Bullying Prevention Compassion in Action Curriculum An Inspired Approach To Social-Emotional Learning Teacher Guide FOR Students 12-18 PeaceJam.org COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum 11200 Ralston Road • Arvada, CO • 80004 tel (303) 455-2099 • fax (303) 455-3921 • [email protected] • www.peacejam.org Dear Educator or Group Leader: We are proud to present PeaceJam's powerful and unique Bullying Prevention Program for young people ages 12-18. Compassion in Action takes your students and school community on an engaging journey that explores bullying from a personal, social, and institutional perspective, builds their skills and understanding, and provides them with insights and lessons from amazing heroes of peace from around the world. PeaceJam is the only youth development program led by 13 Nobel Peace Laureates. Students will learn about five of them through the Compassion in Action program: the Dalai Lama from Tibet, Rigoberta Menchú Tum from Guatemala, Desmond Tutu from South Africa, Jody Williams from the United States, and Shirin Ebadi from Iran (check out PeaceJam’s full curricular programs that feature all 13 Nobel Peace Laureates at Peacejam.org). The PeaceJam Foundation has been nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize and received the Man of Peace Award for its award-winning youth programming. PeaceJam also received the Outstanding Service-Learning Award for this innovative approach to engaging youth as change makers. The curriculum is flexible, allowing schools and youth organizations to adapt it to their antibullying policies, academic schedules, and school climate, while meeting the best practices of Bullying Prevention. Compassion in Action can be implemented over 7 months, 7 weeks, or 7 days, depending on the school’s needs. Schools participating in Compassion in Action are invited to attend a PeaceJam Youth Conference with a Nobel Peace Laureate and to host a Day Without Hate event in their school or community on the last Friday of April. The PeaceJam Foundation and its regional offices (see www.peacejam.org for listing) are available to support you in the implementation of this exciting curriculum. MEMBERS OF THE PEACEJAM FOUNDATION The Dalai Lama • Betty Williams • Rigoberta Menchú Tum • Oscar Arias Desmond Tutu • Aung San Suu Kyi • Máiread Corrigan Maguire • Adolfo Pérez Esquivel José Ramos-Horta • Jody Williams • Sir Joseph Rotblat (Emeritus) •Shirin Ebadi • Leymah Gbowee 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 1 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Nobel Peace Prize Winners Mentoring Youth to Change the World With 20 years of experience around the world, the PeaceJam Foundation is a leader in developing engaged, informed, and compassionate young leaders who are addressing the root cause of issues in their local and global communities - including bullying, ignorance, and injustice. PeaceJam students working to address school violence with Nobel Peace Laureate Desmond Tutu 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 2 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Our Impact Positive Change. Powerful Impact. • More than one million young people worldwide have participated in PeaceJam programming. • PeaceJam Curriculum has been implemented in over 20,000 schools in 25 countries. • Hundreds of Youth Leadership Conferences have been held, connecting youth directly with Nobel Peace Laureates. • Nearly two million new service projects have been developed by PeaceJam youth activists addressing issues of violence and injustice. • PeaceJam has created thousands of new leadership and volunteer opportunities for youth and adults in their local communities. Impacts of our programs include: • Evaluations have shown that incidents of violence decrease in schools and community-based organizations where PeaceJam programs are implemented. • Evaluations have shown that youth who participate in PeaceJam programs show statistically significant gains in: o Academic skills & knowledge o Moral development o Understanding of social justice o Life purpose o Compassion & empathy o Acceptance of diversity o Increased school & community engagement o Social emotional skills such as self-awareness, social awareness, and responsible decision-making 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 3 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Our Formula for Bully Prevention 3 Pillars of PeaceJam's Award-Winning Programs EDUCATION: Curriculum for young people ages 12-18 that fosters new skills and knowledge, as well as, provides a unique approach to positive youth development, and a deeper understanding of bullying and violence from a personal to a social, and institutional level. INSPIRATION: Nobel Peace Laureates whose wisdom and experience inspire young leaders to create positive change. Each Laureate’s choice to stand up against injustice and oppression in their own communities inspires youth to respect each other and work together to address the issues they are most passionate about. ACTION: Engaging youth as change agents in their schools and communities, giving them the tools they need to address the roots of bullying and intolerance in their schools and communities. Students contribute to PeaceJam's One Billion Acts of Peace -- an international citizens’ campaign led by 13 Nobel Peace Laureates and designed to tackle the most important issues facing our planet. Schools participating in PeaceJam's Bullying Prevention Program are invited to host a Day Without Hate event in their school or community on the last Friday of April. We have all the tools you need to host a powerful day of solidarity and inclusion! Visit daywithouthate.org for more information. