Temple Emanu-El, San Jose, CA Member of the Union for Reform Judaism Connections June/July 2009 Sivan/Tammuz 5769 V. 73, No. 118 June/July Shabbat Service Schedule Friday Shabbat Services All summer services start at 6:30pm on the Patio (weather permitting) Neighborhood Havdallah June 5, 12, 19, 26 July 3, 10, 17, 24, 31 Saturday, June 7:30pm Tot Shabbat June 19 July 17 Saturday Morning Minyanim All Minyan services start at 9:00am in the BFR June 6, 20, 27 July 4, 11, 18, 25 Celebrate Shavuot Last year, more than a hundred Temple members joined together in homes throughout the Valley to make 6 (giving of the Torah to Moses and the Jewish new friends and share food, People) wine, songs and prayers. Erev Shavuot and Confirmation Service May 28 at 7pm It was aThursday, wonderful evening that everyone who participated Tikkun Lail Shavuot (all-night study session) enjoyed very much. Thursday May 28 at 10:00pm Shavuot Morning Service We look forward to another Friday, May 29 at 9:00am great night. To RSVP, contact membership@ templesanjose.org When you RSVP, you will be assigned a home and sent all relevant information. Mazel Tov to the Confirmation of 5769 Meet your fellowClass congregants Please bring an appetizer or dessert to share. Survival in Shanghai: The Journals of Fred Marcus 1939-49 by Audrey Friedman Marcus and Rena Krasno June 13, 10:00am - 12:00pm South Bay Pride Shabbat at Temple Emanu-El Temple Emanu-El is pleased to host the annual Pride Shabbat service for the South Bay. LGBTQ families, friends and allies are invited to an inspirational service, led by Cantor Meeka Simerly and Rabbi Lisa Levenberg from Congregation Shir Hadash. Special readings for this occasion will educate, inspire and remember. There will be no 9:00am minyan at Temple this week: come join us for Pride Shabbat. The service will be followed by a dairy potluck lunch. Natalie batinOscar whoAudelo, live right your and Meryl Zacharyneighborhood! Heerwagen, ben Jim and Hilary Marcus Hoffman, ben Jeff and Pam Michael Holt, ben Glenn and Jill Alyssa Jepsky, bat Eric and Martha Carter Johnson, ben Stuart and Sarah Kevin Krandel, ben Steve and Shari Spencer Marsh, ben Jeff and Missy Laura Mighdoll, bat David and Linda Sadie Misle, bat Howard and Tamara Amanda Schmitt , bat Ralph and Sara Zachary Sprintz, ben Mike and Millie Matthew Weingarten, ben Gordon and Barbara Wednesday, June 10 at 7:00pm A talk will be given about the Jewish Holocaust immigrants in Shanghai by the authors. Hosted by Mort and Barbara Berlant and co-sponsored by Sisterhood and Brotherhood. RSVP by June 8 to [email protected]. Open to the community at no charge. “History is written from both the ‘macro’ and ‘micro’ perspective. We must know the ‘big’ picture, but it is the small details which give that picture depth and texture. Fred Marcus’s diary, together with the commentary and elaboration provided by his wife Audrey and Rena Krasno, open a window into the life of a Jewish refugee in Shanghai during the dreadful years of the Shoah.” —Michael Medavoy, CEO Phoenix Pictures In 1939, Fred Marcus, a German-Jewish teenager, fled Nazi Germany for the relative safety of Shanghai. Along with 20,000 other stateless Jewish refugees, he endured hunger, disease, the Japanese occupation and American bombardment. And he kept a journal, recording the day-to-day details of life, of finding ways to support himself, getting enough to eat, joining a volunteer fire brigade, going to religious services, and sharing good times with friends. His journal, the coming-of-age story of a young man trying to make a life in a difficult place during wartime, is enhanced by informative commentary by authors Audrey Friedman Marcus and Rena Krasno. Temple Emanu-El 1010 University Avenue, San Jose, CA 95126 www.templesanjose.org Administrative Office: 408.292.0939 Religious School Office: 408.292.3223 Preschool Office: 408.293.8660 From Rabbi’s Desk In seems somewhat impossible that this month marks the conclusion of my tenth year as your Rabbi. Where did the time go? So much has happened in these ten years. I am so proud of our congregation and of our staff. I fell in love with Temple Emanu-El the minute Bob Hersch walked me into our Sanctuary on the day of my interview. I felt at home immediately and I felt a connection to the people I met. Today those same people are now family. My son, Raya, who was not even a year old when we arrived, has grown up in this congregation. My daughter, Shira, was nine years old when we arrived and she, like Raya, feels like our synagogue is her spiritual home. Cheriel and I have been proud participants in our synagogue and we too feel at home. I thank you from the very depths of my being for granting me the honor of being your rabbi. I feel blessed and honored and I especially am so excited about our future together. As we approach the congregation’s 150th anniversary, there is so much ahead of us. This year has been one of great significance. I could not possibly list all the events that have taken place in this article, but I feel absolutely blessed having had the privilege and honor of working with the best funeral director in the world, Wayne Rose. Although he has retired from the role of Cemetery Administrator, he is still working with Sinai Memorial Chapel and I cannot think of a better person for any of us to contact when the need arises. I thank Wayne for his incredible commitment, expertise and thoughtfulness in his work for our synagogue and for our Jewish community. We should all be proud of Wayne’s achievements and menshelikite. I welcome Bob Basuino as our new Cemetery Administrator; he has some huge shoes to fill and I know he will do a great job. So too, this year we welcome a new staff person to our team. I am so proud of the growth and partnership that our new cantor, Meeka Simerly, has experienced. Although she has been with us as our intern Cantor for some time, this summer she becomes the full time cantor of Temple Emanu-El. I look forward to working with Cantor Meeka. I feel so blessed to have such a gifted, sensitive, compassionate and caring clergy partner. We have been practicing our partnership for a couple of years now, so I know her transition to her new role will be smooth and thoughtful. As you read this article, I will have begun the last segment of my sabbatical. Although I will be at temple a couple of times in June and leading our congregational trip to Israel in July, with a few weddings in August, I feel fortunate to have the opportunity to recharge my battery. I am confident that Cantor Meeka will assume her role as she has the last two summers with great skill and understanding. May this summer be one of health, happiness and rejuvenation for all of us. L’Shalom Rabbi Dana L. Magat [email protected] President’s Message 2 As I write this article, it occurs to me that I have only two more weeks as president of Temple Emanu-El’s Board of Trustees. The first thing I should mention is that our Executive Director, James Perlstein, has left us. He is returning to Chicago where his family resides. A new search committee has been formed and is actively pursuing candidates. In the interim, Nancy Weintraub has been hired to serve as Executive Director. By the time you read this Cantor Intern Meeka Simerly will be CANTOR Meeka Simerly. Cantor Meeka will have been invested on May 25. We have a contract with Cantor Meeka ensuring she will be with us for the next three years. I know we all wish her the very best. While this has been a very challenging year, it has also been very rewarding. To have the chance again to be an active part of the Temple’s board has been an experience to be relished. Our Temple has come through the year in good financial and spiritual shape. Our dues collection has come in virtually on target and overall, we will finish the year with a small surplus. Next year, however, remains a mystery. Our commitment letters are just going out and we are unsure just how the economy has affected congregants. The sooner you can return your commitment, the better we will be able to plan for next year. Perhaps the most exciting event of the year has been the donation of the house next to the temple on Myrtle Street