More Than a Simple Game to Me Why I Love Baseball Most will view this picture and see a white ball. But what they will never see is all that is inside of that ball. It is filled with lessons, memories, victories, losses, laughter, friendships, battles, and tears. It is magic to me. As magical as any crystal ball or mystical message. I see my life. 1 Baseball is more than a simple game to me. The greatest game on earth has been like a grand musical score playing throughout my time on stage in this life. The first notes began very early with my big brother, my idol, conducting for the first decade of my existence. He was a big, strong player nicknamed the Valley Fireball and I his ever present shadow. The melodies picked up in tempo as I came out of the shadows and became a bit of a star myself with my brother now watching me, in my hometown park. A full baseball scholarship allowed me to go to college and graduate. Later, the game gave me more mellow times when I became the Coach, the leader of young men and a few young women. Baseball made my mother’s last few years more enjoyable. My two boys and I bonded while they struck out thousands of imaginary batters throwing to me with my older knees bend and glove waiting. They both became better 2 players than me which was a splendid thrill. Now, I see my son leading his own American Legion team as I cheer from the bleachers. Genius author and therapist Virginia Satir once said: “Everybody needs a magnificent obsession.” Come travel with me and I will try to share what I found inside that ball over the years. I want to tell you about my magnificent obsession. 3 I am a senior second baseman playing for the American Legion team in the summer of 1969. I am warming up and Scrappy Curtis, the local umpire legend of over forty years who was once signed by Branch Rickey himself and made it to the majors for a cup of coffee in his playing days, speaks to me in a whisper without looking at me: “Bobby, be on your game today, son. People are watching.” His words needed no translation. The scouts are there tonight to watch me. My heart starts pounding. I have been waiting for this night all my life. The night is like a dream. I play one of my greatest games ever. In the first inning, our pitcher walks the first two and the third batter smashes a 3-1 pitch off the right center field wall. Gene, the right fielder, gets to the ball and throws a strike to me, the cutoff man. I time my turn, grab the ball and in one motion throw a perfect one hopper to our catcher who 4 tags the runner trying to score out. The crowd screams its approval. I turn three double plays that night the last one a slow roller to the shortstop who says as we run into the dugout, “Man, what a turn! I was only going for one. What a turn!” But what I will never forget is my last at bat in the eighth inning of a game we trailed by one run. I got up with one man on. I took the first pitch on the outside corner and drilled it straight down the right field line. The crowd screamed but I could hear nothing after I rounded first. I was wearing a helmet and the only sound I could hear was the wind whipping through the ear holes as I rounded first and then second. I was a few feet from third and was going to start to slide when Coach Church frantically began waving at me to score. I rounded third and the helmet came flying off. I could hear the crowd roaring now instead of the wind. The ball and I got to the plate at 5 the same moment. I slid around the tag, popped up, saw the safe sign, and sprinted toward my teammates who started pounding me on the back and ushered me into the dugout. People cheered for minutes. It was the highlight of my life and still is. An inside-the- park homer with the scouts in attendance. That was the Yin. Here comes the Yang. Same year in the Regional Tournament in early August. 6 I came up in the regional Legion baseball tournament with two outs and us trailing 6-3 in the ninth inning. The crowd was a sell out, over five thousand people in attendance. We had made it to the finals with three straight late-inning rallies. The winner of this game would head to the Nationals. The bases were loaded. They bring in this tall lefty who can really hum the ball. I am in the on-deck circle and trying to catch my breath as this big guy’s pitches are making the catcher’s mitt smack in the hot night air. I succeed in slowing my breath down and enter the box. I know that they will try to jam me inside. I just know it. A fastball inside to get ahead will be their plan. I take my usual stance and at the last moment as he starts his windup, I move a couple of inches away from the plate. I had guessed right. I took the pitch and drilled it over the left field fence. It hooked a foot foul at the last second. I struck out four pitches later 7 when he threw me the exact same pitch that I couldn’t get to this time. It was a perfect pitch. The crowd boomed