NOVEMBER 2011 We are also Pilgrims in this land... Plus: A Letter to Our Readers pg 3 The First Pilgrims pg 5 WM Prayer Emphasis Program pg 9 Contents November 2011 FEATURES 3 A Letter to Our Readers ARP Magazine Board Chairman Oran Smith updates readers on ARP Magazine operations and challenges you to participate in a promotion to support the denomination’s publication. —Oran Smith COVER PHOTO 5 The First Pilgrims 6 Moderator’s Focus 7 Synod Emphasis: The Offer of the Free Gospel This Thanksgiving, we remember their hardships.—Rev. Ray Cameron ISSN 0362—0816 Do you want your church to grow? —Rev. Andrew Putnam Prayers were prayed, the Bible was taught and preached, and people —Rev. Scott Robar loved each other...but our church was dying. 8 A Pastor’s Perspective 9 2012 Prayer Emphasis Program Practical steps toward obedient churchmanship.—Rev. Dean Turbeville Prayer is a developed lifestyle, a cultivated habit binding us to God. —WM Spiritual Life Chairman Kathy Folks THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN VOL. XXXVI NO. 9 Delores P. McDonald, Editor Susan L. Tanner, Assistant Editor Advertising rates on request; ask for current rate card. Advertising competitive with any agency or institution of the Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church is not accepted. Publication of advertisements does not necessarily constitute an endorsement by this magazine. BOARD OF THE ASSSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN Dr. Oran Smith (2013), Chairman; Walter F. Payne Jr. (2012), Vice Chairman; Rev. Charles Hammond (2014); Leslie Milling (2013); Joel Reed (2015); Rev. Sam Roper (2017); Charles Walden (2015); Gail Fowler (2017); John Wingate (2017); Martha Waldrop (ARP Women’s Ministries representative). 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All rights reserved throughout the world. Used by permission of International Bible Society. Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. 2 Blessed are those whose strength is in you, whose hearts are set on pilgrimage (Psalm 84:5). LOOKING FOR A RESOURCE FOR CURRENT ARP INFORMATION? Sign up for our weekly e-mail newsletter, ARP News Update or check the ARP Magazine web page: www.arpmagazine.org To sign up for the newsletter or contact the ARP Magazine, e-mail: [email protected] THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN A Letter to Our Readers Dear Subscriber, Because of our strong renewal rates, chances are, you have been with ARP Magazine for some time. During that time, you have seen lots of changes. As for me, it’s amazing to see the improvement in our denominational magazine since I first subscribed in 1994. I hope you agree the contrast is like night and day – better design, better organization, more family life, more reformed theology, and more news than ever from our Church make The ARP a must for everyone. But as you may have also noticed, printed publications have really taken a hit lately. This is especially true for newspapers, but magazines like The ARP haven’t escaped unharmed. Folks don’t read as much as they used to. And, some readers have switched to electronic versions of their favorite publications, or enjoy online content that is not subscription based (paid), but ad based (free). At the same time, magazines with over 1,000,000 subscribers do quite well because of the scores of ads they contain. Unfortunately, another favorite magazine I subscribe to has become mostly advertising. But here at ARP magazine, we don’t publish for advertisers, we publish for you. That’s why I’m taking this unique opportunity to appeal to you to help us expand our tent. One of the biggest challenges for any ministry (or business) is finding new customers. The ARP is no exception. Producing a great, inspirational product is only half the job. To be effective, the content must be read. And except for printing, the cost is the same, whether we have 3,000 subscribers or 10,000. To help us expand, I have included a handy “Renew Me and Give Three” form on the back of this page. The deal is simple. If you will renew (or extend) your subscription at the regular rate of $20, we will send the magazine as a gift from you to three friends for the special rate of $16.50 each. You receive a Christmas present for those who are so difficult to buy for, and we are introduced to new friends! A good bargain for everyone. We will even send a “Do Not Open ‘til December 25” card to your friends announcing your gifts. Of course, you don’t have to give three – you can give two or one...or one each to every member of your Sunday school class or circle. 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To close the gap, please be sure to provide us with your email address so we can send you news in between issues of the printed edition. There is no charge for ARP News Update to subscribers. One more thing: you may have never heard this before, but please know that we sincerely thank you for your subscription. NOVEMBER 2011 3 The ARP Magazine Gift Subscription Please send a gift subscription to the following people at the special low rate of $16.50 (for six issues). Name Address New Renewal Name Address Name N ew l Renewa Address New Renewal Name of giver: Address: Phone Number: Email: Please return this entire page. Use additional sheets to list more gift recipients as necessary. Yes! Please renew or extend my subscription at $16.50. I would like to give gifts x $16.50 = Total enclosed: Check Enclosed Credit Card: MasterCard Visa Card#: Exp. Date: 4 Signature: ARP Magazine • 1 Cleveland Street • Greenville, SC 29601-3696 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN The First Pilgrims By Rev. Ray Cameron I imagine many know the names William Bradford and Squanto. But you may not know their personal stories, which are both sobering and encouraging. William Bradford was the first governor of Plymouth Plantation, and was deeply committed to Christ. He boarded the Mayflower in 1620 with his wife, Dorothy, and sailed to America to seek refuge with other likeminded believers – to worship freely. Yet Bradford knew what it was to be a pilgrim without a home at an early age. His father died when he was oneyear-old. His grandfather died when he was six. And his mother died when he was seven. Under religious persecution at age 18, he fled his homeland of England to live in Holland. A few years later, he married Dorothy, and they had a son. When it was time to sail to America, many agonized over the perilous journey before them – and their family’s fate. The Bradfords chose to to leave their only child, 4-year-old John, behind – for fear of losing him. After finally arriving in America, the Mayflower anchored off Cape Cod. While Bradford and many of the Pilgrim men were were off exploring places to settle, Mrs. Bradford fell overboard and drowned. Mr. Bradford remarried two years later, and had three children. Meanwhile, his son, John, made a safe journey to Plymouth to join his father. NOVEMBER 2011 Of course, years before Bradford and the Pilgrims settled in America, tribes of Native Americans were living on this land. But in 1608, English traders kidnapped many of them, including a 12-year-old boy named Squanto, sailed to Spain, and sold them into slavery. A monk took pity on Squanto and brought him into his home, where he was taught the Bible and English. When the monk learned English ships were sailing to America, he sent Squanto to live with a family in England, so he would one day be able to sail home. Ten years after he was kidnapped, Squanto finally arrived home. But he soon found an epidemic carried by white men had wiped out his entire village. Squanto lived nearby with a neighboring tribe, until he discovered a group of English families had settled in the village that was once his home. But it had been a difficult first winter and spring for the Pilgrims there, and many had died. One can only imagine William Bradford’s amazement and gratitude when he heard the kind Indian stranger say, “Good morning, my name is Squanto.” Squanto soon taught the starving Pilgrims how to fish and plant corn. In his journal, Bradford would later call Squanto “a special instrument sent of God for their good beyond their expectation.” Children’s author Eric Metaxas draws a biblical analogy from Squanto’s life and imagines Bradford’s conversation with Squanto: “It is like the story of Joseph, from our sacred Scriptures... Like you, Joseph was also taken from his home and sold as a slave. But God had a plan for him. Through Joseph, God was able to save many people from starving. What man intended for evil, God intended for good.” Then Bradford smiled at Squanto and said, “Perhaps God has sent you to be our Joseph.” And you know the rest of the story: Months later, Bradford, Squanto, the Pilgrims, and many Indians would celebrate the first Thanksgiving together. This Thanksgiving, as we remember their hardships, and perhaps bear our own, might we also draw strength from their hopeful perseverance, gratitude to God, and joyful celebration. For the psalmist reminds us that we are also pilgrims in this land, and how blessed are those whose strength is in you (God), whose hearts are set on pilgrimage. As they pass through the Valley of Baka (literally, ‘weeping’), they make it a place of springs; the autumn rains also cover it with pools. They go from strength to strength, till each appears before God in Zion (Psalm 84: 5-7).? Ray Cameron is pastor of Lake Placid (FL) ARP Church. 5 Moderator of Synod Do You Want Your Church to Grow? REV. ANDREW K. PUTNAM Moderator I n considering the challenges before the ARP Church, the need for new mission work and ministry, I have one important question I want you to seriously consider: Do you want your church to grow? Don’t be too quick to answer. Most folks would say “yes,” but in truth they don’t want the church to grow – they just don’t want it to die. There is a huge difference between wanting the church to grow and just not wanting it to die. If you want the church to grow, you are willing to see the kind of revival and growth that we find in the book of Acts, where thousands were added daily. You want new folks, that are different than you, to become involved and active in the congregation. You are willing to let the Holy Spirit take over and do some amazing and radical things in the church. Growth: Outside Comfort Zone If you want the church to truly grow, you are going to be concerned with reaching the lost, the unchurched, those that are completely different than you. It will involve stepping outside your comfort zone, changing the way you “do” church in many cases and intentionally being welcoming and friendly to folks you don’t know. It may require you to give up a long held position in the church, so that new people can get involved (maybe an official position or just something you’ve always done). If you want the church to grow, then the ministry of the church is not about you, but about others. This does not require giving up on our theology or watering down the Scriptures – far from it. We should 6 preach and live the Word with boldness. But there is a world of difference between a book of the Bible like 2nd Timothy, and the unwritten “book of 2nd opinions.” The old adage is that there are seven words you should never say in church: “We’ve never done it that way before.” If you want the church to grow, then you need to turn that phrase into a challenge to do things new, rather than use it as an excuse to keep doing the same old thing. Dying: No Change Necessary If all you are really concerned about is whether or not the church is going to die, all you need to do is figure out how many folks your church is going to lose in the coming year, and aim to replace them. Preferably with folks just like them (who perhaps tithe more money). If your concern is that the church doesn’t die, then the programs and activities at the church should be designed around your comfort, your concerns, and your needs only. Outreach, if any, needs to make you feel comfortable and good, without causing you to have to work too hard. The preaching, while perhaps biblically solid, shouldn’t cause you any real concern, nor should it “step on your toes.” Instead, it should educate and edify, while justifying your preconceived notions. Churches that don’t really want to grow, should be more concerned with the comfort and compatibility of the church members. They need to make sure that everyone is getting along and in agreement. There is a desire to make sure that any new members (or visitors) fit a certain mold, appear a certain way, make a certain amount of money, or hold to a certain theology (before they become members or involved in the church). Many times, this pursuit of purity can occupy the longing for outreach. If you don’t want the church to die, it will usually survive for a while, at least for one more generation. While folks in these churches may say they want to grow or revive, they