by Ruth Krandel. Ruth’s gift has provided the temple with a venue for additional programming and a meeting place for all generations. We cannot thank Ruth enough. Please thank her the next time you see her. I am sure the new president and board will serve with distinction. Steve Greenberg, President [email protected] “It would be my pleasure to be your Realtor!” Mary Cohen Seniors Real Estate Specialist (SRES) Quality Service Certified (QSC) 408.981.2955 cell In appreciation of your business and referrals, a donation will be made to Temple Emanu-El at close of escrow. Temple Happenings Will You Join Us? 3 Shofar Class On page 13 of this issue of Connections you will find a letter from Bob Hersch announcing the financial membership commitment program for 2009-2010. Despite the fact that many costs such as insurance, utilities, and health care are beyond our control and continue to increase, the Board of Trustees has decided to keep next year’s membership commitment levels the same. Why? Because the Board recognizes that economic conditions are placing a strain on many families, and we are concerned. Still, we need to invest in Temple Emanu-El’s future. No one knows what next year will bring, but hopefully the economy will turn around later in 2009 or early 2010, enabling all congregants to make a full financial commitment to our congregation. In the meantime, we are voluntarily increasing our financial commitments by 5%, or more, for one year to help ensure the continued vibrancy of our congregation. We hope that those of you who are able to do so will join us. We have all marveled at Mark Cahn’s shofar blowing abilities at High Holy Day services and wondered “How does he do that so well?” He’s sharing his secrets along with all the ‘secret’ ancient history of the shofarot (plural for shofar) at the new four-part Shofar class. Sundays from 10:30am – 11:30am in the Temple House June 7 - Introduction to minhag (custom), history, etc. July 12 - Technique August 9 - Practice A light breakfast will be served. Thursday, September 17 from 7:00pm – 8:00pm in the Sanctuary Last class - Rehearsal RSVP by June 5 to [email protected] Ages: Post B’nai Mitzvah-100 (15 participants max) Bring own shofar and ear plugs! Doris and Rick Davis Shari and Steve Krandel Lynn Offenhartz and Andrew Weinberg Swing into Summer with eScrip eScrip doesn't take a vacation. Everyone still eats and shops, hopefully at our generous eScrip merchants. Don't forget to visit the eScrip Online Mall where there is an amazing array of businesses who await your order. Thank you for using your credit/debit, Safeway and Macy's registered cards when shopping. If you have not already become a supporter of Temple's eScrip program, surf on over to www.escrip.com. Temple's ID# is 136985180. Better yet, phone me and I'll do the registering for you. eScrip and merchant partners have created a simple system that rewards customer loyalty by contributing a percentage of your purchases to Temple. There are many reasons to sign up for eScrip: *It's easier than selling candy, raffle tickets or gift wrap. *If you don't sign up, guilt will cause too many sleepless nights. *Temple needs money! Every dollar counts! Lorie Kaplan eScrip Coordinator 408.267.4563 Tekiah! Women of Reform Judaism Temple Emanu-El Sisterhood to host WRJ All Sisterhood Day Women of Reform Judaism Pacific District’s annual All Sisterhood Day is on Sunday, June 28 from 9:00am - 3:00pm at Temple EmanuEl. Guest speaker for the event will be Susan Bass, WRJ Vice President of Service to Sisterhoods and Districts. All Sisterhood members and prospective members from throughout Northern California are invited to attend this dynamic annual summer event. Twelve workshops will be offered on a variety of topics including Programming for Fun, Membership, Social Action, Marketing, Jewish Women in History, Torah Study, Budgets, Future Planning, Leadership Training, and more. The workshops, led by WRJ board members, will offer topics of value to all levels of sisterhood experience. Sandy Gatlin, Pacific District President will lead the President’s Workshop. Registration for All Sisterhood Day is $30 per person and includes breakfast, lunch and all workshops. To register, contact Myra Feiger [email protected]. For information, contact Diana MaKieve [email protected] or 925.988.9707 or Rita Loren, Temple Emanu-El Sisterhood President, 408.379.8681. If you would like to help out on this day for no more than 4 hours and attend for free, please email Anita Medeiros at [email protected]. Please specify whether you would prefer the morning or afternoon shift. All Sisterhood Day 12:40pm – 1:00pm Call to Convention 10:45am – 11:55am - Workshops Presidents’ Workshop How WRJ PD can serve sisterhoods Sandy Gatlin, District President Keeping our Tents Strong – Growing Membership Bringing women into the tent Edith Caplan, District Past President Social Action Rings An 8 step program to bring advocacy to action. Diana MaKieve, District VP Andy Press Dawson, Women of B’nai Israel, Sacramento WRJ Basics: Susan Bass WRJ PD: Ellen Pollack Why should I be a leader?: Sandy Gatlin Inclusion of the Non-Jewish Spouse/Partner: Diane MaKieve Building Relationships: Jane Marcus 2:00pm – 3:10pm Workshops 9:00am – 9:30pm - Registration & light breakfast 9:30am-10:40am - Welcome, Introductions and YES Fund Presentation and Solicitation Rhonda Daniels and Deborah Sibner, 2010 Pacific District Biennial Co-Chairs Elaine Berghausen-Convention Bags-We need sewing sisters! 1:00pm – 2:00pm Ten Minute Topics June 28 from 9:00am-3:30pm at Temple Emanu-El The theme of the day is ‘Mah Tovu - How Lovely Are Your Tents’. This taste of WRJ and Pacific District offers information to enhance skills, knowledge and resources, gives us a chance to spend positive time with the women of our area as well as have fun sharing ideas, insights and connections. You Are What You Spend- Does your budget reflect your values? What’s important to your Sisterhood? Is that where your money goes? Elaine Berghausen, District Area Director Marketing and Communicating Getting the word out effectively Susan Bass, WRJ VP of Service to Sisterhoods Noon – 12:30pm Lunch Motzi – Sandy Gatlin, District President American Idol Vote: Mah Tovu All Sisterhood Day – Pacific District of WRJ Temple Emanu-El Sisterhood has been given the honor of hosting a wonderful event known as All Sisterhood Day. The day is sponsored by the Women of Reform Judaism-Pacific District, Northern California 4 Leading your sisterhood into the future Strategy for using your history, mission and image to create a plan. Linda Henderson, District 1st Vice President Jewish Women in History You’ve heard about Emma Goldman, Emma Lazarus, and Golda Meir. Who is Nancy Liberman? Or Judith Resnick? Or Thelma Eisen? Rabbi Kim Ettlinger, Associate Rabbi Peninsula Temple Sholom Torah Study using WRJ’s The Torah: A Women’s Commentary and new study guides. When and how to use these valuable new resources. Cantor Meeka Simerly, Temple Emanu-El, San Jose Programming for Fun Looking at the Kavod award winners. What made them special? Fun events in the District for your Sisterhood. Shari Carruthers, District Area Director President?, Co-Presidents?, and Leadership Council? Discussion examining three governance structures. Ricki Oleon, District Past President will moderate: Joanne Kukulus from Beth Am Women, Los Altos Hills, Lynn Epstein from Women of Isaiah, Lafayette, and Sally Bill, from Temple Beth Israel Sisterhood, Fresno 3:15pm Closing Circle – Judith Stubbs, Temple Emanu-El Sisterhood Cont. Sisterhood Donor Luncheon July 23 at Mariani’s Restaurant with singer/musician Daphna Rahmil Watch your mail and email for more information! Please call Bernice Gaon 408.269.0131 or Rita Loren 408.379.8681 with any questions or to RSVP. Thank you to the following girls for helping at the Women’s Seder: Elyssa and Kelsey Hurwitz, Isabel Haggerty, Erica Go, Kristina Kheyfets and Lizzie Braunreuther We couldn’t have done it without you! FOR YOUR SPECIAL SIMCHA Sisterhood’s Catering Menu for Oneg Shabbat Assorted cookie trays (24 – 36 pieces) Brownies (24 - 36 pcs) Cake trays (24-36 pieces) Cupcake cake (24 cupcakes decorated