who make up our community, have pitched in and helped: not just on the big occasions, like festivals and work party weekends, but in tackling the multitude of little jobs that constantly need attending to throughout the year. So now, thanks to you all, we’re looking forward to another quiet year, and even more chocolate. 5 Class updates Dandelions Parent and Child groups I would like to thank all the wonderful families who have come along to Dandelions this year with such enthusiasm and commitment. We welcomed over 70 families to the groups, with more than 80 children coming along. Many Parents tell us that the children sing all the songs at home and some of the older ones even tell the story too. The Parent’s favorite is the tidy up song, which many people are using very successfully at home! They can’t believe the magical power of singing a simple song and seeing the toys being happily collected up and put away. We have 5 groups this year, four thriving toddler groups for children over 1 year old and their Parents or Carers, and a wonderful new baby group for the very youngest children, under a year old. Both types of group are an opportunity to explore the principles and practice of Steiner Waldorf early childhood education as well as parenting and wider educational issues in the company of other families with young children. The groups are very diverse, with families coming from different areas and backgrounds. We enjoy a cup of tea, seasonal activities that model a healthy engagement with the world, wonderful organic home baked bread for our snack, and some time to play in our large peaceful garden. The topics of conversation are very varied, ranging from our favorite flavours of tea, how to make bread, what Bryony is having for lunch, to breast-feeding, weaning, child behavior, discipline and then on to the political issues; how to run a successful business in a recession, careers advice, returning to work after having a child, and so on and so forth. There is nothing more reassuring than knowing that you are not alone with the challenges that you face and that other people have been there and survived, and may have even grown and learned from the experience. It has all been made possible with the help of our wonderful assistants, Emma, Tina, Renata, Maria, Simone, Cala and Bryony. They have all done so much to make the groups run smoothly, all bringing their own unique touches. But special thanks have to go to Ali for his amazing contribution of supplying all the groups with delicious bread. His generosity has been very much appreciated, and I think we may have persuaded him to run a workshop for us next year. I for one am anticipating it very eagerly. With best wishes to all for a sunny summer and looking forward to September already. For more information contact Rebecca Mitchell at Cambridge Steiner School 01223 882727 [email protected]. Rosebud Little Kindergarten Update What a delight this year has been! Together in Rosebud we have journeyed through the seasons singing songs of leaves and lanterns in autumn, we joined Little Red Cap in his search for King Winter, we embraced new beginnings in spring, we danced with the bees and butterflies, and we picnicked in the warm sunshine. In play we have travelled on planes, trains, tractors and spaceships to local villages and far off lands. We have swum in waters deep alongside crabs, baby lizards and crocodiles, and we have flown with our magic wings and safety helmets to Africa. Each day is unique, yet familiar. As a group we have developed a beautiful connection. I look forward with eager anticipation to our continuing journey together. Jeanette Cope 6 7 Class updates “It is important that we discover an educational method where people learn to learn, and go on learning from life throughout their whole lives” Rudolf Steiner 12 13 Class updates Appleblossom Kindergarten Update Once upon a time Mother Earth welcomed a little apple seed into her warm embrace. The seed was cared for by the good fairy helpers and grew big and fat. Father Sun stroked Mother Earth with his warm fingers until the seed stretched its little head up into the beautiful world. Straight and strong it grew up to the light. Straight and strong it grew until blossoms filled its branches. Straight and strong it grew until it gifted the world its sweet rosy fruits and shiny brown seeds. How lovely are the seeds, fruits and flowers of Appleblossom Kindergarten. Kindness, friendship, laughter, awe, wonder, gratitude and 8 forgiveness live there. With joy, the children have both grown down to the earth and up to the sky. Together they have created their garden and filled it with beauty. This year the kindergarten is 3 years old and our first little seeds are ripe and ready to leave. We will will rejoice in their journey and shed a tear. Thank you to all the families who have had faith in us and helped us to tend the children’s garden. Jackie Goodwin 9 Class updates Elderflower Kindergarten Update We are robbers, ho ho ho... What a magical world this year for Elderflower has been: robbers that made us laugh and them running away from the town musicians, kings and princesses, dragons and