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 4 COMPASSION IN ACTION 13 4/18/2016 PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Our Role Models World Leaders for Peace - 5 featured in this curriculum Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 5 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Our Programs Check out PeaceJam's additional award-winning, yearlong curricula that center on the life and work of all 13 Nobel Peace Laureates. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 6 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Compassion in Action: PeaceJam Bullying Prevention TABLE OF CONTENTS Getting Started: Guide for Educators Facilitation Tips .......................................................................... 14 Creating Caring Communities .................................................... 15 Supporting Young People to be Change Makers ....................... 16 Getting Started .......................................................................... 17 Lessons Empathy & Compassion ............................................................. 21 Identity & Difference ................................................................. 32 Building Community .................................................................. 47 Inclusion & Being an Ally ........................................................... 64 Overcoming Stereotypes ........................................................... 78 Taking Action ............................................................................. 95 Student Handouts Handouts are provided at the end of each chapter, and can be copied and handed out to the young people in your group/class. Chapter Assessments A short assessment of students' learning is provided at the end of each chapter. These are also available online for easy access to student scores for summative and formative assessment purposes. There is also a teacher reflection. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 7 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Components of Compassion in Action Best Practices in Bullying Prevention Compassion in Action provides a powerful and unique Bullying Prevention Program that meets the needs of the educators in school and out-of-school settings through a comprehensive approach that goes beyond "behavior modification" approaches to antibullying. We take students and school communities on an engaging journey that explores bullying from a personal, social, and institutional perspective, building their skills and understanding, and providing them insights and lessons from five amazing heroes of peace from around the world - our Nobel Peace Laureates. Compassion in Action blends the best practices from Bullying Prevention with those from the fields of social emotional learning, positive school climate, multi-cultural education, service-learning, and 21st century education. Bullying Prevention Best Practices 1 - How PeaceJam addresses these best practices: • Comprehensive, whole-school approach that reaches all students, staff, parents, and the community. • Focus class time on bullying prevention. Compassion in Action Aligns with Education Standards by relating bullying prevention to history, political science, geography, social justice, human rights, citizenship, language arts, and much more. It enhances academic skills through historical analysis, research, writing, public speaking, critical thinking, group projects, and reflection. “It is important that bullying prevention programs include a classroom component. Teachers, with the support of administrators, should set aside 20-30 minutes each week (or every other week) to discuss bullying with students. Anti-bullying themes and messages also can be incorporated throughout the school curriculum.” • Give young people an active and meaningful role in bullying prevention efforts. “Students should be involved as both participants and leaders in planning, implementing, and other key activities. Keep in mind that the great majority of kids are neither perpetrators nor victims of bullying, but many witness it on a regular basis. They are the majority, and they are the students who are most likely to be won over to creating change.” 1 Compassion in Action Engages Young People in Meaningful Service through service-learning, a teaching methodology that combines academic learning with community service. Students of all ages assess the needs of their school or community and carry out service projects that address those needs. Through service, students learn 21st century competencies and have an authentic context for applying newly learned content and skills. PeaceJam's exciting One Billion Acts of Peace Campaign provides the context for service and allows students to engage with others from around the world. Best Practices in Bullying Prevention- US Dept. of Ed. & US Dept. of Health & Human Services, UK and Australia. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 8 COMPASSION IN ACTION • PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Develop cultural competency strategies and skills that are inclusive and enhance communication and relationship building. “Cultural competency is an ongoing process and practice that builds a climate that understands, accepts and respects the unique contributions of all people regardless of ability, age, disability, ethnicity, gender, gender identity, geographic region, health, language, mental health, race, religion, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status or spirituality. Cultural competency is the most neglected area of research in the bullying prevention field, and many prevention and intervention models do not address cultural competency appropriately, or not at all.” • Go beyond bullying behaviors to systemic change. New evidence suggests interventions that say, “you shouldn’t do this,” or “you shouldn’t do that” may unintentionally increasing bullying. Efforts must move beyond individual factors and focus on the complex and systemic reasons why bullying happens and is reinforced. UK researchers recommend that schools promote good role models to address social factors, embed bullying prevention curriculum into the school day that relates to broader issues in history, current events, etc., and use assemblies to reinforce the concepts being taught and help create a positive school climate. Compassion in Action Builds Cultural Competency & Multicultural Skills that students need to be successful in an increasingly interconnected world. It provides students with opportunities to interact, negotiate, and communicate with people from diverse groups and backgrounds while exploring their own identity and culture. Students who participate in PeaceJam have higher scores on measures of cultural competency, including "valuing diverse perspectives," "understanding of prejudice," and "overcoming stereotypes." Compassion in Action Offers a "Big Picture" Approach that engages students. The curriculum explores bullying as not only personal, but also social and institutional, by introducing students to Nobel Peace Prize Winners as role models who have overcome extreme hatred and prejudice to create positive change. Students also have the opportunity to host their own Day Without Hate assembly or full-day program at their school each April. Research Alert Meta-analysis of current research in the field finds that the most WIDELY ADOPTED bullying prevention programs have NOT been proven EFFECTIVE with diverse populations - and that these programs drastically drop in effectiveness by 7th grade, with instances of BULLYING actually INCREASING by 11th grade. 2 2 http://www.researchgate.net/publication/271197008_Declines_in_efficacy_of_antibullying_programs_among_older_adolescents_Theory_and_a_three-level_meta-analysis_ 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 9 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Curriculum at a Glance Chapter Getting Started EDUCATION Lessons INSPIRATION Case Study of a Nobel Peace Laureate • Overview of servicelearning • Youth as Change Makers Educator’s Guide Getting Started • Group Norms • Civil Discourse Empathy & • Impacts of Bullying Compassion • Words that Hurt • Listening & Speaking Skills • Compassion • Empathy for yourself ACTION Service-learning The Dalai Lama from Tibet and his struggle against bullying based on religion and being displaced from his home. • Compassion Challenge • 1 Billion Acts of Peace Identity & Difference • • • • • Defining Bullying Dimensions of Identity LGBTQ Bullying Checklist Visible & Invisible Differences Desmond Tutu from South Africa and his struggle against bullying based on race and sexual orientation. • Proud to be Me Challenge • 1 Billion Acts of Peace Building Community • • • • Facts about Bullying Community Teamwork Cross-Cultural Awareness Rigoberta Menchú Tum from Guatemala and her struggle against bullying based on being indigenous. • School Climate Survey • 1 Billion Acts of Peace Inclusion & Being an Ally • • • • Why People Bully Inclusion – Exclusion Influence of Media Being an Ally Jody Williams from USA and her struggle against bullying based on disabilities and marginalization. • Hosting Volunteer Day • 1 Billion Acts of Peace Overcoming Stereotypes • Bullying & Your Rights • Understanding Biases and Prejudices • Overcoming Stereotypes Nobel Peace Laureate • Human Rights Scan of Shirin Ebadi from Iran Your School and her struggle against • 1 Billion Acts of Peace bullying based on gender. Taking Action • Taking Action Against Bullying • Addressing Issues in Our Community Highlights the work of young people around the world who are taking actions to create positive change! 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation • 1 Billion Acts of Peace Project • PeaceJam Conference • Host Day Without Hate Page 10 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Using the PeaceJam Curriculum The Compassion in Action Bullying Prevention Curriculum is for young people ages 12-18. It is designed to be flexible so it can be implemented to fit your school or organization's schedule, structure, and goals. There are 7 total chapters, including the "Getting Started" chapter, which we recommend you do first. The remaining chapters can then be done in any order. We know from Bullying Prevention research that "sustained and ingrained" programs are the most effective, thus, we recommend implementing the PeaceJam Program over the academic year. However, we also understand the reality of implementing programs, and thus the curriculum can easily be implemented in shorter time frames. Just start where you are...and do it over 7 months, 7 weeks, or 7 days! 7Months Implement the PeaceJam Program over 7 months, doing one chapter a month. 