like a cake – Mazel Tov) Fancy cookie trays (24 – 36 pieces) Mandelbrot/rugeluch/etc Dried fruit and nut tray Fresh Vegetable trays Cheese and cracker trays Hummus and Pita trays Fresh Fruit trays Tortilla Chips and Salsa Layered Bean Dip with Tortilla Chips M&M or Jelly Belly bowls (3 bowls) $30 $30 $30 $36 $36 $36 $36 $36 $36 $36 $36 $30 $36 $10 We do a professional job, and our staff donates their time, earning donor credit. Therefore, all profits from your event help fund the many projects of the Sisterhood that support our Temple community. References available on request. Please contact Anita for information: [email protected]. LAW OFFICE OF DERRYL H. MOLINA Estate planning – Elder Law – General Practice SE HABLA ESPANOL 1142 S. Winchester Blvd., Suite B San Jose, CA 95128 408.244.4992 Derryl H. Molina Attorney at Law [email protected] Brotherhood 5 I wonder if other Brotherhood presidents are as lucky as I am. Promoting Brotherhood and Temple events is not like pulling teeth or herding cats. The opposite is true. It is a challenge keeping up with my brothers. I am blessed to be working with an extremely talented, enthusiastic and fun bunch of guys. I am exceptionally proud of Brotherhood. As the year comes to a close and I finish my first term as Brotherhood president, I would like to tell you why. Brotherhood is always looking for ways to support the Temple. Over the past few months Brotherhood has provided the Temple with a professional quality electric piano, a barbeque for the Cottage and a high definition projector. Brotherhood continually seeks ways to enrich the lives of our congregants. In May we hosted Diaspora Dinner XVIII. This summer we are organizing the first annual Jewish Heritage Day with the San Jose Giants on August 2 and the annual Brotherhood/ Sisterhood pool party at the JCC on August 9. Finally, Brotherhood is always available to lend a hand, whether it is serving drinks at our annual fundraiser or volunteering at Mitzvah Day. I’m looking forward to my second (and final) term as Brotherhood President. I am hopeful that it will be as rewarding as my first. In order to assure our continued success Jonathan Hirshon is organizing a two day retreat at the Mercy Center on June 20 and 21. June 20 will be dedicated to reviewing the successes and failures of the past year and planning for the future. June 21 will be dedicated to enriching your spiritual life. If you would like to join our gang of merry men or attend the retreat please let me know; [email protected]. I look forward to hearing from you. Bob Levy, Brotherhood President [email protected] Preschool Our Preschool year has come to an end and it has been an amazing year! From the first days of school and the tears of both children and parents to the exciting Israel week, we have taken parts in experiences that shape our futures. Memories were created on the playground, at our potlucks, in our classrooms and in our everyday exchanges of hugs and smiles. I would like to sincerely thank my amazing teaching staff for a successful year! Thank you Leah, Cheriel, Jen, Kari, Kira, Christina, Patricia, Lisha, Nicole and Daisy!! Thanks must go out to Rabbi Magat and Cantor Meeka. They brought us love, smiles and an understanding of what it means to be Jewish. Our Preschool Committee has supported the preschool in every way imaginable, including teacher appreciation lunches. Thanks to Dana Brody Brown, Alissa Meltzer, Andrea Allen-Shively, Carol Hoffman, Kris Campisi and Kathy Jenkins! Giant thanks to the preschool families. Knowing that the parents are supporting the preschool, teachers and me has given us all encouragement throughout the year. Enjoy the pictures that happily express the adventures of our year. We are looking forward to an exciting summer and a school year that is just around the corner. Happy summer!! Barb Smead [email protected] Religious School 6 Team Mitzvah Makers Walk through the Night As the morning light warmed the ground at Townsend Field in Santa Clara, students from Suellen Haggerty’s 6th grade class begin to arrive in preparation for the Relay for Life on Saturday, May 17. This event, held across America at various times of the year, raises funds and awareness for the American Cancer Society’s war on cancer. With Suellen as Team Captain, and Sharon Barowsky as her able CoCaptain, the 6th grade Mitzvah Makers dedicated their last weekend of Religious School to participate in this transformative 24-hour event, along with more than 25 other teams. When the dust settled, at 10:00am, Sunday morning, Team Mitzvah Makers surpassed their fundraising target of $2,000. In fact, they raised over $3,400! For some, it was quite personal, having lost a close family member or friend to cancer. For other students, it was more of a supportive event, an opportunity to stand beside a classmate who was touched by loss. Whatever their motivation, their enthusiasm was high and they knew they were participating in an event that would help to make a difference in the fight against cancer. The weather became a challenge when the thermometer topped 95 degrees, but it didn’t diminish the energy of Team Mitzvah Makers. Ruth Pangilinan, Suellen and several students, armed with ice water filled squirt bottles, positioned themselves on the track in front of the Mitzvah Maker encampment. They took aim at passers-by, in an effort to give them some relief from the oppressive heat. Some walkers even stopped and waited to be squirted…what a mitzvah! In an effort to raise additional funds on Saturday, students made friendship bracelets to sell to walkers as they passed by. Some of the Relay participants placed special orders for particular sizes and colors and our students were happy to oblige. Students showed such pride seeing their creations on the wrists of walkers. Rachel Michelberg, was on-hand to lead the team in Havdallah. It was heartening to see this dedicated group of young people engaged in such a spiritual ritual. During this magical time, many of the other Relay participants gathered in close to see what was happening. Some of them even decided to join in by raising their hands towards the flame! Rabbi Magat visited the Team to lend supportive words and infuse them with additional spirit as they looked towards the final 10 hours of the Relay (and the most difficult hours – midnight to 10:00am). Rules of the Relay require that a member of the Team be on the track at all times. Fortunately, Team Mitzvah Makers had some pinchhitting teens: Jacqueline Haggerty, Nolan Johnson, Isabel Haggerty and Ben Lilly. The track belonged to them throughout the night, covering over 100 miles of distance in total! Many factors went into making this a successful and meaningful event for our students. Parents were very supportive, in part by trusting this would be a positive experience for their children and by ferrying supplies to the field throughout the day! Thank you to everyone who had a hand in helping Suellen make this happen for Team Mitzvah Makers. Based on comments made by parents and students alike, it is clear that this event will have a lasting impression on our 6th grade Mitzvah Makers and they will be forever more engaged in Tikkun Olam (repairing the world). What a fitting end to their year spent learning about the Jewish life cycle and their increasing responsibilities as they ascend to the position of becoming b’nai mitzvah. To Suellen and the Mitzvah Makers…a giant Yashir Ko’ach (Hebrew for May Your Strength Be Firm”)! Nite at the Races 7 Thank Nite at the Races was a great night out! On May 2, the Run for the Roses continued in the Temple House, decorated in red, white and black with a bouquet of red roses at every table and handmade derby hats hanging on the walls. The men donned their derby hats and the women were decked out in traditional derby attire from the large straw hats with flowers and feathers to their dancing shoes. The Brotherhood Band rocked the house with guest appearances from the Rabbi, Meeka and Laura Danoff-Robinson. The menu included BBQ tri-tip, chicken satay, grilled vegetables and homemade pecan pie to top it off. With over 100 people in attendance, a grand time at the Grand Stand was had