OCTOBER 11, 2015
Twenty-eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time
MONDAY
8:30 Fran Antonich req. by Elise, Tom, Thomas,
Stephen & Lauryn Adams
Cornelius P. McCarthy (8th Anniv.) req. by
Michael & Barbara Tilton
TUESDAY
8:30 Walter Meehan req. by Dorothy & Al Piacentine
Mary Neary req. by Joseph Kelly
WEDNESDAY – Saint Callistus I, Pope and Martyr
8:30 Special Intention of Regan & Mary Jean Wick
req. by Linda O’Connell
THURSDAY – Saint Teresa of Jesus
8:30 Eleanor & Bernard Beihl, Sr. req. by Joan &
Bernie Beihl
FRIDAY – Saint Hedwig; Saint Margaret Mary
Alacoque
8:30 Virginia Callahan req. by Catherine Goodwin
Sr. Ruth Esposito req. by Terry Mazzaferre
SATURDAY – Saint Ignatius of Antioch
8:30 Beatrice Perri (1st Anniv.) req. by her son, Luigi
Perri
5:30 William Connors req. by his family
Angelina Carrano req. by the Capasso Family
OCTOBER 18, 2015
Twenty-ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time
7:45 Edward Jacobe Sr., Edward Jacobe Jr., and
Special Intention for Ruth Jacobe req. by Usuns
9:00 Josephine Damms req. by Josephine O’Rourke
Joseph Maciejczyk req. by wife, Dorothy
10:30 Patricia Farr req. by the Maranhao Family
Raymond Ryan req. by Pat & Bill Dermody
12:00 People of the Parish
Raymond Anthony Cruz req. by his wife &
children
5:00 Susan Rynker req. by the Kinzler Family
PARISH FINANCES
October 4, 2015
Parish Maintenance (H.E.L.P.)
October 5, 2014
$ 10,776
$ 3,620
$ 11,766
Parish Maintenance (H.E.L.P.)
$ 3,122
ParishPay Sept.
$7,713
Amazon.com for July
$61.63
REFLECTION
Examination of Conscience
St. Ignatius Loyola used to say there was
one prayer that his brother Jesuits should
never miss praying daily (other than the
Mass). Not the Rosary, or the Memorare, or
the Amina Christi, as wonderful as those
prayers are, but another one; the
examination of conscience. Why? Because
the examination of conscience, a prayerful
review of the day, helps us to see where
God is at work in our lives. And Ignatius
knew that when we stop noticing this we
start to feel distant from God. Moreover,
since God communicates with us in our
daily lives, we need to pay attention to what
God is saying.
Essentially, Ignatius’s examination of
conscience (also known as the
“examination of consciousness” or by its
Spanish name, the examen) has five steps.
First, remind yourself you’re in God’s
presence. Second, call to mind anything for
which you’re grateful, then savor it and give
thanks. Third, review the entire day, from
start to finish, noticing places of encounter
with God – whether in work, family life,
friendships, nature, reading…or anything.
Ask yourself: In this moment, did I accept
God’s invitation? Fourth, ask God for
forgiveness for your sins. And fifth, ask God
for the grace needed for the next day.
Many of us are quite busy. So while we say
we know God is with us day to day, we
often don’t pause to notice. And not
noticing is like neglecting to acknowledge a
favor a friend has done for us. Noticing, as
we do in the examination of conscience,
helps us deepen our gratitude for God’s
grace, which in turn strengthens our faith.
By Fr. James Martin in Give Us This Day
THE WEEK IN THE PARISH 10/11/15 – 10/17/15
Sun. 3:00 PM Blessing of Animals Front of Church.
Tues. 9:00 AM Scripture Sharing
Library
7:00 PM Endowment
S.t Benedict
7:00 PM Bible Study
Cassidy Hall
Thurs.6:30 PM BINGO (non-smoking) McKenna Hall
Fri.