may be the first to complain about funds going to establish new mission works. The concepts of revitalization are hard for them to accept. They don’t want to make the necessary changes. Unfortunately, when you look at the statistics and history of the ARP Church, it’s easy to see we have a large number of churches (new and old) that really don’t want to grow – they just don’t want to die. If today’s ARP Church is going to be obedient to God’s Word, and if it’s going to survive, we must change our hearts about growing the church. We must become open to the work that the Holy Spirit can do in our congregations, regardless of the church’s age or location and we must pray that the Lord will continue to use the Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church for his glory and honor.? THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN Our church was dying... Synod Emphasis By Rev. Scott Robar O nly 20 people attended Sunday morning worship, when I first came to New Covenant ARP Church in Charlotte, NC, in late 2010. We seem to be recovering now; but we still have a long way to go. Of those 20 people, three have died, six have moved away, and one is too weak to attend. That leaves 10 from the original group – all white, all except two are retired, and no children. New Covenant sits within a neighborhood, which, according to statistical information, is 50% black, 35% white, and 15% “other.” Clearly the demographics have changed since the church’s formation in 1967. Some might think the change in the neighborhood was brought about by the decline of the church. Yet, as far as I can tell, the real problem was that two dying churches merged in 1967 and continued dying, because meaningful evangelism and outreach had never been, nor did it become, part of the church’s ministry. Please understand that prayers were prayed, the Bible was taught and preached, and people loved each other. It’s just that all of that was mainly confined within the church building on Sunday mornings. Please also understand that as I describe what we have done, it is very clear to us that the Lord is at work in our midst – apart from Him we can do nothing. You will be relieved to know that there is nothing here that is hard to grasp – no expensive seminar, no lengthy study, and no need for a NOVEMBER 2011 praise band. Our small church only has one musician. Our worship services are unashamedly Reformed and traditional. We’ve more than doubled in size in 20 months, although we’ve lost 10 of the original group. Now we average between 35 and 40 in attendance. Thirteen people are newcomers from the neighborhood, six more are from beyond the neighborhood, and 12 more are there because the man of the house is on staff (which includes my family). That’s 41 people. Fifteen of those are children. There had not been children in the church for many years. Of the 41 people, 15 are black, one is Asian, two are Hispanic, and 23 are white. We’re looking like the neighborhood and we are looking like heaven (Revelation 5:9). Cause for Growth Our turn-around has been aided greatly by two things – hiring interns from a nearby seminary and providing lunches after worship. We pay $3,000 per year for two interns (Reformed Theological Seminary doubles that money for their tuition), and we let another intern use the manse rent-free. Two more seminary-trained men have also joined us. Sunday is our big day for “work” as it is described in Isaiah 58:6-14. We not only attempt to do the things listed there; we also hope to receive those blessings, in the form of personal, church, and community revival. The interns teach Sunday school in rotation. They preach once every two months. My call is part-time, so this works out well. Our lunch provides a perfect opportunity to get to know people’s needs – there are plenty! We’re just loving people – it’s that simple. All newcomers attend the lunches. After lunch, the interns and I have a meeting. We talk about all sorts of things and pray. Then we listen to and critique the sermon for the coming Sunday. Then, some of us go into the neighborhood knocking on doors, and others go to a local nursing home to provide a worship service at 3:30 p.m. Other members join us there. When a church is dying, some hard decisions need to be made. We had to sell our Bonclarken house. We no longer have a music director or secretary. However, the New Covenant congregation has given me what I asked for – several interns – energetic young men with servants’ hearts who are also evangelists. Most of you reading this are terrified by the idea of witnessing to strangers; yet that is no big deal to most seminarians. If your church is within an hour of a good seminary, you really should avail yourselves of the blessings these interns can bring to your church. You’ll also be a blessing to these future pastors, their families, and the congregations they will later serve.? We are looking like the neighborhood and we are looking like Heaven. 7 A Pastor’s Perspective... By Pastor Dean Turbeville, All Saints’ ARP Church, Charlotte, NC any in our churches think of churchmanship as a modest and antiquated virtue, rather like good penmanship or knowing how to tie a bow tie: nice enough, but not really important in life. Others have drunk the post-modern Kool-Aid and believe that any concern for the organizational and procedural life of the institutional church is not sufficiently “spiritual” and/or “relational.” But if our understanding of churchmanship is taken from the New Testament, we get a very different picture. Paul labored heroically to both establish congregations and to see that they were organizationally healthy. The appointment of qualified leaders, the maintenance of sound doctrine, and the discipline of unrepentant sinners in the churches fill the pages of his epistles. The unity and doctrinal cohesion of the early church was secured in a general assembly of the church’s leadership in Jerusalem. All of this was more than just ensuring that things were done “decently and in order,” though that was no small concern (1 Corinthians 14:40). Churchmanship is also a crucible of the soul and battlefield for the kingdom. Paul’s language to the Galatians is almost war-like. And nobody’s light burned brighter for the maintenance of the visible church in faithfulness like Jesus Christ, of whom it was said, “zeal for the Lord’s House consumes him (John 2:17).” His clearing the temple of moneychangers and his establishing the Church as a confessional institution at the time of Peter’s declaration of Jesus’ messiahship are examples of churchmanship par excellence. His affirmations and M 8 Churchmanship is not penmanship rebukes to the seven churches in the Revelation are the epitome of lovedriven churchmanship. And he gives we who serve him the ministry of the keys of the kingdom, that we might continue in his train (Matthew 16:19). Decades of Neglect The evangelical Protestant church’s current low ecclesiology and contempt for churchmanship are not only evidence of our superficial reading of Scripture, but they also constitute an abandonment of our reformational heritage. Moreover, the near-apocalyptic decline in the corporate life of American denominations of the Church can substantially be traced to decades of negligent and gutless churchmanship. When I was a minister in the PCUSA, I saw constant evangelical isolationism: “I’ll just pastor my own church and leave church politics to those who are interested in it” (i.e., inevitably liberal clerics who had little interest in the ministry of the Word). And, indeed, I know that I have often been a lazy churchman myself; I must repent and embrace the high, holy and often hard calling of serving the Head of the Church through such a labor. So, in good hope, and preaching to myself first of all, I would urge the following seven practical steps towards an obedient churchmanship: • Show up to your session, presbytery or General Synod meeting, and be prepared: read everything sent to you in advance. We should no more fail to do this than we would fail to show up to preach on Sunday or to be prepared to lead worship. Do not leave the meeting early for any light reason. • Pray as elders for the work of the courts of the church. And it is an especially good sign when congregations actively pray for these meetings as well. The era of keeping congregations in the dark about the large issues in church affairs should end. • Speak up when you are convicted about some matter before the court. Relying on more outspoken men to speak is a dereliction of duty; in all likelihood they are only speaking because they know you will not. • Both large church officers and small church officers are presbyters and should contribute in this way. No false modesty or unbiblical inferiority complex should thwart the vows we all made at our ordination. And the same can be said for ordained seminary professors: it is your church too! • Combine passion for truth with dignity and respect for the court. Remember that it is the visible church which is “the Kingdom of our Lord Jesus Christ, the house and family of God, out of which there is no ordinary possibility of salvation” (Westminster Confession, Chapter XXV, II). • Love your fellow presbyters as brothers, but be willing at any point to do the right thing for Christ and the church, even if your best friend thinks differently. • Take a multi-generational view of the church, accepting our role as spiritual fathers to others. In this way, we leave a more faithful institution to our sons who will lead it in the future. It is hard to think of a better gift we could give them and others who will make up the church of the future. In sum, churchmanship is far more than a modest virtue. It is for brave hearts, sanctified minds and loving spirits. In all of this, may Christ be glorified, and his church reclaimed as the “church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth!” (1 Timothy 3:15)? THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN Prayer Emphasis 2012 Praise, Privilege, Posture, Penitence, Passion, Power, Priority, Plan, Petition, Perseverance, Promise “Devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert in it, with an attitude of thanksgiving” (Colossians 4:2). Day 1 – Privilege, Posture, Praise Verse – “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your request be made known to God” (Philippians 4:6). Shorter Catechism Q.98 “What is prayer? A. Prayer is an offering up of our desires unto God, for things agreeable to his will, in the name of Christ, with confession of our sins, and thankful acknowledgment of his mercies.” ARP Psalter with Bible Songs – “O LORD, I Will Exalt You” #30 ”Hallelujah, Praise Jehovah” #205 Hymnbook – “Be Thou My Vision” #303 “At the Name of Jesus” #143 Trinity Hymnal – “Holy God We Praise Your Name” #103 “Soldiers of Christ, Arise” #575 This Prayer Emphasis, including scripture references and questions, is intended to bless, encourage and strengthen our prayer lives. Prayer is a developed lifestyle, a cultivated habit binding us to God. Jesus’ fulfillment of the Covenant of Grace is faith’s foundation, the springboard of our call to prayer. What is prayer? Prayer is privileged communication with God, priority responsibility for Christians deepening our relationship with our Heavenly Father. It is coming to Christ and laying our requests before Him, seeking Jesus’ face, kneeling to His Lordship, submitting to God’s will. Jesus is the only way to the Father (John 14:6) and the sacrifice of the cross the source of forgiveness to penitent, repentant hearts. Prayer is hard work that encounters supernatural conflict. Spiritual warfare causes us to struggle to pray. Satan discourages at every opportunity. We must be prepared and recognize the warfare. We should be prayer warriors wearing Ephesians 6 Christian armor with prayer part of our sure defense. Some of our best lessons on prayer may be a parent’s example. Why should I pray? Pray because you are weak and He is strong, our Lord, our Eternal Father, our source for all of life. Pray because you love God, want to glorify Him and because Jesus told us to pray (Luke 18). James 4:2b says we don’t have because we don’t ask. Satan uses struggles and trials to discourage us from praying – depression, stress, grief, exhaustion, inadequacy, lack of eloquence, ill health, or spiritually dryness. Persevere, focusing on the Godhead – eyes on Jesus (Hebrews 12). Trusting God strengthens faith and fades anxieties. How do I pray? Reverently approach God, devout in your pleading, coming into God’s holy presence with humility and thanksgiving – earnestly, fervently, genuinely worshipful. Pray “in Christ” (Ephesians 1; 1 John 5:20), remembering praise is key in prayer. The process starts within you to rejuvenate and enrich your prayer life, for you must come confessing your own sinfulness, forgiving others. Heart humility is the right attitude, this “heart posture” is