by all! The event was made possible by an extraordinary committee of temple members, of all ages who worked tirelessly and from the heart to make the evening a huge success. A warm and hearty thanks to: Judie and Ivan Aronson Mort and Barbara Berlant Marci Gerston Merry Kranz Ray and Bobi Levine David Mimeles Nani Noverita Greg Turetzky Nancy Weintraub Deborah Zimmer Neil Frank A Special Thank You to Our Sponsors: Thoroughbreds Circle: Board of Trustees Sisterhood Owners Circle: Stephen and Arlene Greenberg Rabbi Dana Magat and Family The Brotherhood Band Steve Krandel and Family Jockeys Circle: Edward and Marjorie Cahn Marci Gerston Ray and Bobi Levine JoAnn Shank Deborah Zimmer Trainers Circle: Mort and Barbara Berlant Sandy and Burt Epstein Larry and Elisa Gerston Edgardo and Andrea Laber David Mimeles and Family Joseph and Marcia Riggio Judith Sapper Dr. Sid and Rosalie Sogolow Barry and Mary Cohen Marvin and Joan Fox Robert and JoAnne Hersch Ron Mandel and Sharon Genkin Sharon and Gerald Prizant Alfred and Bunny Roth Richard and Eleanor Rusnak Please support the businesses who supported Nite at the Races Almaden Valley Athletic Club San Jose Bay Area Discovery Museum Sausalito Genesis Photography Mountain View Hagafen Cellars Napa San Francisco Ballet San Francisco San Jose Repertory Theatre San Jose The A’s Baseball Company Oakland Trader Joe’s - Prospect Ave. San Jose Yamagami’s Nursery Cupertino Fry’s Electronics San Jose Yous 8 Support Our Advertisers Introducing the JCC Social Membership 3 AMB DESIGNS BALLOON AND EVENT DÉCOR Make Your Event Grandiloquent Any Special Mitzvahs Occasions Weddings Let us transform the venue for your special occasion into a larger than life experience. 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What you may not know is the long history associated with its original concept and its many tortuous paths leading to its ultimate completion as a worthwhile adjunct to our ritual worship. Serendipity (the facility of finding valuable or agreeable things not sought for) truly played an important role in this fascinating journey of discovery, leading to its final fruition. As a long-time member of our Temple & Ritual Committee (over 50 years), I became increasingly perturbed about the way we displayed one of our revered items in ritual prayer. Our tallitot were unceremoniously folded in a basket or box. I had envisioned a new set of tallitot, vertically displayed and hanging on bars on an open rack in the lobby, similar to the ones at Shir Hadash and Beth David. This would serve to make the tallitot more readily accessible and enhance our ritual worship as the occasion may warrant. I vowed to donate the cost of the entire undertaking. This concern, on my part, increased as the ritual practices of Reform Judaism have gradually evolved from “Classical Reform” (minimal emphasis on ritual, as well as Hebrew) to the increasingly “traditional“ aspects of Reform Judaism of today. This process was the result of re-examining and readapting our ritual worship practices to meet our everevolving spiritual needs, as viewed by the latest platforms of Reform Judaism. As a biblical reference to this unfolding saga of discovery and final fruition (the tallit/prayer book rack), it is important to understand the traditional Torah origin of this significant ritual accompaniment to Jewish prayer. The biblical source for the Tallit is Numbers 15: 27-41, where Moses is told to “speak to the children of Israel & bid them to affix fringes (tzitzit) to the corners of their garments” so that whenever these fringes are seen, they will be reminded of God’s commandments & observe them. The Tallit was created as a garment to hold the tzitziot (plural for tzitzit). According to Rabbi J. Telushkin (Jewish Literacy, pg.659), “the law concerning the ritual fringes, known as Tzitzit, is one of relatively few biblical laws for which the Torah offers a reason.” Alfred J. Kolatch, (The Jewish Book of Why, Book I, pg. 99), states that “of all the ritual garb associated with Jewish life, none is more important than the tallit (and tefilin, for the more traditional)”. The Rabbinic tradition understands the tallit, and more specifically, the tzitzit, as a physical sign that marks Israel as a separate people. Tallit Rack 10 Many have asked “How does the wearing of ritual clothing, i.e., tallit, kippah/yarmulka, affect your attitude and behavior during prayer?” Some answers (from various Jewish sources on the websites): “The wearing of the tallit may serve to deepen one’s concentration- much like the ritual followed by many worshippers who close their eyes when reciting the Shema.” “Wearing a tallit also helps one to feel sanctified in the service of God”. Rabbi Hayim Donin, (To Pray as a Jew, p.155 in Rabbi Telushkin’s Jewish Literacy p. 659) asks “How does the mere act of looking upon tzitzit serve to remind one of God’s commandments? I suggest that it’s like a uniform worn by soldiers in the army. When wearing a uniform, one is especially mindful to whom one owes one’s allegiance.” Thanks to our constantly evolving practices, Reform Judaism is now committed to full equality of the sexes (egalitarian) in its ritual and governance and committed to the concept of autonomy in which all Jews are able to make their own informed choices about how they observe Jewish tradition. This could lead to closer communion with God and community. Now here is a brief review of the significant milestones leading to the creation of the current tallit/prayerbook mobile rack. These events cover a period of close to 4 years. Late 2004-2005 - Visited both Shir Hadash & Beth David to decide on preferred design for tallit rack. Two designs were made and constructed, but rejected for various reasons including poor finish, color, workmanship and location. Rabbi Magat’s rack recommendations: mobile, wooden tallit rack, preferably patterned after Beth David, including space for prayer books and kippot. 2007- Futile search of websites and other sources for suitable rack by Jane Jacobson (former Executive Director), Peggy Frederick (Gift Shop Chair) and myself. 2008- Jane hears about Dan Lee’s hobby of woodworking and approaches Dan to possibly design/build a suitable rack. 2008- A Miracle of Miracles--Serendipity arrives: Accidental discovery by Dan and Shirley Lee of a long sought-after tallit/prayerbook rack in a synagogue in Hong Kong which met our requirements. A photo of same met with unanimous approval by Temple Board, Facilities Committee (Uri Gottfeld), Rabbi , Ritual Committee, etc. Dec 2008- Submission of final design drawings and completion of our magnificent furniture-grade, mobile tallit/prayer book rack by Dan Lee. Dan used Do-It-Yourself Woodshop to facilitate job. Bruce Frederick selected varnish to match lobby woodwork. Uri helped Dan move the rack to temple. The rack could easily be moved to the outside patio for summer services or to the BFR for Saturday Morning Minyan services. The fortuitous union of the three people most directly involved (Dan, Jane and myself) must have been bashert (destined) by God. Mazel Tov! Sid Rosenberg Events Community Jewish Family Services of Silicon Valley Provides Caring for the Caregivers Groups A Support Group for Spouses and Adult Children Caring For Chronically Ill/Disabled Loved Ones A place for supporting, empathizing and providing invaluable information in an atmosphere of companionship and care. Held on site at JFS SV on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays of the month, 2:30pm to 4:00pm, and at Chai House on the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month, 6:30pm to 8:00pm. Your Unwanted Car Will Help My Nana & Papa Fee: $10.00 per session; sliding scale available Facilitators: Rebecca Resheff, MSW, MA Psyc., and Avital Agam, BSW Donate your car, boat or motor home to Jewish Family Service and help provide services for seniors, children and families in Silicon Valley. To Donate Call: (877)JFS-4CAR (toll free) For more information and registration please call Avital Agam, 408.357.7450. Mah Johng Tournament returns to the Villages Friday, June 12 at 10:00am at the Villages Clubhouse $25.00 - $30.00 Includes lunch catered by Villages Clubhouse Make your reservations now by calling: For Tournament - Bernice Vitcov 408.274.0697 For other games - Janet Truman 408.238.3803 Tell your friends! Support Hadassah and have fun, too! Sponsored by Hadassah. 