brave knights, long journeys made in boats or space shuttles, houses that grew bigger and bigger as the builders’ confidence grew. Looking back at our year it shows once again how rich, deep and nourishing these early years of childhood can be. The Autumn brought light and hope with Michaelmas and the brave boy knight, who lived on for a long time in the children’s play and songs. The traditional obstacle course in the woodland had many more to follow in our garden, until one day a ‘master obstacle course’ stretched throughout the whole garden. Martinmas was followed by a wonderful puppet shows inspired by St Martin. St Nicholas, once again, brought good messages of care and brotherly help to the children, and children polished shoes borrowed from parents before we received our gifts from him. Advent was eagerly awaited and different characters were experienced in the Nativity play. Inspired by the beautiful and solemn story we saw donkeys being led around, babies being born and boats going all the way to Bethlehem. Among the new festivals we celebrated was Eid with Khadija’s family and the Three Kings Feast - which was beautifully prepared by the craft group and other parents - to crown our kings play. In Spring we started our weekly village walks that have proven an altogether different and wonderful new adventure. We were very excited to see all the amazing seasonal chang- 10 es of flowers and trees in people’s gardens; we admired tulip trees and the ‘candle trees’, a ‘narrow pyramid flower’ (Lupin), smelled and tasted the lovely herbs from the community herb garden. The walk is beneficial in so many ways, but one of the nicest things was to see how people’s faces lit up and smiled seeing the children and chatting to them. Our woodland day has lost none of its magic. One child who joined us newly exclaimed, “I could come here every day.” The moat became our adventure place with children climbing steep tree trunks, contently fishing mud in the water, carving swords, letting our little Candlemas boats float or huddling together as bunnies in hollows that uprooted trees provided for us after some strong wind. Lunch time is always a lovely and sociable time of breathing out, with many happy chats and delicious and nourishing organic lunches, where each dish is a favorite. Many of our Kindergarten experiences appeal to our senses and sometimes Mummies and Daddies get a taste of this, as with this year’s truffles for Mothers’ day and our traditional elderflower cordial for Fathers’ day. I was very lucky to have the wonderful support of my two amazing assistants, Suzanne and Elisabeth and, for a considerable time, Jeanette and Chun as well. In the woods Stephanie and Anita supported our team and we felt great gratitude for the amazing help Claudia and Hellen as our Class Representatives gave to us. Many thanks to all of them. Above all our thanks to all the parents. We will miss dearly those that have left already or will be going on a new journey next School year. We wish all of you happiness and please come and visit us. Best wishes. Beate Guertler-Green 11 Class updates Class updates Woodland Kindergarten Update “Look! I found a paw print; it might be a bear’s.” A few minutes into a day in the woods and the group is attracted by an exciting discovery. They all gather round to look at the print, in awe, before the discussion opens as to what kind it is. It is a very fair debate, no one can know for sure, but all opinions are valued. “It could be a fox’s, but bears don’t live here” and then the youngest pipes up, “No, it can’t be because bears live further into the woods. “At this point it becomes serious, so they all kneel closer and touch the paw print gently with their small fingers. “Could it be a dog’s? But my dog’s prints don’t look like this, they are smaller, it must be a fox!” “Look, this must be its claw; my dog has sharp claws…” These children between 3 and 6 are working things out themselves, with a sparked interest in the environment, in a joint effort and by combining their knowledge. The eldest stands back still looking at the print, then at the others and with an authoritative voice he says, “Ah! Paws, claws and doors. They rhyme!” their abilities and to challenge themselves with no pressure to achieve anything, other than their own goals. There is a real sense of combined effort and achievement when we all sit around the table to dunk our bread into the delicious smelling soup that has bubbled away on the fire that we have collected wood for and built together. Food cooked outdoors on a fire always tastes better! Once the children have spent a year or two in the woods, it becomes their playground. They begin to take ownership of the woodland, to appreciate its beauty and gifts, how it changes over the seasons and then, naturally, to take care of it as their own. Olinda Liddiard Science, geography, maths, literacy and the ability to discuss topics with other children fairly and by taking turns: boxes all ticked! The children play, learn and discover, at their own speed, whatever they need to. Materials used? A muddy mound in the local woodland. This is only one of the most recent examples of a