its approval at my loss. I headed to the dugout. Nobody was there to greet me. I was disappointed and near tears but as we shook hands with our opponents, I searched out the lefty. “Good luck back there. That last pitch was a beauty. You got me good,” I managed to say. “Shit, man, thanks. How about you? You smashed my first pitch way out of here like you knew it was coming. I am damn lucky it went foul, great game,” he said to me. I felt admiration and love toward the guy. We had battled and he had won. A few feet between glory and disappointment. They, the Portland, Oregon Contractors, won the National Championship. Those two short snippets showed my high and low points. Baseball allowed me to learn, in the process of playing a structured game, a bundle of 8 tremendous life lessons. Sometimes things go you way and other times, for whatever reason, they don’t. I learned that I could respond to pressure, to a challenge. I was a little guy, 5’9″ and 135 lbs soaking wet, and yet I reached a high level. This game was the core of my self-esteem and personal confidence. It gave me motivation to make my body bigger and stronger. It was a place where I made great, lifelong friends who were teammates or worthy adversaries. I had something at which I could excel. I got to travel to Montana, Oregon, Northern California, all over Idaho and Washington to play. My ears heard large crowdsat least to us at the time- howl with approval at both my successes and failures. Baseball gave me this thrill. Nothing has been like it in my life since. You see, I never got a yelp from the crowd when I created and pulled off an innovative teaching lesson. Nobody pats me on the back when I prevent 9 someone from going into the hospital in my work today. But I learned how to excel in those areas because of baseball. My playing days are fond memories now so distant they don’t seem totally real. I actually got more enjoyment out of coaching and mentoring kids than I ever did playing mostly because it lasted so much longer. More than thirty years. I walk around my little town and people still call me coach and I quit teaching years ago. My mind is filled with memories of the kids on my various teams winning great battles and losing in heartbreaking ways. I have hundreds of stories in my head centering on baseball and life. I have hugged kids, yelled at kids, taught kids what to do, when to do it and then watched as they put my teaching into action. It was such great excitement. 10 But the best was the passing of the torch to my own boys. Hours of bonding and talking as we played catch for thousands- no exaggeration- of hours. Watching my youngest son at age eleven sleeping in his ball uniform ready for his first All-Star game. My oldest boy from an small school dominating the Spokane larger schools as he made all league as both a pitcher and shortstop. My boys playing in the summer sun and on windy, rainy spring days. My chest swelling with pride at their key hits or a precisely thrown curve ball for strike three. My loud voice echoing in all the parks around the Northwest. Seeing my oldest boy, pitching with a near-crippled glove arm, after the District final. He had given up a ninth inning two-run homer with two outs to lose 3-2 after throwing 148 pitches and sat dejected as he cried in disappointment and pain. He had almost lost his left arm less than a year before. Almost burned it off when 11 tripped into a beach fire. I saw my boys become men on the baseball diamond. I got to be the proud Papa. My Mom also loved baseball. In fact, baseball became her second favorite entertainment (Bingo was first) and she never missed any of my sons’ home games. We spent many hours together watching the Seattle Mariners and I always laughed to myself when I saw her skinny body adorned with her Edgar Martinez or Ichiro jerseys. I am sharing today is all I am doing. I am telling you about how I was formed, how I have such self-confidence, the memories that fill my mind. To some baseball is merely a silly, slow game. To me, as you now know, it is much, much more. It pains me to see this great sport being overshadowed by other games. I will end with this fabulous quote from my favorite baseball film, Field of Dreams. 12 “The one constant through all the years, Ray has been baseball. America has rolled by like an army of steamrollers. It’s been erased like a blackboard rebuilt and erased again. But baseball has marked the time this field, this game; it’s a part of our past, Ray. It reminds us all of all that was once good and could be again.” 