Individuality vs. Conformity
Ralph
Waldo
Emerson
Ralph
Waldo
Emerson
Socrates said, “Know thyself,” and no has taken that more to heart than one of
America’s great revolutionary individualists, Ralph Waldo Emerson, an original
liberal from Massachusetts, or the Sage of Concord as he was more commonly
known in his day. He wasn’t the handsomest man alive… but his message made him
more famous and more popular than any American Idol. He said things like:
“A man should learn to detect and watch that gleam of light which flashes across his
mind from within, more than the luster of the firmament of bards and sages.”
“Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.”
Emerson, like no other, entreats us to trust ourselves, to become aware of
ourselves—that is our innate capacity and power and we must use it (Rollo May
makes a similar point in “On Becoming a Person”). We must pay attention to our
inner voices, our inner lights, not ignore them, push them aside. “To envy others is
ignorance” and “imitation is suicide,” Emerson declares. Such strong language to try
to convince us how necessary it is to look within. Is he right? Are there consequences
for not looking within, not listening to the quiet voice inside?
The voice outside, the blaring megaphone that is our pervasive mass media, is in
opposition to the individual, drowning out that quiet lone voice. It’s constantly
putting pressure on us to conform, to be like everyone else (in our “group”). Fit in.
Be like us. Come in our house. There are a million keys for sale. Emerson:
“Society everywhere is in conspiracy against the manhood of every one of its
members….The virtue most [requested] is conformity….Whoso would be a man must be
a nonconformist.”
The only answer is to cherish your own mind, your own voice:
“Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.”
The way Emerson makes it sound, conformity is the enemy. Why does he consider
it so nasty to conform? Doesn't conformity fulfill our need to belong? Don’t we all
deep down want and need to belong to a group that’s bigger than ourselves? (Maya
Angelou explores this in her poem, “Alone.”) Here we come to the interesting, very
nuanced questions. Is any amount of conformity dangerous? If that were true, how
could we have social structures? Look at Emerson’s pictures on these pages. You
can probably point to some convincing evidence that he was okay about conformity
in some matters; so, when does conformity become too much conformity? Why,
despite the evidence that he himself has agreed to conform to certain obvious social
conventions, does he make conformity out to be such a terrible thing?
It’s obvious that although he conformed to conventional social expectations in some
ways, Emerson associated too much conformity—and that is an interesting question:
how much is too much?—with a kind of "herd" mentality. The sheep are in this part
of the meadow so I better go and stand there, too. The birds are flying this way; I
better not get left behind. Uh-oh, the lemmings are jumping off the cliff, so I’d better
jump, too. There’s something repugnantly mindless and undignified in behaving like
a herd animal when human beings are capable of making individual choices. A
human being ought to exercise his human faculties—intelligence, creativity,
individuality. Conformity in all things, especially the things that matter most (what
are the things that matter most to you?) would be a sign of lower intelligence.
If Emerson has a problem with conformity, perhaps it’s because he believed:
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Too much conformity robs us of our most authentic, most human selves. For
example, what if you made your career choice based on the belief that
acquiring wealth is the ultimate goal of one’s career? That certainly is the
dominant message that most of us get from our culture when we’re young and
impressionable. You are conditioned to want all the nice toys and things that
only money can buy. What if you made all your decisions based on that idea
alone, and never discovered a more meaningful, individual reason for choosing
a career? Even if you choose to believe a career is all about acquiring wealth, at
least you made the choice, you didn’t just blindly accept it unthinkingly.
What the larger society, large institutions, call “good” may not be. What if
their motives are less than pure? To be sure, you have to discover “good’ and
“bad” for yourself. For example, the mass media tells me we’re fighting a
“good” war in Iraq. Should I unthinkingly adapt that view, or look into the
matter myself and decide whether it’s a justified war or an immoral war? Do I
support it simply because the government tells me to, or because I believe it’s
doing good?
Any fixed, static doctrine coming from the outside is likely to have trouble
adapting to your unique experience. For example, if you think in today’s
world it makes sense to practice birth control, you may bristle if your religious
institution orders you not to. But ultimately you’ll have to decide for yourself
what the right path is.
Nothing can take precedence over the voice from within. Emerson was convinced
that if you believe in yourself, you’ll gain the confidence of the world around you.
Society tends to label as “bad” anything that is different. Protesting the war is “bad
for morale.” If you want to “support the troops” you have to support the war. If the
inner voice is telling you the war is immoral, then in “society’s” eyes, that voice is
“bad.” It may even be, in George Bush’s lexicon, “the devil’s voice.” Emerson
might say, then so be it. Accept it nonetheless. Must it really be the “devil’s voice”
just because it’s saying something different, in opposition? Emerson recognized that
it is far too easy for simple notions of “good” and “bad” to masquerade as one
another, to be mistaken for one another; people can become too easily impressed by
the costumes of external power, forfeiting their own internal powers. It’s with shame
that he recognizes “how easily we capitulate to badges and names, to large societies
and dead institutions.”
Because it’s likely to rumple some feathers, nonconformity isn’t the “easy way,” as
Emerson realizes when he says: “Nonconformity would whip you with its
displeasure.” (An extreme case is the short film, Skin Deep (which we may view in
class), but we all have our war stories, times when we resisted conformity and paid
some price for it.) Emerson asks, where does all of that disapproval come from? He
suggests it comes from the people who are most conformist and pressure you to
conform as well. But, in Emerson’s view, these people are about as strong and
morally upright as leaves in the wind, doing and thinking only as the newspaper
directs them. These are the people, in today’s society, who follow the whims and
directives of the mass media, and rarely put an ounce of deep thinking into any of
their opinions.
Emerson’s view of the individual is dynamic. We are creatures of growth and
change. We are responsive to the world around us; we accumulate experiences,
adapt to them, synthesize them, regenerate and renew ourselves. And in the process,
sometimes we contradict our previous selves. Walt Whitman is one of our great
American poets, and Emerson’s contemporary. He was in fact discovered by
Emerson. Whitman wrote, in “Song of Myself”:
“Do I contradict myself? Then I contradict myself. I am large, I contain multitudes.”
To be afraid of growth, afraid of change, seems antithetical to everything we are.
Individuals grow and change. Conformists supply and maintain the status quo. If,
as individuals, we fully embrace the process of growth and change, it’s almost certain
we’ll contradict ourselves at some point. Emerson encourages us not to be afraid of
that, to wear the “flip-flopper” badge as one of honor:
“A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little
statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has
simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on
the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words, and tomorrow speak
what tomorrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict everything
you said to day. —“Ah, so you shall be misunderstood.”—Is it bad then to
be misunderstood? Pythagorus was misunderstood, and Socrates, and
Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure
and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.”