woodland day at the Cambridge Steiner School. Together we have built dens and castles, lit fires, seen woodpeckers and kestrels. We have discovered frozen troughs and turned them into ice castles, then found them melted the week after. We have climbed on windblown trees and carved out the rotten centres that made them weak. We have seen snowdrops in January turn into daffodils and crocuses in March, then cowslips, buttercups, and elderflower. And if we’re very lucky, beautiful wild orchids in the bright summer mornings. Most of all we have learnt that learning is fun. I never cease to be amazed by how much the children learn, without even knowing they are. I hesitate in calling it learning; it is more of a holistic absorption as much of it is done naturally, through play, curiosity,observation and discovery. The opportunity to know and experience an outdoor space gives the children confidence to explore and helps reinforce their self esteem as well as their ability to orientate themselves. In the long run, these are transferable skills for the future. It is a valuable skill to feel safe and confident to venture out into the unknown and trust that somehow we will be able to make sense of what we find. Branches, trees and piles of logs are great for the child’s developing sense of balance, coordination, strength, flexibility and physical awareness. In this modern world where everything is a danger, this is a rare chance to experience 14 15 Class updates Lavender Afternoon Kindergarten Update This year has been our busiest so far. In Lavender your children get the opportunity to make new friends from across the Kindergartens, what lovely memories to be had of the more experienced “Lavender children” guiding and helping our new recruits, holding hands and explaining the golden rules. Our “outdoor” days have proved to be very popular. The children love to play in the “big School children’s” garden, playing with the old water cascade, using the slide, running water and mud on it and on the tree swing that some children built themselves. They enjoy having their snack outside on a rug or on tree trunks. They also enjoy playing games on the green, with “What’s the time, Mr Wolf” and “In and out the dusty Bluebells” being the favourites. We like to help the children experience their stamina and speed and see how the “little sheep” can run, and having fun and gaining trust in their abilities. The “inside” days were quieter this year, which gave place for some quieter children to get more confident trying out new friendships and ideas. The children were busy building lots of different constructions with chairs, planks, muslins 16 and building blocks. There is no end to their imagination; they made space ships, aeroplanes and pet enclosures. The children loved to draw, make little ships for their water play outside, sew lavender hearts and teddy-bears and felt flowers for Mother’s Day. They have made different fruits for the fruit basket to play with in the home-corner, which now has turned into a golden yurt (thanks to my lovely assistant Anita’s sewing abilities!). The children particularly love rearranging their new “wall paper”. The smell of baking muffins, scones, bread and waffles fills the air during the afternoons, so much so that many parents wanted to attend Lavender too - many children wrapped up their second portion to take home for Mummy or Daddy! Any left-overs (unfortunately there was often hardly anything left) were very much appreciated by Staff, who all work so hard. Overall, this was a wonderful year in Lavender and we thank all the parents who entrust their precious children to us, and the children who enrich our time in such a wonderful way. Kerstin and her team 17 “To truly know the world, look deeply within your own being; to truly know yourself, take real interest in the world.”Rudolf Steiner 18 19 Class updates Class 1/2 Update This year we entered the world of Irish folk tale and heard all about the King of Ireland’s Son and his many adventures. This epic tale of friendship, mystery, courage and determination captivated the class and proved to be a rich source of inspiration for their writing and drawing. It was accompanied by a fourteen verse song which brilliantly describes the tale; the class quickly memorised the whole thing and acted out each verse with great joy and enthusiasm (and fabulously creative costume and prop ideas!) As well as all their hard work in the classroom the children have enjoyed the wonder and excitement of exploring nature in the local area. Each of our visits to the Horse Pond ( a small unassuming waterlogged piece of ground with willows to climb on, marshy land and streams to explore) brought new discoveries and pursuits. One week the children spent 20 the hour excavating bones from a little stream: tiny 7 mm bones, delicate vertebrae and a large animal skull - all washed clean by the water. They were animated, puzzled, excited - what is this bone? What was the animal? Another time they were zoologists searching the streams and marshes for water creatures, gathering them into jars for inspection before setting them free; and on another occasion some gathered rushes