Chatham Presbyterian 4 March 2012 Relationship With God st 1 John 4:16-22 The Church Gathers To Praise God Musical Prelude Words of Welcome & Announcements Choral Call To Worship Prayer of Invocation O God, who is greater than the most powerful forces in this world, enable us to be still and know that You, alone, are God. O Lord, who answers out of the whirlwind of everyday life, breathe in us Your Holy Spirit to strengthen, comfort, and guide us in the midst of the storms which often engulfs us and threatens to pull us away from Thee. O still, small voice, speak to us this hour and every hour of every day, so we might become makers of Your peace in our homes, in our communities, in our world, so we may reveal Your love and grace. Holy Lord, by Your grace and mercy, we come to worship and praise Thy name, to be renewed in the fellowship of all who trust and call upon You. Lead our hearts and minds in thanksgiving and celebration as we listen for Your voice and word, as we are prepared for the mission ahead, and as we respond to Your will. Holy Lord, allow this time to be a time of joy and healing so we may return to the world with the Good News of Thy love and peace. We pray all this in the name of the One who calmed the raging sea. Amen. Time With Young Disciples ☼ Hymn of Praise Morning Has Broken # 464 ☼Affirmation of Faith A Creed in the Words of St. John We believe that God is Spirit, and they who worship the Lord must worship in spirit and in truth. We believe that God is Light, and that if we walk in the light, as the Lord is in the light, we have fellowship with one another. We believe that God is love, and everyone who genuinely loves is born of God and knows God. We believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and God has given to us eternal life, and this life is in the Son. We believe that Christ is the Resurrection and the Life, And whoever believes in him, though they are dead, shall live. We believe that we are the children of God, and the Lord has given us of the Spirit. We believe that if we confess our sins, the Lord is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and cleanses us from all uncleanliness. We believe that this world will pass away and the lust thereof, but the one who does the will of God shall abide forever. ☼ Gloria Patri Glory be to the Father, and to the Son, and to the Holy Ghost; As it was in the beginning, is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen, Amen. #546 Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 2 We Call Upon God In Confession Call To Confession Friends, our Lord, Jesus Christ, invites us by saying 7 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28-30;NIV) May we approach our Lord with our sins and failures for we have nothing to fear. God’s love is upon us. God’s grace enables us to give over to the Lord all which we would once try to hide. Join me in the prayer of confession as found in your bulletin. Let us pray. Prayer of Confession Lord, instead of trusting You to guide us through the chaotic maze of life, we seek to hide behind Your name and authority to avoid responsibility and basic human courtesy. Often, we use Your name and authority as a justification to act in ways which do not glorify Thy name and robs Your authority of its true power to transform the lives of others. Though we are Your Children, forgive us for acting more like children than revealing we belong to Thee. Forgive us for our dishonesty and our lack of love for our neighbor as well as You. Personal Confessions (Silence) Silence Breaker Merciful God, hear our prayers, strengthen our spirits and allow Your Spirit to guide our souls in truth as we care for the world You have given us and as we seek that You are present in our lives. We pray these things in the name of Christ Jesus, our Lord, and remember again the prayer he taught us to pray when he said, 7 Lord’s Prayer Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread; and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen. The Kyrie Lord, have mercy upon us / Christ, have mercy upon us / Lord, have mercy upon us. #570 Assurance of God’s Pardon Friends, John, the Elder wrote, 7 7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. (1st John 4:7-10;NIV) Since God does love us and has given us the Son, and the Spirit, may we trust the Lord and believe the Good News for in Jesus and because of Jesus we are forgiven and live in the grace and peace of God. Amen. We Respond To God And Share God’s Love Responsive Reading Psalm 99 (whole):NIV ~ PB – 593/906 1 The LORD reigns, let the nations tremble; he sits enthroned between the cherubim, let the earth shake. 2 Great is the LORD in Zion; he is exalted over all the nations. Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 3 Let them praise your great and awesome name-- he is holy. The King is mighty, he loves justice-- you have established equity; in Jacob you have done what is just and right. Exalt the LORD our God and worship at his footstool; he is holy. Moses and Aaron were among his priests, Samuel was among those who called on his name; they called on the LORD and he answered them. He spoke to them from the pillar of cloud; they kept his statutes and the decrees he gave them. O LORD our God, you answered them; you were to Israel a forgiving God, though you punished their misdeeds. Exalt the LORD our God and worship at his holy mountain, for the LORD our God is holy. Prayers of the People Abba Lord, Father of our Lord, Christ Jesus, We thank You for bringing us into Your family of faith, for inviting us to share in the ministry of Christ, the ministry of the world’s reconciliation. We praise You for the peace which surrounds us, which enables us to serve You by caring for those in need. Thus, we ask Your blessings to be upon 7 Dennis