more important than physical posture. NOVEMBER 2011 9 The truth of the Gospel should shape our praying. Bible prayers, especially the Psalms, are models for us, reflecting every aspect of human experience – from utter despair to hopeful elation; fear to rage; doubt to faith; discouragement and loneliness to love, unity and strength. What do I pray? Some of our best lessons on prayer may be a parent’s example. Pray for what God lays on your heart, possibly as The Lord’s Prayer guides – praising God; for His kingdom; that His will be done; for daily provision; for forgiveness of sins and your forgiveness of others; for protection from sinning and evil, and for His honor and glory. When? Ephesians 6:18 says “at all times.” Prayer should be a natural part of our lives as is God’s Word (Colossians 3:16-17). Some prayer times are short, others lengthy. Where do I start? The Puritans said something like, “Pray until you pray.” As you pray more, it becomes more natural. Jesus begins and ends The Lord’s Prayer with worship, honoring and respecting God who is holy and worthy of worship. Coming pridefully takes His name in vain. We are sinners so we can only come into God’s presence through Christ. Awesome, merciful, loving Father in heaven, hallowed be your holy name. We praise you for who you are, thankful for our blessings and your easy, strong yoke of help, rest and peace. Renew, refresh, delight and inspire us in your service. In Christ we pray, Amen. Quote: “If we never know what it is to commune with God as our Father, we fail to grasp the meaning of what Jesus Christ accomplished for us” – Derek Thomas. Pray for: ARP pastors, officers and church staffs; The ARP Center; Synod, ARPWM, government and family leaders. Day 2 – Passion, Power, Pattern, Priority Verse – “Pray without ceasing” (1 Thessalonians 5:17). Catechism Q.99 “What rule hath God given for our direction in prayer? A. The whole word of God is of use to direct us in prayer; but the special rule of direction is that form of prayer which Christ taught his disciples, commonly called The Lord’s prayer.” Psalter – “How Blessed the Man” #166 “Listen to My Words, O LORD” #5 Hymnbook – “Love Divine, All Loves Excelling” #399 “Blessed Assurance, Jesus Is Mine!” #139 Hymnal – “Come, Ye Disconsolate, Where’er Ye Languish” #615 “Come, O Come, Thou Quickening Spirit” #331 Anchored in Christ we won’t drift. Jesus is our lifeline. God is holding us in His loving arms. Prayer draws us close to God (James 4:8), helps us focus on Him (Philippians 3:10), and is the route to forgiveness (1 John 1:9). Pray with the saints of the Bible, or use The Lord’s Prayer Jesus gave us, a great prayer and a wonderful model. Make each petition your own, praying it from your heart in your words or from different translations. What should I ask? Ask in Jesus’ name (John 16:24) and receive that your joy would be made full. Prayer clarifies our needs (Colossians 1:9, Philippians 4:6). It allows us to lift up others (Psalm 55:1, Ephesians 6:18). When you feel prayerless, remember that Jesus the Priest intercedes for you. God always answers rightly, even when He says “wait,” which can lead to renewed strength as in Isaiah 40:31. What if I don’t feel like praying? Commit your prayer life to God, cultivating healthy prayer habits. Praying encourages (Luke 18:1) and comforts (Psalm 4:1). It pleases God (Proverbs 15:8). Jesus made prayer a priority, so passionate in Gethsemane that He sweated blood. Prioritizing prayer means blessing – and time, sacrifice and discipline. What if my prayers sound stupid and seem pointless? God knows our hearts and hears the prayers of His children. 10 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN Confess, giving it all to Him, for He cares and wants to hear you ask. Prayer should not be a me-centered list, but should lift up needs and burdens as you seek God’s will for your life. Philippians 4:6 says, “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.” In Matthew 6, Jesus addresses the contrast between lengthy, hypocritical, manpleasing babbling and genuine heartfelt prayers. He says to “...go into your inner room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret...” and ”...when you are praying do not use meaningless repetition...” What help can I get? There is no perfect formula, timing, or technique. Consciously plan to pray, setting goals. What helps you focus – lists, a specific time, a certain structure or order? For accountability, consider a prayer partner, prayer group, or being mentored or discipled. Try a prayer journal for writing out your prayers – and God’s answers. How can my prayers make a difference? Starting and concluding with worship, The Lord’s Prayer also emphasizes the priority of God’s kingdom. We should pray for the lost to come to Christ and the church to grow with the blessing of God’s truth in its rightful place. That is kingdom praying. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us not to be anxious “But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness.” Pursuing the things of God challenges and blesses. Prayer helps us through all hazards and hurdles to the finish line. God is at the beginning and end, helping you at every footfall, each uphill and downhill encountered. The Balm of Gilead will heal all wounds and the crown of righteousness awaits you. Jesus is our lifeline. We believers are not alone. Jesus says (John 8:3), “If you abide in my word, then you are truly disciples of mine; and you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” Hebrews 7:25 reminds us “...he is able to save forever those who draw near to God through Him since he always lives to make intercession for them.” The Holy Spirit interprets your prayers into elegant missives to heaven. Philippians 4:3 says, “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.” Praise God! We can even pray. Gracious Triune God, make us Prayer Warriors, passionate about prayer. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. Quotes: “Prayerlessness is often an index to our ignorance of God“ –D. A. Carson. Pray for: Christian Education Ministries; Erskine College & Seminary; ARP Magazine; Bonclarken. Day 3 – Plan, Petition, Perseverance, Promise Verse – “Evening, morning and noon I will pray” (Psalm 55:17). Catechism Q. 100 “What doth the preface of the Lord’s prayer teach us? A. The preface of the Lord’s prayer (which is, Our Father, which art in heaven) teacheth us to draw near to God with all holy reverence and confidence, as children to a father, able and ready to help us; and that we should pray with and for others.” Psalter – “But as for Me, I’ll Call on God” #55C “Answer When I Call” #4 Hymnbook – “Sweet Hour of Prayer” #398 “The Church’s One Foundation” #437 Hymnal – “May the Mind of Christ My Savior” #644 “Here, O My Lord, I See Thee Face to Face” #378 NOVEMBER 2011 11 Prayer eloquence is the language of the heart, not the vocabulary level or melodic quality of your voice. Abraham’s devotion, Hannah’s earnestness, Daniel’s love for God, Paul’s diligence, David’s heart, Jacob’s wrestling with God, Moses’ reliance on God and Elijah’s courage and passion are examples of genuineness in prayer, but so is a child’s simple plea to God. How does prayer communicate? As we learn to listen to God speak through His Word, guiding us through the Holy Spirit, we hear truth. Amazingly, in prayer the sovereign God of creation, timeless ruler of all existence, is listening to and communicating with us personally because He loves us. Psalm 62:8 tells us to pour out our hearts to Him, bringing our joys and sorrows to Him. Pray to God’s glory and according to God’s will. How do my prayers relate to God’s will? Prayer leads us initially to the forgiveness Christ offers in salvation and evolves as we genuinely seek His will in our lives. We should want God’s will and learn about it through preaching and teaching, earnestly praying for it to be fulfilled, seeking to be obedient to it. God is listening to us and we need to listen to Him through His Word, His servants, His creation. In Colossians 1:18 Paul prays for the filling “...of the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and understanding.” God made the universe from nothing. Mankind also made a contribution – sin. That is all we have to offer God. Be thankful that Jesus took our sin on Himself. Acknowledge your unworthiness of anything other than hell, telling God how thankful you are for the gift of eternal life with Him (John 5:24; 6:44, 47; 3:16, 36; 14:6). What does this mean in my life? God requires obedience. Trusting God is our confidence. We need not be anxious, but this does not preclude having an orderly plan (1 Corinthians 14:40) and setting biblical goals. The gift of salvation was costly, but it is also priceless. Praise God He has given it to us through Christ because He is our only hope as this is a debt we cannot pay. John 3:16-17 engraves it in our memories and hearts. How do I pray for others? Pray to God’s glory and according to God’s will and as Ephesians 6:18 tells us “With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints.” Can I really do this? Habits can be weights or they can be wings. Seek God’s glory letting His agenda dictate yours, making His desire your own, His will your purpose and His honor your goal. Make time with God a habit in your life, and make prayer a priority and a passion of praise. Aim to be like the healthy church in Acts 2:42 “... continually devoting themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.” It can start with us. Be sober-minded, obedient, alert and discerning insofar as you are able. Motives can become selfish and words are inadequate, but when we humble ourselves before God seeking His will and glory, He is blessed and hears the cry of our hearts as we kneel at the foot of the cross. May the Amen of our prayers be a coda of agreement with you, our loving Father in heaven, the ruler of the universe and gracious King who answers our prayers. Make us people of prayer. In Christ we pray, Amen. Quotes: “Our prayers must be fervent, of course, and they ought to be frequent, but they do not need to be fancy.” Philip Ryken Pray for: Missionaries, church planters, youth, children, elderly, & the military.? 12 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN A Devotion From Serenity Acres When We Finish Our Race... By Barbara Thayer never thought tombstones and memorials could tell a story, until our recent trip to Europe. We went to many cathedrals and visited an old graveyard beside a church. Instead of listing only a name and the dates of birth and death, these folks from long ago wrote about the person who was buried at the site. I The cemetery at the Church of the Holy Rood Stirling, Scotland The impressive memorials told of those who gave their lives for their beliefs. In the Cathedral of St. Giles in Edinburgh, Scotland, there was a tomb of a man who had served the king, but was ultimately beheaded for his Reformed faith. Other cathedrals had memorials to women who were listed not only as beloved wives but also as god-fearing women who died in the faith and touched other lives. What a beautiful tribute to a life, and I thought to myself how much I want that to be said of my life as well. When we finish this race, what will be our legacy? Obviously, the graves of those I observed had made it their NOVEMBER 2011 life’s ambition to live for Christ, and to this end we are all called. In his letter to the Corinthian church, the Apostle Paul uses an athletic metaphor to describe how we are to run with perseverance in our Christian life: “Do you not know that in a race all the runners compete, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others, I myself should be disqualified” (I Corinthians 9:24-27). Paul’s use of this metaphor is effective in that an athlete has to discipline himself/herself in order to reach their goal. It requires perseverance, singlemindedness and determination. Our mindset, if we are to make an impact on our world, is to look only at the goal of our high calling in Christ. With every activity we do, we need to remember our purpose is to glorify God in word and deed. The people whose graves I visited lived their lives in this manner. They made a difference in their sphere of influence, and the testimony is written in stone – literally. In his letter to Timothy, Paul further expands on this idea of focusing on the goal: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that Day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved His appearing” (2 Timothy 4:78). This is the testimony we need to strive for in our own lives. It’s not how we built our business, made the most money, had the biggest house on the block, or became a famous person. Instead, we are to reflect the character of Jesus Christ in our lives so that others might be drawn to Him. Key Elements We run our race well when we do not neglect three disciplines: fellowship, Bible study and prayer. These are the key training elements which we must embrace in order to face the challenges that come our way in life. Training for a race is not easy. No one said it would be. In fact, Jesus said we would face tribulations in this life, but He also told us to be of good cheer, because He has overcome this world. With the Holy Spirit as our trainer, we do have what it takes to live a legacy before our family, community and church. As we lift up our Lord before others, He will one day lift us up as well.? The tombs of a husband and wife in a chapel wing of the Church in Stratford on Avon 13 Give Thanks! 