and sorted them into species, whilst others strenuously worked at building a small dam with sticks and logs. Our visits to the Nature Reserve brought back precious shared memories from their days in Kindergarten. Some weeks they just wanted to play in familiar surroundings, and on other occasions they felt drawn to explore new pathways! Sarah Fox 21 Class updates Class updates Class 3/4 Update Class 3/4 have had a great year and tried many interesting varied things from Morris stick dancing to capoeira and chess. The main theme of the year has been the Norse myths and Viking sagas. They contain a treasure trove of powerful and highly pictorial images that have inspired our paintings, drawings and models. Norse material culture also provides a wealth of forms, patterns and knots from which to draw for our form drawing lessons. Best of all are the stories themselves, playful yet profound, full of drama, humour and mystery. Initially many of the boys loved Loki the trickster. Loki was different from the other Gods as he was half God (good) and half giant (evil). Whatever trouble his mischief got him into, his cunning was always sufficient to save him. Yet Loki’s rascality would be his downfall. It left him vulnerable to the witch Gulveig’s dark influence. At last he was bound and tortured by the gods as a punishment for trying to destroy them. The pedagogical value is clear! The children had been making models from the story for some time when Indigo suggested, “Why don’t we make our 22 models a home?” The idea grew in detail and force until I could no longer refuse. For two weeks we created the Norse worlds out of papier-mâché, a branch of ivy, chicken wire and wood. The children were so excited to see it evolve under their fingers. It was great to help them to realise their idea which at times had seemed a little farfetched. Some of the children came up with many practical suggestions about how to go about it. Once the model was painted and complete, more giants, gods, goddesses and dwarfs were made to populate the various worlds. Most fun of all was putting the dwarfs into their caves in Svatheim. Of late we have been working hard on our play ‘Sif’s golden hair’. It is based on one of their favourite episodes from the story. The children have entered into it with all their hearts and it has been wonderful to see. Some of the children have got so into their characters that it has started to change the way they act the rest of the time. Oh well, hopefully these changes are only temporary!!! David Van Marle 23 Class updates Class updates Class 5 Update The Olympic Ceremony After two days of training it was finally Saturday. All eight of us woke up: Mossy, Jennifer, Griffin, Hester Ben, Miss Alison, Steffi and Suzanne. We had eggs for breakfast, packed our bags and then walked down to the field. All of us had lined up when suddenly a boy and girl came running around the track with two torches, alight in their hands. They lit our smaller torches. Then a trumpet sounded and we started to walk around the track, following our archons with the drum beating. We made a circle around the big unlit torch in the middle. Then the children holding torches lit it and we all said our verse together. The man beating the drum called out, ‘’ All athletes for the Dash and Mini-marathon’’. Hester and Ben both did this and they both enjoyed it. The 2014 Olympics for Class 5 A Tour of a Syracusian Athlete’s Olympic Training Each year, Class 5 students travel to Michael Hall Steiner School in East Sussex for the annual Olympics, and camp out for 3 days with around 420 children from Steiner Schools throughout the UK and sometimes even travelling from other parts of Europe. The Class 5 pupils have given their account of their time at The Olympics below. We all work up at 6.40am the next morning. The night had been hard. I was deep-frozen in my bag before I fell asleep. But now it was morning and the day was new. We got dressed in a hurry, wriggling into our clothes under the privacy of our sleeping bags and then had a hurried breakfast consisting of eggy bread and, for me, bread with jam. Then we hurried to the training field. There, a grey-haired, hawknosed man led us through some exercises, and then said, ‘’I will trumpet call out your cities’ names, one by one. When you hear your city’s name, proceed to the centre of the circle and follow your archon who is holding a flag.” Day One of The Olympics On Wednesday we came to School and my Dad took us to the Olympics. We packed the trailer and drove away. When we got to Michael Hall, we unloaded our tents, bags and lots of other things. My dad and I set up the toilet, while the others set up the big tent. Before my dad left he said good-bye to us and then drove away. In the evening at supper time (we had pasta for dinner) we found out which cities we were in. I was in Sparta, Ben was in Messalia, Griff in Syracuse, Jen was in Marathon, Hester in Mitatos and Alison was the archon in Herculaneum. After dinner we got into bed. Alison read us a story and then we had a good night’s sleep. Mossy Forbes 24 We walked to our first course, - wrestling. It was fun; we did arm exercises and then