13 Don’t Widen The Plate! In Nashville, Tennessee, during the first week of January, 1996, more than 4,000 baseball coaches descended upon the Opryland Hotel for the 52nd annual ABCA convention. While I waited in line to register with the hotel staff, I heard other more veteran coaches rumbling about the lineup of speakers scheduled to present during the weekend. One name, in particular, kept resurfacing, always with the same sentiment — “John Scolinos is here? Oh man, worth every penny of my 14 airfare. Who the hell is John Scolinos, I wondered. No matter, I was just happy to be there. In 1996, Coach Scolinos was 78 years old and five years retired from a college coaching career that began in 1948. He shuffled to the stage to an impressive standing ovation, wearing dark polyester pants, a light blue shirt, and a string around his neck from which home plate hung — a full-sized, stark-white home plate. Seriously, I wondered, who in the hell is this guy? After speaking for twenty-five minutes, not once mentioning the prop hanging around his neck, Coach Scolinos appeared to notice the snickering among some of the coaches. Even those who knew Coach Scolinos had to wonder exactly where he was going with this, or if he had simply forgotten about home plate since he’d gotten on stage. 15 Then, finally … “You’re probably all wondering why I’m wearing home plate around my neck. Or maybe you think I escaped from Camarillo State Hospital,” he said, his voice growing irascible. I laughed along with the others, acknowledging the possibility. “No,” he continued, “I may be old, but I’m not crazy. The reason I stand before you today is to share with you baseball people what I’ve learned in my life, what I’ve learned about home plate in my 78 years.” Several hands went up when Scolinos asked how many Little League coaches were in the room. “Do you know how wide home plate is in Little League?” After a pause, someone offered, “Seventeen inches?” more of a question than answer. “That’s right,” he said. “How about in Babe Ruth’s day? Any Babe Ruth coaches in the house?” 16 Another long pause. “Seventeen inches?” came a guess from another reluctant coach. “That’s right,” said Scolinos. “Now, how many high school coaches do we have in the room?” Hundreds of hands shot up, as the pattern began to appear. “How wide is home plate in high school baseball? “Seventeen inches,” they said, sounding more confident. “You’re right!” Scolinos barked. “And you college coaches, how wide is home plate in college? “Seventeen inches!” we said, in unison. “Any Minor League coaches here? How wide is home plate in pro ball? Seventeen inches!” “RIGHT! And in the Major Leagues, how wide is home plate in the Major Leagues?” 17 “Seventeen inches!” “SEV-EN-TEEN INCHES!” he confirmed, his voice bellowing off the walls. “And what do they do with a Big League pitcher who can’t throw the ball over seventeen inches?” Pause. “They send him to Pocatello !” he hollered, drawing raucous laughter. “What they don’t do is this: they don’t say, ‘Ah, that’s okay, Jimmy. You can’t hit a seventeen-inch target? We’ll make it eighteen inches, or nineteen inches. We’ll make it twenty inches so you have a better chance of hitting it. If you can’t hit that, let us know so we can make it wider still, say twenty-five inches.” Pause... “Coaches …” Pause... 18 ”What do we do when our best player shows up late to practice? When our team rules forbid facial hair and a guy shows up unshaven? What if he gets caught drinking? Do we hold him accountable? Or do we change the rules to fit him? Do we widen home plate?” The chuckles gradually faded as four thousand coaches grew quiet, the fog lifting as the old coach’s message began to unfold. He turned the plate toward himself and, using a Sharpie, began to draw something. When he turned it toward the crowd, point up, a house was revealed, complete with a freshly drawn door and two windows. “This is the problem in our homes today. With our marriages, with the way we parent our kids. With our discipline. We don’t teach accountability to our kids, and there is no consequence for failing to meet standards. We simply, widen the plate. Pause... 19 Then, to the point at the top of the house he added a small American flag. “This is the problem in our schools today. The quality of our education is going downhill fast and teachers have been stripped of the tools they need to be successful, and to educate and discipline our young people. We are allowing others to widen home plate! Where is that getting us?” Silence. He replaced the flag with a Cross. “And this is the problem in the Church, where powerful people in positions of authority have taken advantage of young children, only to have such an atrocity swept under the rug for years. Our church leaders are widening home plate for themselves! And we allow it.” “And the same is true with our government. Our so called representatives make rules for us that don’t 20 apply to themselves. They take bribes from lobbyists and foreign countries. They no longer serve us. And we allow them to widen home plate and we see our country falling into a dark abyss while we watch.” I was amazed. At a baseball convention where I expected to learn something about curve balls and bunting and how to run better