8:30 PM AA
Cassidy Hall
9:15 AM Liturgy
Library
Sat. 9:00 AM Legion of Mary
St. Benedict
4:30 PM Welcoming Gathering
Cassidy Hall
8:00 PM AA
McKenna Hall
LITURGY
TWENTY-EIGHTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME
First Reading: Wisdom 7:7-11
This poem discusses how the spirit of wisdom is far
more beautiful than any riches could be. All gold is no
more than sand when compared to the importance of
wisdom, which often leads people to the other good
things in life.
Second Reading: Hebrews 4:12-13
God’s perception of people is called “sharper than any
two-edged sword.” God is able to know the thoughts
and feelings of all his people. We can hide nothing from
him, and will need to account for all he has seen in us.
Gospel: Mark 10:17-30
A man asks Jesus how he can share in everlasting life.
Jesus tells him to sell his possessions and travel with
them. The man refuses and Jesus tells his disciples
how difficult it is for a rich person to enter heaven if
they are too concerned with their possessions. The
disciples remind Jesus that they gave up everything
for him, but he assures them they will be rewarded
with everlasting life
NEXT WEEK’S READINGS
Twenty-Ninth Sunday in Ordinary Time
First Reading: Isaiah 53:10-11
Second Reading: Hebrews 4:14-16
Gospel: Mark 10:35-45
KEEP IN YOUR PRAYERS
Those serving in the military especially: Richard Fox,
John Garlasco, Brian McCarthy, Lt. Daniel Faherty,
Joseph Venutolo, Cpl. Marc Vero, Sgt. Jeremy
Overstreet, Kevin Michael Kiefer, Michael Krapels,
Robert Stumpe, USMC, Staff Sgt. Jeremy Curcio, Staff
Sgt. Lena Webb, Pvt. Samuel Nolan, US Army, Lt.
Jamie Curcio, Navy Reserve, Christopher Tantillo, Pvt.
Nico Fluri, Army National Guard, Cpl. Conor J. Brady,
USMC, LCpl. Marc Stanziale, USMC. 1st Lt. Joseph
Brunone, US Nat’l Guard. Please continue to pray for
all our service men & women.
TUESDAY EVENING BIBLE STUDY
Come join us on Tuesday Evenings 7:00
PM in Cassidy Hall, with Jeff Cavins
presenting THE BIBLE TIMELINE: THE
STORY OF SALVATION. This workshop
utilizes DVD
presentations and follow-up discussion.
ALL ARE WELCOME.
CORNERSTONE REUNION - SAVE THE DATE
Our Lady of the Lake Cornerstone Harvest Dinner,
Friday, October 23 at 7:00 PM in McKenna Hall.
Please join us in the first Reunion of all Cornerstone
participants and their spouses for an evening of fun, food
and reflection.
CHOIR PRACTICE
The Adult Choir practice takes place
on Tuesdays at 7:30 PM in the Choir
loft.
Contemporary Choir - Saturdays,
4:30 PM
Children’s Choir practice takes place on Thursdays at
2:45 PM in the St. Cecilia Room.
Vocal- Instrumental Group - contact our Music
Director, Krzysztof Kowalewski at the parish office.
New and existing members are invited.
WE’VE BEEN ASKED TO ANNOUNCE
Annual Mass at the Cemetery
Good Shepherd Catholic Cemetery located at Airport Rd at
Creek Rd., Green Township, NJ. Saturday, October 17, 2015,
11:00 AM. For information call Mary at 973-786-5811. Please
bring a lawn chair.
Thrift Shop Sale
The Catholic Family & Community Services (CFCS) will have a
sale on Wednesday, October 21st. Everything that fits in bag
for $5.00 (jewelry not included). 48 Wyker Rd., Franklin.
Proceeds benefit the CFCS Food Pantry and Meals on
Wheels.
Helping Kids Cope with Divorce
Join us at The Center’s Satellite Office for an informational
session on helping children through a divorce, October 19 th
from 7:00 to 8:30 PM. Participants will leave with knowledge
about how divorce affects children, practical resources, and
more. Location: Center Satellite Office, 65 Newton-Sparta Rd,,
Newton. Fee: $10 per person plus 2.9% convenience fee. For
more information please email Tina Aue at
[email protected] or call (973) 383-4787.