wrestled with different people. The course was 20 minutes but it was so much fun it seemed like only 20 seconds. When the wrestling was finished we went to the Dash which took place in a small corner, surrounded by bushes. We ran on the spot and then took turns running the Dash. Eight people ran at a time, four boys and four girls. Next was the mini marathon. At the beginning we ran fast but when the end came we were all panting and barely jogging. Next was the Relay. I was at the second post and the runner who passed the baton to me was way ahead of everyone so I had a great head start and kept it till I passed the baton on. When we finished we went on to the High Jump. Here we lined up in front of a rope stretched across two javelins. We all took turns jumping over and after each round the rope was raised. This went on until no-one could jump over the rope. Then we moved onto the Long Jump. After all of this, we picked up our stuff and sat under a tree for poetry. After lunch we had a long rest and then went down to the training field to play a game or two against another city. When this was over we went back to our campsite and did various things like catapaulting cups of water high into the air and having dinner. We were so tired at the end of this long day, but it was a day full of fun. After that it was ‘’All athletes for the High Jump and the Long Jump.’’ Mossy and Hester both did the High Jump and the rope got quite high. ‘’All athletes for the Wrestling now’’. Mossy, Griffin and Jennifer (that’s me) did it and it was fun! Then we had Discus, Javelin and Relay. After lunch they called us up to get our medals around the big torch which was still alight. By this time everyone was very tired. So we all went back to our camp and took the tents down and packed everything into the cars. It was about 4.30pm when we all said ‘’Good bye and have a safe journey home!’’ Jennifer Leek Griffin Emter Day Three of the Olympics (Friday) When we got up on Friday it was sunny. We changed in our sleeping bags. Steffi asked us what we wanted for breakfast. Some people said they wanted eggy bread, porridge, bread and jam. After we had breakfast and filled our water bottles at the water carriers we went down to the field and found our archon (people who look after you). Then we went to our first activity. I did the Mini-Marathon, Ben did Poetry, Jen threw the Discus, Mossy ran the Relay and Griffin did Wrestling. After we had done the other activities we went up to the camp for lunch which was wraps, bacon, salad, bread and baked beans. After lunch we played ‘Capture the Castle’. After the game we went to the camp and Suzanne had arrived. She helped Steffi make dinner. At bedtime we got into our tent and Suzanne read us a Greek story. Then we tried to get to sleep but the Norwich people next door were screaming so it was hard to sleep. But we slept eventually. Hester Stewart 25 The Craft Group Update The Craft Group Update Hellen Williams has been running the Craft group for over a year now, and we catch up with her to find out what’s been happening this year; around for the Fair, we already had a close-knit group of people that really felt proud of our space, and were really happy to welcome others into it. Can you tell us what has been going on in the Craft Group this year? At the May Fair, we had a community wet-felting project, where anyone and everyone was invited to come and do some felting, and it was made with the intention of being a symbol of our School community. Well, we started off by mending and fixing things for the Kindergartens; we went round collecting things that needed to be fixed, and then spent some time together fixing them up, giving them some love and care, and then returning them to the Kindergartens. The children loved to see their Parents working on things for the Kindergarten, and I also feel that, living in such a disposable society, it’s important for the children to see that we can fix things and make them right again! I also felt that it’s important we had a balance between making things for the School, and giving back to ourselves, so we also made ourselves some lovely little things, which gave parents a great opportunity to practice some newly acquired skills. We also made some lovely things for the Advent Fair, and we had a really successful Craft area at the May Fair too, where we raised lots of money to buy a drum carder, and other Craft materials for the School. The May Fair area was great, as so many of us worked very hard in the run up to it to create so many beautiful things. When the time came 26 That’s great Hellen! Why do you feel a Craft Group is important for the School? I feel that it’s a great space for people to come together and get to know each other, but also, to get out of our heads, and into our hands and fingers. One parent of two children who was taking home sewing to help us in preparation for the May Fair said that, with the sewing that she was doing once her children were in bed, she had found a peaceful and restful place of being of her own in the first time for years, since having children. This, to me, was just beautiful. It’s also a great way of being able