November2016 WhatDoesItMeanToBe ACommunityofStory? WhatDoesItMeanToBe ACommunityofStory? Ourlivesarenotjustmadeupofstories;theyarealsomadebystories.Thismightbethemost importantreminderofthismonth.Indeed,whoofushasn’tfeltcontrolledbyastory?Stuckina story?Hopelessaboutthewayourstorywillendup?Simplyput,storieswriteusasmuchaswe writethem. Forinstance,whocan’trelatetothefriendthattellsusthatherfamily“clingstothestoryabout howI’mtheclumsyone.”We’veneverseenourfriendtrip,notonce.Ordropathing,ever.Andyet, somehow,whenshegoestoherparents’homeorbacktoafamilyreunion,shespillscoffeeonat leastoneoutfit,stubsatleastonetoeandstumblesdownatleastonestep.Thereitis:thepowerof story! Orthinkaboutourcurrentstruggleswitheconomicorracialjustice.Theincredibleincomegapis describedas“natural”or“theresultofcomplexglobaldynamicsoverwhichwehavelittlecontrol.” Similarly,thestoryofraceinourcountryistoldwithan“entrenched”storyarc.Talkabouta debilitatingwayoftellingthestory. Solet’stellanewstory!Thisisthemessageofourfaith:Wehaveachoice.Ourstoriesarenot predetermined.RememberthatoldtheologicaldebateourUUfore-fathersandmothersgavetheir livesfor?SomesaidthatGodhadpredestinednotjustthebigstoryofhumanity,butourindividual storiestoo.Someofuswereslottedforheavenandothersforhell.AndGodhadwrittenthelistin ink.Nothinganyofuscoulddoaboutit. “Well,”saidourspiritualancestors,“that’sabitharsh,don’tyouthink!”Forgetthisextremefatedrivenstory,theysaid.Freedomhasamuchbiggerrolethanwe’regivingitcreditfor.Godisnotso muchtheauthorofthestoryassheisthemagicalmusethatneedlesandnagsustoputourown stamponthenarrativesbeforeus.Inotherwords,wecomefromalong-lineofspiritualrelatives whoagreedwithShakespearethat“Alltheworld’sastage,”butthenwentontoclarifythatit’san improvshowtowhichwe’veallbeeninvited. Sofateandfreedom?Thismonthismuchmoreaboutthetensionbetweenthesetwothanone mighthavethought,leavinguswithquestionslike:Areyouanactorconformingtothescripts handedtoyou?Orhaveyoufoundyourownwayofbecomingadirector,ascreenwriter,anauthor? Howareyoustrugglingrightnowtoregaincontrolofthestorylineofyourlife?Howareyouand yourfriendsworkingtoregaincontrolofthestorylineofourcommunity?Ourcountry? Ormaybecontrolisnotyourwork.Maybeyourspiritualworkisaboutfindinganewstoryline. Mayberetirement,divorce,illnessortheempty-nesthasclosedthebookononestoryandis invitingyoutoleapintoawholenewnarrative.Doesthatleaveyouexcitedaboutwhat’stocome? Scared?Abitofboth? Whateveritis.Whereveryouareat.Don’tgivethestorylineaway.That’sthemessageofourfaith. Andhopefullythegiftofthismonth. 2 OurSpiritualExercises OptionA: RememberingtheWisdomofYourPlotTwist Noonegetsthroughlifewithoutaplottwist.Unexpectedeventshappentousall:adeath,illness,a divorceorlossofajob.Andit’snotalwayssomethingbad:wegetajobofferoutofnowhere, stumbleintoloveorlearnwearepregnantrightawaywhenwethoughtitwouldtakeawhile. Goodorbad,theunexpectedeventusuallycomeswithanunexpectedinsight.Animportantvalueis clarified.Atruthiswritteninneonlights.Allthosemundaneworriesandtodolistsareputinto perspective. Butovertime,thatmomentofclarityoftenfades.Theplottwist’swisdomisforgotten.Ourresolve