practices, I had learned something far more valuable. From an old man with home plate strung around his neck, I had learned something about life, about myself, about my own weaknesses and about my responsibilities as a leader. I had to hold myself and others accountable to that, which I knew to be right, lest our families, our faith, and our society continue down an undesirable path. “If I am lucky,” Coach Scolinos concluded, “you will remember one thing from this old coach today. It is this: if we fail to hold ourselves to a higher standard, a standard of what we know to be right; if we fail to 21 hold our spouses and our children to the same standards, if we are unwilling or unable to provide a consequence when they do not meet the standard; and if our schools and churches and our government fail to hold themselves accountable to those they serve, there is but one thing to look forward to …” With that, he held home plate in front of his chest, turned it around, and revealed its dark black backside. “… dark days ahead.” Coach Scolinos died in 2009 at the age of 91, but not before touching the lives of hundreds of players and coaches, including mine. Meeting him at my first ABCA convention kept me returning year after year, looking for similar wisdom and inspiration from other coaches. He is the best clinic speaker the ABCA has ever known because he was so much more than a baseball coach. 22 His message was clear: “Coaches, keep your players —no matter how good they are—your own children, your churches, your government, and most of all, keep yourself, ALL, at seventeen inches. Story by Chris Sperrywww.sperrybaseballlife.com 23 The Secret Soul of Baseball I got to wave a young man/child around third I knew it was going to be a close play at the plate He is huffing, puffing cuts the bag just right and heads for home with the ball in the air, a slide– SAFE! I got to grip the bat in my hands as I eyed the pitcher With all my concentration I see the ball leave his hand I see the spin of the laces, a curve ball breaking toward me I swing and catch it on the meat of the bat up the middleHIT! I got to watch my little boy take the ball out of his glove and with total focus he fires his best little fastball at my waiting glove that I don’t have to move even an inch the imaginary hitter doesn’t have a chanceSTRIKE THREE! 24 I got to see my boy, now a big buff senior man, dive from his shortstop position into the hole in a cloud of dust he has it in his glove, jumps to his feet, steps and throws the runner is quick, flying, the ball beats him by a stepOUT! I got to view the once skinny, shy one stroll up to the plate at a key time swinging his bat; he digs in his metal cleats he is ready, he is confident, he takes a pitch and then another he swings at one down the middle; off it goes over the fenceHOMER! I got to hit a thousand grounders that skipped through the dirt taking hops and bounces that have a rhythm, a life of its own my player does it right; charges the ball like he has been told he fires it to the waiting catcher’s mitt at home plate- a perfect SMACK! 25 I got to see the hundreds of high flies that hung in the blue air on a hot summer mid-day as kids in new uniforms followed their flight that either found mitts or vibrant green grass growing long the echoes of voices yelling “I got it!” bounce off the canyon wallsLIFE! Baseball has a secret soul known only to those who have played and fallen in love with this game like so many others over the last century and a half; maybe the best part of America’s past glory fathers showing love to their sons as they play a game of catchSOUL! 26 Baseball Memories MY EARLIEST BASEBALL MEMORY HAPPENED when I was four years old. My older brother, John, had organized a neighborhood game and allowed me to try to play with all the older kids. I got up with a bat way too big for me and tried to hit. I swung at the first pitch with all my might and missed by a mile. The second pitch hit me in the shoulder and I tried not to cry as my brother ordered me to run to first base. I stood on the base rubbing the 27 spot as my brother came up to bat. He took the first pitch and drove it way over the left fielder's head. I took off running and got to third base and stopped. My brother was right behind me sprinting at full speed. He started yelling at me, “Bobby, go home! Keep running! Go home, go home,” he repeated as he rounded second. I got confused and started crying as I ran off the field, across the park, crossed the street, and vaulted onto our little front porch. My mother heard me bang open the screen door and came out of the kitchen. “Bobby, what's wrong?” “John yelled at me to go home,” I answered. She hugged me and I went to the top bunk and sobbed. A few minutes later, John showed up all out of breath and came in the room. “Bobby, what happened to you?” “You told me to go home,” I answered with my little 28 boy