to give to the School; we now have a strong presence at the School Fairs, and also have a space in the School shop to sell our handmade crafts. And it’s fun! Do come and join us – we’ll be meeting weekly again from September, so check the bulletin for days and times. Thanks so much Hellen! The School Shop Come and visit the School Shop to stock up for all your Summer supplies! Anne has a great selection of books, with classic picture books for very young children (my kids still read “The Root Children” to each other - every family should have a copy of that book!) to books for older children and parents alike. There’s many different toys and games to choose from, and a great variety of art materials such as pencils, crayons, modelling wax and paper to keep your little ones hands occupied! 27 Work Party Weekends Volunteering at School Parents are also expected to volunteer some time to work at these festivals; whether it is helping out for a couple of hours with crafts, helping with setting up or clearing up afterwards, or helping out with washing up in the cafe kitchen. All of our small efforts together help to create a truly special day, without a few individuals having to bear huge loads of work. This is the core of our community – working together to support each other, and support the School as a whole. Benefits to children Volunteering is an essential part of the culture of our School. It comprises a lot of “invisible” behind-the-scenes work, such as the efforts that are made by Trustees, support groups, etc. and also some of the more obvious work, such as helping at School events. One thing that parents often cite as an advantage of their children attending Cambridge Steiner School is that it is a School where they can be involved - they don’t just drop off at the gate. When my children were in Kindergarten, after they had settled in, I used to love going in for a morning, and helping Beate with whatever tasks she gave me (never anything too taxing!), whilst quietly watching how the kids were doing - how they were interacting with the other children, and how well they sat to eat at the table (they certainly didn’t do that at home!) It was like a window into a secret world which I really recommend parents of children in Kindergarten to do at least once a term. This would support the Kindergarten staff immensely, with parents being available to help with odd jobs, as well as being beneficial for the children. Cleaning Work Party Weekends are an essential support for the school – this is where the community comes together and we give back to the School, be it through a spot of gardening, painting, sanding, cleaning, or whatever else is on the lists that the teachers and Elke (who kindly takes care of the maintenance of our School) have made. “I imagine most children and parents at the School look forward to the School festivals, however, Henry’s favourite days were always the “Work Days!” We first came along to a work day when Henry was in the parent and child group. It was a great opportunity for him to meet his future Kindergarten teacher, and also for Henry to get a sense of his being in his School. Henry loves his Daddy being at School, watching him building new climbing structures and putting 28 up shelves with the other parents, and helping Mummy paint them afterwards. It feels great to see, and is also great for the children to see things being built and maintained by their parents, who obviously care about the environment that their children are learning in. Anyone who hasn’t made it to one of our School “Work Days” or thinks that the children will find it boring... think again; it’s really enjoyable for everyone involved!” Anna Gawlinski, Parent Work party weekends help keep our School in the best condition possible, to keep the environment well-maintained, clean and beautiful for Staff and Students alike. Please do come along and support the work being done at the next Work Party Weekend! In Kindergarten, we organised a cleaning rota to keep the Kindergarten really nice and shiny, and would try and do a big clean up before a new term started, with the knowledge that the kids would go back to a room that many parents had poured their love into, even if only for a few minutes. Anne Patel, Class 1/2 representative, has started up a “7 minute clean” which we did at the start of a recent parents’ evening (Anne came armed with a basket of cloths and spray bottles of water/vinegar/soap mixture). We saw that even 7 minutes can make a huge difference! Maybe we can make this 7 minute clean an essential part of all School parents evenings, and during those initial 15 minutes where we’re waiting for everyone to turn up and sitting around dunking biscuits into tea, we can instead spruce up our Classrooms, or another room that we feels needs some love and attention? Festivals and Fairs All parents are asked to contribute food for the Advent Fair and May Fair cafes. You will have all seen how wonderfully this works - we all make something small, and what results from this is a gorgeous and varied array of delicious food that is always very popular! I feel that it’s important for children to see that we are