toremembertakesabackseattothosedailytodolistsonceagain. Thisassignmentinvitesyoutobringtheclarityback: ● ● ● ● Reconstructandrememberthestoryofyourplottwist. Maketimetomeditateonit,writeaboutitordiscussitwithafriend. Findanobjectthatrepresentstheinsightofyourplottwist. Placethatobjectinaplaceyouwillseeeveryday. Cometoyourgroup,readytoshareyourplottwiststoryandtheobjectthatrepresentstheinsight itgaveyou.Mostimportantly,explaintoyourgroupwhyorwhynotyou’vedecidedtokeepthat objectinviewforlongerthanjustthismonth. OptionB: What’sYourWizardofOz? Storiescompanionus.Mostofusfellinlovewitha“madeup”storyinourchildhoodwithoutwhich navigatingourreallifestorywouldhavebeenastruggle.Forinstance,onesoulmattersmembers sharesthatTheWizardofOzwasthatforher.Thatlionhelpedherseethatcouragecomesfrom communitynotsimplyfrominsideofoneself.Thewitchandthewizardwarnedherabouttypesof peopletolookoutfor.Dorothyhelpedherseethatanswersarefoundbyreturninghomenotjust byleavingit.Allofthem—Dorothy,theLion,theScarecrow,theTinWoodsman,Toto—weren’t justcharactersinachildhoodfantasybutcompanionsthataccompaniedherintoandthroughreal lifeadulthood. Whatchildhoodstorygavesuchcompanionsandguidancetoyou?Ourchildrenwouldsurelyname HarryPotter.Forus,othernameslikelyemerge:LittleHouseonthePrairie,NancyDrew,Sherlock Homes,TreasureIsland,TheLion,TheWitch&TheWardrobe,maybeevenTheLordoftheFliesor DavidandGoliath. Thismonthbringthatformativefictionbackintoyourheartandhead.Yourassignment: 3 Identifywhichchildhoodstoryservedasyourguidingtale & bringinapieceofproofabouthowitinfluencedyourlife Don’tmakethatsecondpartoftheexerciseoverlycomplicated.Your“proof”mightsimplybe pullingthebookorvideorightoffyourshelfandbringingitin.Morethanoneofusarelikelytopull outourLukeSkywalkerorPrincessLeiaactionfigurefromtheattic.Somewillsurelybringintheir videocopyofIt’saWonderfulLife.Yetanotherofusmightbringinridingbootsandexplainhow shetracesherloveofhorsesandherdeepself-lovebacktoBlackBeauty. Thepointistosimplytakethetimetolookaroundyourlifeandfindsometraceofthat“fictitious” children’sstoryinyourliteraladultworld! OptionC: YourSix-WordFaithStory Six-wordstoriesareacommonexerciseinwriters’groupsbecausetheyvividlydisplayofthe powerofbrevityandencapsulation.ThinkofCaesar’sfamousquote:“Icame.Isaw.Iconquered.” (AnditwasonlythreewordsinitsoriginalLatin:Veni,vidi,veci.) Thismonth,youareinvitedtoapplythepowerofpithinesstoyourspiritualjourney: Describeyourpersonalreligiousjourney/storyinsixwords! Here’ssomeinspirationfoundfromallovertheinternet: “Seekinghimwholovedmefirst.” “BornJewish.Discoveredbacon…stillJewish.” “NomoreSundayschool.Sleepingin.” “I’vefallenandfinallygotup. “Fairytales.Thought.Deliberation.Reason.Awakening.Atheist” “Prayedeverynight;nooneanswered.” “Ipray.Sheanswers.Eachtime.” “Brainwashed,manipulated,guilted,awoke,objected,rejected.” “RealizedReality;ExpressedReality,ConnectedOthers” “Filledtheemptiness;Emptiedthefullness.” Cometoyourgroupreadytoexplainyoursixwordspiritualjourneystory.Andfeelfreetousea fewmorethansixwords. 