537.4227 Free Pick-Up Tax receipt given No smog required Community Mikvah Dedication, Learning and Afternoon Tea Sunday, June 7 from 2:00pm - 5:00pm at Levy Family Campus Explore the meaning of Mikvah, an ancient tradition of immersing in natural waters for spirituality, rejuvenation, reflection… Discover the modern value of Mikvah for men and women of all ages and life experiences. Learn how Mikvah can be a part of your Jewish journey. Register online at www.jvalley.org. For more information or to set up an appointment call the Mikvah line at 408.357.7444. 11 June Calendar Tuesday June 2 7:00pm Board of Trustees Meeting Thursday June 4 7:00pm Sisterhood Dinner and Meeting Friday June 5 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Services – Patio Services Start Saturday June 6 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan 7:00pm Neighborhood Havdallah Sunday June 7 11:00am Israel in the Gardens – Yerba Buena Gardens, SF 2:00pm The Big Splash – Opening Celebration of the Community Mikvah at the Levy Family Campus Wednesday June 10 7:00pm Survival in Shanghai Book Signing and Discussion Friday June 12 10:00am Preschool Graduation 12:00pm Israel Trip Meeting 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday June 13 10:00am South Pay Bride Shabbat at Temple Emanu-El Friday June 19 6:30pm Tot Shabbat /Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday June 20 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Friday June 19 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday June 20 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Friday June 26 6:30pm Sing It Yourself Shabbat Saturday June 27 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Sunday June 28 9:00am All Sisterhood Day Shabbat Candle Lighting Times - June July Calendar Monday June 29 7:00pm Israel Trip Meeting Wednesday July 1 - 15 Congregational Trip to Israel Friday July 3 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday July 4 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Friday July 10 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday July 11 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Friday July 17 6:30pm Tot Shabbat /Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday July 18 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Thursday July 23 11:00am Sisterhood Donor Luncheon Friday July 24 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Saturday July 25 9:00am Shabbat Morning Minyan Friday July 31 6:30pm Kabbalat Shabbat Service Save the Dates! August 2 – San Jose Giants Jewish Heritage Night August 9 – Brotherhood/Sisterhood BBQ September 18 – Erev Rosh Hashanah September 26 – Shabbat Shuvah September 27 – Erev Yom Kippur Shabbat Candle Lighting Times - July Friday, June 5 Light Candles at: 8:07 pm Friday, July 3 Light Candles at: 8:14 pm Shabbat, June 6 Shabbat Ends: 9:11 pm Shabbat, July 4 Shabbat Ends: 9:18 pm Friday, June 12 Light Candles at: 8:10 pm Friday, July 10 Light Candles at: 8:12 pm Shabbat, June 13 Shabbat Ends: 9:15 pm Shabbat, July 11 Shabbat Ends: 9:16 pm Friday, June 19 Light Candles at: 8:13 pm Friday, July 17 Light Candles at: 8:09 pm Shabbat, June 20 Shabbat Ends: 9:18 pm Shabbat, July 18 Shabbat Ends: 9:12 pm Friday, June 26 Light Candles at: 8:14 pm Friday, July 24 Light Candles at: 8:05 pm Shabbat, June 27 Shabbat Ends: 9:19 pm Shabbat, July 25 Shabbat Ends: 9:06 pm 12 Commitment Membership Benefits of Membership Whether you grew up loving religious school or you attend services only once a year, there are innumerable benefits to becoming a member at your local synagogue. Spiritual Benefits -Feeling nachas (pride) by supporting the Jewish community -A place to turn: in crisis, times of joy, when you just want to belong -Volunteer opportunities -Being connected to 5,769 years of Jewish history and tradition Religious Benefits By now congregant families have received their commitment requests for the fiscal year 2009-2010. Thank you to everyone who has returned their forms. If you have not yet done so, please mail it as soon as possible to that we can be ready when the fiscal year begins on July 1. Because of the current economic situation, the Board of Trustees has decided to continue the same program as last year. $1800 per year per family or $900 per year per single member is still considered the “Basic” level, but the “Sustaining” level of $2100 represents what it actually costs per family to keep our doors open. It is only through your financial support that the synagogue can provide all the benefits, including support for the Religious School, worship services, adult education and all the many other functions of our Jewish home. Please remember that you are affirming your commitment to your Jewish heritage rather than paying “dues” as one would to a health club or social organization. Over the past two years we have made significant progress towards our goal of bringing all members to at least the Basic level, and many members generously volunteered to “step-up” their membership commitments to the Sustaining, Silver, Gold and Platinum levels. We will not be asking for increases from members who have already made commitments at the Basic level or above; however, if you are able to increase your level of giving, you would be helping Temple Emanu-El become more financially sound and continue the vibrant energy that has been established in our congregation. Thank you. Bob Hersch Financial Commitment Committee Chair [email protected] -Leaving a legacy to the next generation of Jews and those who follow -Life cycle event support: Baby Naming, Brit Milah, Consecration, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Confirmation, Wedding, Counseling, Funeral, Shiva -Clergy Support -Membership subsidizes our Religious Schools Social Benefits -Feeling connected to the local and greater Jewish community -Havurot (friendship groups) -Extended Family -Sisterhood, Brotherhood, Xtra Years of Zest (XYZ), Youth Groups Educational Benefits -Continuing the Jewish tradition of learning -Life-long learning opportunities (18 months – adult) -Informational speakers on a variety of topics: Israel, Reform Judaism, Tikkun Olam (Social Action), Multi-Culturalism, Religious Pluralism, etc. -Torah Study -Hebrew Language Classes Monetary Benefits -Help to maintain a Jewish presence in the world -Complimentary High Holy Day tickets for you and your family, discounted High Holy Day tickets for your extended family -Priority enrollment and discounted tuition for our awardwinning preschool -Discount on facility rental -Income tax deductions Intangible Benefits - Innumerable! 13 L’Dor v’Dor From Generation to Generation 14 L’Dor V’Dor-Three Generations Serving on Temple Emanu-El Board family for over 50 years. I want to give back for all that was given to my family.” The Krandel family takes the notion of L’Dor V’Dor (from Generation to Generation) to heart with three generations of the family serving together on the Temple Emanu-El Board of Trustees. Steve Krandel, Ruth and Bob’s son, started his leadership at Temple Emanu-El 30 years ago when, as President of Confirmation, he also sat on the Religious school board, led by Ruth Krandel. Steve was appointed to the board five years ago and served while his dad was president and then his mom when she became president. Sixteen-year-old Brent Ghan, the newest member of the Board of Trustees serves as co-president of the Temple Emanu-El Senior Youth Group. Brent represents the youngest generation of the Krandels on the Board. He joins his grandmother, Ruth Krandel, immediate PastPresident of Temple Emanu-El and his uncle (Ruth’s son), Steve Krandel, Vice President of Administration and a Board member for the past 5 years. Brent, Ruth, and Steve did not plan to serve on the board together as a family. As longtime members of Temple Emanu-El and leaders in the community, it just happened. One thing is certain: the younger generations of the Krandel family were inspired by their elders