Sivan/Tammuz/Av/Elul 5777 June/July/August 2017 Shabbat at the Beach Returns this Summer June 9 July 7 July 14 August 18 August 25 The Rabbi’s Study TIFERETH ISRAEL CONGREGATION Raphael J. Kanter, Rabbi Nathaniel Schudrich, Cantor Kenneth A. Turkewitz, Executive Director Melynda Schudrich, Education Director Cheryl Zeoli, President What do you do about negative thinking? It could be your own thinking that is negative. Perhaps you are the person who always denigrates themselves, or criticizes their own behaviors, when for the most part there is no need to do so. You could be that person who you know that is always negative about what they see around themselves. They are the ones who never see the good in the world, but only see that wars and violence and deterioration of their immediate reality. I read recently about the research of Barbara Frederickson, a psychologist at the University of North Carolina, who studied the fostering of positive emotions through micro-moments of positivity. Essentially, you need to find brief moments of positive feeling that will protect you from stress and depression. This article is not to suggest that we should not feel the worries and concerns of daily life, nor feel the anger of a wrong, but that to see the world through a negative prism will have negative effects. EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE Elizabeth Ackerman, Vice President Macy Korolnek, Vice President Eve Sky, Vice President Stan Sherman, Treasurer Susan Levin, Financial Secretary Pearl Bacdayan, Co-Recording Secretary Elisabeth Finch-Kaplan, Co-Recording Secretary CONTACT INFORMATION Telephone: (508) 997-3171 Fax: (508) 997-3173 Website: www.tinewbedford.org Rabbi Raphael J. Kanter [email protected] Cantor Nathaniel Schudrich [email protected] It is interesting that Rebbe Nachman of Breslov understood the same thing in the 18th century. He taught… Reb Nosson wrote: “Sadness, depression, anxieties and doubts are highly damaging and are more destructive, G-d forbid, than one’s wrongdoing.... Fortify yourself again and again; begin anew every day. Do not dwell on any doubts or depression—pay them no attention at all. Do not give in!” (Healing Leaves, p. 47) Cheryl Zeoli [email protected] Kenneth A. Turkewitz [email protected] Melynda Schudrich [email protected] Carol Raposa-Farias [email protected] As told by the journalist Jane Brody, Dr. Fredrickson and her colleagues have demonstrated that the brain is plastic, or capable of generating new cells and pathways, and it is possible to train the circuitry in the brain to promote more positive responses. A person can learn to be more positive by practicing certain skills that foster positivity. For example, Dr. Frederickson’s team found that six weeks of training in a form of meditation focused on compassion and kindness resulted in an increase in positive emotions and social connectedness, and improved function of one of the main nerves that helps to control heart rate. The result is a more variable heat rate that she said is associated with objective health benefits. Dr. Frederickson wrote, “The results suggest that taking time to learn the skills to self-generate positive emotions can help us become healthier, more social and more resilient versions of ourselves”. Carol Saltzman [email protected] We want your Article The next Tifereth Israelight is the Sept/Oct/Nov edition. If you have any material for inclusion, please make sure we receive it by July 24. Thank you. The Tifereth Israelight is published four times yearly by Tifereth Israel Congregation 145 Brownell Avenue New Bedford, MA 02740-1654 (508) 997-3171 By learning and regularly practicing skills that promote positive emotions, you can become a happier and healthier person. So try these suggestions and see if you can generate more positive micro-moments: The Tifereth Israelight is informational and does not contain time sensitive material. 1. Take time to practice a lovingkindness meditation focused on directing good-hearted wishes to others. Advertising is available. To find out more about placing your ad in the Tifereth Israelight, contact Ken Turkewitz in the Synagogue office. (The Rabbi’s Study continues on page 5) -2- State of the President Notes…...from the Cantor Fellow Congregants, There is a prayer that is common to all services; it is known by many names. It is referred to as the Shemoneh Esreh – the prayer containing 18 blessings; the Amidah – the standing prayer; and in the Talmud as Ha’Tefillah – The Prayer. It is this prayer of Amidah that is the central part of any service. It is the 69th anniversary of Israel’s independence. Each year around the world Jews celebrate this milestone in our history, often regardless of our individual connections or opinions regarding the State of Israel. The foundation of a Jewish state is often seen as having been a response to antiSemitism and as a result the state as a symbol of Jewish resilience. However, so often Jews and gentiles alike find it difficult to separate a Jewish identity from our historic and religious connections to the physical land. There is a choreography and formula that goes along with the Amidah. We stand with our feet together as a sign of respect and also to emulate the way that the heavenly creatures stand. We bow at the beginning and end of the Amidah as a sign of humility but only bow in these places as G-d does not require us to be overly humble. We raise our heels in the Kedushah to mimic the motions of the Seraphim, angelic creatures. Here at Tifereth Israel, while many of us have family who live in Israel, and many of us have visited ourselves, the majority of us have a greater connection to the United States than to Israel, and our Jewish identity precedes any connection we may have to the state. Nearly 2,000 years of Jewish history has taken place in diaspora, and our modern identities as Jews are inexorable from that reality. While a Jewish state exists, so many of us continue to build our lives in the broader world. While we should certainly celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut, we should not fall into the trap of forgetting Judaism is so much more than a political entity. On this Independence Day, I found myself thinking more and more about what the idea of