30 days of Gratitude for the Thanksgiving month of November! By Jennifer Jordan and family Materials: Wood board (although you can use just about any flat surface you want) Canvas (any color) Staple gun Mod Podge Glue gun Glue stick Variety of coordinating scrapbook paper Different colored thin ribbons (I used brown, green, yellow and orange) Light-colored Cardstock for writing your “thankful message” on. 30 Coin Envelopes. Mine were 3 3/8” x 6”. Hole punch Directions: • Get a wood board. Mine is a piece of plywood measuring 24” x 28”. Using a staple gun, attach the canvas to the piece of plywood. • Take your 30 coin envelopes and cut them down to 3 3/4” tall. Make sure you cut off the top part that is already open so you still have the pocket to insert your cards in later. • Use a glue stick to adhere the scrapbook paper to the front of the envelope. I used a variety of coordinating papers. • Lay out your cards on your board. I was able to do five rows of six cards each. I wanted to arrange them first so I could make sure no two matching papers were right next to each other. • I then used my Silhouette to cut out the numbers 1-30, but you could use stickers, stencils, create a Word Document or go online to find some printable numbers to cut out. • Use Mod Podge to glue on the numbers to the cards and then Mod Podge over the entire front of the card to cover your scrapbook paper. It makes the card sturdier and helps it to last for years to come. Be careful not to glue your envelope shut! • After your Mod Podge is dry, hole punch two small holes in the top of your envelope. Just hole punch the scrapbook paper side. Take your ribbon and put it through both holes and tie a knot. • Use your glue gun to adhere your envelopes to your board. This is where I tried a few different glues.....learn from my mistakes....the glue gun worked the best by far!!! I also recommend that you place the hot glue a little bit away from the edges of the envelope. This allows your cards to go in and out more easily in a later step. • Use Mod Podge to adhere your “Give Thanks” (or the phrase of your choosing) to the top of your board. I used my embroidery machine to create the words. Then, Mod Podge over the whole phrase. • Cut out light-colored cardstock to slide into your envelopes. Mine ended up being two light shades that I cut to 3” by 4 1/2”. Place them inside your envelopes. Each night in November at dinner time, I am going to pull the cardstock out on the appropriate day and have each person write or say what they are thankful for that day. When next year rolls around, I’m going to use the same cardstock and have them write on the back. For the following years, I’m just going to add some more cardstock in the envelopes. Stephen and Jennifer Jordan live in Muscle Shoals, AL. Stephen is currently seeking a call. Their children are Noah, 12, Elijah, 8, Elizabeth, 6 and Phoebe, 2. 14 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN As the leaves fall outside, take advantage of the many opportunities to involve your kids in ministry and outreach. 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(Ideas from onmission.com) Answers from October puzzle: Down 1. God 3. Three 5. Pray 7. Everything 9. Christ 10. Heaven Leaf Rake Party Adopt a family - for example, a single mother, elderly couple, couple with a newborn - in your neighborhood who need some yard work done and arrange a work day. Involve the kids. Break out the rakes and blowers and give the kids their own responsibilities, explaining why you’re doing this work. “We want to share the love of Christ with this family.” Show them by example how to share the gospel. Across 2. The Lords Prayer 4. Everywhere 6. Ten 8. Bible Thanksgiving games I’m Thankful Start with the youngest person in your group. That person says something they are thankful for, like “I’m thankful for mashed potatoes.” The next person repeats what the first person says, and add something of their own: I am thankful for mashed potatoes and a warm bed.” The next person repeats those two things and adds another: “I’m thankful for mashed potatoes, a warm bed and my cat.” Keep going until everyone has had a chance to add something or until someone messes up. Candy Corn Drop All you need are some small paper cups and a few bags of candy corn. First, give each player a paper cup filled with candy corns. Have players stand in a line with an empty paper cup between their feet. Holding a candy corn to their chin, they have to try to drop it into the cup by their feet. The person who drops the most corns into his or her cup in one minute wins! (Ideas from www.thebanner.org) Thankful Words Family Memory Verse Give everybody at your table a pencil and a piece of paper. Challenge them to see how many words they can make out of the letters in the words “Thanksgiving Day.” Words have to be longer than two letters, and no people names are allowed. Don’t forget that plurals count as separate words. Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever (Psalm 107:1). NOVEMBER 2011 If you or someone in your church has an idea for The Family Page please send your ideas to Susan Tanner at [email protected] or call 864-232-8297. 15 News in Brief David Sides, French Camp Church, Receive Laity Awards By Delores McDonald During the Laity in Action Conference Sept. 15 & 16 at Bonclarken, families gathered to hear Dr. John W. P. Oliver speak on the theme, “Valiant in Battle: Less Heralded Men of God.” Ann Marie Tribble from the Ora Church served as music leader with Harriet Linderman as pianist. Following Dr. Earl Linderman’s Friday night Psalm Sing, special music was provided by the Pinecrest Church Choir and Veronica Unda. A ladies trio from Reformation Church also sang. In special duet by Anne Marie & Kathryn Tribble. Kathryn signed the words. Missionary Updates Missionaries Rob & Rachel Turner from Turkey brought an update of their work. Missionary candidates Mark & Natasha Witte shared their testimony and spoke on their upcoming work in Mexico. Short-term Mission Coordinator Sheila Osborne provided instruction for the children in attendance. Following the Friday evening session, the ladies of the Sandy Plains Church hosted a reception in Founders Hall. John Lutz from the Pisgah Church was in his usual place as the sound tech guy. George From left, Turner family, Witte family and and Alita Moser served as conference registrars. Sheila Osbourne and daughter. Onesimus Award David Sides from the New Sterling Church, Stony Point, NC, was the recipient of this year’s Onesimus Award (Slave to Christ). Mr. Sides has been married to his wife Betty for over 55 years. He is an elder in the New Sterling Church. He has taught Sunday school and served as a lay preacher. He has served First Presbytery as moderator on three occasions and currently serves as reading clerk. Sides is also a former Moderator of the General Synod. For seven years, he worked for North Carolina Soil and Water Conservation and lived in Raleigh. A farmer and avid gardener, he is known throughout the region for his generosity in providing delicious produce to friends and neighbors. Barnabas Award The 2011 Barnabas Award was presented to the French Camp (MS) Church. Many know of French Camp and associate it with the boarding school on its campus. However, there is an active ARP congregation there too. Many from the congregation are greatly involved in ministering to the students at the school. They provide encouragement and mentoring and develop strong personal relationships David Sides and wife Betty. with the student body. In the past three years, there has been significant growth in the church. Attendance of local folks averages 120. When the school is in session, the students swell the congregation’s attendance with over a 100 more. Located in a rural setting, the congregation is making a great impact on the community around it. As the group from French Camp accepted the award, each told of the parts they play in the life of the church, elder Larry Littlejohn had this to say: “Each person here today has presented something of the diversity of opportunities which the Lord gives us there. Our anchor though is neither our rich heritage nor our bright future, which we anticipate. Our anchor is in the truth of the Word and the person of Jesus. “Since joining the ARP, we have been so blessed to find others of like heart and mind. We have been encouraged by your testimony and fellowship. Members of the Mississippi Valley Presbytery joined us in prayer and supported us with their presence when we requested a gracious release with our property from the PCUSA. “Now four years later, the French Camp Church continues to receive confirmation that we made the right decision in joining the ARP. We have experienced many blessing as a result of our union. One of the main ones is the emphasis on missions. Teams from our church went to Wales, Austria, Mexico, Dallas/Fort Worth, and New York this last year. “Thank you for recognizing what the Lord is doing in our church with this Barnabas Award. We invite you to come and see firsthand what He is doing to display His glory in French Camp.” Pastor Alex Coblentz, far left, French Camp Pastor Alex Coblentz adds: “We are still astounded and humbled to have received and group from French Camp. any recognition at all... It’s not about us! God has been so good to us, and it is we who have been tremendously encouraged by our new-found brothers and sisters in the ARP.? 16 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN News in Brief Betty Sides Receives Survivor Medal Betty and David Sides on their recent trip to Joslin Diabetes Center in Boston, where Mrs. Sides received the 75-year survivor medal. Since the program began in 1970, only 41 medals had been awarded to individuals who have survived 75 years or more with type 1 diabetes. Mrs. Sides was the 42nd recipient, and traveled from Stony Point, NC to receive the award. During her trip to Joslin, she also participated in the “50-Year Medalist Study,” which began in 2005. The study is looking at how individuals with 50 or more years of type 1 diabetes may be protected from developing diabetic complications including eye, kidney, nerve and heart diseases.? Mississippi Valley Presbytery Fall Stated Meeting, October 3-4, 2011 Providence Reformed Church Bartlett, TN Tennessee-Alabama Presbytery Fall Stated Meeting, Sept. 17-18, 2011 Hanmaum ARP Mission Madison, AL • Heard from Rev. Frank van Dalen, about the work of ARP missions throughout the world. • Heard from Dr. David Norman about the work of Erskine College and Seminary • Elected Mr. Larry Littlejohn, an elder at the French Camp Presbyterian Church, as the incoming Moderator of MVP. • Heard a sermon by Rev. Matthew Heathman on 2 Samuel 7:18-20. Rev. Heathman was also examined by the presbytery and received a call to the Covington ARP Church (Covington, TN). • Heard a report from the Minister and His Work Committee concerning the formation of a church in the home of a minister of the presbytery without the permission of the presbytery. The minister repented of his error and asked the forgiveness of the presbytery, which was granted. • Received Rev. Mike Yarman, a retired U.S. Army chaplain, as a member of the presbytery. • Dissolved the pastoral relationship between Rev. T.J. Gentry and the Covenant Reformed Presbyterian Church. • Revised the procedure for churches requesting loans for purchase of property from the presbytery.? • Held a workshop for members conducted by Steve Brown of the PCA. • Heard a report from the Muscle Shoals Property Commission regarding progress in negotiation for the potential sale of the property in Muscle Shoals, AL. • Approved a motion to reserve funds from the sale of the Muscle Shoals property for use in new church development. • Approved a Memorial to the 2012 General Synod to refer the “Revised Form of Government Draft 2011” back to the committee of Synod for further work and to extend the time for consideration before sending to Presbytery for ratification. • Allowed C. F. Edgar to resign from Presbytery’s Christian Education Committee. • Named J. Gregory Duke Presbytery’s representative to the Synod Board of Christian Education Ministries until 2016, and to chair the corresponding committee of Presbytery. • Named Charles W. Bradley as Presbytery’s representative