as role models. The Krandel family joined Temple Emanu-El 53 years ago and has served in leadership positions for most of those years. Temple Emanu-El is Santa Clara Valley’s first Jewish congregation established in 1861. “I joined the temple with my mother. Bob and I were married at the temple and our social life with our kids was centered around the temple. It only seemed natural to get involved,” recalls Ruth Krandel. Ruth started her leadership at Temple Emanu-El in various Sisterhood officer positions. “After some time I didn’t want to just work with women, I wanted to help the entire temple community.” From there she served on the Board of Trustees for several different terms. Ruth also served as Chair of the Religious School Board, Treasurer, and helped lead just about every committee available at Temple Emanu-El. “While I was serving as Chair of the Religious School Board, my daughter Lori was President of the Senior Youth Group and my son Steve was President of Confirmation class, we all decided to get my husband Bob Krandel involved.” Both Ruth and Steve understand that it’s not always easy serving with family members. Ruth explains, “When Bob became President, I decided not to continue on the board. We wanted to support each other and we have such strong opinions we felt we’d work best together by focusing on different areas.” When not on the board, Ruth led over 30 fundraising activities for the temple. Two years ago, after Bob’s passing when he was Temple President, Ruth stepped into the role to fill the void left by Bob and to carry out his vision. “I care so much about the temple and the board, but I’ve gotten so much more back than I’ve given many times over. The past couple of years have been so difficult. After Bob died, I was able to turn my attention to the temple. The temple saved my life”. This year Ruth is the board’s immediate past president and a leader of a number of important committees. “The Temple has been my “It was pretty weird being on the board with either of my parents. I have tried to be my own person for a long time, but I was concerned that I would simply be ‘the Krandel kid’ and that my opinions would be less considered. I think I built my own reputation ahead of time (good or bad) so this didn’t end up being a problem. Serving under both my dad and my mom proved to be quite an experience. Both had completely different leadership styles but both really encouraged full participation from everyone on the board”. Anyone thinking that the Krandels form a political caucus need only attend a board meeting to see that each has their own individual perspective. “My mom and I have no issue at all disagreeing with each other. My dad used to say that both my mom and I would rather be right than happy. We have spent a lot of time over the past two years trying to be right.” “Although we don’t always share the same opinion on certain issues we agree that by being leaders we’re playing an important role for the congregation. My biggest sense of pride comes from being the board rep at a Bar/Bat Mitzvah. It’s gratifying to see how well we prepare our kids for the event and knowing that the work we do plays a part in helping kids really find their Jewish identity.” Brent Ghan, the youngest generation of Krandels appreciates the interest the Board of Trustees and especially his grandmother takes in investing in the success of the youth group. Brent was born into the Krandel leadership legacy. His mother Lori (Krandel) Ghan served as Senior Youth group president when she was in high school. Brent explains, “I was most influenced by my grandfather [Bob] to take a leadership role in the youth group.” When Brent was appointed co-president of EESY he didn’t realize he’d be serving on the Board of Trustees with his uncle and his grandmother. However, Brent doesn’t take his legacy lightly, nor does he consider it an entitlement. “It’s great to continue the tradition of leadership on the board. I’m proud to have so much of my family represented in temple leadership and to be able to give back to the temple. While on the board, I’ve learned a lot about how the leadership of the temple works. I see just how many people it takes and how much work goes into the temple to make it as successful as it is. It’s been a great learning experience. But, know that I’m in my role because I want to be, not because of any pressure to carry on the legacy.” Next year, Steve Krandel will continue to serve on the Temple Emanu-El Board of Trustees. But others in his family will be nearby! You can count on it. Young Men of Distinction Temple Emanu-El Honors Young Men of Distinction Birthdays June 1 3 4 5 6 Ben Lilly and Brent Ghan were honored along with a dozen teens from local synagogues and Jewish agencies for their outstanding dedication and commitment to serving their Jewish community. Three years ago, Jewish Federation of Silicon Valley commenced the Young Woman of Distinction as a way to encourage and honor teen volunteerism in our community commensurate with their adult counterparts. This year, the Jewish Federation chose to move the Young Women of Distinction Award to the “Silicon Valley Celebrates Israel” Celebration held in May at the Levy Family Campus in Los Gatos. This offered the opportunity to honor young men as well as young women of our community who represent our mission and core values. This year we honor two Young Men of Distinction, not just for their efforts this year, but for their long standing contributions to Temple Emanu-El and the Jewish community. Brent Ghan has been involved in leadership roles for EESY (Temple Emanu-El Senior Youth Group). This year he served as CoPresident of EESY. He is also heavily involved in NFTY (North American Federation of Temple Youth), the URJ’s youth movement. During his summers, Brent spends his time at Camp Newman-Swig in the gorgeous Santa Rosa Hills where he will be a Counselor in Training beginning this June. Brent is a junior at Willow Glen High School where he plays on the varsity water polo and swim teams, though he would much rather be found hanging out with his Jewish friends. In his free time, Brent enjoys going to San Jose Sharks games, photography and playing Frisbee. Ben Lilly has served as one of our extraordinary Madrichim (student teachers) at the Religious School for the past several years. Ben periodically leads our Saturday morning minyan services and spends one Friday a month leading Friday night services for seniors at Lytton Gardens Senior Residence, an activity that he started at age 12 prior to his Bar Mitzvah almost five years ago. Last year, for Ben's Eagle Scout project, he led over 35 volunteers organizing, cataloguing, protecting, and storing historic items from Temple Emanu-El’s archives. Ben is a junior at Homestead High School and a student of Temple Emanu-El’s Beit Midrash Teen program. He enjoys backpacking, reading, writing, learning languages and performing in high school theater productions. 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 Bette Myers John Nemec Lucy Wargon Stephen Reiss Glen Hoop Jack Chase Michelle Kusanovich Carol Thailer David Heiman Janet Katz Michael Holt Mike Rubin Robyn Levine Danielle Friedman Ivan Aronson Sarah Roberts Shellie Cohen Aviva Jacobstein Robert Applebaum Bert Heyman Tzvia Cahn Geraldine Levy Simon Silin Steve Carter William Wood Rosalyn Applebaum Michael Roberts Rubin Jurman Susan Timpson Deborah Michels Edward Cahn Hope Hoop Joel Cahn Nicole Hansen Samantha Meister Betty Rossman Brent Ghan Ben Polgar Byron Lilly Larry Cherniss Hannah Mimeles Ruth Cahn Peter Hubert Sandra Feldman Spencer Lowry Brian Fox Hugh Silin Ruth Krandel Bill Schneiderman David Ledwitz James Heerwagen Jonathan Rubin Wargon David Meister Justin Polgar Seema Jaffee Brad Wall Doris Rosenberg Becca Bronstein Mark Cahn Randy Levinson Ray Levine 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 Bernice Vitcov Jacob Baker Melissa Israel Arlene Ravel Bernie Levine Marian Bergoffen Neil Frank Jan Silverman Larry Fox Libby Werba Nancy Weintraub July 1 3 4 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 18 19 20 21 22 22 23 Deborah Jacobstein Ron Blumstein Aaron Levy Joyce Mendel Joe Gabriel