Lee as he struggles against the corruption which has filled his body. Allow Your Spirit to surround him and Nancy in love and peace as Your will is worked out and as Your grace is revealed. We ask for Your blessings to be upon 7 Reba Motley, Ruth Watson, Mabel Gatewood, Augusta Parrish, Aliese Creasy, Nancy Meadows, and the host of others who stand in need of Thy grace and mercy. Allow Your Spirit to surround them in peace, healing their souls and tending to their sorrows. May Your truth be in their hearts as they give to You their love and devotion, their hopes and their futures. Holy Lord, we also pray for 7 Anne Richards, John Torrence, Phyllis Bryant, Lucy Erwin, Pattie Motley, and Nancie Motley 7 as they celebrate their births in the coming week. Give them peace and the undeniable sense of Thy love. Allow Your grace to be upon them as they seek to serve Thee in the world. Lord we want to know You personally. We need Your strength and wisdom to fill our minds and thoughts and will so we may do want glorifies Thee and brings peace and wholeness to this age. Guide us. Help us to surrender our will and purposes to Thy way. Help us to know that it is through You that we can and shall live with those who share this creation with us. We, thank You for dying on the cross for our sins and for opening the door to reconciliation, not only with God but with all who live. We open now the door of our lives and invite You to enter in. May we receive You as our Savior and Lord, as our help in times of trouble and peace. As our strength in the chaos and the calm. We thank You for forgiving us of our sins and giving us eternal life. May we now reveal that You are our God and Lord but reveal the love You have shown and the joy which is possible when we live for Thee. Take control of the throne of our lives so we may reveal that we are Your children. Make us the kind of person You want us to be. We ask this in the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ. Amen. Choral Response ☼Hymn of Response O For A Closer Walk With God # 319 2nd Tune Offertory ☼Doxology # 544 Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 4 Praise God, from whom all blessings flow; Praise Him, all creatures here below; Praise Him above, Ye heavenly host; Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Amen. ☼Prayer of Dedication Your importance in our lives, O God, is reflected in our gifts. May we return to You, through the ministry and outreach of this church, a portion of all that You entrust to us so Your name may be glorified and Your family secured in the knowledge of Thy love. We promise that these offerings will not be the end of our giving but rather a sample, a witness to our desire to serve You with love and truth. May we invest our time and abilities in Your work of healing, comforting, teaching, guiding, and proclaiming the good news of Your love and Son. Bless each gift, whatever its size, and multiply the good to be done through our talents and treasure. In Christ, we pray. Amen. We Share In God’s Word God’s Word Musical st God’s Word Written 1 John 4:16-22;NIV – 1209/1841 7 God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. 17 In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. 18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. 19 We love because he first loved us. 20 If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21 And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother. Prayer of Meditation Loving God, here we are in Your presence, wanting to be Your disciples, needing to hear Your word. Send Your Holy Spirit upon us that we may hear You speaking to us in very real, personal and compelling ways. Through Jesus Christ our Lord, we give You our hearts. Amen. God’s Word Spoken What Forgiveness Is Not Last week, I was introduced to an internet blog on which the author told of an interesting conversation he had with one of his female students. According, to the author, the student wanted to visit with him to discuss some difficulties she was having. Of particular concern were problems she was having in her family life.(*1) During the meeting, the student talked for some time about her family situation and gradually the conversation turned to other areas and interests of life. When she reached spiritual matters, (oh, this author is a professor and an experimental psychologist at a christian university) their meeting had the following exchange 7 “I need to spend more time working on my relationship with God.” (Student) “Why would you want to do that?” (Professor) “What do you mean?” (Student, startled) “Well, why would you want to spend any time at all on working on your relationship with God?” (Professor) “Isn’t that what I’m supposed to do?” (Student) “Let me answer by asking you a question. Can you think of anyone, right now, to whom you need to apologize? Anyone you’ve wronged?” (Professor) Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 5 “Yes.” (Student, thoughtfully) “Well, why don’t you give them a call today and ask for their forgiveness? That might be a better use of your time than working on your relationship with God.” (Professor) At this point, the author of the blog realized that he had overwhelmed his student and stated that he did clarify his position and intent so the student would not think he was demeaning or rejecting her faith response or trying to say that spending time with God was a waste of time. No, what I read later from the author in further comments outside of this particular blog leads me to believe that he did want to reassure the student that her faith response was a proper response but there is more to working on a relationship with God than what he pretty much knew she had in mind. The author stated, 7 7 I was trying to push back on a strain of Christianity I see