Israel means to me. I kept coming back to what Abraham responded to G-d to indicate his readiness, “hineni”, or “here I am”, and how this contrasted to Adam hiding from G-d in the Garden of Eden. Prior to Abraham, the Tanakh did not deal with the Jewish people, but with the whole world. Abraham making his commitment to being present and acting was the moment of divergence. As Jews it is our heritage to stand for what we believe in, to say “here I am” no matter where we are. The formula of the Amidah is consistent. It is the same whether it is a weekday or holiday, morning, afternoon or evening. We always begin and conclude with the same three blessings. It is in the beginning brachot that we acknowledge G-d as the god of our ancestors, an all -powerful being, and as a holy god. We conclude the Amidah with three blessings, where pray for a return to Zion, thank G-d for all that we have, and conclude with a blessing for peace. There is a consistency and a rhythm to the Amidah that is beautiful. But it is the beginning line of the Amidah that I would like to expound upon. The Amidah begins with a silent line of meditation where we ask G-d’s help with our prayer. It starts in Hebrew with the words, “Adonai s’fatai tiftach” – “Lord, open my lips that my mouth may tell your praise”. At first glance, this line seems to me rather illogical. I have never had a problem opening my mouth. Ask anyone around you. Why is it then that we ask G-d’s help with speaking? The answer lies in the conclusion of the Amidah. After our blessing for peace, “Sim Shalom”, we return to a personal meditation. It begins with the words, “Elohai nitzor lishoni meyrah”, “My G-d, guard my tongue from evil.” The word “nitzor” (or guard) also has a modern translation. It is the name of a safety catch on a gun. What we are asking at the conclusion of this prayer is for G-d to put a safety catch on our tongue so that we think before speaking evil, before causing someone hurt. The opening line now begins to make more sense. At the beginning of the Amidah we ask our Creator to open our mouth and lips, to take the safety off, so that we may address G-d. At the conclusion of the Amidah, we ask G-d to please put the safety back on, so that we may be careful with our words. That is why I would like to use this article to describe some of the things we have accomplished, are working on, and support here at TI. One way people often build connections to the land of Israel is by having trees planted in their or a loved one’s name, as a Tikun Olam effort . Similarly, one project we are currently working on is bringing solar panels to the TI parking lot. Not only will this diversify our energy consumption and help us in a small part work towards combatting climate change, it will also help to diversify the way we consume energy at TI and hopefully serve as a means of securing our financial future. While not definite, we are considering funding options that include allowing both congregants and members of the broader New Bedford community to “buy in”. If that is a route we take, it could be an exciting way for you to both deepen your connection to TI as well as serve as a commitment to Tikun Olam. There is a saying in Judaism that G-d created people with only one tongue but with a set of teeth and a pair of (State of the President continues on page 6) (Notes from the Cantor continues on page 6) -3- From the Executive Director’s Desk Educationally Speaking One of my responsibilities as Executive Director is to maintain our building. As such, I like to update the congregation from time to time on the state of some upgrades to the building. On the last Sunday of Hebrew School, I followed the six and seven grade Ziskind School students at the zoo. It has finally stopped raining and it is a clear crisp day. The youngest students in the school were already going to the zoo, and I was asked by the older students if they could join, too. Our tile floors tended to get a new coat of wax each year, to help protect them. However, this causes a yellowing buildup. The wax buildup had not, to anyone’s memory, ever been stripped off. So this past fall and winter, we had most of the flooring stripped and re-waxed. As I watched the process, I noted an incredible amount of ancient wax being stripped off. Anyone who saw the freshly stripped and waxed floor side-by-side with flooring that still retained a buildup noted a dramatic difference. When I teach at the Ziskind School, I am constantly reminded about how our students bring life to our Jewish community. As students, from the youngest to the oldest, ran around the zoo looking up Hebrew names for animals, and sharing their Hebrew animal flashcards with one another, I am reminded of this. The friendships that are created because of the Ziskind School will last a lifetime. A few of the moms that have known each other their whole lives and connected through the Hebrew school when they were younger have supported this thought. In April, we had most of the lighting in the building replaced. A few areas still need to be addressed, and these will be done over time. In the meantime, the new LED lights are brighter and will be lowering our electricity cost. The combination of the lighting change and the floor stripping is perking up the look of the interior of the building. Here is a reminder as to what our school has accomplished this year, as written by Sarah Caruso, the School Board president: And the needs for the exterior of the building are being addressed, as well. Our new (as of a year ago) landscaper has been very conscientious about keeping our grounds looking good. This has included many onetime projects to address neglected areas. These projects included removal of about a half dozen trees which were growing too close to the building, the cleanup and removal of trees growing wild by the loading dock, removal of dead branches, and some necessary shrubbery trimming. Many of our external doors were repaired and repainted this fall. The repair part addressed problems of some of the wood peeling back from the doors. The repainting helps give them a fresh look. And by the time this issue of the Tifereth Israelight goes to print, we should have the exterior of the building power washed, removing mildew that has