anger. “No, I meant for you to go to home plate. Now come on back over there. We have a good game going on.” I went back and ignored the teasing from some of the boys. I was out in right field and a high pop fly came my way. I yelled out, “ I got it! I got it! I got it!” It bounced off my glove and hit me dead center in the left eye. I was down. I had got it. 29 Memory two I was coaching the junior high team at the small country school where I taught when I witnessed a baseball memory that has stuck with me. It involved, Carl, one of the toughest, strongest country kids around. He had matured early and was an advanced athlete in all sports. We were playing against one of the other small schools who had some tall, skinny kid on the mound who threw with a crazy sidearm motion. He threw pretty hard for this level but had little idea where it was going. 30 Carl came up to bat and took two straight balls that were way outside. The third one blasted him square in the back and the thump sounded like a gunshot. Carl crumpled on the ground but shook himself up and sprinted to first base. He stood on the bag and nearly collapsed while trying to get back his breath. I called time and started over toward him. He waved me off. “I'm okay, coach.” I shrugged and returned to the coaching box. The wild pitcher threw two more balls, both of them in the dirt. I gave Carl the steal sign and he took off. The pitch was a called strike and the catcher came up throwing. Carl went into a slide and the ball hit him dead center in the head, knocking off his helmet and the ball bounced into center field. I yelled for Carl to get up and come to third. He rolled over the bag and was up sprinting toward me. The center fielder got to the ball and fired it toward third. It didn't make it, instead it caught poor Carl directly 31 between the shoulder blades and knocked him to the ground. The ball bounced off him and into left field. I yelled, “Score, score Carl.” The poor kid somehow willed himself to get up and started racing toward home. The left fielder picked up the ball and flung it with all his might toward home where it found Carl's lower back and knocked him into the dirt as he crossed the plate. He flopped into the dirt screaming with pain. The entire bench involuntarily burst into convulsive laughter as the toughest kid in the entire county rolled around and around on the ground. I tried to be kind but lost it myself. I admit it, I laughed too not because I think or thought that seeing someone in pain is amusing. It was the very definition of dark humor. It was so unreal to see Carl take massive blow after blow and still try to play the game despite what had to have been some intense pain. I did get it together as did my 32 other players and we gathered around the poor kid, congratulating him and comforting him, too. He stayed on the ground for several minutes howling, crying and laughing all at the same time. We finally picked him up and carried him to the bench. “Jesus, Carl are you really okay?” I finally asked him after a few minutes. “I think I better go to church with Grandma more often,” was his perfect answer. I bought him and the entire team pizza-Carl's choice- after the game. 33 Memory three I HAVE HAD TAUGHT AND COACHED over 1,500 kids in my career. Daryl is one of my favorite kids and in my personal Hall-of-Fame. He created a great baseball memory for me and several others one day. Daryl was a kind, caring boy with some mental challenges who was my team manager in both basketball and baseball. He took much pride in doing his managing duties and I always cheered his efforts. When he was a senior he was also my teaching aide 34 for the last period of the day. I taught him to help me groom and tend to the baseball field. I modeled for him how to chalk the batter's box around home plate and make straight, perfect foul lines. He got quite good at putting down the chalk and had my confidence. We had a game right after school so I sent him down to the field during last period and told him to go ahead and chalk the batter's box and foul lines. He was thrilled. I showed up minutes after the last bell and there stood a proud Daryl on home plate beaming at his accomplishment. The batter's box was perfectly done. So was the left field and right field line. They were absolutely perfect. The only problem was that Daryl added a little something to the job. He also had made perfect chalk lines from first to second and from second to third. I knew enough not to rain on the poor kid's parade. I calmly told him to wait as I raced to my 35 car to get my camera. I took a couple of pictures before informing him that perhaps we didn't need the two extra lines. To my team's credit when they showed up they didn't go crazy and start teasing him. There were some snickers and dazzlingly looks but no nasty comments. I was very proud of them. The opposing team and coach were pretty cool about the