contributing in ways, big or small, to the School, and to its wellbeing. It’s important for them to see a bridge between school life and home life, and we, as parents, can help to build this bridge through our interactions with the school. Furthermore, all of our staff do an amazing job, but are sometimes overstretched... isn’t it great to know that whatever we can contribute can help to take some of the pressure off them (such as coming in for a few hours on a work day and fixing something in a classroom) and can also allow for them to focus on the primary task of nourishing, empowering and creatively fulfilling the needs of the children within our community? Our school charges lower fees than most private schools as we rely on parents to do some of the work that other schools employ individuals to do. We are in charge of our own publicity, and the school relies on us all to advertise open days, fairs and other events. If we all contribute a little to the pot, then the pot fills up and it can feed many! We are in charge of our own maintenance, and thus work party weekends are an essential part of keeping the inside and outside of our School in a great condition that our kids can benefit from. What can you offer the School? Here is a little question to ask yourself! Do you excel in anything particular that you would like to share with the Kindergarten/Primary School children? The primary school children this year are benefitting from Hellen Williams offering wet felting, Nick Jackson offering Chess lessons and Tina Tribe offering weaving lessons. Other Parents may wish to take up roles as Class Representatives or Trustees, or may wish to contribute in other ways. Volunteering to nourish the heart of the School The reality of our lives is that we are all pretty busy, however if we want to, we can all make space for a little time to contribute to the well-being of our School. The more that we contribute, the more love we pour into the School, and the more we nourish the heart of our School. This works by all of us putting in a little effort, so that we can share the work that needs to be done. Thank you to everyone for the massive amount of support and involvement that we received this year, and we look forward to even more in the following year! 29 The May Fair The Multicultural Festival This year’s multicultural festival in Kindergarten was as lively and colourful as ever! We all came together, with Parents making a “stall” from their culture, and bringing cultural knick-knacks, books and foods to show the chidren. It culminated in an almighty, cross-cultural feast. A great community day celebrating the cultural diversity of our School! We had a great, lively and colourful May Fair this year. With full sun shining, the Primary School treated us to delightful dancing around the Maypole, to a backdrop of violinists and recorder players. The Café was full of scrumptious cakes, bakes and soups as usual, with each family contributing something delicious to the Café. The kindergartens offered puppet shows for the younger children, and we had a plant stall, bread stall, facepainting, craft activities, and also we had an extremely talented silhouette cutter amongst us! Thanks to everyone for a great and joyous day. 30 31 Empowered Mothering Parenting is the best and the worst job that I’ve ever done in my life. It’s the hardest and the most rewarding. It is a maze of contradictions constantly throwing up new suprises, pleasant and unpleasant, and sometimes I wonder what sort of mother I am. A strong mother, wise mother, capable mother, sometimes impatient and angry mother, super-mama, but most of all… empowered mother. Ah yes, that feels better. Empowered. Things can feel tough sometimes, but I feel supported by a nurturing and loving outer network of family, friends, dogs, trees, lots of raw fruit and vegetables, superfoods and India to name but a few. There are so many great people in this web of friend-family around us. There’s the African saying “It takes a village to raise a child;” I see why. All these great and inspirational people around me add their own beauty into the mix that is my children, showing them different skills, encouraging them to do different things, and connecting with their spirits in different ways, all adding their own flavours into the heady and spicy mix that is bringing up children. My kids are great company, and just being with them, although we have our moments, can be a support to my mothering in itself. Their interesting and hilarious insights. Listening in on their conversations between themselves (“Akashi, if you want to you can look at my bum… but you don’t have to!”). Their eagerness to learn, often exemplified in an endless stream of thought-provoking questions that I really enjoy answering (“Where did language come from?”) And then there is the inner support network. The work I do to help me stay present. Meditation, maybe a few yoga asanas, breathing awareness – being gently aware of this breath and this body - as I lie down to sleep and when I wake up. Singing. Dancing. Camping. Exercise. Drinking daily green smoothies and clean living. Daily meditation to help me to stay