to the Executive Board of Synod until 2016. • Approved a motion that Presbytery continue supporting the Hanmaum and Riverside Missions at current levels for one year. • Directed the Outreach Tennessee Alabama Committee to identify two locations for potential church planting efforts and to report the same at the Spring Stated Meeting 2012. • Directed the Christian Education Meeting to plan another workshop to be held in conjunctionwith a stated meeting of Presbytery. • Accepted the invitation from the Riverside ARP Mission to host Spring Stated Meeting for 2013.? Peachtree Corners Helps Stop Hunger On Sept. 17, members of the Peachtree Corners ARP Church joined the fight to “Stop Hunger Now” by packaging over 10,000 meals which will be distributed through school feeding programs and orphanages in impoverished areas around the world. Each highly nutritious, dehydrated meal package serves six people and is easily transported, stored for up to five years and distributed to those in greatest need. ARP minister, Jeff Lewis, helps distribute these and other types of necessities to the people of Haiti.? NOVEMBER 2011 Charles Bradley, Stated Clerk Tennessee-Alabama Presbytery 17 News in Brief Providence Celebrates 175th Anniversary New ministers and new employees attended a 2-day ARP Synod orientation program Sept. 26 & 27 at the ARP Center in Greenville, SC. Front row (left to right): Soon Jeong Hwang, John Lim, Young Bong Choe, Suk Ho Jin, Jen Rolison, Joseph Rolison; Second row (left to right): Shadrach Chung, Sam Hoi Jung, Man Soon Park, Melissa Livingston, Cliff Smith, Tobe Frierson, Myeong-Jin Hwang, Stephen Frey; Back Row (Left to right): Mario Russo, Derek Thomas, David Earle, Jason Allen, Trey McCurry, David Park, Judi Hodges; Not pictured: Barney & Tricia Heyward, Brandon Barrett, Scott Robar, Paul & Mary Robelot, Derek Thomas. Prosperity Celebrates 189 Years On September 11, Prosperity, the oldest Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church in Alabama, celebrated its 189th anniversary. Neighbors from the other churches in the Marion Junction community, and ARPs from Camden and Bethel ARP congregations, came together for worship and a bountiful meal. Coinciding with the national observance of 9/11, Rev. Rabun Williams’ sermon emphasized that as Christians, we look back on what God has done and build on it as we look forward with hope to the Second Coming. Between the final Psalm (Prosperity sings exclusively the Bible Songs) and benediction, a moment of silence for those lost in the war on terrorism was observed. Founded in 1822, just three years after Alabama became a state, Prosperity is in a yoked pastorate with Camden and Bethel, and has services on the 2nd Sunday of each month.? Providence ARP Church in Clinton, SC, began its 175th Anniversary celebration on Sept. 11, 2011, to the sweet sound of bagpipes playing Amazing Grace. Bagpiper David McLeod is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Daryl McLeod of Greenwood, and great grandson of the late Mr. and Mrs. Lowry Wilson – longtime members of Providence. Special music was also presented by seventh generation members Joseph Stewart and Anna Wages. Former Erskine President Dr. Randy Ruble was guest minister. Jamey Dagenhart has served as student supply for the past year. Following the worship service, more than 100 members, former members, and guests enjoyed a catered lunch and fellowship. Guests were invited to participate in a Psalm sing and go to the historic Providence Cemetery, the site of the first church building erected in 1836 and located just outside of Clinton. In commemoration of this historic day, former member and family historian Jane Todd Presseau compiled and edited a first supplement to the 1977 History of Providence ARP Church by James P. Sloan. The history includes pastors in ministry since 1977, church officers, baptisms, marriages, deaths, new members and loss of members. A pictorial directory and tributes to several deceased members are also included. Also for this special year, Bob Wages of Atlanta designed a commemorative logo, displayed on an outside banner and used on bulletin covers.? Oldest & Youngest Retired Col. Walter B. Todd, Sr. 95, and Allie Wages, 14 months, held by Ruth Todd Shealy. Rev. Rabun Williams (center) is our interim pastor. Prosperity’s elders are Bernard Sanderson (left) and Tom Moore (right). Dr. Nolon Carter is greeted by Dr. Randy Ruble after the service. 18 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN November Prayer Calendar Synod’s Committee on Worship has authorized this calendar for use in private devotions and family altars throughout the denomination. Scripture readings, memory verses and Westminster Shorter Catechism questions correspond with those used in the Adult Quarterly Sunday School curriculum published by Christian Education Ministries. In support of the ARP denomination, we ask that you include the churches and individuals listed below in your daily prayers. WEEK ONE MEMORY VERSE Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them (Matthew 5:17). SHORTER CATECHISM Q.56. What is the reason annexed to the third commandment? A. The reason annexed to the third commandment is, That however the breakers of this commandment may escape punishment from men, yet the Lord our God will not suffer them to escape his righteous judgment. 1 2 3 4 5 6 Psalm 32:1-5. Sherwood Forest ARP Church, Columbia, SC: Mark Hering, student supply. Chaplain Lawrence Hamrick, Jr., Fort Campbell, KY, army. James 5:13-18. Statesville Korean ARP Church, Statesville, NC: Rev. Song Choi, pastor. Luke 6:37-42. Wellspring Presbyterian Church, Daleville, VA: Rev. David Blugerman, pastor. Matthew 18:21-35. SonLife Church, Jacksonville, FL: Rev. Robert Hovey, mission developer. Luke 7:40-47. Sandy Plains ARP Church, Tryon, NC: Rev. James Mitchell, pastor. Matthew 5:17-26. Retired missionaries: Imogene Covone, Gold Gate, FL; Kathy Warner, Flat Rock, NC, on their birthdays. WEEK TWO MEMORY VERSE Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect (Matthew 5:48). SHORTER CATECHISM Q.57. Which is the fourth commandment? A. The fourth commandment is, Remember the sabbath-day, to keep it holy. Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work: but the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord they God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maid-servant nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates: for in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that NOVEMBER 2011 in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the Lord blessed the sabbathday and hallowed it. 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 Matthew 22:34-40. Shepherd Road Presbyterian Church, Lakeland, FL: Rev. Kent Adrian, pastor. Deuteronomy 6:1-9. First ARP Church, Statesville, NC: Charles Rickert, clerk of session. Leviticus 19:13-18. Messiah Christian Fellowship, Asheville, NC: Rev. John Spence, pastor. Leviticus 19:33-37. First Presbyterian Church, Tucker, GA: Rev. Anthony Locke, pastor. Ephesians 5:25-33.Travelers Rest ARP Mission, Travelers Rest, SC: Rev. William L. Barron, mission developer. Titus 2:1-5. Progressive Presbyterian Church, Princeton, NC: Rev. Percy Coleman, pastor. Matthew 5:43-48. Shiloh ARP Church, Lancaster, SC: Rev. Mark J. Miller, pastor. WEEK THREE MEMORY VERSE But when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full (Matthew 6:5). SHORTER CATECHISM Q.58. What is required in the fourth commandment? A. The fourth commandment requireth the keeping holy to God such set times as he hath appointed in his word; expressly one whole day in seven, to be a holy sabbath to himself. 14 15 16 Genesis 32:6-12. Troy ARP Church, Troy, SC: Rev. John Paul Marr, pastor. Numbers 14:13-19. Prosperity ARP Church, Marion Junction, AL: Rev. Rabun Williams, supply. 2 Samuel 7:18-29. Retired minister’s widow: Martha Morris, Pottsville, AR; Retired minister: Dr. C.M. Coffey, Davidson, NC, on their birthdays. 17 18 19 20 1 Kings 17:17-23. Pressly Memorial ARP Church, Statesville, NC: Rev. Stephen Myers, pastor. Isaiah 12. Providence Reformed Presbyterian Church, Memphis, TN: Rev. Joseph Donahue, pastor. Jeremiah 29:10-14. Retired minister: Dr. L.M. Allison, Due West, SC, on his birthday. Matthew 6:5-15. Reformation Presbyterian Church, Hendersonville, NC: Rev. Matthew G. Lucas, pastor. New Windsor ARP Church, New Windsor, MD: Rev. Paul Matthews, pastor. WEEK FOUR MEMORY VERSE But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness and all these things will be given to you as well (Matthew 6:33). SHORTER CATECHISM Q.59. Which day of the seven hath God appointed to be the weekly sabbath? A. From the beginning of the world to the resurrection of Christ, God appointed the seventh day of the week to be the weekly sabbath; and the first day of the week ever since, to continue to the end of the world, which is the Christian sabbath. 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 Psalm 37:1-8. Grace Hill ARP Church, Hillsborough, NC: Rev. Ross H. Durham, mission developer; Rev. Stephen Crotts, associate pastor. Matthew 13:18-23. Providence ARP Church, Gastonia, NC: Rev. Gilbert Rowell, pastor. Luke 21:29-36. Retired ministers: Dr. Douglas O. Jones, Flat Rock, NC, pulpit supply Pinecrest ARP Church, Hendersonville, NC; Rev. R. Lionel Morgan, Huntersville, NC, on their birthdays. Matthew 10:24-31. Unity ARP Church, Piedmont, SC: Rev. Mark Wright, pastor. Matthew 10:16-20. Retired minister: Rev. Bob E. Murdock, Sr., Rock Hill, SC, on his birthday. 1 Peter 5:6-11. Smyrna ARP Church, Smyrna, SC: Ken VanVoorhis, clerk of session. Matthew 6:25-34. Thomson Presbyterian Church, Thomson, GA: Rev. John D. Cook, pastor. 19 WEEK FIVE MEMORY VERSE Before him all the nations are as nothing; they are regarded by him as worthless and less than nothing (Isaiah 40:17). SHORTER CATECHISM Q.60. How is the sabbath to be sanctified? A. The sabbath is to be sanctified by a holy resting all that day, even from such worldly employments and recreations as are lawful on other days; and spending the whole time in the public and private exercises of God’s worship, except so much as is to be taken up in the works of necessity and mercy. 1 2-3 3-4 4-6 6 8 9-10 11 11-13 14-15 19 21-25 23-27 24 24-25 27 28 29 30 Psalm 139:1-6, 13-16, 23-24. Retired missionary: Dr. E. Reynolds Young, Due West, SC, on his birthday. Deuteronomy 5:22-27.Lifeline Community Church, Gibsonia, PA: Richard Doorley, clerk of session. 1 Chronicles 16:28-34. Hanha Presbyterian Church, Gardena, CA: Rev. Sung Ku Kim, pastor; Rev. Kye Jong Chung, associate pastor. * denotes mission church. Lessons and/or Readings based on International Sunday School Lessons. The International Bible Lessons for Christian Teaching, copyright © 2001 by the Committee on the Uniform Series. November Events New Church Community (NCC) Meeting (ONA) Minister & His Work Meeting, 6 p.m., Bonclarken Board of Benefits Meeting, 2 p.m. Orientation, 3 p.m. meeting, Bonclarken Catawba Presbytery Middle School Retreat, Bonclarken Daylight Savings Time Ends Investment Committee, Conference Call, 2 p.m. Dunlap Board, 3 p.m., Bonclarken Remembrance Day (Canada); Veterans Day (US) First and Second Presbyteries Middle School Retreat, Bonclarken ONA Board Meeting Erskine Homecoming Thanksgiving Break, Erskine Seminary Thanksgiving Break, Erskine College Thanksgiving Day (US) ARP Center Offices closed, Thanksgiving Holidays First Sunday of Advent 110 Calvary Home Circle, Anderson, SC 29621 864-296-5437 www.calvaryhome.org “Providing help and hope to children in need through the power of Christ” 20 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN By Chip Sherer PRESIDENT “Faith Apartments were so named because they were just that – a venture in faith.” - Jim Brice I always appreciate the feedback from my monthly articles and am so encouraged by the comments, letters, and emails that we receive. The articles which seem to generate the most response are the articles that focus on the history of a particular building or facility. This month I focus on a very popular housing facility here at Bonclarken – Faith Apartments. Jim Brice served as Bonclarken’s executive director from 1988 to 2006. Jim has told me bits of the story of how Faith Apartments came into being, but I recently asked him to give me the whole story. If you have ever spent a night, weekend, or week in Faith Apartments, you know them to be very efficient and comfortable. How these apartments came into Bonclarken’s possession is another example of God’s providence. In late February 1991, Founders Hall was almost complete. The goal of having Founders open for Synod in June 1991 was on schedule and this new housing facility was clearly going to be a fine addition to Bonclarken. “We were so focused on finishing Founders that the idea of adding another housing facility was the last thing on our minds,” Brice said. “But God had other plans for us. Ed