in both my students and the larger Christian culture. Specifically, when the student said, “I need to work on my relationship with God,” I knew exactly what she meant. And the author goes on to write, 7 It meant praying more, getting up early to study the Bible, to start going back to church. Things along those lines. The goal of these activities is to get “closer” to God. To “waste time with Jesus.” The author does cautions his readers not to misjudge his intentions by the previous statements because he does state that there is nothing wrong with those activities in themselves. In fact, he does state that they are commendable and vital to a vibrant spiritual life. What the author wants his readers to understand, however, is that too often 7 “working on my relationship with God” has almost nothing to do with trying to become a more decent human being. Too often it is used as an excuse to pardon poor behavior and to separate oneself from the responsibility of having a relationship with people and deal with the problems we all face.in life. Too often, working on a relationship with God is seen as a justification for even rude behavior. The author does state later in his blog that he has seen the post-Church crowd in restaurants, and they many times turn out to be some of the worst patrons concerning orders, patience and especially tips. They are some of the most insulting and downright rude customers. And often it is covered over with “having a relationship with God.” I wish the author would have documented his clarification to the student because I think it would have been very enlightening. It would have been interesting to see what arguments the professor would have used to defend his position and to clarify what it means to enter into a true relationship with God. It would be very interesting to see what he said. However, he did not document his further conversation. Thus, we need to imagine what he would have said. We need to imagine what he would have said because I admit that I am guilty of emphasizing the necessity of have a relationship with God and hiding behind the phrase instead of explaining it or living it. Many times I have told you that is important to have a relationship with God and I think I have failed to tell you how. I accept the guilt of emphasizing that it is necessary for us to have a relationship with God and I accept the conviction that my emphasis may have been a little misdirected or incomplete. I say this because of a sermon which was connected with the blog that I have been talking about. In a subsequent sermon, another author wrote (*2) 7 A relationship with God is very important. It's just that, well, to be honest, I'm not always exactly sure what the word "relationship" is supposed to mean. The preachers I've heard weren't exactly forthcoming with further explanations either. They would say, "Go have a relationship. Now!" and then act as if that settled everything, instead of opening a giant can labeled "WORMS" and dumping it all over my lap. I believe people when they say that a relationship Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 6 with God is vital as well as important, but what the heck am I supposed to do about that? I want the worms back in the can. And, I am very guilty of doing what the preachers this author is referring to. On more than one occasion, I have told you to have a relationship with God but what does it mean to have a relationship with God? The best place I think to begin to understand what it means to have a relationship with God is probably found in the first letter written by John, the Elder. There John writes, 7 20 If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not st love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. (1 John 4:20;NIV) I say we need to begin here because John is absolutely correct in his assertion. How can you love God when you hate your brother or sister? To be honest, you really cannot. You cannot because one, in a way, does equal the other. In mathematics, we are taught that an equal sign means that that which is on the right side of the sign is equal to that which is on the left side of the sign. They balance one another. But to say that to love our brother is absolutely equal to loving God is not truly theologically correct. Yes, they should be somewhat equal but to say that one balances the other is not proper. I say this because when Jesus as challenged as to the most important commandment, Jesus stated 7 37 Jesus replied: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' (Matthew 22:37-39;NIV) Loving God was the first and greatest commandments according to Jesus and close behind it was loving your neighbor. Jesus said they are “like,” similar, not exactly the same. And fortunately, in mathematics there is an interesting sign or symbol which can represent this particular truth and that symbol is a wavy equal sign. A wavy equal sign means that what is on the left side somewhat resembles or is close to that which is on the right side and vice versa. The two are not exactly the same but very similar, And that is what I mean by if you cannot love brother or sister, you cannot love God. There is a resemblance between the two sides of that equation. And that is what John is trying to tell his readers as well. There is a connection between how you love your brother or sister or show concern for them and your honest love of God. They may not be equal in importance but they do reveal each other. I say they “reveal” each other because how can you prove that you love God? If a person says they love God, how can they prove it? If you say you love your spouse, I think your spouse would like to see a demonstration of that love. Typically, we really do not need to demonstrate our love for our spouses because we are always showing