accumulated. This, coupled with the new outdoor lighting from two years ago, should really make the image of our building pop. Last year, we installed 10 security cameras on the outside of the building. This security upgrade gives us a better view as to who is requesting entrance to the locked building. It also gives us the opportunity to review action around the building if there were to be an incident of any sort in the prior few days. Students participated in a fun and interactive Model Seder at the New Bedford Jewish Convalescent Home. Students completed their holiday stamps with artist Judith Klein for the permanent art exhibit. Students hosted two Israeli student ambassadors and enjoyed a sports-themed afternoon, playing ice breaker games, and learning about Israel's favorite sports by playing a team trivia game. The Ziskind School volunteered at the cemetery to thank our departed veterans for their service by putting up the graveside flags. The last day of Hebrew school, May 18th, when we had a Lag B’Omer celebration and picnic dinner for all students – Preschool through Hebrew High – and their families. We have a wonderful Madrichim program for our students in 8th grade and above. All students in the Madrichim program want to continue as teacher's aides for the 2017-2018 school year, and all of our 7th grade graduates are also planning to join this program. This is significant, since students must be enrolled in Hebrew High to participate in this program. We are proud that our students still feel connected to the school and want to continue to be involved. (Educationally Speaking continues on page 6) (From the Executive Director’s Desk continues on page 5) - 4- OSS Space Planning Update Dear TI Family, We are excited to give you a quick update on the advances with the project to increase Our Sister School’s (OSS’s) use of TI’s facilities. Inside the building, changes being discussed include a focus on OSS making greater use of the Large Social Hall. Other changes are ones to the school wing, which OSS is already exclusively using, that better fit their usage needs, including removing and constructing some walls and some electrical and plumbing work. An architect has been engaged by OSS, at their expense, to properly plan the inside changes needed. The joint OSS/TI planning committee continues to meet, as needed, to plan changes and review needs and actions. OSS completed their design of proposed changes to the grounds outside of OSS to accommodate an outdoor education and recreation center. Anyone that is interested can stop by the TI office to look at a birds-eye view of what it will look like. The design is beautiful and will enhance the appearance of the grounds. There will be no financial impact on Tifereth Israel, either positive or negative, for the outdoor changes. We will benefit by being able to enjoy the beautification it will add; and completion of the project will make it more desirable for OSS to continue their relationship with TI farther into the future. On May 2, the TI Board of Directors approved a recommendation made by the OSS Increased Facility Use Committee to allow OSS to proceed with the outdoor changes of this project. We will follow up again when the indoor plans become more definitive. Very sincerely, Cheryl Zeoli President Raphael Kanter Rabbi Stan Sherman Treasurer and Committee Chair Ken Turkewitz Executive Director (From the Executive Director’s Desk from page 4 (The Rabbi’s Study from page 2 Returning to the inside of the building, this winter we had repairs made to our Chapel pews. The repairs were to fix some “rocking” problems on many of the pews, and to add molding to the bottom of the pews. (The molding had to be removed when we added carpeting to the Chapel several years back.) 2. To foster positive emotions, do good things for other people. 3. Appreciate the world around you. 4. Develop and bolster relationships. As I write, work is being done to replace aging air conditioning systems that are breaking down in the Chapel and the Small Social Hall. This is being done not so much as an improvement, but as a necessary repair. (Though I do expect that we will save on electricity with more modern systems.) At some point, we’ll need to figure out the next steps for the Large Social Hall and possibly the Sanctuary, as well. 5. Learn something new. 6. Choose to accept yourself, flaws and all. 7. Practice mindfulness and concentrate on the here and now, and not on past problems. I would just add one more suggestion. A synagogue is a place where many of those things that foster positive emotions take place. A synagogue does good things for other people (our food drive for one example) and relationships are created and bolstered with other Jews (who does not enjoy a nice Shabbat lunch together after services?). With the study of Torah you always learn something new, and prayer is certainly the place to practice mindfulness. So I hope to see you more often at the synagogue and/or at services. With summer right around the corner it’s a good time to practice all those things that create positive emotions. And what rabbi would not want a happier congregation? Our building is now over 50 years old. We will continue to need to repair and replace pieces of the building, make upgrades for security, and make changes to take advantage of new technology. All of this takes funding. Please keep this in mind when considering where your charitable contributions go. L’Shalom, Ken Don’t miss a word!! We are continuing to update our email list. If you do not receive “as we end the week”, or if you have a new email address, please let us know. Rabbi Raphael Kanter -5- (State of the President from page 3) New Bedford USY Over the course of this year, New Bedford USY has made it a goal to be more active and engaging than in past years. On a recent Saturday night, we had a fun laser gate event with people from New Bedford as well from outside the chapter. Everyone in attendance had a marvelous time, and the USY team even won a game! Simple Saturday night outings like this one are annual traditions that we hope to keep alive for many years to come. Just a few hours of laser tag along with some tasty ice cream proved to be a great success. It’s great events like this one that show what