Cox, a member of the Peachtree Corners Church and a retired engineer, was serving as Bonclarken’s representative with Sherman Construction in the NOVEMBER 2011 building of Founders. Ed had just recently completed his own Bonclarken house on Dirk Lane. “Ed received a call from the contractor who had built his Bonclarken house. The contractor had a contact with American Standard Buildings (ASB), who had just finished a modular set of six apartment buildings for a client in Myrtle Beach. The client had gone out of business and now ASB was stuck with these apartments... and they were willing to sell for half the original price. Would Bonclarken be interested?” (A story has circulated that these apartments were already on their way to Myrtle Beach when ASB found out their client was out of business, but Jim could not verify this interesting twist.) “On March 4, 1991, I proposed to the Bonclarken Board’s Executive Committee that we buy these apartments. We anticipated the total cost (including furnishings and site preparation) to be around $300,000, all of which would have to be borrowed. The Executive Committee was confident we could handle the debt and agreed to recommend it to the full Board. During a conference call on March 7, the full Board approved. “To say this decision was a venture in faith was an understatement. I so appreciated the Board’s willingness to step out in faith so that Faith Apartments could become a reality. And not only did we have Founders Hall ready by Synod, we had Faith Apartments ready as well.” I appreciate Jim’s recollection of this fine story. Was this rapid action taken by the Bonclarken Board justified? Twenty years later, Faith Apartments continue to be one of our most popular housing facilities. The Board’s venture in faith in 1991 continues to be a blessing to Bonclarken today.? Bonclarken’s Faith Apartments 21 Bonclarken A Venture in Faith Christian Education Ministries Christian Education Ministries would like to recommend the following book as an invaluable tool to help in studying our basic resource, the Bible. We feel it would benefit every church to have this resource available and to encourage groups to study it. The review is written by Jane Patete, Christian Education Publication’s Women’s Ministry Consultant. BIBLE STUDY FOLLOWING THE WAYS OF THE WORD by Kathleen Buswell Nielson Available from CEM - $11.00. “Bible study...everybody’s doing it! In the most inventive contexts around the globe, this vital activity is taking place. Yet “Bible study” means different things to different people. Kathleen Nielson, known to many through her conference speaking and as author of The Living Word Bible Study series, has brought her extensive expertise and literary gifts to present us with a clear perspective on the Bible and what it means to study it. Dr. Nielson asks the penetrating question, “Just what is Bible study?” Is it possible to pinpoint a flexible cluster of characteristics that must be present for Bible study to be identifiable and effective? The Church, Authority, and Word are identified as three perceptions we follow throughout the book. “It is God’s Word that teaches us how the church, the body of Christ, must be fully equipped for the mission of making disciples in these last days. That equipping happens through the Word. It is God’s Word that teaches his authoritative and loving rule, through his commands that must be obeyed. It is God’s Word that is living and active, sharper than any two edged sword” (Hebrews 4:12). With this right starting point, Kathleen Nielson guides us in the next nine chapters, through a series of five truths about God and His Word that have huge implications for how we personally study, teach, and train others in faithful and true Bible study. As we follow the ways of the Word, the reader is shown that the Bible is God speaking. It’s powerful; understandable; a literary work; and one story. Attention: All laypeople and church leaders who delight in the truth and power of God’s Word! This is a resource that has multiple applications within the church of Jesus Christ. Solid biblical truths that offer great challenges and promises of the place of Bible study in individual lives and in the corporate ministry of the church are fleshed out with clarity and passion. This equipping tool should be in the hands of men and women who hunger and thirst for the Word of God in their own lives and who desire to faithfully pass on its truths to succeeding generations. This book offers the reader a clear approach for understanding and valuing what true Bible study is.? 22 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN DUE WEST, S.C. — “Each one of us is a tangled web of life experiences, hopes, dreams, fears, and passions,” Erskine College and Seminary President Dr. David Norman told assembled students, professors, staff members and guests at the school’s Formal Opening Convocation Sept. 8. “But God has called us to be here, right now, together.” Norman spoke during the worship service in the Due West Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church. Alluding to Erskine’s mission “to equip students to flourish,” Norman said rhetoric about human flourishing is usually “happy and optimistic” but “can sound a bit fluffy,” so he took as his topic “The Other Side of Human Flourishing.” The president said he believes he did get one thing right in his first formal opening address last year—“If we try to be a community that exists for its own sake, we are wasting our time.” Last year Norman laid out his vision for Erskine, focusing on academic integrity, financial sustainability, and service to the poor. This year, spotlighting the element of service, he said academic communities “try to offset their elitist tendencies” by using a system of service to run alongside the academic program. But even in such well-intentioned efforts, real service to the poor is often replaced by “a self-righteous system of résumé building” or “some shallow form of charity that dehumanizes the poor by putting a thin whitewash over the tomb of injustice,” the president said. Task Force Commissioned “And that is why, although I talk about service to the poor a lot, I haven’t rushed off to start some new program or system of quick fixes to long-term problems,” he said. Instead, a task force commissioned by the president will offer proposals based on “their year of listening and learning,” he said. “I believe that together, if we are smart about it, we can authentically NOVEMBER 2011 address some of the bad things we see around us.” Norman recounted the story of a wealthy friend who began to understand service to the poor in light of Jesus’ call to “take up your cross.” His comfortable life was no longer enough. “He began to see a whole new dimension of Christ’s deep, authentic, and crazy kind of love.” Considering how his friend’s lesson might be applied to Erskine as an “authentically Christian liberal arts community,” Norman said his three-word response would be “I don’t know,” summarizing about 90 percent of the answer. “I’m not giving up on an answer,” he explained. “I really think that ‘I don’t know’ is the answer. If we can’t admit that we don’t know, we can never learn anything. And if we think we have it all figured out, we are stuck up in our irrelevant ivory tower again. This is an intellectual aspect of service to the poor.” Identify With Poor Then Norman homed in on his message. “Here is the really, really beautiful thing about the other side of human flourishing: when we identify ourselves with the poor, we join the community that most urgently seeks God’s blessing,” he said. “And whether that community of seekers is defined in spiritual, physical or intellectual terms, we recognize our utter dependence on God and on each other,” he continued. Such a community is blessed by a whole new dimension of love—“that crazy kind” that Norman’s wealthy friend discovered. Taking up the pulpit Bible, Norman read the account in Luke 18 of “the rich young ruler” who is seeking eternal life and says he has kept all the commandments since his youth. Jesus tells him, “... sell all that thou hast, and distribute unto the poor, and thou shalt have treasure in heaven: and come, follow me.” Jesus’ response to the man’s unwillingness to give up his possessions is his famous description of how difficult it is for a rich man to enter heaven—“it is easier for a camel to go through a needle’s eye.” Norman said the passage that immediately precedes the story of the rich young man—“Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child shall in no wise enter therein”— represents the overall principle the story illustrates. “That is the message I really want to leave you with today,” Norman said, speaking especially to students. “Don’t get too uptight! Have faith. Don’t worry. Don’t try to prove yourself. Have fun. Enjoy God. Enjoy each other.” He added, “Take advantage of the good things God is doing in, around and through Erskine. And don’t worry about the bad stuff. That’s my job!” Moving toward the conclusion of his address, the president said there is a line from the epic poem Idylls of the King by Alfred, Lord Tennyson that “goes along with this theme of the joy that comes through childlike humility.” The line, etched on one of the walls of Erskine’s McCain Library, is: “Live pure, speak true, right wrong, follow the King. Else, wherefore born?”? Norman speaks during Formal Opening Convocation at Due West ARP Church. 23 Erskine Erskine community marks new academic year Outreach North America Is God Calling You to Grow and Change? DR. ALAN J. AVERA Executive Director I n our From the Field article this month, Brandon Barrett tells us about how a phone call from an old friend became the conduit for a new call from God. These kinds of calls do not neces- Grace Presbyterian– By Rev. Brandon Barrett A year ago I answered the phone and heard the voice of an old friend. Ten years earlier we had been together, along with our wives, in a church small group in Chapel Hill, NC. They were calling to see if I might be interested in moving to Columbia, SC, where they now lived, to plant a new church. I almost laughed. My wife Liz grew up in Charlotte, NC, where they refer to Columbia as “the armpit of the South.” We had never seriously considered church planting. I was serving as the senior pastor of a PCA church in Williamsburg, VA – a beautiful town that had never been called the armpit of anything. As my friend and I talked, Liz The Barrett family 24 sarily come just when we are looking for a change. Sometimes God knows we need to grow and stretch in precisely the ways we had not been seeking to grow and stretch. Sometimes God has been preparing us for exactly the kind of challenge that only He knew we soon would be called to face. From my own experience as a church planter over 20 years ago, I can tell my readers that church planting is not easy. In fact, it is the most difficult thing I have ever done. Though difficult, church planting also has been the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I grew through the challenges of church planting in ways I could never have anticipated. How is God calling you to grow and change? If you are a pastor or seminary student, is God calling you to the challenging task of multiplying disciples through planting new churches? If you are comfortable in your pew each Sunday, is there some way God is calling you to be more active in serving your church or your community? Perhaps God is even calling you to help in one of our new congregations.? looked at me from across the kitchen and reminded me to at least talk and pray about it before saying no. That night we had a call from a friend – and the beginning of a new call from God. Over the next year, we walked through the process of thinking, praying, and interviewing to be the mission developer for Grace Presbyterian Church in Northeast Columbia. Through these months, we often thought of closing the door and staying put in Virginia, but at each point we simply felt that God had us in the process for a reason and that whatever the outcome would be, we were to trust Him and His timing. With each visit to Columbia, we found something strange happening to us – we were feeling that Columbia was our home. Called to Serve Through the process, God made it clear that He was calling us to Columbia to help start this church. Since moving to Columbia in June, we have been at First Presbyterian Columbia, the sponsoring church of this Catawba Presbytery plant. I have been teaching a Sunday School class, getting to know people, and sharing the vision for this new church that God is creating. God is faithful. Just as He called us here, He is calling others to be a part of this church. Recently, we started meeting as a Launch Team: 28 adults and 22 children. We will be working together to get to know people in Northeast Columbia, learning how to be a church together, and growing as