7Weeks Implement the PeaceJam Program over 7 weeks, doing one chapter a week. 7Days Implement the PeaceJam Program over 7 days, doing one chapter a day or a few activities from various chapters. Schools/groups hosting a Day Without Hate event or assembly may choose this shorter time frame if they are just introducing the program to their school or community. Spend a weekend with a Nobel Peace Prize Winner PeaceJam offers young people the opportunity to spend two days interacting with a world leader for peace. We encourage groups to attend a PeaceJam Youth Conference with a Nobel Peace Prize Winner, if one is offered in your region (Visit peacejam.org, Upcoming Events, to find the conference nearest Right click image to watch a PeaceJam Conference in action. you). Host a "Day Without Hate" Event Day Without Hate is an international program started by students that promotes nonviolence, unity, and respect in our schools. There is information in the "Taking Action" chapter to help you plan your Day Without Hate event to take place on the final Friday in April. Right click image to watch video about Day Without Hate. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 11 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Education Standards Addressed Below are sample standards addressed through this curriculum. 21st Century Skills Language Arts • • • • • • • • Apply knowledge of language and media techniques to create, critique, and discuss print and other media. Develop an understanding and respect for diversity in language across cultures, geographic regions, and social roles. Participate as knowledgeable, reflective, creative, and critical members of a variety of communities. (Source: NCREL/Metiri) • • • • • • • • • Communication & Collaboration Critical Thinking & Problem Solving Creativity & Innovation Technology & Media Literacy Flexibility & Adaptability Initiative & Self-Direction Social & Cross-Cultural Skills Productivity & Accountability Leadership & Responsibility Use spoken, written, and visual language to accomplish students’ own purposes. Compare multiple points of view and how similar topics are treated the same or differently. Integrate quantitative or technical analysis with qualitative analysis. Develop a topic with well-chosen, relevant, and sufficient facts, extended definitions, concrete details, quotations, or other information appropriate to the audience. Use technology, including the Internet, to produce, publish, and update individual or shared writing products. Social Studies • • • • • • • • Learn elements of their culture through interpersonal and collective experience. Build awareness and knowledge of other cultures as part of a connected society and an interdependent world. Learn how the complex and varied interactions among individuals, groups, cultures, and nations contribute to the dynamic nature of personal identity. Understand concepts such as: mores, norms, socialization, ethnocentrism, cultural diffusion, competition, cooperation, conflict, assimilation, race, ethnicity, and gender. Evaluate different interpretations of the influence of groups and institutions on people and events in historical and contemporary settings. Distinguish among fact, opinion, and reasoned judgment in a text. Investigate causes and effects of significant events in world history. Examine and evaluate issues of unity and diversity in world history. Speaking & Listening • • • Work with peers to set rules for collegial discussions and decision-making (e.g., informal consensus, taking votes on key issues, presentation of alternate views). Posing and responding to questions that relate the current discussion to broader themes or larger ideas; and clarify, verify, or challenge ideas and conclusions. Respond thoughtfully to diverse perspectives, summarize points of agreement and disagreement, and, when warranted, qualify or justify their own views and understanding and make new connections in light of the evidence and reasoning presented. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2014 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 12 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Identity & Difference 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 32 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Identity & Difference Chapter Overview: In this chapter, young people will explore issues of identity, differences, the definition of bullying, and how it applies to the life and work of Desmond Tutu from South Africa. Objectives 1. Young people will explore how they define their own identity. 2. Young people will understand the terms used to describe identity. 3. Young people will be able to define bullying and how it applies to their lives. 4. Young people will learn about the life and work of Desmond Tutu and his work to address injustices based on race and sexual orientation. Opener: Guess Who? (10 minutes) On a small piece of paper, have each student write something about themselves that they think others do not know. Put these folded pieces of paper in a pile and then have each person take one out and read it. Have the group try to guess who that person is. Debrief 1. What did you learn from this activity? 