USY is all about and keep USYers wanting to come back for more. We are also working with OSS to revitalize a section of the TI property to transform it into an outdoor classroom to enrich the lives of students and beautify our Synagogue. At the same time, we are finishing up a process to have a Sofer repair some of our damaged Torahs. All of these projects represent TI’s ongoing resolve to create a space where are community can grow and build a vibrant future. I hope that you will join us in our undertaking. As always, we are eager to hear from anyone with suggestions, and welcome all of our members to attend our events, and perhaps even work with us in planning and enacting ways we can grow and flourish. After all, we are here already, it is important for that to mean something. The next upcoming USY event is Spring Convention, held at the Doubletree by Hilton hotel in Milford, MA. Spring convention is NERUSY’s annual convention that brings Jewish teens together from all over New England for a weekend of fun and great memories. This year, Spring Convention is co-chaired by our own Julia Levin. She and her fellow co-chair, with the regional board, have been working hard to make the weekend amazing. New Bedford USY is excited for what is to come, and proud to announce that we are sending the most delegates to this convention that we have in the last five years. This year’s spring convention will be a great time and we can’t wait to bring back great news about the awards we’ve won and the great memories we’ve made. Best, Cheryl (Notes from the Cantor from page 3) lips in front of it. Both the lips and teeth must be opened before the tongue can produce words. We were created in this fashion so that the lips and teeth could guard our tongue from speaking without thinking. May we all learn this lesson of the Amidah. Melynda, David Simon, Asher, Ezra and I would like to wish everyone a relaxing and enjoyable summer. Todah Rabah, Julia Levin 2016-2017 NBUSY President (Educationally Speaking continued on page 4) PJ Library, sponsored by the Harold Grinspoon Foundation and the Jewish Federation of Greater New Bedford (here locally), provides free Jewish children’s books to kids ages 6 months through 8 years old, regardless of the family’s Jewish background, knowledge, or observance. It’s been a very busy school year at the Ziskind School. I am so proud to be a part of it because not only are we a school, we are a community. We support each other and lift each other up when needed. We share ideas, recipes, laughter, and stories. We especially share mitzvot and learning. Thank you especially to an amazing teaching staff. Without their constant planning and doing, our school would not be what it is today Thank you Sarah Caruso, Karin Taylor, David Schudrich, Rabbi Kanter, and Cantor Schudrich. PJ Library doesn't need to tell you that reading to your children is important. Study after study has shown it impacts a child’s development. Even the mere presence of books in a home increases the level of education they can reach. (Great news for those of us who haven’t gotten around to cleaning out the playroom in a while.) Your children can be the next recipients! Go to the PJ Library at https://www.pjlibrary.org/Home, and click on “Sign Up”. -6- ~ CHAI lights ~ Let’s all shout Tifereth Israel Family News Mazal Tov ! We are proud to publicize the birthdays and anniversaries of our most precious members. Mazal Tov to Joel Brenner & Victoria Pope on the engagement of their daughter, Clara Brenner, to Rafael Burde. A September wedding is planned in San Francisco. RUTH ADES Mazal Tov to Robbie Apfel & Bennett Simon, whose grandson, Kalman Savitz Strauss was honored by the Jewish United Fund of Metropolitan Chicago, JUF, as one of 18 youths under 18 who have been leaders in the Chicago Jewish community. Kalman is the son of their daughter and son-in-law, Celia and Adam Savitz Strauss. On her 85th birthday LORRAINE rudnick On her 90th birthday JOSEPH SILVERSTEIN On his 90th birthday Kol Hakavod to Stanley Mickelson on his reelection to the Dartmouth Board of Selectman. *** Mazal Tov to Lynda & Harry Jacobvitz on the engagement of their daughter, Molly Jacobvitz, to Ethan Kelleher Wishing them much health & happiness in the future! Mazal Tov to Jan & David Tatelbaum on the marriage of their son, Spencer Tatelbaum, to Diem Tang on February 24. And Mazal Tov to grandmother Ida Tatelbaum, aunt and uncle Nancy & Stan Waldman, and aunt and uncle Grace & Joe Tatelbaum. Welcome to our Newest Members! Mazel Tov to Rebecca Holmes on the brit milah of her twin grandsons, Michael and Gerard Holmes, in Burlington, MA . Mazal Tov to parents Amanda & Seth Holmes and big sister Aileen, and aunt & uncle, Stacy & Marc Fournier, as well. Dawn & Seth Doucette-Kaplan Diane Cohen & Steven Beserosky Martha & Lee Hammel Michelle Klein and Leonard Klein Our General Fund Beth & Martin Weinstein Did you know that the General Fund is the source of funding for operating costs here at Tifereth Israel? While some funds are restricted to specific uses, the General Fund can be used for any need, whenever it arises. TODAH RABBAH We appreciate your thoughtfulness when you make a donation. We want to be able to continue to provide everything you expect from your synagogue. We sincerely thank all our sponsors of Shabbat morning Kiddush in recent months! *** Dorothy & Dr. Rahim Aghai In celebration of their 50th anniversary Always a time for good news! Simmon Tov u'Mazal Tov!! Deborah Roher For her 30 years in New Bedford We'd love to share your simcha with the congregation ~ your news is very welcome! Eve & Ari Sky For their Tifereth Israel family -7- Tifereth Israel Congregation Tax Deduction Car Donation Program Do you have a car that's no longer in use? Time to buy a new one? One car too many in the house for any reason? Donate your used vehicle to Tifereth Israel for a tax donation! Your car can be donated, regardless of the condition. Call the TI office to arrange for pickup. IF YOUR CAR SELLS FOR MORE THAN $500: The IRS allows you to claim a tax deduction of the amount the car sold for. Your tax-deductible receipt will be for the car's full sale price. IF YOUR CAR SELLS FOR LESS THAN $500: You can claim the fair market value of the car, up to $500. According to the IRS, it is up to you to determine the fair market value of your car. After it sells, TI will provide a letter verifying the tax donation. Sponsor a Shabbat Kiddush In the Talmud it says: “He who has fed a stranger may have fed an angel.” Did you know that there are many ways to sponsor or co-sponsor a Kiddush? Full Sponsor: $400 (Basic Kiddush) and up (expanded Kiddush – add on lox, kugel, soup, or other items) Co-sponsor: $ 200 Contributor: $100 This is your opportunity to celebrate a special occasion, such as a birthday, anniversary, family simcha, milestone accomplishment or other event, or to honor the memory of a loved one on a yahrzeit date, along with your Tifereth Israel family. Your contribution to the Kiddush will be recognized from the bimah and in the weekly As We End The Week email. And, as always, you can still make a contribution to the general Kiddush Fund. -8- The Winter in Pictures Women in the Bible class World Wide Wrap Ziskind School Polka Dot Yoga -9- Purim 5777 Dr. Mel Yokin arranges and presides over our Sunday Morning Speaker Series, including this year (l-r) Joyce Antler, Ryan Cooper, Mary Glickman, and Michael Blanding - 10 - Torah Fund Holocaust Observance Torah Fund took shape in the minds of our leaders more than sixty-five years ago with the establishment of a scholarship fund, and the campaign continues today as a source of scholarship funding for students at the Jewish Theological Seminary. The Torah Fund Mission gives every person an opportunity to participate in preserving, promoting, and perpetuating Conservative/Masorti Judaism through active giving to the Torah Fund Campaign of Women’s League for Conservative Judaism in support of JTS, the Ziegler School of Rabbinic Studies, Schechter Institute of Jewish Studies, and the Seminario Rabínico Latinoamericano. The Holocaust Education and Memorial Committee of the Jewish Federation of Greater New Bedford has been an active interfaith committee of the Jewish Federation for over 30 years. We are proud of our mission of educating students and the community about the Holocaust. This year’s theme was “Lessons from Elie Wiesel and other Survivors” and so, on April 23rd we held the annual Yom HaShoah observance. Our hard-working committee was honored by carrying candles from the Holocaust Monument to the synagogue where our guest speaker, Rabbi Joseph Polak, child survivor of Bergen Belsen, spoke about his friendship with Elie Wiesel at Boston University and about his own experiences. At the reception following the program Rabbi Polak signed copies of his book, ”After the Holocaust the Bells Still Ring.” There were wonderful art displays by the students of Debbie Coderre from Bristol Aggie, displays of the students of Professor Ilana Offenberger from UMass Dartmouth as well as pictures of the stamp project from the charter school in Attleboro. We are proud of the work the women at Tifereth Israel Congregation have done over the past 37 years for our Torah Fund Campaign. This year the Torah Fund Campaign culminated with the 37th Annual Sylvia Fund Study Day and Luncheon on Thursday, May 25, 2017. This year we were proud to welcome a dynamic leader, Rabbi Ron Fish from Temple Israel in Sharon, as our guest speaker. At the luncheon, following Rabbi Fish’s study session, we honored our Light of Torah, Woman of Distinction recipient, Phyllis Bornstein who was recognized for her devotion to Torah, Service (Avodah) and Gimilut Hasadim (Deeds of Lovingkindness). We also support the Holocaust Center at Bristol Community College which has had wonderful programs throughout the year. We thank our wonderful committee for all their help: Mary Franklin, Marsha Onufrak, Barbara Gotlib, Susan Barnet and Maureen Deneault. This fall, for the commemoration of Kristallnacht, on Sunday November 5th we will welcome Glenn Kurtz to Tifereth Israel who will speak on his book, “Three Minutes in Poland.” By contributing to Torah Fund, we help to support the vision of sustaining the Jewish Community for the future. If anyone is interested in helping or joining our committee, please let Michelle Poirier know. We look forward to hearing from you. Cynthia Yoken, Torah Fund Chair Cynthia Yoken Men’s Club The Tifereth Israel Men’s Club teamed with the synagogue’s Sisterhood on Friday evening, March 31, to lead a very pleasant Sisterhood/Men’s Club Shabbat, as members of both organizations worked together to lead services. Yasher koach to co-chairs Brenda Levin and Marty Levin, who appear well-suited to work together. By the time this issue of the Tifereth Israelight is published, Men’s Club members and their guests will have gathered for a social dinner on May 15, and will have had a planning meeting on May 22. Coming up … Stan Sherman has organized for us to take a group hike at Dartmouth National Resources Trail’s (DNRT’s) Destruction Brook Trail located between Fisher and Slade’s Corner Roads, near Russell’s Mills Village. The hike will be on Monday, June 5. We will be gathering at the large lot on Slade Corner’s Road at 4:30 pm. All are invited. A few upcoming events from the New England Region Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs (FJMC): May 18: Annual Meeting at Temple Reyim, Auburndale (Newton), MA June 8-11: TheRetreat at Camp Ramah, Palmer, MA June 25: Tour de Shuls starting at Temple Beth Sholom, Framingham, MA Details for all of these can be found at www.nerfjmc.org. - 11 - 19 Charles Goldberg Dr. Morris E. Rubin Theresa Wollison 20 Max Ambush Warren M. Barclay Barbara Nebelkopf 26 Helen Miller Naomi Lee Roth Albert H. Sterns Abe Weinstein 27 Rose S. Alpert Matt Gale Hyman Weiner 28 Irving Britva Harry Goldstein Leo Levinson Albert Shuster 29 Lilyan Joblon Harold Kanter Donald Kaplan Bernard Silverstein 18 Bertha Bagdanowsky George M. Lane Alan Meltz Samuel Sandler Frances Stein - 12 - 30 Gilbert Fain Sylvia Frisch Jennie Joblon Nathan Kaplan Matthew Tatelbaum 31 Dorothy Salk Tribute Opportunities There are many recognition opportunities in our kehillah (congregation) to honor or memorialize somebody. Tree of Life As one enters Founders Hall from the front doors, our Tree of Life plaque can be found on the left, just before the hallway to the Chapel and Small Hall. An engraved leaf can be purchased