4 OptionD: What’sYourSentence? Ifsixwordsisnotenoughforyou,trythisexercise.Authorandmotivationalexpert,DanielPink advocatesdistillingtheessenceofyourlife’sstorydowntoonesinglesentence.It’safocusing devicethatconnectspeopletoclearerpurpose. Here’showPinkdescribestheexercise: ● https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gw2xSdp4bOc&feature=youtu.be Here’showclassroomsofchildrenandyouthtookontheexercise: ● https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UrLdUzeymaI ● https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEpVaWZc-Ks Afteryoucomeupwithyoursentence,figureoutawaytokeepitfrontandcenter.Carryitinyour purseorwallet.Hangitbyyourdesk.Leaveitinyoursockdrawerorglovecompartmentinorder tostumbleuponitwhenyouneeditmost. Mostofall,usethisexercisetoaskyourself:DoIknowthepurposeofmylife’sstory?OrhaveI allowedmylifetobecomeamuddleofmixedandundevelopedstorylines?DoIknowcentraltheme ofmylifeordotheplotlinesofothersdictatemydays? Cometoyourgroupreadytosharehowthecreationofyoursentencehelpedyouseeorembrace somethingnewaboutyourstory. 5 YourQuestion Asalways,don’ttreatthesequestionslike“homework”oralistthatneedstobecoveredinitsentirety. Instead,simplypicktheonequestionthat“hooks”youmostandletitleadyouwhereyouneedtogo. Thegoalofthesequestionsisnottohelpyouanalyzewhatstorymeansintheabstract,buttofigure outwhatadeeperawarenessofstorymeansforyourdailyliving.So,whichquestioniscallingtoyou? Whichonecontains“yourwork”? 1. Whatgenreisyourcurrentlife’sstory?Areyoulivingamystery?Anadventurestory?A romance?Athriller?Areyouworriedthatyourstoryisnotinterestingenoughtobe published?Isitahalf-finishedmanuscriptstuckinwriter’sblock?Areyouinthemidstofgoing backandre-writingtheending? 2. Whatstoriesdidyour“elders”passdowntoyou?Haveyoucaredforthemandpassedthemon asthoseeldershoped? 3. Whatstorydoesyourfamilyoforigintellaboutyou?Doesthattellingleaveyoufeelingseenor misunderstood?Celebratedorunfairlycharacterized?Ifmischaracterized,whatareyourplans togetthemtoreshapetheirtellingofyou?Orisyourtruestorybetterservedbyjustlettinggo oftryingtochangetheirunfairone? 4. Whodoyoutellyoursecretstoriesto?Iftheansweris“noone,”mightitbetimetofind someone?(“Thereisnogreateragonythanbearinganuntoldstoryinsideyou.”~Maya Angelou) 5. Whenhasre-tellingorre-writingyourstoryhealedorsavedyou?Howmightre-examiningor re-tellingapartofyourstoryofferyouhealingrightnow? 6. Whatcurrentculturalorpolitical“story”strikesyouasdangerous?Howmightyoustepup yourcommitmentandeffortstochallengethatdangerouslyfalsestory?Howmightyoudouble downonmakingsurethatthetruestoryisknown? 7. Howdoyouusestory?Whenyoutellstories,whatismostoftenthepurpose?Toconnect?To entertain?Toheal?Toconceal?Toremember?Topasson?Toteach?Togainpower?To saythanks?Wereyousurprisedbyyouranswer? 8. Areyouhidingpartofyourstoryfromthepersonyousayyou“trustthemost”? 9. Areyoufakingastoryrightnow?Areyoufollowingastorylinethatisn’treallyyou?Does anyoneelsenotice?Doyouwantthemto?What’syourplanforbringingthisfalsestorytoan end? 10. Whatstorydidyouwalkawayfrom?Allofusthinkaboutthatotherlife—thatotherstory— thatweturneddownfortheonewehavenow.Whetheryouregretyourpastchoiceornot, thatroadnottakendoesn’teverreallygoaway.Itcontinuestobepartofourstory.Doesthat oldroadwantyoutoreturntoitandgiveitanotherlook? 