Caldwell Dominican Motherhouse
History of the Eucharist – Cost $25; Tues., Oct 27, 5:30 PM
Supper, 6:15-7:45 PM Presentation. Registration appreciated
by Oct 23rd. Come and explore the history of the Eucharist. We
will discuss our belief in Jesus’ real presence, our practices
regarding the Eucharist from Jesus’ institution, early church,
Middle Ages to the present.
Families Anonymous Meetings
A worldwide 12-step recovery support program, meets every
Thursday evening at 7:30 PM at 65 Newton- Sparta Rd.,
Andover. It is a support program for people whose lives are
affected by a relative or friend who uses mind-altering
substances or has related behavioral problems. Any concerned
person is encouraged to attend the meeting –even if there is
only a suspicion of a problem. For more information email
[email protected] or call (973) 534-4751.
RELIGIOUS EDUCATION
SECOND GRADE PARENTS MEETING
There will be a meeting for parents of Religious
Education 2nd grade students in McKenna Hall on
Tuesday, October 20th at 7:30 PM.
PARENTS PLEASE NOTE: Sundays are Holy
Days of Obligation. Children who are attending
Religious Education classes are expected to attend
Mass on Sunday as well. Please plan to attend
Mass with your children.
CONFIRMATION REMINDER
All 9th and 10th grade Confirmation Registration forms
were due July 1st. If you haven’t already done so, please
mail them in immediately. All forms are on our website,
www.ourladyofthelake.org.
YOUTH GROUP
The youth group meets on Monday nights at 6:30 PM
in the Youth Room. All 9th grade and up are welcome for
fun and fellowship.
AN RCIA INVITATION
If you, or someone you know would like to know more
about the Catholic faith, we invite you to join us at an
Inquiry Session. Inquiry sessions DO NOT assume a
commitment to join the Catholic Church. These sessions
are opportunities to ask questions about God, Jesus, the
sacraments and Catholic faith and practices. All who are
unbaptized, baptized into another faith denomination, or
baptized Catholic but have not received Eucharist or
Confirmation, are invited. Inquiry sessions are for those
who wish to inquire, explore, and search for ways to
grow in relationship with God. For more information call
our parish office at (973) 729-6107.
REV. BROWN SCHOOL UNIFORM EXCHANGE
There will be a uniform exchange on Monday, October
19th from 7:00 PM to 8:30 PM in Mc Kenna Hall.
SOCIAL MINISTRIES
Respect Life Raffle
On the weekend of October 17 & 18, raffle tickets are
being sold at all Masses. Proceeds will benefit New
Jersey Right to Life, the state’s oldest and largest pro-life
organization, dedicated to protecting all human life from
conception to natural death. The prizes this year are: 1 st
Prize – 2016 Volvo XC60 AWD SUV valued at $40,000;
2nd Prize - $1,000 ShopRite Gift Card; 3rd Prize - $750
ShopRite Gift Card; 4th Prize - $500 ShopRite Gift card.
Please show your support for LIFE by buying a raffle
ticket. Cost is $10 per ticket.
Our Lady of the Lake
European River Cruise
August 2016
Please join Father David
McDonnell for a presentation on:
Castles along the Rhine
8 DAYS FROM BASEL TO AMSTERDAM
Sunday October 25th at 1pm
in Cassidy Hall.
Light refreshments will be served.
Presentation given by Uniworld’s national
representative and
Dan Scully from Scully Travel Group in
Sparta NJ.
Any questions, or for more information:
Call-973-729-5777 or email:
[email protected]
All are welcome!!!
SILVER AND GOLD WEDDING ANNIVERSARY MASS
Couples, were you married in 1965 or 1990? You are
warmly invited to celebrate your
25th or 50th Wedding Anniversary
with the Church of Paterson.
Bishop Serratelli will be the main
celebrant at Mass at St. Mary
Church, Denville on November
8, 2015 at 4:00 PM.
Arrangements can be made by
contacting the parish office.