and mounted on the tree for $1,000 for a large leaf, or $500 for a small leaf. Yahrzeit Plaque The Tifereth Israel Yahrzeit plaques can be found in the back of the Sanctuary, left side (as one faces the bima). It is traditional to honor the memory of a family member with a plate on the plaque after his or her passing. Engraved yahrzheit plates can be purchased for $350. The plate will hang on the plaque during the Hebrew anniversary month of your loved one’s passing. Building Fund Plates are available to be mounted on the plaques on the right side (as one enters the building through the front doors) of Founders Hall. Prices for engraved plates range from $1,200 to $20,000, depending on the size of the plate. See Ken for details. Outdoor Column For the ultimate way to honor someone, engraving of an outdoor column (in the front of the synagogue) can be purchased by an individual or a group of individuals for $100,000. There are only two such opportunities left.. Shopping Amazon If you’re an Amazon shopper, please remember to start your shopping experience by going to Amazon through the link on the left side of our web page. Tifereth Israel receives a portion of the revenue, and it costs you, the buyer, nothing additional. - 13 - IN MEMORIAM We offer our sincere condolences to our members & their families Leonard Klein, Michelle Klein and their family On the loss of their beloved father and grandfather, Albert Klein Dr. Bruce Perler and his family On the death of his beloved father, Julius Leonard Perler Rosaria Arteaga and her family On the death of her beloved aunt, Maria da Conceicao Pinhero Azevedo Pinhero And on the death of her beloved uncle, Amancio Jose Leite Azevedo Arteaga Michael & Cathy Russell, Peter & Wendy Russell, David & Janice Russell And their families On the death of their beloved mother and grandmother, Meryl Russell Frederic Katz, Louise Katz, Howard & Donna Katz, Carol Katz, and Alan Katz and their families On the death of their beloved mother and grandmother, Florence Katz Gary & Suzy Levine and their family On the death of their beloved mother, Pearly Levine Betty Horowitz, Cindy & Ned Barowsky, Jill & Christopher Marston, Robert & Randi Horowitz and their families On the death of their beloved husband, father and grandfather, Elliot Horowitz Elaine Bernstein, Harry Davis, William Davis and their extended families, On the death of their beloved brother and father, Dr. Sheldon Davis Plainville Cemetery Plots are available from Tifereth Israel for Plainville Cemetery on Old Plainville Rd., New Bedford. Current prices: Current Members: “Legacy” Members: Non-Members: $600 + $600 Perpetual Care $900 + $900 Perpetual Care $1,200 + $1,200 Perp. Care Call the synagogue office for details, including the distinction between Members and Legacy Members. The synagogue also maintains “Darkei Shalom”, an interfaith section, available at the cemetery. Inquire about details at the Tifereth Israel office. Payment plans are available on request. - 14 - [All donations received by May 5] GENERAL FUND In honor of the Bar Mitzvahs of both grandsons of Ronnie & Norman Glassman: by Rosi & Alan Geller In honor of Joseph Silverstein’s special birthday: by Helen and Murray Goldberg In appreciation: by Celia Harary In honor of the birthday of Benjamin Eli Novick: by Martha & Lee Hammel IN MEMORY OF Meryl Russell, beloved mother of Michael, Peter and David Russell: by Peggy Fain, Susan Barnet, Carol & Robert Saltzman, Paul Solomon, Rozzy & Norman Bernstein, Susan & Steven Lefkowitz, Laura & Matthew Philips, Dorothy & Rahim Aghai, Beth & Peter Smola, Barbara & Howard Gold Florence Katz, beloved mother of Carol Katz, Alan Katz, Louise Katz, Frederic Katz, and Howard Katz: by Members of the Acushnet Firefighters Assoc., Rozzy & Norman Bernstein, Dorothy & Rahim Aghai J. Leonard Perler, beloved father Dr. Bruce Perler: by Borrah Weiner & Barbara Findkelstein, Barbara Dennis & Byron Shuster, Joan Bronspiegel Dickman & Stuart Dickman, Betty Matathia Dr. Sheldon Davis, beloved father of Harry and William Davis: by Betty Matathia, Mary Lou Davis, Frima & Gilbert Shapiro Elliot Horowitz, beloved husband of Betty Horowitz: by Betty Matathia, Joan Bronspiegel Hilda Kaufman Pollack: by Silvija & Steven Mazza YAHRZEIT FOR Beloved father and grandfather Harry Levow: by Todd Kates Beloved father Philip Kates: by Todd Kates Beloved father Jack Robinson: by Judy & Kenneth Martin Beloved mother Esther Novick: by Betty & Alan Novick Beloved husband Stephen N. Davis: by Mary Lou Davis Beloved father James “Yankee” Sachs: by Steven Sachs & JoAnn Cabral Beloved wife Mary Louise Segall: by Irving Segall Beloved aunt Florence Victor: by Leonard Klehr Beloved grandfather Morris Victor: by Leonard Klehr Beloved father Jack B. Weitzman: by Faye Weitzman, Dr. Stephen Weitzman Beloved parents Anita & Manny Asser: by Judy & Gary Brown Beloved father Isaac Davidow: by Thomas Davidow Seymour Silverman: by Rebecca Berkowitz Beloved father Meyer Roseman: by Elaine Roseman Beloved mother Mildred Mazza: by Elliot Mazza, Steven Mazza and their families Beloved brother Philip Fawer: by Ellen Fawer Beloved mother Hilda Franklin: by Gerald Franklin Beloved brother Charles Weisman: by Mary & Gerald Franklin Beloved grandmother Esther Britva: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield Beloved cousin Minnie Cohen: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield Beloved mother Katie Weinstein: by Patty & Elliot Rosenfield Beloved grandmother Ethel B. Mickelson: by Charlotte and Wendy Friedman Beloved mother Jeanette Katz: by Dr. Alan Katz Beloved father Ira Katz: by Dr. Alan Katz Beloved father Ramon Atilano: by Gerardo Atilano Stanley Epstein: by Martha Udall Hammel Beloved father Sidney Lansky: by Gail & Aaron Lansky Beloved father Herman Schwartz: by Dan Schwartz Beloved father Harvey Gershlak: by Laura Carreiro Beloved father Meyer Fox: by Edith Pliskin Beloved sister Lillian Crock: by Barbara Gotlib Beloved mother in law Rose Gotlib Kaplan: by Barbara Kaplan Beloved father Jacob Abesh: by Goldie Gitlin Beloved husband Morris Finger: by Ida Finger Case Beloved mother Rose Weiner: by Borrah Weiner Beloved brother Herbert L. Siegel: by Susan Mick Beloved daughter Beryl Franklin: by Mary & Gerald Franklin Beloved