2. What surprised you most about what people shared? 3. Why did you decided to share what you did? Identity Inventory (15 minutes) Using the form provided in the Handout Section, have young people create an Identity Inventory, which includes: Things that I am & things that I am not My role models & the groups I belong to Issues that concern me & ways I will contribute to the world A symbol that describes me Then have young people post or display their Inventories and then walk around and read each other's. Debrief 1. What are some similarities among the Inventories and some differences? 2. Which of the Inventory areas is most important to you and why? 3. Why is it important to understand yourself before trying to understand someone else? 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 33 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Defining Identity Terms (20 minutes) When looking at concepts of identity and cultural differences, it is important to define terms so that young people have a better understanding of what they mean and how they are used to define people. "In small groups or pairs, read through these terms, make any edits if you think something is missing or question marks if there are terms you still do not understand, so we can discuss them further." Additional definitions are available from the Anti-defamation League (www.adl.org) or Association of Multicultural Education (www.nameorg.org). Term: Race Definition: Culture A population of people who affiliate based on traditions, beliefs, customs, language, attitudes, behaviors, food, geographic location, and other nonphysical characteristics. Ethnicity is based on one's racial roots - typically the race of one's parents. Ethnicity is related more with one's genetic heritage while culture is a shared set of beliefs, morals, values. The collective customs and traditions of a group of people that join together to study and practice a specific spiritual teaching or belief. A person’s classification based on the biological makeup of reproductive organs (female, male, etc.) Ethnicity Religion Sex Gender Identity Sexual Orientation Socio-Economic Status Disability A population of people separated from other populations based on certain characteristics - often skin color, belief systems, nationality, etc. A person's psychological identification as a man, woman or some other gender, which may or may not correspond to the sex assigned to them at birth. A person's physical and/or emotional attraction to the same and/or opposite gender such as "gay," "lesbian," "bisexual" or "straight" (sexual orientation is distinct from a person's gender identity) A person's or their family's relative economic ranking (poor, middle class, wealthy) and the social implications of that ranking. A physical or mental impairment that substantially limits one or more of a person's major life activities. Debrief 1. How difficult or easy is it to define the terms? Why? 2. Which terms are the most confusing to you and why? 3. Were there any definitions that you disagreed with or would like to change? Why? 4. How are these terms used to categorize or separate people, and how can that lead to bullying? 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 34 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Who Am I? (20 minutes) (Handout) "This activity explores how we see ourselves. To the right is a list of questions containing various identifiers that many people use to describe themselves. This is by no means an exhaustive list, so please add any other identifiers you think are important." Begin this activity by giving each person 10 minutes to think about answers to the list of questions. Their answers can be kept very private and do not need to be written! Reflection 1: Prioritize Your List "After answering these questions, circle the top five items that you think most identify you. For example, if your race is something you identify with strongly, then circle it. Then share with the rest of the group." Reflection 2: From a Different Perspective "Answer these questions about you from other people's point of view, such as your parents, teachers, friends, or strangers on the street. How would their list compare to the one you created for yourself?" Who am I? 1. What is your name? Does it have a special meaning? 2. How would you describe your race, ethnicity, and cultural background? 3. How would you describe your socioeconomic status? 4. How would you describe your gender and sex? 5. How would you describe your sexual identity? 6. How would you describe the makeup of your family? 7. What are some of the roles you take within your family and community? 8. How would you describe, if any, your religion or spirituality? 9. How would you describe yourself physically? 10. How would you describe your mental ability? 11. What are some of your strengths, hobbies, and passions? Debrief 1. How do you define yourself? 12. List anything else that you feel is 2. Which items on the list have a strongly attached to your identity. strong impact on your identity and why? 3. Which items on the list do not impact your identity and why? 4. How does the outside world, such as your friends, the media, your family, etc., impact your personal identity? 