Registrations will be accepted
through Friday, October 23, 2015. Information will be
sent from the Office of Family Life once your application
has been processed. Congratulations on this joyous
occasion.
A CHILD IS BORN
A Collection of Traditional, Contemporary
and Original Music
LEAD VOCALIST: FR. DAVID McDONNELL
Give a gift that reflects the true spirit of
Christmas. All proceeds will be donated
to charity. Order forms are available in
the vestibule and at the parish office.
Price: $15 ~ Prepaid Orders Only
Deadline: November 6, 2015.
PRAYER AFFIRMING LIFE
God, you are the Lord and Creator of life. You have
blessed men and women with the privilege of
bringing new life into the world. You have imparted
in our hearts the desire to nurture and protect life at
all its stages. I accept these gifts as sacred trust.
Through the power of the Holy Spirit help me to
affirm the value of life. Grant me the wisdom and
courage to speak out and defend human life. Give
me compassion so I may lovingly counsel those
who would reject the gift of life, which is the
reflection of your image and likeness. Amen.
BLESSING OF ANIMALS
SUNDAY, OCTOBER 11, 2015
The blessing of animals will take place from 3:00 PM to
3:45 PM beside the church; rain or shine.
Come join a joyful celebration of the feast day of St.
Francis, patron saints of animals. It is a tradition that our
pets, who are such a special part of our lives, are
blessed on this day. Special treats for your dog, cat, or
other beloved pet will be available. All families and their
pets are welcome. We hope you will find a few moments
to share in this blessing and to spend some time with
friends and neighbors.
RESPECT LIFE MASS
Most Rev. Arthur J. Serratelli , STD, SSL, DD
Bishop of Paterson will celebrate the Respect Life Mass
at Saint Ann Parish, 781 Smith Rd., Parsippany, NJ on
Saturday, November 7, 2015 at 10:00 AM. Light
refreshments will follow.
POPE JOHN XXIII REGIONAL HIGH SCHOOL
OPEN HOUSE
We invite you –
Tuesday, Oct. 13 at 7:30 PM (Incoming 9th Grade) and
Tuesday, Oct. 20 at 7:30 PM (Incoming 8th Grade).
28 Andover Rd., Sparta, NJ 07871. (973) 729-6125;
www.POPEJOHN.org. Why wait to become a Pope John
Lion? Follow your dream by building a solid foundation
at Pope John XXIII High School. Contact us today,
arrange to visit our school, and experience firsthand the
Pope John Community.
GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER
The Welcoming Ministry is sponsoring a “Getting to
Know Each Other” gathering for new parishioners and
their families which will be held on Saturday, October
17th at 4:30 PM in Cassidy Hall. This is an opportunity to
find out more about our parish and ministries and to
meet other parishioners. Please call the parish office if
you plan to attend.
CHARISMATIC “CLUSTER” MEETING
Share Song, prayer, and worship! Come and bring a
friend or two! Fellowship and Refreshments to follow.
A gathering of Parish Prayer Groups at St. Cecilia
Church, Hayes Hall (Church Lower Level), 70 Church
St., Rockaway, NJ on Wednesday, October 28, 2015 at
7:00 PM. Special Teaching on Lectio Divina by Fr.
Nicholas Bozza. Please bring a Bible (NAB-New
American Bible Preferred). For more information, call
Carmen at (973) 625-1150
SAINT PAUL INSIDE THE WALLS
Please go to www.insidethewalls.org for more
information and to register.
October 14th 6-7:30 PM: Finding Time for Family
Builds the Future
How does your family spend time together? Constantly
on the run? Pope Francis says, “In the family we learn
how to love, to forgive, to be generous and open…”
Come share dinner and a discussion about ways parents
can keep the family close. For parents and children. $10
per person.
October 13th 7:30-9:00 PM: Men After His Heart
Fr. Paul Manning leads a basic course in spirituality for
men. These self-contained sessions will explore spiritual
themes important to men and their growth in faith.
October 21st 7:30-9:00 PM: Divorce and the Church
As the Synod of the Family takes place abroad, join us
locally for an open discussion on marriage, divorce, and
the Catholic Church.