father Samuel Weisman: by Mary & Gerald Franklin Beloved mother Rose S. Papkin: by Robert Papkin Beloved father & grandfather Haskell Kivowitz: by Carol & Jay Kivowitz Beloved grandfather & great grandfather Louis Fixman: by Martha Zeitz Beloved mother Yetta Friedman: by Charlotte and Wendy Friedman Beloved father Max Friedman: by Charlotte and Wendy Friedman Beloved wife Donna Silverstein: by Louis Silverstein Family Fund Beloved daughter Sarah Kietzmann: by Louis Silverstein Family Fund Beloved daughter Carol Kaner: by Elaine Elias Beloved mother Sylvia Feingold: Janet & Robert Feingold Beloved grandmother Pearl Glucksman: by Janet & Robert Feingold Beloved father Charles Day and beloved father Morton Rivkin: by Shelley & John Day Beloved father Jason Martin: by Judy & Kenneth Martin Beloved mother Esther Robinson: by Judy & Kenneth Martin Beloved father I. Edward Morse: Riesha & William Morse ZISKIND SCHOOL FUND In honor of Ellen Hull: by Mary & Michael Hull In honor of Lois & George Jacobs’ new home: by Ilene Shapiro & Arnold Helfand In memory of Florence Katz, beloved mother of Carol Katz, Louise Katz, Alan Katz, Frederic Katz and Howard Katz: by Norma & George Pimental, Ellen Hull, Susan Barnet, Joyce & Dave Nelson, Judy Blumberg, Ilene Meyer Shapiro, Mary Jane & William MacLean, Margaret Atwood, Nina & Kent Welliver, Beth & Peter Smola, John Hoffman In memory of Stanley Talmud, beloved father of Melynda Schudrich: by Ronnie & Norman Glassman, Ellen Hull BUILDING FUND In memory of Dr. Sheldon Davis, beloved father of Harry Davis and William Davis: by Betty & Alan Novick Yahrzeit for beloved mother, grandmother and great grandmother Ruth Barash: by Judy Blumberg, Karin & Ron Taylor, Michael & Emily Blumberg, Corey, Abbie, Savannah, Ellie & Isabella Yahrzeit for beloved father I. Edward Morse: by Rosi & Alan Geller THELMA & GEORGE SCHWARTZ KIDDUSH FUND In memory of Meryl Russell, beloved mother of Michael Russell, Peter Russell and David Russell: by Carolyn & Mel Holland In memory of our beloved Janice Willinger: by Judi Crock Mickelson, Jill Mickelson & Paul Cromwell Yahrzeit for beloved husband Philip Fawer: by Lois Horowitz Yahrzeit for beloved grandmother Mollie Horowitz: by Jay & Lois Horowitz Yahrzeit for beloved wife Alice Horowitz: by Jay Horowitz - 15 - RABBI’S DISCRETIONARY FUND Beloved daughter Sarah Kietzmann: by Louis Silverstein Family Fund Beloved father Jacob Horvitz: by Dr. Bertram E. Howard Beloved parents Claire & Harry Auerbach: by Judy Auerbach Adamo and Dr. Lewis Auerbach In honor of Rabbi Kanter: by Daniela & David Rubenstein In appreciation for the opiod crisis ride-along: by InterChurch Council In honor of the 60th anniversary of Jeanette & Rabbi Shamai Kanter: by Muriel & Mark Stone In appreciation: by Ronni & Irvin Krause For the unveiling of our mother’s headstone: by Dan Schwartz and Jessica Schwartz Wishing good health and recovery to Mr. & Mrs Moses Aghai: by Dorothy & Rahim Aghai KIDDUSH FUND IN MEMORY OF Beloved mother Dorothy Kates: by Todd Kates Meryl Russell, beloved mother of Michael Russell, Peter Russell & David Russell: by Ronnie & Norman Glassman, Barbara & Gerry Gruber, Karen Clifton (RIH EP lab) Florence Katz, beloved mother of Carol Katz, Louise Katz, Alan Katz, Frederic Katz and Howard Katz: by Barbara Pearl & Martin Lipman Elliot Horowitz, beloved husband of Betty Horowitz: by Harriet & Lawrence Fletcher YAHRZEIT FOR Beloved brother Morris Rubin: by Ida Tatelbaum Beloved parents Sophie & Charles Davidow: by Irma & Michael Trupp Beloved mother Sarah Altman: by Edith Kleger Beloved father Jack Wolitz: by Barbara & Eli Rubin Beloved wife, mother, grandmother & great grandmother Ruth Barash: by Donald Barash & Family Beloved father, grandfather & great grandfather Nathan Barash: by Donald Barash & Family Beloved mother, grandmother & great grandmother Esther Barash: by Donald Barash & Family Beloved sister, aunt & great aunt Esther Forman: by Donald Barash & Family Beloved father Nathan Barry: by The Barry Family Beloved father Kopel Zeitz: by Sandra & Phillip Zeitz Beloved father James Sachs: by The Sachs Family Beloved father Louis Chartoff: by Andrea & Ross Chartoff Loved ones: by Sonia & Mort Kobrin Beloved mother Julia Heinz: by Barbara Kaplan Beloved mother Rose Vattes: by Susan Sohn Beloved father Pete Vattes: by Susan Sohn Beloved father Mervin Leen: by Lorrie & Norman Grossman Beloved father Samuel Goldberg: by Harriet Fletcher Beloved parents Ida & Martin Moss: by Sandra & Phillip Zeitz Beloved sister Bernice Damelin: by Elaine Chervinsky Beloved father Samuel Silver: by Elaine Chervinsky Beloved husband Fred Rubin: by Suzanne Rubin Beloved parents & grandparents Jane & Charles Potash and Julia Gorban: by Arlene & Harry Gorban Beloved mother Rita Feuerstadt: by Ivy Feuerstadt & Barry Becken Beloved husband David Matathia: by Betty Matathia Beloved father Sol Mitchell Ilowitz: by Betty Ilowitz Ryder Beloved father Louis Mello: by Joyce Costa Beloved grandfather Harry Barkofsky: by Gilda Barclay Avelar Beloved parents Mildred & David Kroudvird: by Cynthia Kroudvird, Phyllis Kroudvird Beloved son Jeffrey Lane: by Linda & Robert Lane Beloved wife Donna Silverstein: by Louis Silverstein Family Fund - 16 - In honor of Stan Sherman chanting Haftarah and our Aliyah: by Fay & Paul Sherman In honor of Dr. Paul Solomon’s 90th birthday: by June Smith & Ken Shwartz In honor of Phyllis Bornstein being awarded Light of Torah: by Ronnie & Norman Glassman In honor of the Bar Mitzvah of Patty & Elliot Rosenfield’s grandson Matthew: by Judy Pollack In honor of the B’Nai Mitzvah of Ronnie & Norman Glassman’s grandsons: by Judy Pollack In honor of Dorothy & Rahim Aghai’s 50th anniversary: by Cindy & Mel Yoken In memory of J. Leonard Perler, beloved father of Dr. Bruce Perler: by Ronnie & Norman Glassman, Cindy & Mel Yoken In memory of Florence Katz, beloved mother of Carol Katz, Alan Katz, Louise Katz, Frederic Katz and Howard Katz: by Cindy & Mel Yoken, SaraLee Salk In memory of Meryl Russell, beloved mother of Michael Russell, David Russell, Peter Russell: by Cindy & Mel Yoken, Ruth & Alan Ades In memory of Steve Novick’s beloved wife Sandy: by Martha & Lee Hammel YAHRZEIT FOR Beloved mother of Barbara Schron, Ruth Lassow: by Martha Hammel Beloved father