Jonathan Jackel Carter Johnson Isabel Haggerty Steve Jackman Annie Kaufman Fabio Marino Benjamin Aronson David Snyder Sally Ravel Jared Bicknell Michael Chacon Lonnie Hoffman Norma Cohn Spencer Marsh Johanna Applebaum Kathy Aronson Rhea Carter Lois Matusow Eric Pangilinan Frances K. Powell Rita Seldon John Fox Stephen Greenberg Elyssa Hurwitz Laura Danoff-Robinson Shannon Brown Naomi Cahn Bruce Matzner Pamela Schuur Richard Albert Idelle Cagan Julia Goldstein Lauren Just Sydney Mimeles Andrew Weinberg Deborah Ong Margaret Cooper Elisa Gerston Sydney Levin Molly Guadiamos Robert Newman Yvonne Pan Julie Sachse 15 Birthdays and Anniversaries 24 Annette Ladowitz George Mirth 25 Marilyn Leiter Philip Schwarz 27 Pauline Braunstein Fredda Just 29 Edith Argabrite 16 30 Dawn Chaffin Faye Gendzel Scott Lowry Jeffrey Marsh 31 Philip Hammer Thomas MacLean Ethel Ress June Anniversaries 3 Eugene and Marilyn Handloff 9 Henry and Susan Walaszczyk Dave and Meeka Simerly 10 Humberto and Andrea Chacon Gary and Melissa Katz Leonard and Deborah Schreibstein 12 Manny and Amy Cappello 13 Lawrence and Ruth Ross 14 Dan and Shirley Lee Randy and Jackie Levinson Doug and Suzanne Tobin 15 Andrew and Michelle Katcher Richard and Eleanor Rusnak Lonna and Michael Smith 16 Michael and Ruth Cahn Joe and Armeda Fischer Melvin and Sybil Sommer 18 Burt and Sandy Epstein Bob and Kelly Kaufman 19 Michael and Susan Roberts 20 Matthew and Lorraine Gabbert Philip and Roma Green Rubin and Lucy Wargon 21 Jake and Pauline Braunstein Mark and Bette Emanuel Michael Friedman Herm and Beryl Greenberg 22 llan and Judith Bernstein 25 Jerry and Ilene Levine 26 Ed and Marjorie Cahn Bernie and Ruth Rosenberg 29 Walter and Robin Hurwitz Herb and Valerie Pomarantz 30 David and Janet Berg Thom and Wendy MacLean Andrew Weinberg and Lynn Offenhartz Religious School Cont. July Anniversaries 1 3 4 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 14 17 18 19 20 21 22 26 27 28 There is fabulous merchandise in the Emanu-El Judaica Shop! Temple Emanu-El Sisterhood operates the gift shop and all profits are given to the synagogue. Call for an appointment, 408.292.0939 or just stop by during regular temple office hours. Arcadi and Denise Elbert Mac and Leann Makhni Jeff and Missy Marsh Adit Squarer and James Beninghaus Ken and Linnea Abrams Alex and Anna Faaborg Harold Welch and Paula Marsh Perry Segal and Michelle Indianer Bob and Rhonda Hansen Greg and Sharon Turetzky Milton and Phyllis Shuch Eric and Martha Jepsky Steven and Lois Matusow Dan and Laura Winter David and Randie Schwartz Mort and Marilyn Leiter Terry Barwegen and Laura Fujieda Laura Danoff-Robinson and Gordon Robinson Julie and Matt Sachse Butch and Laura DiSessa Stephen and Christine Sedler Jerry and Sheri Prizant Glenn Holt and Jill Jacobson Berry and Terri Kane Al and Lorie Kaplan Tom and Bonnie Marantette Gerry and Gail Jacobs Student Reflections: Maggie - I hope by next year, they will be closer to finding a cure for cancer. Cancer affects a lot of people. Ayana - I feel good about this experience because it is fun and I feel like I’m helping millions of people by raising money. Jonathan - I’m walking to show respect and honor to the people who have been affected by cancer. I want them to know that we care and are trying to help. Spencer - Many members of my family have had cancer and I’m walking to honor them. I also want to help raise money to find a cure. Sarah - I am here to honor the memory of my piano teacher. She died of cancer…this is very personal for me. Arianna - I’m really enjoying being part of this experience. I’d do this again, even if it weren’t part of a class project because it is raising money for a good cause. Meilani - I’m walking in honor of those who have suffered with cancer and survived and in memory of those who have suffered and lost the battle. Hannah - This is really meaningful for me especially because I lost my grandmother to cancer. It is a really wonderful experience and it makes you feel warm inside your heart. Marshall - I am walking to raise money to fund scientists, so they can find a cure for cancer. Alex - Even though I don’t have any family members affected by cancer, I think I should contribute to the cause because people die. Jake - I’m walking for a cure. My grandfather had cancer and luckily he survived. But cancer is so hard on many families and it tears them apart. Ally - I’m walking in honor of both my aunts who were stricken with cancer. I hope more people become aware that cancer is spreading fast. Thank You Donations RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND In memory of Nathan Litman Lorie and Shari Kaplan Bernie Bernstein Allan and Judith Bernstein Julian Forster Molly Bain Frieda Forster Meyer Eisenberg Anita Eisenberg Neal Eisenberg In appreciation of Rabbi Magat Irvin Becker In honor of Wayne Rose Dorothy Frankel Kristina Fernandez’ Bat Mitzvah Carol Hoffman Dorothy Frankel’s birthday Frieda Forster Donation Sid and Bernice Green CANTORIAL DISCRETIONARY FUND In honor of Meeka’s graduation Judith Sapper Kristina Fernandez’ Bat Mitzvah Carol Hoffman In memory of Sam Mintzer Judith Sapper GENERAL FUND In memory of Kate Mamon Debby and Howard Katzman Eleanore Goldfinger Clarence Goldfinger Isaac Miller Golda Miller Robert Harold Cohn Norma Cohn Helen Hersch Jack Gardner Robert and JoAnne Hersch Donation Henry and Debra Watkins Elsa Gordon JUDITH JURMAN OMENS CEMETERY BEAUTIFICATION FUND In memory of George Rittenberg Percy and Anna Bronstein Diane Rittenberg In appreciation of Wayne Rose Selma Karchem BETTY RINSLER RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND In memory of Eric Rinsler Leo Rinsler and Family Randy Reiser David and Esther Reiser RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND In memory of Harry Simon Ethel Ress In honor of Pam Hoffman’s birthday The Chappells Ruth Ross’ special birthday Ruth Krandel BERT BERNS MUSIC FUND In memory of Irwin Tuttelman Oda Livchitz MAURICE TUCKER HIGH HOLY DAY MUSIC FUND In honor of Susanne Tucker Jill Carroll Donation Susanne Tucker LEVIN LEARNING CENTER FUND Donation Gordon and Barbara Weingarten WEINTRAUB RELIGIOUS SCHOOL SCHOLARSHIP FUND In memory of Sidney Huchital The Huchley Family Thank you to the preceding congregants and friends who remembered Temple Emanu-El with their generous contributions. Donations made after May 15, 2009 will be listed in the August 2009 issue of Connections. 17 June Yahrzeits We note, with sorrow, the death of Forest Greene, boyfriend of Al and Estelle Kadis’ daughter Harry Simon, nephew of Ethel Ress Ruth Clark, mother of Diane Clark Hinz and Stacey Clark Ohara Barton Dafoe, husband of Veronika Agranov Dafoe Harold Polgar, father of Douglas Polgar June 5 Anna Becker, Maxwell H. Bloom, Ida Clayton, Murray Dwosken, Minnie Fagen, Dr. N. William Forest, Isaac Friedland, Morris Gerston, Sarah Goide, Samuel Golstein, Leon Gordon, Sidney Greenberg, Violet Hutchins, Sarah Kaufman, Jennie Laskey, Harry H. Leiter, Lawrence Lewis, Albert Ludwig, Reeva Pearlstein, Samuel Renkosinsky, Cyril Rosenberg, Abraham Rubenstein, Leah Rubin, Minnie Schaffer, Herbert Hermann Schwalbe, Isadore Seelig, Abraham J. Shragge, Meyer Simon, Franziska Steinberg, Bertha Treister, Frances Vilutis, Joseph Hart Walters, Joyce Wolf, Debbie Wolfson June 12 Aaron Abelson, David Annan, Leona Lewis Atlas, Elsie Ball, Louis Ball, Helene Breslauer, Lollie Shaffer Brickner, Larry Chatoff, Gertrude Davidson, Frieda Friedman, Marvin Gallop, Helen L. Gates, Leon M. Gellman, Jennie Gillen, Eva Golden, Mark Goldstein, Rose Goldstein, Michael Goodman, Betty Gordon, Cheryl Harland, Phyllis Isaacs, Stanley Kaisel, Sam Klugman, Louis Lepler, Minnie Lepler, Siegmund Mendel, Phyllis Messinger, Pauline Milgrom, Dr. Sam Miller, Rose Morris, Harold Newman, Max Novikoff, Mickey Penner, Ted Pollak, Larry Rosenberg, David Saltzman, Anna Shuch, Sarah Silver June 19 Reba Alberts, Suzanne Dolgin, Max Glantz, Neil Grossman, Lena Hetzer, Eva Honig, William Israel Katz, Harry Konits, Jack Krulan, Gertrude Kulakofsky, Robert S. Levy, Amy D. Lowy, Emanuel Mauskopf, Sophie Meyerson, Don Miller, Helen Miller, Helen Miller, Louis Nerenberg, Susan Parnell, Mark Pearlman, Sam Penner, Dorothy