5. Are there parts of your identity that others misunderstand? 6. How do you think it would affect someone it they had to keep an aspect of their identity hidden, or if they were constantly told an aspect of their identity was wrong or bad? 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 35 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Defining Bullying (20 minutes) "Most of us have some idea of what bullying is and many of us have experienced it. Let's see if we can define it." Step 1: Brainstorm Bullying: Start by brainstorming a definition of bullying (write ideas on the board or large paper). Review the rules for brainstorming in Getting Started. Step 2: Types of Bullying*: Read through each of these types of bullying together (available in Handout Section) and determine if you have captured all of these types of bullying in your brainstorming. Physical: Pushing, shoving, hitting, kicking, biting, hair pulling, inappropriate touch, breaking objects, and taking or damaging another’s stuff. Verbal: Teasing, name calling, threats, intimidation, demeaning jokes, rumors, gossip, and slander. Sexual: It can include using words that demean someone about their gender or sexuality, inappropriate touching of body parts, unwelcome physical contact, or posting inappropriate photos online. Emotional: This type of bullying is often done by a group. Examples include leaving someone out on purpose, telling lies to hurt someone’s reputation, and humiliating someone publicly. Cyberbullying: Using technology to bully, including sending mean text messages, posting videos, stories, or photos that ridicule someone, and spreading rumors through social networking sites. Step 3: Your School's Definition: If available, read your school's official definition of bullying together and analyze it: *Adapted from the National • Does it include all of these components? Bullying Prevention Center, which • If no, what is it missing? has additional resources: • How could you change your school's definition? Bullying Checklist* (10 minutes) http://www.pacer.org/bullying/reso urces/info-facts.asp. "The following checklist will help us recognize bullying. We can apply it to different situations in our school, community, and the world to help stop it." It's bullying if: 1. 2. 3. 4. One person or group is hurting or harming another with words or behavior. It is being done intentionally and is repeated over time. The person(s) being hurt has a hard time defending themselves from the behavior. The person(s) who are doing it have more power (power can include being physically bigger or stronger, having more social status, or having protections). Debrief • Are there other things you would add to this list, and why? 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 36 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Case Study of Desmond Tutu Things to know before reading the case study copy case study for students South Africa Vocabulary Review these terms before or during the story as they come up: • • • • • • • Apartheid Archbishop Liberation Reconciliation Accountable Malaria AIDS Right Click to Watch Video on Desmond Tutu Nobel Peace Prize The Nobel Peace Prize was created by Alfred Nobel. He was an inventor from Sweden with more than 350 inventions, and he also wrote poetry and plays. His most famous invention was dynamite. He created it to help blow up areas to make roads and railways. But dynamite soon became the most destructive weapon known to humankind, and Alfred became known as the “merchant of death." So, he set aside millions of dollars to create the Nobel Prizes in Physics, Chemistry, Medicine, Literature, and Peace. He died on December 10, 1896. The Peace Prize is awarded each year on December 10th in honor of Nobel’s death. Desmond Tutu received the Nobel Peace Prize in 1984 for his courageous leadership in efforts to find a nonviolent solution to the policy of apartheid in South Africa. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 37 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Growing up, Desmond and the other black children did not have the chance to go to good schools or do other things that white children were allowed to do. Desmond Tutu 11 1984 Nobel Peace Laureate Desmond Tutu was born in 1931 in Klerksdorp, a small town in South Africa. His father was a teacher and his mother was a cook. When he was 12 years old, his family moved to the city of Johannesburg, where Desmond’s father was the principal of a primary school for black children. When Desmond was growing up, South Africa had a government policy called “Apartheid.” It was a system of unequal laws for people depending on their skin color and background. People were divided into four main groups: White, Indian (Indigenous), Coloured, and Black. Nonwhites had a far inferior educational system, inadequate medical care, and many lacked basic public services such as electricity and clean water. The goal of Apartheid was for the four million whites to keep control over the 23 million blacks. Black people also had to carry a “pass” with them at all times. This pass was a little booklet that had their fingerprints and their picture in it. Black people also had a curfew. If they were caught without the pass or were caught out past curfew, they were arrested and put in jail, tortured, or killed. The white people did not have to carry a pass and