11. Aretherepartsofyour“old”storyyouneedtoreclaimornotice,beforemovingon?Manyof ourelderstoldus,“Youdon’tknowwhereyouaregoingunlessyouknowwhereyoucome from.”Whenwasthelasttimeyoumadesomeroomforrememberingyourroots? 12. What’syourquestion?Yourquestionmaynotbelistedabove.Asalways,iftheabovequestions don'tincludewhatlifeisaskingfromyou,spendthemonthlisteningtoyourdaystohearit. 6 RecommendedResources Asalways,thisisnotrequiredreading.Wewillnotanalyzeordissectthesepiecesinourgroup. Theyaresimplymeanttocompanionyouonyourjourneythismonth,getyourthinkingstarted, andmaybeopenyoutonewwaysofthinkingaboutwhatitmeanstobeacommunityofstory. Story Definition:anarrative,eithertrueor fictitious,inproseorverse,designedto interest,amuse,orinstructtheheareror reader;anarrationoftheeventsinthelifeof aperson;areportoraccountofamatter Synonyms:tale;account;chronicle; narrative;fable;myth;autobiography WiseWords Therearenotruestories;wearemakingup everyoneofthem.~PemaChodron Thereareonlytruestories.Weare discoveringthetruthinthem.~Christina Baldwin HiddeninallstoriesistheOnestory.The morewelisten,theclearerthat[universal] Storybecomes.Ourtrueidentity,whoweare, whywearehere,whatsustainsus,isinthis story.Thestoriesateverykitchentableare aboutthesamethings,storiesofowning, havingandlosing,storiesofsex,ofpower,of pain,ofwounding,ofcourage,hopeand healing,oflonelinessandtheendof loneliness.StoriesaboutGod.Intellingthem, wearetellingeachotherthehumanstory.~ RachelNaomiRemen,KitchenTable Wisdom Ifyoudon'tknowthekindofpersonIam andIdon'tknowthekindofpersonyouare apatternthatothersmademayprevailinthe world andfollowingthewronggodhomewemay missourstar. ~WilliamStafford,fromhispoem:"A RitualtoReadtoEachOther," Thereisnogreateragonythanbearingan untoldstoryinsideyou.~MayaAngelou Listeningissoulwork.Itcanhelptheliving findthemeaningtogooninthemidstof tryingcircumstances,anditcanhelpthe dyingacceptthebrevityoftheirlives. Withoutlistening,therecanbenostory.And withoutstories,wecannotcompletethe unfinishedworkofhealing.~RichardStone, TheHealingArtofStorytelling Storiesaretoldasspellsforbindingtheworld together.~JohnRouse Thinkabouteverymemorialserviceyou’ve attended.Whentheyreadtheeulogyabout theperson’slifeandaccomplishmentthatis justthe“what”oftheirlife.Thethingpeople wanttohearatamemorialservice,thething thatbringscomfort,stirsmemories,invites tearsandlaughter,arethestories.The novelistEdmundWhitesays“whenaperson diesalibraryisburned.”Thestoriesbecome the“how”ofalife,andthatishow,overtime, werememberthepersonwhoisgone.~Liz Hill,SoulMattersminister Thetruthaboutstoriesisthatthatisallwe are.~ThomasKing,TheTruthAbout Stories Thosewhotellthestories,ruletheworld.~ HopiProverb Storytellingisdangeroustothosewhoprofit fromthewaythingsarebecauseithasthe powertoshowthatthewaythingsareisnot permanent,notuniversal,notnecessary. Havingthatrealthoughlimitedpowertoput establishedinstitutionsintoquestion, 7 imaginativeliteraturehasalsothe responsibilityofpower.Thestorytelleristhe truth-teller.…Wewillnotknowourown injusticeifwecannotimaginejustice.Wewill notbefreeifwedonotimaginefreedom.We cannotdemandthatanyonetrytoattain justiceandfreedomwhohasnothadachance toimaginethemasattainable.