our love for our spouses through the various things which we do. If you need to demonstrate your love to your spouse, I am afraid you have got some problems which you need to deal with. I say that because we should always be showing our love for our spouse by how we treat them, interact with them, show concern for them. Just to say that you love them is not enough and never will be enough. Love is not words, it is actions. Thus, as John writes, 7 If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. (1st John 4:20;NIV) John wrote that because if someone says "I love God" but yet continues to hate either a brother or sister or anyone, then their words are merely words. There is no action behind them, no force, no power. Now, John's declaration that “if someone says "I love God" but yet hates someone else, then that person is a liar” may be a little harsh. However, the lack of evidence does put the statement of "I love God" into question because how otherwise can one prove that one loves God. Unless, there is some tangible proof, the statement are merely words and will remain merely words. Actions is what we can truly trust to reveal the sincerity of our intents, of our words. If all we can go on are words, then we have to question those words. To truly reveal that Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 7 we do love God, we have to go beyond mere words. Jesus said, 7 7 everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash." If we love God, then we need to show that love by caring for others. That way, we do build our faith and our words on a rock. When the storms of criticism and doubt pour down upon the house we have built, the house will stand. But if we depend upon just the words to hold the house together, it is like building a house on the sands. When criticism, doubt, and questions crop up, it is questionable whether the house will remain standing. Yes, a mild storm may not ruin the house but when the winds and the waves blow, the sand of our words will be hard-pressed to hold the building together. Thus, the evidence of the love we show our brothers, will show that a measure of God's love is within us and that we do love God in return. That is pretty much how I believe the author of the blog redirected the student. I do think he pointed out to her that if you want to have a relationship with God, you have to have relationships with other people. Having a relationship with God is important but we cannot stay there. At some point we have to come down from the mountain and enter into the world to reveal that the love of God, the love we have for God is real. Couple weeks ago, I spoke about the Transfiguration of Jesus Christ. In that sermon, I told about how Jesus was changed. But, in reality how Peter, James and John were changed as well. I did not continue the passage, however. And in many ways, what happens next is probably more important than what happened on that mountain. Allow me to refresh your memory about the Transfiguration of Jesus. In the synoptic Gospels, we are told that Jesus took Peter, James and John to a mountain. At that mountain, Jesus was transfigured. As I said several weeks ago, we really do not know what or how Jesus was transfigured, we just know that in the eyes of the disciples, he changed. Then, in all three of the synoptic Gospels, we are told that Peter said to Jesus,7 "Rabbi, it is good for us to be here. Let us put up three shelters--one for you, one for Moses and one for Elijah." (Mark 9:5;NIV) We can take from that statement that Peter really want to stay there. Think about it, why would he not want to stay? Before him, were the three most important people in his life – Jesus, Moses, Elijah. Before him and with him, all which he had ever hoped for. So why not want to build a shelter for each and linger awhile? However, for the ministry of Jesus and for the future ministry of the disciples, the mountaintop was not the goal Jesus had in mind. The goal was to serve God. The next scene which is revealed to us, tell us of a cloud descending upon Jesus, Moses, Elijah and the disciples and from that cloud comes the voice which says, 7 "This is my Son, whom I love. Listen to him!" (Mark 9:7;NIV) Following this, we are then told, that Jesus led the disciples down off of the mountain. The Gospels of Matthew and Mark tell us about the conversation which the disciples had as they moved from the mountaintop back to where the other disciples were but following that, we are told about how the party, the mountaintop party, ran into a mess when they returned to the other disciples. Mark records 7 14 When they came to the other disciples, they saw a large crowd around them and the teachers of the law arguing with them. 15 As soon as all the people saw Jesus, they were overwhelmed with wonder and ran to greet him. 16 "What are you arguing with them about?" he asked. 17 A man in the crowd answered, "Teacher, I brought you my son, who is possessed by a spirit that has robbed him of speech. 