a team in the mission and vision to which we have been called. We have a lot to learn about how to reach this part of our city, but there are a few things we do know: God has called us to be a church committed to reaching the lost and unchurched and de-churched. We want to be, in the words of another pastor, “sinner-safe” – a church that welcomes sinners and graciously offers them the words of life. We want God’s grace toward us to make us gracious towards others. And we want to live daily in the reality that Christians are people who have been called into a mission by God – a mission to be his witnesses wherever we are, making disciples of all nations, to the glory of God. We hope to begin public services on Palm Sunday, but we know that we have to take our time, get to know our city, and love our neighbors. We will not open our doors until we actually know the people we hope to reach and are ready to invite them into this community of God’s people. Liz and I are finding Columbia to be beautiful in ways we had not expected. We have been warmly and graciously received here. We are making good friends, seeing God’s provision at every step, and growing in our heart to see God’s mission go forward here, in Columbia, our new home.? THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN BE CAREFUL WHEN YOU VOLUNTEER OTHERS FOR MISSIONS By Alex and Jamie Pettett United States – As you may know, we served in Israel with World Witness from 2006-2009. In 2009, Israel refused to renew our visas. For the last several years, the government branch in charge of the long-term visas has been intentionally weeding out missionaries and Christian workers in Israel. The Israeli government told us we had to take a leave for six months from Israel in order to renew our long-term visa. While stateside, I was honored to represent World Witness at the Third International Congress on World Evangelism in Cape Town, South Africa. The Congress challenged us to volunteer our respective agencies and churches to reach the 600 or so yet unengaged people groups in the world. An unengaged people group is one that is unreached (i.e. less than 2% of the group are evangelical) and has no missionaries trying to reach it. In southeastern Turkey, I noticed a group of Arabs speaking a dialect of Arabic called ���Just be ������� on Sunday � “Northern Mesopotamian.” I remembered that Eric and Laurie Meberg were living in that area and may have encountered this group. So, like a good American, I volunteered the Mebergs to “go get ‘em.” A few months after returning from Cape Town, the Israeli government issued us a final notice stating they would not allow us to obtain a long-term visa. We felt the Lord gently and yet with great finality, telling us to move on. We grieved at the closing of this door and occasionally still feel pangs of loss. Regardless, the Lord has given us new joy and direction. He has called us to face our convictions of reaching the unreached and unengaged. And it is by God’s good grace that He is sending us to the very area I volunteered World Witness to reach almost one year ago, southeastern Turkey. Where non-believers may see ironic justice, we see perfect providence. In October, we joined the Mebergs in Mardin to spread seed among the unreached and unengaged of southeastern Turkey.? Enjoy The ARP Psalter with Bible Songs through the week! Crown & Covenant Publications offers companion products for The ARP Psalter and much more. Recordings • online helps • personalized gift edition • large print and songleaders edition • embossing. Ask about our 50% discount on bulk orders. JOHN DOE NOVEMBER 2011 John Doe 412-241-0436 • crownandcovenant.com 25 World Witness A NEW FIE L D O F S E RV IC E . . . ARP Women’s Ministries TEACHABLE MOMENTS ELAINE REED President Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the door frames of your houses and on your gates (Deuteronomy 6:5-9). I n Deuteronomy Chapter 5, Moses gathers the children of Israel and restates the Ten Commandments for all to hear. As the text continues into Chapter 6, the Israelites are challenged to incorporate God’s laws and precepts daily into their lives. Parents are to teach their children the knowledge of God’s will; demonstrating these instructions are for all generations. Even today, parents should take advantage of opportunities to teach their children about God and His desire for their lives. Recently, I was reminded of these verses as a friend shared a story about her son. The boy had been playing with a toy he had made with the help of his dad. When she entered the room, she found her son surrounded by Styrofoam pieces scattered across the carpet. Imagine the look of disappointment that must have been 26 on her face. Immediately, the young boy realized his actions were wrong and he sought the forgiveness of his mother. As part of his discipline, the boy vacuumed up the Styrofoam. Once the living room was restored to its original condition, the boy picked up his toy to resume playing. As he looked at his toy, he realized it was now disfigured and had been damaged forever. He was consumed with guilt and remorse. Repeatedly the mother attempted to console him. She gently brushed away his tears and provided reassuring hugs, but nothing could change what had happened, nor could it remove this overwhelming feeling of remorse. Lessons Learned I wonder how God will use this teachable moment as he grows up. Will he find himself using this experience to help a fellow Christian through a difficult time? After hearing this story, I recalled several situations God used to teach me greater lessons. Some took place when I was a child, like the time I dropped my baton on my kitten’s head—literally knocking it senseless. Others occurred as an adult, such as hurting someone’s feelings without realizing it. As Christians, the Holy Spirit lives within us. Like a parent, the Spirit comforts us in our hour of need. When we are grieved so deeply we can not find the words to utter, the Spirit intercedes on our behalf (Romans 8:2627). He stirs our conscience when we sin. He is our Advocate, teaching us all things and reminding us what has been revealed in scripture (John 14). At the point of our effectual calling, the Spirit united us to Christ by faith (Westminster Shorter Catechism 30). It is the same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead, who now lives within those that profess Christ as their Savior (Romans 8:11). Think of the power available to us to resist sin if we would only submit to God’s will. Is Christianity simply a lifestyle for Sunday or is it deeper and more meaningful to our lives? Question one of the Westminster Shorter Catechism states it is the chief end of man “to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.” The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines forever as a limitless amount of time. Paul provides a snapshot of this concept in 1 Corinthians 10:31— “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” When I fail to glorify God by my actions, is my heart pricked with guilt and remorse like the boy felt when he realized his toy was damaged forever? I am afraid not often enough. As we celebrate Thanksgiving, may we remember to praise God for the teachable moments He has used to mold our lives.? Volunteers Needed The 100th Annual Meeting of ARP Women’s Ministries will be held in 2014. Volunteers are needed to plan this special event. If you are interested in sharing your gifts in support of planning this event please contact Elaine Reed [email protected] or 843-572-6427. THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN ELIZABETH M. BURNS Coordinator G ive me a moment to explain! Recently I was introduced to a great idea for reaching out to neighbors: “Tie One On Day.” This is the brainchild of EllynAnne Geisel, whose website (www.apronmemories.com) has loads of fun facts and history about aprons. Geisel’s love of aprons and joy of Thanksgiving led her to the idea of reaching out to a neighbor in need. From her website she says, “Four years ago I noticed that Thanksgiving was talked about in terms more commonly associated with stress than joy. I remembered my mother ’s absolute love of Thanksgiving as a day more than anything else of sharing and gratefulness. So I created National Tie One On Day as an annual opportunity to “give” to Thanksgiving by sharing our good fortune with someone in need of a kind gesture.” The basic idea is simple and requires only two aprons, a loaf of bread (or other baked good), and a note card. You put on one apron, lay the other apron on a table and place the loaf of bread in the center. Write a short note of encouragement or Scripture; place it in the pocket of the apron, wrap the apron up neatly and tie it, if possible. Then, with your apron on, walk out your front door to the front door of the neighbor you have chosen to receive the apron. NOVEMBER 2011 Knock on the door, give them the gift, say a prayer with them, if appropriate, and off you go. The idea from the website is to do this on the day before Thanksgiving, which this year would be Wednesday, Nov. 23. I don’t know how to make breaking the ice with someone any easier than this! The opportunities to use this, I believe, are endless and don’t have to be confined just to the day before Thanksgiving. I thought of so many other times you could use this idea: any holiday of choice; birthdays; anniversaries; illness; death; new baby; new neighbor; or, just because. Now that you’ve met your neighbor(s), it makes it a bit easier to speak to them on the street and to approach them again to invite them in for tea or a cool drink. I particularly appreciate the idea of putting on your own apron as you do this. Now before you think aprons are too old fashioned, let me assure you they are not. In fact, aprons are very much in vogue right now. Just go on your computer and search the word “apron,” and you will pull up an avalanche of websites devoted to aprons – showing them to be very much in demand. God’s Servant But the main reason I appreciate the apron is because it reminds me that I am a servant – God’s servant; a servant to the King. As a servant, I’m to do the King’s bidding for His sake, not mine, thus relieving my “fear” of approaching the unknown and of being rejected or ridiculed. I’m sure many of you have been challenged by our Moderator, Andy Putnam, through our focus this year, “The Free Offer of the Gospel.” Like me, maybe you’ve been wondering just how you might take up this challenge for the sake of Christ and His Gospel. I believe God has provided a wonderful way for women to go boldly forth with Scripture notes and prayers of blessing to serve and share the Bread of Life with those around us who are lost and hurting and hopeless. If you are interested in this for your women’s ministries, just go to the website listed above and you will find everything you need to get started. Although this is a secular website, this idea can be fully wrapped and infused with Christ and the Gospel. One of the churches in my area which is involved in this ministry has set aside two Saturdays before Thanksgiving to present ideas on different types of aprons to use; how to sew your own apron; how to tailor the apron’s contents for specific needs, which could be used any time during the year; suggested Scriptures; recipes for different kinds of breads and appropriate baked goods – along with tips and coaching for those not quite sure what to say when they first knock on someone’s front door; and even some ideas on how to follow up with that neighbor. I thank God for this timely idea and for the opportunity to serve others on behalf of our King Jesus. So join me, won’t you? Together, let’s Tie One On for the Gospel!? PLEASE MAKE A NOTE: NEW EMAIL ADDRESS FOR THE COORDINATOR: [email protected]. 