~UrsulaK.Le Guin Ispentmywholelifedeeplyconnectedto spiritualityandfaith–Ievenpreachedthe homiliesatbothmyconfirmationmassand myhighschoolbaccalaureate–butInever evenimaginedmyselfinreligiousleadership untilIexperiencedmyownfemaleminister. Thepriestsofmychildhoodhadcreatedin methislimitingstoryofwhatministers lookedlike,whattheyknewandtalkedabout andcaredabout.Whichistosay,they certainlydidn’twearskirts,theyweren’t feminists,ormoms,theydidn’tstudy performanceartorappreciatequeertheory, orqueeranythingoranyone,anddefinitely didn’tlovepopcultureorfashionasmuchasI did,anddo.Butthensuddenly,Idiscovereda newstoryinmyfemaleskirtwearingfeminist minister.~Rev.Haley,SoulMatters Minister,fromhersermon,TheDangerof aSingleStory Researchconsistentlyshowsthatstories moldus.Themoredeeplywearecastundera story’sspell,themorepotentitsinfluence.In fact,fictionseemstobemoreeffectiveat changingbeliefsthannonfiction,whichis designedtopersuadethroughargumentand evidence.Studiesshowthatwhenweread nonfiction,wereadwithourshieldsup.We arecriticalandskeptical.Butwhenweare absorbedinastory,wedropourintellectual guard.Wearemovedemotionally,andthis seemstomakeus[opentoseeingeachother andlifeanew].~DavidZahl Videos&Podcasts “TheDangerofaSingleStory” byChimamandaAdichie Ourlives,ourcultures,arecomposedofmany overlappingstories.NovelistChimamanda Adichietellsthestoryofhowshefoundher authenticculturalvoice—andwarnsthatif wehearonlyasinglestoryaboutanother personorcountry,weriskacritical misunderstanding. http://tinyurl.com/jobdkb9 Readalsothisexcellentreflectioninspiredby Adichie’sTEDTalkbySoulMattersminister theRev.Haley:http://tinyurl.com/jjybb59 Twoorganizationsthatcollectstories: StoryCorpandTheMoth StoryCorps’missionistopreserveandshare humanity’sstoriesinordertobuild connectionsbetweenpeopleandcreatea morejustandcompassionateworld. https://storycorps.org/ TheMoth'smissionistopromotetheartand craftofstorytellingandtohonorand celebratethediversityandcommonalityof humanexperience.https://themoth.org/ “Wearethestorieswetellourselves” byShekharKapur Wheredoescreativeinspirationspringfrom? AtTEDIndia,Hollywood/Bollywooddirector ShekharKapur...pinpointshissourceof creativity:sheer,utterpanic.Hesharesa powerfulwaytounleashyourinner storyteller. http://tinyurl.com/j6vxok7 “TheDanceofStorytelling” byIshAitHamou Ishwrites,directsanddancesstories.His life'sjourneyofstorytellingpushesthe boundariesandcreatesanewandimportant art:"thedanceofstorytelling". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2s7Ghrzx3E 8 Articles “TheStoriesWeTellOurselves” byTerriSchanks “Thestoriesofaperson,afamily,aculture,a country—theyholdus,bindusinways whicharepotentiallyfruitfulorharmful,and giveusanidentity.” http://www.onbeing.org/blog/the-storieswe-tell-ourselves/7634 NeilGaimanonWhyScaryStoriesAppeal toUs,theArtofFearinChildren’sBooks, andtheMostTerrifyingGhostsHaunting Society https://www.brainpickings.org/2014/03/20 /neil-gaiman-ghost-stories/ “TellMeaStory”byRichardHamilton “Ourbrainsseemwiredtotrytoseekouta narrative.Itishowwemakesenseofthe world.” http://www.dailygood.org/more.php?n=583 7 Movies&Television Boyhood Epicintechnicalscalebutbreathlessly