Markus Besen: by Rachel & Abe Levinson Beloved grandfather Louis Haffer: by Ellen Hull Beloved mother Rubye Finger: by Ellen Hull Beloved father Louis Finger: by Ellen Hull Beloved son, father, and former husband William Queen: by Barbara Queen, Nathaniel, Leland and Colin Queen, Gorette Cardoso Beloved father Albert Deneault Sr.: by Rena & Louis Deneault Beloved mother Doris Lukoff: by Andrea & Murray Lukoff SCOTT DEREK MICKELSON SCHOLARSHIP FUND Yahrzeit for beloved brother & uncle Joel Mickelson: by Stanley Mickelson & Jill Mickelson Yahrzeit for beloved son & brother Scott Derek Mickelson: by Stanley Mickelson & Jill Mickelson Yahrzeit for beloved son & brother Scott Derek Mickelson: by Judi Mickelson, Jill Mickelson & Paul Cromwell Yahrzeit for beloved mother & grandmother Lillian Crock: by Judi Mickelson, Jill Mickelson & Paul Cromwell In memory of Norman L’Heureux’s beloved mother Irene: by Kala Joblon & Stanley Mickelson In memory of Florence Katz, beloved mother of Carol Katz, Louise Katz, Alan Katz, Frederic Katz and Howard Katz: by Ken Lipman In memory of Meryl Russell, beloved mother of Michael Russell, Peter Russell and David Russell: by Kala Joblon & Stanley Mickelson CANTOR’S MUSIC FUND ANNA & ARTHUR L. NOVICK FUND In appreciation: by Tina & Robert Lipman For the unveiling of our mother’s headstone: by Dan Schwartz and Jessica Schwartz In memory of Sylvia Day, beloved mother of John Day: by Leslea & Robert Harelick Yahrzeit for beloved mother & grandmother Betty Abesh: by Jane, Neil, Ben & Jeff Meltzer Yahrzeit for beloved father Louis Chartoff: by Andrea & Ross Chartoff Yahrzeit for beloved parents Anita & Manny Asser: by Judy & Gary Brown Yahrzeit for beloved brother Milton Paul Krause: by Ronni & Irvin Krause Yahrzeit for Esther Kaizermann: by Dorothy & Rahim Aghai Yahrzeit for beloved brother Said Aghai: by Rahim Aghai Yahrzeit for beloved husband David Matathia: by Betty Matathia Yahrzeit for beloved mother Mildred Bernstein: by Linda Blacker Yahrzeit for beloved father George Bernstein: by Linda Blacker Yahrzeit for beloved mother Rose Nebelkopf: by Irwin Nebelkopf & Ellen Guenette In honor of the birth of a granddaughter, Anna Carroll, for Gayle Novick Kiefer & Dr. Tom Kiefer: Martha & Lee Hammel In honor of the birth of a grandson, Arthur Kiefer, for Gayle Novick Kiefer & Dr. Tom Kiefer: by Martha & Lee Hammel PHYLLIS & SIDNEY CHASKES FUND Yahrzeit for beloved father Sidney Chaskes: by Madeline Ciaramello and Ilene Mascaro MINYAN BREAKFAST CLUB In memory of H. Arnold Siegel: by Claire Levovsky In memory of Paul Bastwick: by Sandra Nisson Yahrzeit for Ralph Harary: by the Harary Family Yahrzeit for beloved father Edward Bor: Aaron Bor and Wilma Davidson Minyan Breakfast Club A special group has come to pray Rain or shine we dare not stray Weekdays we’re there at the crack of dawn When all join in and even yawn We count our participants, both women and men At 7:15 we’re not eight, nine or ten Together for yahrzeits, for Kaddish, and more We pray for our loved ones that Hashem will restore Thanking G’d for all that we know Starting each day with prayer books in tow Then at 8 am or even before, one thing is for sure We exit the chapel and walk out the door Reciting motze before anything else Before bagels, cream cheese and even lox Before starting discussions of Braves and Sox Deep questions of Rabbi and Cantor ensure But not before a laugh or two. Please join us for a lovely breakfast as Abe Brand said L’Dor Va D’Or continues the thread PATRICIA R. & ELLIOT I. ROSENFIELD FUND Yahrzeit for beloved mother Charlotte Britva: by Patty Rosenfield ALVIN, MORRIS & JENNIE GLASER FUND Yahrzeit for beloved husband Bernard Levine: by Doris Levine ANNETTE B. & SAMUEL LIPMAN FUND In memory of Helen Weinshel, beloved sister of Sheldon Friedland: by Barbara Pearl & Martin Lipman Yahrzeit for beloved father Samuel L. Lipman: by Barbara Pearl & Martin Lipman GOLDIE & EDWARD GITLIN FUND In memory of Pearly Levine: by Goldie Gitlin ANNA M. & HARRY SILVERSTEIN FUND Yahrzeit for beloved father Alfred Goodwin: by Jean & Joseph Silverstein Yahrzeit for beloved mother Anna Silverstein: by Jean & Joseph Silverstein Programming Committee Membership Committee The Programming Committee of Tifereth Israel continues to meet on a monthly schedule to plan activities for the congregation year. We have organized Friday evening Dor v’Dor services with pot luck dinners, Havdallah campfires, congregational dinners and other activities. We continue to seek ways to provide interesting activities for our congregation and will gladly accept suggestions. If you are interested in being part of this committee, please get in touch with Dot Aghai. The Membership Committee meets on a monthly schedule to discuss ways to attract new members as well as retain our current members. We have been very fortunate to have welcomed a significant number of new members over the past several years and hope to continue with the pattern. Our very best resources are YOU! If you know of unaffiliated people in the area, let us know so we can reach out to them. Also, if you are interested in being part of the Membership Committee, please let us know—contact Dot Aghai. Our meetings are TERRIFIC! - 17 - TI Benefit on Buying a Home in Greater Boston Ready to See Israel? Do you have a friend or family member looking for a home in Boston or its suburbs? By working with Harry Silverstein (617-440-1744 or [email protected]) a portion of the commission proceeds will go to Tifereth Israel. You can help your friend or family member find a great home, and help TI at the same time! Make sure that they tell Harry that the referral came from TI. Tifereth Israel last ran a trip to Israel in 2008. We’d like to explore whether there is enough interest to once again have a T.I. trip to Israel, time frame to be determined. If you’re interested in exploring the possibility of going, please contact the office and let us know. If there’s enough of a critical mass, then we’ll hold an organizational meeting to discuss what we’d like to do. Do you Facebook? Did you know that Tifereth Israel has a Facebook page? Find us by opening Facebook on your computer or phone and searching for Tifereth Israel Congregation. 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