patient. Sometimes I feel like things are too hard. I just want a whole two days to do nothing! I don’t want to make lunchboxes for tomorrow. I don’t want to fold up more clothes. Oh sugar, I forgot to put the bins out last night! (cue me running downstairs and outside and the bin men getting to see my pink spotty pajamas in their full glory). How am I supposed to fit all these things into a week? How am I supposed to fit all these things into a day?! brought out the best and the worst in me. I try not to feel regret/guilt/negativity about the way I’ve interacted (or reacted) with my kids sometimes. Yes, darkness also dwells in my relationship with my children, which I am aware of and I accept, and… yes I embrace it! I’m in the process of learning that it’s OK to be that person sometimes. I’m not going to push myself to an impossible ideal of a perfect mother that exists in my head as a result of media influences. I’m going to be me. An empowered mother, perfect as I am, with all my faults, flaws, inconsistencies and issues. Perfect as I am, with all my strength, beauty and prowess. Perfect as I am, with all the support of my ancestors, who have loved, lived and learnt many lessons, and who struggled for my children and I to be where we are today. I am an empowered mother, and I believe that I can achieve anything I want to. However, “empowered” isn’t always “powerful” for me. It is more like trying to stay open. Accepting this reality, here and now. Open to the whole spectrum of feelings and emotions that enter my mind at any given moment, which brings with it vulnerability. Sometimes I have to admit to myself that I’m not as hard and tough as I imagine myself to be. It’s easier for me to stay open when life flows effortlessly, however what is more important, and, where I learn the most, is staying open when things start falling apart. Sometimes I feel low – I stay open. Sometimes my heart aches – I stay open. Stay here. Stay with it. See what happens. Let life unfold. I believe that things can never go wrong, they just may not turn out quite as expected. I stay open, and listen to all the wisdom that my heart lovingly offers to me. And then I see that things always change. The one certainty in life is uncertainty. Thank you again, impermanence, for these lessons that you teach me! And at other times, I feel like the whole universe is conspiring to help me. Somehow, my children and I manifest everything that we need. Oh I feel so blessed at these times! To live and be present in these fleeting moments of beauty and bliss with these two amazing souls that are my children, playing, laughing, creating… Here I am, touching the beauty of the present moment once again, dancing around the living room with the kids to bhangra and garba music, planning adventures, big and small, at the drop of a hat, having “special breaths” with Akashi at bedtime (both breathing together, feeling the beauty of ourselves and each other, for a few breaths as she’s falling asleep – often the best part of my day!), having a “jump up into your arms” hug from Shivum and fully feeling the love. Here I am, touching the beauty of the present, sat silently by a river with tears of joy in my eyes. Here I am, touching the beauty of my presence, feeling full of life and love. However it isn’t all beauty and bliss. Motherhood has I do what I can to nourish my soul, as I’ve noticed that my 32 happiness correlates with my children’s happiness. I try to teach them, by example, and through the conversations we have, about living a compassionate, loving, ethical life, and enjoying the beauty of what each moment brings us, with the strength, wisdom and clarity to deal with the not-so-easy moments. I am empowered by the experiential knowledge that I can do anything that I want to. And on that note; My children and I have had discussions about the incongruity of how we have so much stuff, and some people are barely meeting their basic needs for food, clothing and shelter. How would it feel to be a child who was hungry, and didn’t know when they were going to eat next? How would it feel to be a mother that couldn’t feed or clothe her children? We have decided to collect clothes for children who live in the slums of Delhi. We’re going to collect lots of great stuff over the next month and send it over, and raise money for the postage. If you’re interested in helping to turn our dreams into a reality by donating clothes, or cash for postage, or helping in any other way you can think of, contact me on [email protected] Trishna Shah 33 Advertisements “The mind is not a vessel to be filled, but a fire to be kindled.” From our letters page A HAND UP... I had a difficult upbringing. We used to beg in the town centre all day, rain or shine. When I was eight, my mother started selling The Big Issue. The money she earned paid for my school uniform and shoes without holes. I no longer had to watch her in tears at overdue bills, and life got better. After a couple of years our situation improved and now I am studying to be a doctor. I buy The Big Issue each week because without it I would not be where I am today. 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