intimateinnarrativescope,Boyhoodisa sprawlinginvestigationofthehuman condition. https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/boyho od/ BigFish Ifyoucomefromafamilyofstorytellers, there’snobetter(orworse)waytocelebrate thetraditionthanbywatchingBigFish. http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/112778 7-big_fish/ TheThinBlueLine Yes,it’scalledadocumentarybutthisisreally oneofthebestdetectivestoriesyou’llever encounter.Agreatadventureintohowdeeply wecanbelievethatwepossessthe“truthof thestory”butstillbewrong! http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/thin_blu e_line/ MonumentalMyths TravelacrosstheUnitedStatesina1965 AirstreamTrailerasfilmmakerTomTrinley visitshistoricsitesandmonumentsunveiling themanysidesofhistorynottoldonthe landscapeorinhistorybooks.On-camera appearancesbyHowardZinn,JamesLoewen, LonnieBunchandAdam"FortunateEagle" Nordwall.Inspiredby"LiesMyTeacherTold Me"and"APeoples'HistoryoftheUnited States." FullMoviehere: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQIMrw 8gSVQ TheUntoldHistoryOfTheUnitedStates ThereisaclassifiedAmericawewerenever meanttosee.FromAcademyAward®winningwriter/directorOliverStone,this ten-partdocumentaryserieslooksbackat humaneventsthatatthetimewent underreported,butthatcruciallyshaped America’suniqueandcomplexhistoryover the20thcentury.Fromtheatomicbombing ofJapantotheColdWarandthefallof Communism,thisin-depth,surprising,and totallyrivetingseriesdemandstobewatched againandagain. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNM9lO FRgCI http://www.watchseries.ac/serie/The_Untol d_History_of_the_United_States Race:ThePowerofanIllusion “Inproducingthisseries,wefeltitwas importanttogobacktofirstprinciplesand ask,Whatisthisthingcalled"race?"-a questionsobasicitisrarelyraised.Whatwe discoveredisthatmostofourcommon assumptionsaboutrace-forinstance,that theworld'speoplecanbedividedbiologically alongraciallines-arewrong.Yetthe consequencesofracismareveryreal.” http://www.pbs.org/race/000_General/000_ 00-Home.htm APrairieHomeCompanion Acelebrationofthepowerofstorytelling. https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/prairie _home_companion/ 9 TheFogofWar Asadbutmesmerizingexplorationabout howpowerandwaralmostalwaysleadsone totwistthestory. http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/fog_of_ war/ StoriesWeTell Familiescreatetheirownnarratives.Stories arepassedonfromgenerationtogeneration, andinthiswaythepastcontinuestolive,but itcanalsobeobscuredordistorted.Family argumentsoftencomedowntowho"owns" thenarrative,orwhichversionisdecided uponasthe"true"one.SarahPolley's fascinatingdocumentary,"StoriesWeTell,"is ostensiblyabouthermother,DianePolley, whodiedin1990.Apowerfulandthoughtful film,itisalsonotwhatitatfirstseems,which ispartofthepointPolleyappearstobe interestedinmaking.Canthetruthever actuallybeknownaboutanything? http://storieswetellmovie.com/ Books TheTruthAboutStoriesbyThomasKing “Storiesarewondrousthings.Andtheyare dangerous."InTheTruthAboutStories,Native novelistandscholarThomasKingexplores howstoriesshapewhoweareandhowwe understandandinteractwithotherpeople.