could go wherever they wanted at any time. Black people were also not allowed to vote. “Like any other black child, we lived in a ghetto, and yet, it wasn't as if you went around feeling sorry for yourself. We knew, yes, we were deprived. It wasn't the same thing for white kids, but it was as full a life as you could make it.” 12 “Everything was segregated – white schools were over here and black schools were over there. One of the things that hit me very hard was going to town and I'd see black kids scavenging through the garbage cans of the white schools. And picking out fruit, because you see the government of South Africa gave food to the white schools but not the black schools.” Desmond Tutu experienced bullying from a young age because of the color of his skin. “My father used to send me to buy newspapers, and I would ride by bicycle. Along the way, I'd have three or four white boys taunting me. They called me, ‘Buk’ "Buk.” In African, that can mean a pick which is a tool that you can dig with, but it can also mean, ‘pitch’ – the black stuff used on roads. So ‘Buk Swarte’ is 'pitch black.' I didn't know this. I thought they were calling me a pick for digging holes, so when I was a safe distance from them, I used to shout back, ‘raugh, raugh!’ which is the word for spade that you use for digging! It was only a long time after that I learned they were saying, ‘you pitch, you pitch black.’ How silly I felt.” 11 Adapted from PeaceJam interviews and speeches, unless otherwise noted. 4/18/2016 12 http://www.achievement.org/autodoc/page/tut0int-1. Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 38 COMPASSION IN ACTION When he was a teenager, Desmond became very sick with a disease called tuberculosis. His lungs were filled with bacteria and he almost died. He had to be in the hospital for almost two years. While Desmond was in the hospital, a man named Trevor Huddleston visited him often. Trevor was a white priest who often visited children in the hospital to offer them comfort and keep them company. Trevor brought Desmond books to read, played checkers with him, and even tutored him in school subjects so that he didn’t fall behind in school. No white person had ever cared about Desmond or treated him with respect. Desmond grew very fond of Trevor and enjoyed his visits. Desmond decided to become a teacher like his father, but he did not agree with the education that black children were taught in schools. It was called “Bantu education,” and it was not as good as the education that white youth received. Bantu education promoted racial stereotypes about Blacks in its textbooks. It was designed to provide black children with skills to be servants or to work in manual labor jobs under white control. This made Desmond very angry, and he decided that he could not continue being a teacher. “I just felt I couldn’t be a part of this…I said to myself, sorry, I’m not going to be a collaborator in this scheme. Then I asked myself, ‘What can I do?’” He remembered his good friend Trevor Huddleston and decided to become a priest so he could help people. Soon, Desmond became well known for speaking out for the rights of all people, sharing his message that all people are the "rainbow children of God." He also spoke against the injustices of Apartheid. Desmond became the first Black South African to become an 4/18/2016 PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Archbishop in the Anglican Church, which is the highest position in the church. “For goodness sake...all we are asking you to do is to recognize that we are humans, too.” Desmond was inspired by the work of Martin Luther King Jr. and the civil rights movement in the United States. As the tensions and violence grew in South Africa, Desmond spoke about the need to fight for justice without using violence. He worked with local churches to speak out against the Apartheid government. He led peaceful marches that called for economic sanctions against South Africa. He hoped that if countries around the world stopped buying goods from South Africa the government would pay attention and create laws that protected all people – not just whites. In 1984, Archbishop Desmond Tutu was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize for his nonviolent work to end Apartheid and bring equality for black people in South Africa. In 1994, Apartheid ended in South Africa. Black people were allowed to vote for the first time on April 27, 1994. People waited in line for hours and sometimes all day to cast their votes. “We were on cloud nine. It was like falling in love…it was the day of liberation for all of us, black and white together.” Nelson Mandela was elected the first black president of South Africa. When Apartheid ended, Desmond helped to create the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, which worked toward healing the pain caused by Apartheid. It allowed the victims to face the people who carried out the unfair laws or took violent action, holding them accountable for what they did. Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 39 COMPASSION IN ACTION Desmond Tutu continues to be a world leader in the struggle for human rights. He works to help the world understand the seriousness of diseases such as malaria and AIDS, and he has become one of the world's most famous people who is speaking out for the rights of gay people. "This is a matter of ordinary justice. We struggled against apartheid in South Africa, supported by people the world over, because black people were being blamed and made to suffer for something we could do nothing about -- our very skin. It is the same with sexual orientation. It is a given. I could not have fought against the discrimination of apartheid and not also fight against the discrimination that homosexuals endure, even in our churches and faith groups. PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Discussion Questions: 1. How did Desmond Tutu experience bullying during his life? 2. How did growing up during Apartheid shape Desmond Tutu's views on justice for all people? 3. What lessons can we learn from Desmond Tutu that we can use in our school and community? To discriminate against our sisters and brothers who are lesbian or gay on grounds of their sexual orientation for me is as totally unacceptable and unjust as apartheid ever was." 13 He continues to work for the rights of all people and the right to not be treated unfairly based on your identity, whether it is the color or your skin or your sexual orientation. 13 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/desmond-tutu/religionhomosexuality_b_874804.html. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 40 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Apply the Bullying Checklist (15 minutes) (Handout) "Let's see how bullying related to Desmond Tutu's life using the Bullying Checklist. We are going to read each item and discuss how it did or did not relate to his life." Have students use the Bullying Checklist provided in the Handout Section. Bullying Checklist One person or group is hurting or harming another with words or behavior. It is being done intentionally and repeated over time. The person(s) being hurt has a hard time defending themselves from the behavior. The person(s) who are doing it have more power (power can include being physically bigger or stronger, having more social status, having protections, or when a group “gangs up” on someone). Debrief • How many of the boxes were we able to check and why? • What does this tell us about the bullying in Desmond Tutu's life at each of these levels? o personal level o social level o institutional level Identity-Based Bullying: "To See or Not to See" "Some of our identities are visible and some are invisible. As a group, we are going to brainstorm: • 5 Visible Identity Characteristics (ones other people can see) • 5 Invisible Identity Characteristics (ones other people cannot see) Debrief • Which of these visible and invisible factors was Desmond Tutu bullied for and why? • Does bullying differ for visible and invisible factors? If yes, how? • What are the biases that underlie these visible and invisible identity characteristics? Journal Have young people read the quote by Desmond Tutu and write about a time when they felt inferior and how they can use Tutu's words to help them to live in more freedom and dignity. “Never let anyone make you feel inferior for being who you are. When you live the life you were meant to live, in freedom and dignity, you put a smile on God’s face.” -Desmond Tutu Watch "Children of the Light" (60 minutes - can be watched in segments) Watch PeaceJam’s award-winning documentary film on the life and work of Desmond Tutu and the young people he has mentored to change the world. • Go to http://nobellegacyfilmseries.com/ to watch or order the DVD. 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 41 COMPASSION IN ACTION PeaceJam Bullying Prevention Curriculum Taking Action Desmond Tutu Challenge • Proud to Be Me: Make a list of three things that are great about you, include things that maybe others can't see. Write them down and keep them in your pocket for a month. You can keep adding to your list and share your list with your family and friends - or just share it with yourself! • School Challenge: Share the Desmond Tutu "Proud to Be Me" challenge with your school. Through morning announcements, posters, social media, or word of mouth, encourage your classmates to write their lists and teachers to build in ways for students to share their unique identities during class time. This could include writing contests, art contests, talent shows, etc. Be sure to include a message about Desmond Tutu and his acceptance of all people - including ourselves! • Family Challenge: Encourage families to get involved, write their lists, and share their unique gifts. The school could feature an exhibit on students and their families "lists" during school events. One Billion Acts of Peace Have students visit billionacts.org and post their "Proud to Be Me" challenge, share it on social media, and challenge other schools and groups to get involved in the One Billion Acts of Peace Campaign. Google Hangout with Desmond Tutu & Dalai Lama (28 minutes) Watch the Tribute to Nelson Mandela: Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama pay tribute to the work of Nelson Mandela during a Google Hangout moderated by Anderson Cooper. • Available on PeaceJam's YouTube Channel (click YouTube icon on peacejam.org) or click to watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D9qlh0eAxG8&list=PL88C78A26E28FAF37 4/18/2016 Copyright © 2015 The PeaceJam Foundation Page 42 11200 Ralston Road, Arvada, CO 80004 303-455-2099 www.peacejam.org
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