27 ARP Women’s Ministries TIE ONE ON FOR THE GOSPEL! All In Our Family By Sharon Griffin Personal Mention BETHANY (SC): Louise Biggers turned 90 20. on Sept. 10. Hogue, Aug. 20. CRAIG AVE. TABERNACLE (NC): CRAIG AVE. TABERNACLE (NC): Bob & FRENCH CAMP (MS): Jenn Barlow & Ja- Armstrong, 85, died July 28. Norma Owens celebrated their 60th wed- son Geiser, Sept. 2. ding anniversary Sept. 2. FROSTPROOF (FL): George Jackson, 66, UNITY (Lancaster, SC): Noelle Marie Marsh deacon, died Aug. 14. Frances “Sweet- EBENEZER (SC): Rev. & Mrs. Charles & Brenner Jackson Hartley, Sept. 10. mama” Griffin Mulcay, 96, Sunday school (Mary Alice) Mitchell celebrated their 62nd Kelly Marie Brooks & Ricky Lee Births FAYETTEVILLE (TN): AVON PARK (FL): Matt & Dena Soto, a celebrated her 80th birthday Aug. 25, Alise Austin, her 90th on Sept. 13, and Martha Henry, her 80th on Sept. 14. GASTONIA FIRST (NC): Mary Rose & Tom Campbell celebrated 54 years of marriage Sept. 14. GREENWOOD (SC): Phillips & Elsie Tinkler marked 64 years of marriage on Aug. 30. PISGAH (NC): Ed Carson recently completed 50 years of perfect attendance at Sunday School. Bill Whitesides recently celebrated his 80th birthday. Matt Faulkner was selected Most Valuable Player for JV Baseball at Hunter Huss High School. RICHLAND (TN): Pat & Ruth Billingsley celebrated 52 years of marriage Sept. 5. SEBRING (FL): Seniors who recently Ruth teacher, died Aug. 20. wedding anniversary Aug. 25. Drennan Horsley 91, died Aug. 10. GREENWOOD (SC): Virginia Dale Puck- daughter Alma Gloria, July 19. ett Cheatham, 89, died Aug. 31. LAKE WALES (FL): Francis “Frank” M. BACK CREEK (NC): Erin & Josh Smith, a Coyne, 83, deacon, elder, Elder of Visita- son Harrison, July 30. tion for 13 years, died Aug. 29. BETHEL (SC): Doug & Christa Herrera, a LAUDERDALE (VA): daughter Ana Lynn, Aug. 23. Craft, 89, died Aug. 15. William Edward CENTENNIAL (SC): Jake & Cristina Ra- Johnson, 91, died Sept. 3. Vanita Hostetter mos Deputy, a son Jacob Dallas, Aug. 15. NEW AMITY (NC): Mildred Jenkins Miller, CHESTER (SC): Rev. & Mrs. Clint (Patti) 79, died Aug. 20. Davis, a daughter Sarah Grace, Aug. 30. OLD PROVIDENCE (VA): Dennis Wood- COLUMBIA FIRST (SC): row Conner, 82, died Aug. 7. Legare & Tap Gresham, a son Charles Richard, Aug. 16. ROCK HILL FIRST (SC): Nancy Collins Anna Claire & Jon Dando, a son Charles Orr, 83, died Aug. 8. Bridges, Aug. 25. Tracy & Rick Folks, a daughter Sydney Michaela, Aug. 26. COVINGTON (TN): Mr. & Mrs. Kent Zent, a daughter Katherine Elizabeth, July 6. SEBRING (FL): John C. Freeland, 91, died Aug. 12. Dorothy Fisher, 87, died Aug. 26. STATESVILLE FIRST (NC): Jean Moore Bradford, Camp Joy attendee for 31 years, marked special birthdays were: John Den- EBENEZER (SC): Garret & Julia Brink, a died Aug. 4. Faye West White, 89, died ning (94 years Aug. 23) and Edie Trotter daughter Frances Adelaide “Addie,” Sept. 1. Aug. 19. (93 years on Aug. 31). George & Kathryn GREENVILLE (SC): Rev. & Mrs. Matt Thompson were married 55 years as of (Lindsay) Miller, a daughter Elise Noelle, Aug. 24. Aug. 25. THOMSON (GA): Bill & Lorena Johnson GUM TREE (MS): Mr. & Mrs. Adam Potts, recently celebrated 54 years of marriage. a son Zane. Mr. & Mrs. Clay Coggins, a WILDHURST (VA): son Todd Kellum. Mr. & Mrs. Raul Cruz, a James & Rosalee Hedrick were married 54 years in Aug. daughter Angelina Isabella. Marriages NEELY’S CREEK (SC): BACK CREEK (NC): Lauren Baucom & Jeremy Brown, Aug. 20. BURLINGTON (NC): Bob Hilton & Gwen Andrews, Sept. 3. CROWDERS CREEK (NC): Lauren Elizabeth Elliotte & Daniel David Beech, Aug. 28 New Communicant Members BURLINGTON (NC): Caroline & Reighanna Bailey, Bennett, Janice, & Kathryn Richardson, Shauneen Roy, Hannah Baird, David & Nicole Newton. Matthews, a daughter Hollins Gray, July 27. CENTENNIAL (SC): Osborne. RIVERSIDE (AL): Nate and Molly Jaeger, EFFINGHAM (SC): Ernie Davis. twin boys Tim and Mark on June 21,2011. FAITH (Merritt Island, FL): Josiah Soule. Eric & Jennifer Jason & Ginger FAYETTEVILLE (TN): Paisley Cowley, Anna Claire Dickey, Hugh & Beth Dickey, Caroline Mills, Meg O’Connor, Ashton BARTOW (FL): Francine Barfield Mercer, Towry. THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN Deaths FROSTPROOF (FL): Danny & Julie Darby. GOOD NEWS (MD): Tommy Antrim. GUM TREE (MS): Scotty & Tanya Rudy and daughter Savannah. LAKE PLACID (FL): Carmen Bonilla, Chase Leblanc. NEELY’S CREEK (SC): Maggie Bowyer, Beth Dickerson, Chandler Fowler, Grace Gallagher, David & Courtney Kimball, Ryan Williams. NEW AMITY (NC): Kim Morrison. Please join us for the arts at Erskine this season. Theater Productions PISGAH (NC): Haven Jenkins. REFORMATION (NC): Callie Oldham. SHERWOOD FOREST (SC): FALL 2011 ARTS CALENDAR Andrew Erskine Players present Shakespeare's The Tempest November 3 & 4, 7:30 pm November 5, 2:30 pm MacLeod. STATESVILLE FIRST (NC): Grace Overcash. Visual Arts Art Department Faculty Show Special Services Through December 8 COVENANT (Statesville, NC): Homecoming was held Sept. 18 with Rev. Charles Evans preaching. The church was 46 years old on Sept. 12. Tuesday, November 15, 7:30 pm FIRST MONROE & REHOBETH (NC): The churches held a joint picnic on Sunday after- Dr. Craig Cramer, Organist noon, Sept. 18, at Cane Creek Park. About 70-75 were in attendance for the meal and recreation. The two churches are about 20 minutes apart from each other in southern Union County, NC. PROSPERITY (AL): The church celebrated its 189th year on Sept. 11 with a special service and a dinner. Prosperity is the oldest ARP church in Alabama. SHERWOOD FOREST (SC): Homecoming was celebrated Sept. 11. Festivities included lunch and a hymn sing. UNITY (Lancaster, SC): Homecoming Day was held Aug. 28 with guest minister Rev. Bob Elliott. The day included a psalm sing and a picnic lunch. Talich String Quartet Thursday, November 17 Masterclass – Choral Hall, 3:30 pm Recital – First Presbyterian, Greenwood, 7:30 pm Erskine Student Chamber Music Ensembles Friday, November 18, 8 pm An Erskine Christmas Friday, December 2, 8 pm Saturday, December 3, 6 pm (Ticketing information: [email protected] or 864.379.8728) Women's Chorale Christmas Program Tuesday, December 6, 11 am Music Department Honors Recital Tuesday, December 6, 7:30 pm Opera Workshop Graduations Friday-Saturday, January 6 & 7 CENTENNIAL (SC): Whitney Fox, Master’s degree, Clemson University. PINECREST (NC): Music Karla Reese, Mas- For more information on arts events, call 864.379.8858 ter’s degree, West Carolina University.? NOVEMBER 2011 29 CLASSIFIED ADS Bible Chronology – Bible history without chronology is myth. http://paulhansen.mysite.com ANNOUNCEMENTS Erskine Director of Alumni Affairs Buddy Ferguson announces he will provide an Erskine representative to speak at your church. “We can come on a Wednesday or Sunday night, or speak at any other program that fits your schedule. We are excited to have a chance to meet with ARP churches and share with them about Erskine. Contact Buddy Ferguson, PO Box 608, Due West, SC 29639. Or call his office: (864) 379-8727. Cell: (864) 378-5836. Email: [email protected]. See Erskine’s website: www.erskine.edu. FOR RENT BONCLARKEN HOME Weekend or weekly rental at 200 Pine Drive: full kitchen; complete with washer/dryer and dishwasher. Cozily sleeps 10. Available year-round. Call 828-674-8277 for reservations. FOR SALE ROBAR CHRISTIAN BOOKSELLERS. We buy, sell and trade new and used Christian books. Contact us at Robarbooks.com. BONCLARKEN – Kit and Mary Grier’s home at 103 Sycamore Dr. Approximately 1800 sq. ft. w/ central heat and air. 4 bedrooms, 2 baths, great room with vaulted ceiling. Family room with hardwood floor and stone fireplace. Two wooden decks and screened-in porch. Laundry room with W/D hook-ups. Great mountain view! Call Effie Jordan 864-379-2888 or Bill Grier 828-808-1492. C REAL ESTATE BONCLARKEN - For Sale: Betty Stewart’s home on Bonclarken Lane, Flat Rock, NC. Two apartments: 1 with 2 bedrooms and 1.5 baths; other has 3 bedrooms 2.5 baths. Deck, garage, laundry room. 2 lots. Asking $250,000. Call Roxanne Spencer, 704-860-3384. SERVICES SABO GRAPHICS® WEB & GRAPHIC SERVICES: Providing great finished graphics from design stage to finished printed product, or website. Large format print capabilities. Mention ARP Magazine and receive a 10% discount. 864.268.4266 or www.sabo.ws. SERVICES NEEDED MINISTRY OPPORTUNITY - Established congregation located in a growing population area in Catawba Presbytery is searching for a pastor with a heart for evangelism and church growth who is interested in a challenging bi-vocational call. If you feel God is leading you in this direction, contact Stephanie Bishop at Central Services, The ARP Center, by calling 864-232-8297, ext 222 or email [email protected] to obtain a Ministerial Data Form. WOMEN’S MINISTRIES - Looking for adults or teenagers who can provide insight in using technologies such as: YouTube, Facebook, webcast, etc. Contact Elaine Reed at [email protected] if you are willing to provide information. ome see why our residents live longer, happier, healthier lives. ������������������������ ����������������� ���������� � � �� STEEPLES All Sizes and Designs Call about free proposals and scaled line drawings for your church �� �� ������������������� ������������ �������������� ��� � Box 388, Troutman, N.C. 28166 Phone 704-528-5321 For over 50 years. �������� RETIREMENT COMMUNITY Call 888.485.0930 CHURCH PEW CUSHIONS Padded seats or reversible cushions DON GREEN UPHOLSTERY ��������������������������������������������������������� 30 Structural Fiberglass � Call Today to: ��Schedule an ��������������� ������������������ ���������� ���������������������������������������������� Call collect (864) 277-3795 Write: 1401 Piedmont Hwy., Piedmont, SC 29673 THE ASSOCIATE REFORMED PRESBYTERIAN Indelible Grace A portable stage was pieced together and set up over the small hardwood platform that usually holds a pulpit, a few chairs and a baptismal font. In their places sat a full drum set, guitar amplifiers, and microphone stands. A large screen was mounted in front of the organ pipes. As the band members settled behind their instruments, more than 300 people filled the pews of First ARP Church in Rock Hill, SC, and waited in anticipation for Matthew Smith to strum the first chord of “I Need Thee Today.” Synod’s Committee on Worship sponsored the Matthew Smith & Indelible Grace concert and hymns seminar to expose ARP and other area churches to new resources that might enrich their worship. “This was a significant step for our denomination,” said Committee member, church planting resident, and emcee of the Rock Hill event Rev. Andy Stager. “Just months after the Committee proudly sponsored the 50th Annual Bonclarken Music Conference, we honored our musical heritage in a brand new way by exploring ways to bring hymnody into modern musical genres.” Before the opening song began, Stager welcomed those who came in droves through the back doors of the sanctuary to hear this collection of “new-old hymns.” During the pre-concert seminar, Matthew Smith told of his personal spiritual renewal as he encountered the gospel through hymns for the first time in college. He testified to a major impact that the resurgence of hymnody is having on a new generation looking for a robust expression of Christian faith. “A typical Nashville love song, as well as much current church music, goes straight for the emotions,” the Nashville songwriter explained. “But hymns engage your intellect, your imagination, your emotions, and your will – all at once. They put the full beauty of Christ on display.” The marriage of old hymn texts and new music is proving to be a happy one. In it, believers in their twenties and thirties find faith challenged, their intellect stoked, their articulation of the faith The band Indelible Grace draws a large audience at First ARP, Rock Hill (SC). made more winsome, and their hearts enlarged with Jesus and his gospel. Full of word-pictures, hymns like George Mathison’s “O Love That Will Not Let Me Go” invite the church on an ancient journey in which hope thrives in the midst of suffering. “When you sing ‘I trace the rainbow through the rain,’” Smith pointed out, “you’re singing covenantal truth. You’re preaching the gospel to one another much better than simply saying ‘well, this too shall pass.’” Area youth groups heard electric guitars and hymns together. Winthrop University students from Reformed University Fellowship and Campus Crusade, area pastors, elders, and church musicians sang old hymns to new melodies. Young and old sang the gospel to one another as the word of Christ dwelt richly in the air of the sanctuary. “Judging by the turnout, we seem to have struck a chord,” Stager said of the event. “It delights me to know that our great-grandmothers’ hymnbooks are in good use.”? Correction: At the end of the October magazine feature, A Debtor Nation, on page 7, the concluding line should have been a footnote appended to an earlier paragraph in the article, and the fourth of five footnotes in all. The article should have concluded with the previous line: “This is a time for repentance, and let us first of all demand repentance of ourselves. We should not expect divine blessings to course into the culture until the way is opened by repentance in the church.” Living in Greenville, Mr. Jacobs has been writing for over ten years. Recently published works include Honorable Intentions and The Factory. Honorable Intentions: A saga about a man who inherits a Charleston plantation only to find himself a target of those wanting to possess it. His only route of escape? A time machine. That’s where the real adventure begins. Kerry Jacobs A Southern Author Former ARP Missionary NOVEMBER 2011 The Factory: The economy of the world has collapsed. Jack, retired former Lt. Colonel finds a new job at a factory in Atlanta. Little does he know the world of hurt he’s about to enter. No rights, little respect. Something’s got to change. Published 2010 Published 2011 Available from Amazon.com or kerryjacobs.com 31
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