… Withwryhumor,Kingdeftlyweavesevents fromhisownlifeasachildinCalifornia,an academicinCanada,andaNativeNorth Americanwithawide-rangingdiscussionof storiestoldbyandaboutIndians.…King remindsthereader,Nativeandnon-Native, thatstorytellingcarrieswithitsocialand moralresponsibilities."Don'tsayintheyears tocomethatyouwouldhavelivedyourlife differentlyifonlyyouhadheardthisstory. You'vehearditnow." http://tinyurl.com/jd2gz25 TheWorldIsMadeofStoriesbyDavidR. Loy,aBuddhistwriter Inthisdynamicandutterlynovel presentation,DavidLoyexploresthe fascinatingpropositionthatthestorieswetell —aboutwhatisandisnotpossible,about ourselves,aboutrightandwrong,lifeand death,abouttheworldandeverythinginit— becometheverybuildingblocksofour experienceandofrealityitself.Loyusesan intriguingmixtureofquotationsfromfamiliar andless-familiarsourcesandbriefstandalonemicro-essays,engagingthereaderin challengingandilluminatingdialogue.… ReminiscentofZenkoansandworksof sophisticatedpoetry,thisbookwillreward bothacasualreadanddeepreflection. http://tinyurl.com/jf9x56l EverythingIsIlluminatedbyJonathan SafranFoer Withonlyayellowingphotographinhand,a youngmansetsouttofindthewomanwho mightormightnothavesavedhis grandfatherfromtheNazis.Accompaniedby anoldmanhauntedbymemoriesofthewar, anamorousdognamedSammyDavis,Junior, Junior,andtheunforgettableAlex,ayoung Ukrainiantranslatorwhospeaksina sublimelybutcheredEnglish,theyoungman isledonaquixoticjourneytodiscoverthe truthofanother’sstorythatendsuphelping himseethetruthofhisown. LifeofPibyYannMartel WhenPiissixteen,hisfamilyemigratesfrom IndiatoNorthAmericaaboardaJapanese cargoship,alongwiththeirzooanimals boundfornewhomes.Theshipsinks.Pifinds himselfaloneinalifeboat,hisonly companionsahyena,anorangutan,a woundedzebra,andRichardParker,a450poundBengaltiger.Soonthetigerhas dispatchedallbutPi,whosefear,knowledge, andcunningallowhimtocoexistwith RichardParkerfor227dayswhilelostatsea. WhentheyfinallyreachthecoastofMexico, RichardParkerfleestothejungle,nevertobe seenagain.TheJapaneseauthoritieswho interrogatePirefusetobelievehisstoryand presshimtotellthem“thetruth.”Afterhours ofcoercion,Pitellsasecondstory,astory muchlessfantastical,muchmore conventional—butisitmoretrue? 10 KitchenTableWisdomand MyGrandfather’sBlessings:Storiesof Strength,Refuge,andBelonging byRachelNaomiRemen,M.D InMyGrandfather'sBlessings,RachelNaomi Remen,acancerphysicianandmaster storyteller,usesherluminousstoriesto remindusofthepowerofourkindnessand thejoyofbeingalive. AboutKitchenTableWisdom:Thisremarkable collectionoftruestoriesdrawsonthe conceptof"kitchentablewisdom"—the humantraditionofsharedexperiencethat showsuslifeinallitspowerandmysteryand remindsusthatthethingswecannot measuremaybethethingsthatultimately sustainandenrichourlives. http://tinyurl.com/js5na5h Listofbooksforchildrenandfamilies aboutstory: https://amzn.com/w/66JE9U4CP03W JointheSoulMattersCommunityonFacebook! https://www.facebook.com/soulmatterssharingcircle/ ©2016-17SoulMattersALLRIGHTSRESERVED PacketsareforusebymembercongregationsoftheSoulMattersSharingCircle. Learnhowtojoinathttp://www.soulmatterssharingcircle.com 11
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