18 Whenever it seizes him, it throws him to the ground. He foams at the mouth, gnashes his teeth and becomes rigid. I asked your Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 8 disciples to drive out the spirit, but they could not." (Mark 9:14-18;NIV) Essentially, Jesus and the disciples left the peace and tranquility of the mountaintop and entered into the corruption of everyday life. There was a problem. A man brought his possessed son Jesus or to his disciples for help and the disciples were unable to provide that help. The scene I imagine is like that in the movie, “The Secret of Santa Vittoria.” In the movie, the mayor of an Italian wine-making hill village of Santa Vittoria, learns that the German occupation forces want to take all their wine before the Allies show us. In an effort to keep the Germans from their million plus bottles, the townspeople frantically try to hide it in a cave. The chaos which ensued at their first attempt was hysterical. Mules running and bucking. Bottles flying and breaking. People yelling and no one listening. It was just plain bedlam, until someone with a real plan walked up and took control. I could just imagine that was very similar to the scene which Jesus, Peter, James and John walked into. Everything was out of control and Jesus had to rescue the day. And he does. He does because that is where real ministry is. Real ministry, real service to God is not done on the mountaintop. Real service to God is done in the quagmire of the valley. It is done in the midst of the mess of human life. It is done in contact and in relationship with our brothers and our sisters. What the author of the blog was trying to push away was the idea that we can live totally in relationship with God alone and not have to worry about how we live with one another. But that is not the truth. It is living in relationship with one another that we reveal our relationship with God and how we love God. Bible study, prayer, devotion, fasting, whatever other pious, spiritual activity we may engage in has its place in our spiritual lives. Yes, those activities are very, very important because they do give direction and focus to our lives and our ministries. However, they are not the end but the means by which we serve God. Prayer has its purpose. It allows us to focus our attention on God, to give to God our concerns and to hear God’s will. But if we just stop at prayer and do not go any further with what we are told to do, then what good was the prayer? All we did was filled the air with words, if we just spoke and did not leave room of God to talk to us. And if we heard but did not respond to God's word and serve that word, then we either did not hear the Lord or simply choose not ignore them because we did not think them important or did not apply to us or worse. James wrote, 7 22 Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. (James 1:22-24;NIV) We are created in the image of God, thus we should reveal God, not to God but to the world and that cannot be accomplished by not engaging the world. It can only be done but actually engaging the world, having a relationship with the world and those in it. Thus, to think that we can dismiss the world by simply believing that we need to spend more time working on our relationship with God and thus separating ourselves from the world is missing the point. We are to spend time in the world, having a relationship with the world in order to have a true relationship with God. As a pastor, I have discovered that I cannot truly serve God or this church unless I know you and have a relationship with you. Therefore, I spend a lot of time with you-all. Some I visit on a regular bases in your homes, especially our shut-ins. They cannot get to us, so I go to them. Some I visit at your place of business. Not to distract you but to learn who you are and what you do. Some I visit whenever I may meet up with you, be it in the grocery store or wherever. If I see you, I will try to greet you, much to the dismay and horror of my family. I do that because I want to know you. I want to have a relationship with you. I go around this sanctuary every Sunday morning shaking hands and hugging because you are important to me and to the ministry of this church. I want to greet you because that is how I have a relationship with you. I visit the Sunday School classes not to impress the class with my knowledge and insights but because I need to know that you want to know. W want to know what hurts and what makes you happy. I want to know your sorrows and your joys. By knowing these and many other things, I discover how I can minister to you, what I need to learn to help you. Ministry of Word - 2012 03 04 - Relationship With God 9 And I cannot do that if I hold up in my office with an open Bible before me. That may be pious and commendable but that does not really help you. I open the Bible because you need me to learn what it has to say so I can help you live faithfully before the Lord. I have to have a relationship with you so I can help you have a relationship with God and with one another as well. Jesus said, 7 "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." (John 13:34;NIV) We reveal we belong to Christ, not by the prayers we offer, be they public or private, or the amount of scripture we have studied, memorize or sneak into our conversations. We do not reveal that we belong to Christ by how often or how hard we fast or perform any number of other acts of devotion and self-sacrifice. We reveal that we are Jesus’ disciples by how we love one another and that can only be done by having a relationship with one another. A genuine relationship in which share life together for the glory and honor of God. Amen. *1 (The professor is Richard Beck, Professor and Department Chair of Psychology at Abilene Christian University. He is the author of Unclean: Meditations on Purity, Hospitality and Mortality. The essay from which much of this sermon is based on and excerpts are taken from was from his article “The Bait and Switch of Contemporary Christianity” posted 8 August 2009 on his blog, Experimental Theology, which can be found at http://experimentaltheology.blogspot.com/2009/08/bait-and-switch-of-contemporary.html) *2 (The sermon about having a relationship with God is by Chris Guin and the sermon can be found at http://chrisguincreations.com/cfile/cfile97.php) We Are To Be Obedient To The Faith ☼Hymn of Rededication O Master Let Me Walk With Thee ☼Benediction ☼Choral Response ☼Postlude - Meet in grace, depart in love. # 304
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