Pinsker, Mary Port, Jean Reiter, Aaron A. Richards, Leon Rubin, Sarah Salzberg, Alex Schaechter, Max Schonwetter, Mary Schwartz, Louis Shapiro, Mark Siegel, Ben Woron June 26 David Abraham Arick, Anna Bronstein, Ben Byer, Brenda Heller Cowen, Elias A. Eigen, Louis Friedman, Zelma Friedman, Joseph E. Goldeen, Philip Hammer, Richard Hirsch, Ruth Hoffman, Carol Kaufman, Constance Kinspel, Samuel Laskey, Irving J. Levy, Evelyn Marquis, Ruth Matzner, Robert Mauskopf, Louis Milgrom, Berta Milman, Bessie Pollack, Ruth Rubin, Alan Schneider, Yetta Schneider, Shirley Shain, Morris Silver, Idelle Roll Smith, Ben Spector, Ruth Stein, Jacob M. Talkovsky, Meyer E. Tepper, Celia Wicksman, Dodd Young July Yahrzeits 18 July 3 Marlene Albert, Gerald Benson, Sarah Berman, Anita Blaustein, Ruth Cohen, Edwin Delman, Hilde Doron, Minnie Frederick, Harry Friedman, Leon Gerris, Doretta Given, Pauline Grant, Elaine Herzog, Sonia Hirsh, Miriam Hunter, Lawrence H. Kandel, Jack Krown, Ruth Kay Leiter, Sarah Lenchner, Irving Levin, Martha Rachel Levine, Sidney Levine, Sandra Medler, Dorothy Meshel, Theresa Messinger, Stefanie Newhouse, Kurt G. Opper, Oscar Panikoff, Aaron S. Pencovic, Maria Perr, Harry Popkin, Harry Popkin, Sam Ravel, Aaron Ress, Samuel Rudin, Albert Rudolph, Ernesto Schkolnick, Abraham Seldon, Rose Uberman, Sophie Van Rosam, Nancy P. Wright, Phillip Zabinsky July 10 Shirley Azen, Leslie Bamburg, Max Blum, Rifka Burman Marshalkovitz, Arthur Cagan, David A. Cohen, Corinne Gold, John Grayson, Elizabeth Green, Esther Jacobson, Max Kaufmann, Rose Kaufmann, Edith Stein Kovnat, Ada Kramer, Jack Leiter, Gertrude Lewis, Leo Lindauer, Ruth C. Madsen, Gertrude K. Marcus, Isadore Marks, Hannah Morris, Morris Joseph Peretz, Escher Pintoff, Helga Oster Remak, Rachel Rhein, Chester Schneider, Harry D. Schwartz, William Schwartz, Leo Siegel, Molly Siegler, Edward Thomas, Clorine Wheeler, Sol P. Wilets, Roberts J. Wright, Simon Zwern July 17 Irving Goodman Bobb, Jack Brandman, Sidney Brash, Morris Burman, Siegfried Danziger, Gertrude Fischer, Sam Fischer, Harry Fredkin, Bert W. Gates, Jacob Goldberg, Daniel Harris, Gussie Hirsch, Jacob Hubert, Evelyn Hutchins, Bertha Jacobs, Esther Koves, Benjamin Krandel, Oscar Lavin, Joseph S. Lerner, Ann Lewon, Frank Loren, Rivka Burman Marshalkovitz, Phyllis Matzner, David Perr, Richard N. Salle, Natalie Schmerz, Elizabeth Schneider, Helen Siegel, Morley Silverman, Hal Turkus July 24 Louis Berlant, Edward Cant, Arthur Decker, Anita Ellner, Estelle Farbstein, Ernesto Fliker, Charles Galin, Sidney J. Gambord, Lionel Gillston, Morris Hirsch, Abraham Hirsh, Rachel Jacobson, Gladys Kreisber, Dr. Louis Lackner, Max Landman, Robert M. Leiter, David Levin, Lilly Levine, Helen McDougal, Morris Nadel, Phyllis Omel, Millie Penner, Bernard Rosen, Joseph Rudin, Frieda Sapper, Samuel J. Schneider, Joseph Shanske, Pauline Shine, Allen Siegel, George Sturr, Sunny Sunshine, Benjamin Thailer, Esther Weiner, Jacob Witkin, Emil Wolfson July 31 Mark Bach, Lottie Berman, Rose Blickman, Alfred Brenner, Mildred Borts Brisken, Bernice Brochin, Lena Carl, Isidor Farber, Sam Fishoff, Samuel Gerstley, Annette Golstein, Pat L. Hunter, Leo Ivener, Julius Katzman, Victor Levine, Milton Lichtbach, Herbert Marchick, Bettie Miller, Solomon Miller, Rose Nerenberg, Isaak Orloff, Joseph Pintoff, Mildred Rakovsky, Herbert Ravel, Sarah Richards, Henry Rosensweig, Aaron Rosenthal, Jack Rotofsky, Max Sachs, Verleen Salak, Abraham Salzberg, Fritzi Schaechter, Dr. Solomon S. Sogg, Mary Sokolov, Hippolito Soto, Harry Arnold Stern, Joanne Tehrani, Nathan Treister, Jeanette Waxman Meeka’s Investiture Leadership Clergy !מזל טוב Dana L. Magat Senior Rabbi [email protected] Meeka Simerly Cantor [email protected] Joseph Gitin, D.D. Rabbi Emeritus Board of Trustees President: Steve Greenberg [email protected] Immediate Past President: Ruth Krandel [email protected] VP Administration: Steve Krandel [email protected] VP Membership: Laura Danoff-Robinson [email protected] VP Education and Youth: Marci Gerston [email protected] Secretary: Barry L. Cohen [email protected] Treasurer: Joe Riggio [email protected] Rich Albert Uri Gottfeld Steve Ladowitz Eleanor Rusnak Mazel Tov Cantor Meeka! Mark Cahn Jonathan Hirshon David Mimeles Michelle Schneiderman Brotherhood President: Bob Levy [email protected] Sisterhood President: Rita Loren [email protected] EESY Presidents: Kristina Fernandez [email protected] Cantor Meeka Simerly was invested over Memorial Day weekend after years of study, hard work and dedication. Committees Marci Gerston Bob Hersch Uri Gottfeld Kim Jackman Sharon Genkin Robin Hurwitz Mark Cahn Lori Telson Rich Albert We are proud of her for completing the academic part of her career. As she tells her B’nai Mitzvah students, the journey has just begun! We look forward to years of growth, learning, adventure and music at Temple Emanu-El. Kim Jackman Ruth Pangilinan Greg Turetzky Adult Education Dues Facilities Membership Membership Religious School Ritual Marketing Tikkun Olam [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Membership @templesanjose.org [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] [email protected] Staff Yasher Koach! Gloria Melmon Ascher Realtor 12988 Saratoga/Sunnyvale Road Saratoga, CA 95070 www.gloriaascher.com Office 408.741.1111 Direct 408.741.1174 ex. 604 Fax 408.741.7076 Cell 408.781.8624 Nancy Weintraub Interim Executive Director [email protected] 408.292.0939 Paula Marsh Religious School Principal [email protected] 408.292.3223 Deborah Zimmer Member Services Coordinator [email protected] 408.292.0939 Beth Roellig Religious School Assistant [email protected] 408.292.3223 Marcy Weiss Director of Informal Education/Clergy Assistant [email protected] 408.292.0939 Barbara Smead Preschool Director [email protected] 408.293.8660 MaryAnn Orlowski Bookkeeper [email protected] 408.292.0939 Bob Basuino Cemetery Administrator [email protected] 408.297.3636 Editor: Marcy Weiss 19 Temple Emanu-El 1010 University Avenue San Jose, CA 95126 www.templesanjose.org Non-Profit Org. US POSTAGE 20 PAID Permit No. 542 San Jose, CA Address Service Requested Operating and Tribute Funds: General Fund Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Cantor’s Discretionary Fund Executive Director’s Discretionary Fund Alvin Ravel Garden Fund Beverly Jordan Temple Beautification Fund Judith Jurman Omens Cemetery Beautification Fund Capital Campaign Fund Lollie Brickner Media Center Fund Lou and Clara Juren Library Fund Ralph Goldeen Library Fund Religious Funds: Harold Cahn Prayerbook Fund Herbert Marchick High Holy Day Fund Kenneth Gordon Children’s Prayerbook Fund Maurice Tucker High Holy Day Music Fund Ida F. Kragen Consecration and Caring Fund Youth Funds: Religious School Fund Religious School Enrichment Fund Betty Rinsler Religious School Endowment Fund Weintraub Religious School Scholarship Fund Campership Fund Leonard and Bernice Gaon Campership Fund Michael Elman Campership Fund Milton Fox Campership Fund Phyllis Matzner Campership Fund Israel Scholarship Fund Susanne C. Blickman Arts and Crafts Fund Cultural Funds: Choir Fund Andrew Apte Temple Historical Fund Phyllis Omel Junior Choir Fund Bertram Berns Music Fund Shank-Rockman Family Sound System Fund Community Funds: Facilities for the Aged Fund (Chai House) JoAnne Salman-Tehrani Homeless Fund Other Tribute Opportunities: $36 - Prayerbook Tribute $218/$500/$750 - Tree of Life Leaf/small/large rock $500 - Sanctuary Chair Plaque $750 - Memorial Plaque (in sanctuary foyer) Opportunities in Levin Learning Center: $5,000 - Stair Plaque $10,000 - Library Column Dedication $25,000 - Room Dedication Contact the office for additional opportunities. Making a contribution to one of Temple Emanu-El’s many funds is a wonderful way to honor your friends and family. You may make contributions in honor of a birth, birthday, brit milah, baby naming, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Confirmation, graduation, engagement, wedding, anniversary, promotion, new home, special occasion or just because. You may also make contributions for get-well wishes, condolence, remembrance and yahrzeits.
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