entire thing, too. We started the game a bit late as it took some time to rake out Daryl's perfect lines between second and third. I wish I could find that picture. But I can't, dear reader. Hence, you are left with imagining what it looked like. 36 Memory four IT WAS OVER A HUNDRED AND TEN DEGREES my junior year in American Legion summer ball and we had a doubleheader scheduled for the day. Community member, Chuck Norton, was employed as a postal worker but was best known in the town as a referee and umpire. He nickname was a nasty one. He was called “Snortin' Norton,” by almost everyone behind his back. 37 The overweight guy had worked the first game behind the plate, a tight game that we won with a sacrifice fly in the seventh inning-2-1. His black outfit was drenched in sweat and to add to his discomfort on this miserable, scorching day, he had just had two wisdom teeth extracted that very morning. Our best pitcher Joe Kampa had hurled a near masterpiece against one of our region's chief rivals, the Yakima Beetles. Our pitching coach, ex-major leaguer, Thornton “Kip” Kipper had been especially brutal in incessantly criticizing and questioning Snortin' Norton's strike zone. It got to the point that Umpire Norton had taken off his mask, walked over to the dugout, pointed at Kip directly, and warned him that he was going to run him if he said another word. Kip to his credit toned it down and the game was completed without any problems. But then the second game started. 38 Yakima had the bases loaded in the first inning with only one out when I made one of my greatest plays ever in my baseball history. It went like this. A chink pop fly was lofted into no-man's land in short right center field. I got a decent jump on the ball and somehow-luck-managed to dive and the ball touched the webbing of my glove. I instantly knew I couldn't catch it but instead flipped it up into the air toward center fielder Mark Switzer who was racing toward the ball himself. He dove and caught it! But that wasn't all as he vaulted up and fired a strike to second trying to double off the runner. Umpire Norton was out in the field for this game and called the guy safe. A run scored and an argument started over the call. Kip was on the front step of the dugout and his voice echoed all over the park voicing his disapproval of the call. Umpire Norton immediately swung around and hauled his massive body toward our 39 dugout while yelling, “You're out of here.” He had given Kip the thumb, kicking him out of the game. But Kip, of course, wasn't going to let Snortin' Norton get the last word. He took his own sweet time ambling down toward the clubhouse, all the while yacking insults toward the umpire who ran over toward him returning the insults with ones of his own. The two overweight hotheads wound up running toward each other and smacked bellies exactly like two male big-horned sheep butting heads. They both bounced backwards from the impact and flopped to the ground like two bumper cars in the amusement park. They started rolling around together until Umpire Norton grabbed the advantage and finally silence d Kip by grabbing him in a headlock choke. Some adults ran onto the field and separated the two. The entire ball park was filled with laughter and disbelief. The Yakima batter popped up weakly to 40 the third baseman and we sprinted into the dugout screaming with hysterical belly laughs which was totally appropriate. Quite possibly the single best thing I have ever seen in my entire life. 41 Memory five BOBBY WILLIAMS WAS THE ELDEST SON of legendary Coach Gabby Williams and became a catcher who played like no catcher you have ever seen. He lived across the alley from us and was famous in the neighborhood for winning a bet by eating a full can of dog food as we all looked on gagging in unison. Bobby was a couple of years younger than my older brother and the two used to play catch for hours. John throwing his fastballs to Bobby's waiting catcher's mitt with me acting as the decoy batter. I got hit numerous 42 times as my brother's control was not his best asset. I had to take the blows without complaint but Bobby was always way more sensitive to my pain than my brother. It broke all our hearts when the Williams family moved from the Valley to Klamath Falls, Oregon where Bobby became a star. He returned to the Valley as a senior and lead his team to an American Legion National Championship after they defeated us in the Regional Tournament final hosted on our home field. Bobby was a sensational player. On every grounder to any infielder he would race down the first base line in his full catcher's gear to back up the throw to first. He had all the tools. A major league arm—forget trying to steal on this guy- a powerful bat, great speed especially for a catcher and he could block any pitches in the dirt like a pro. He got signed to a professional contract after getting a full-ride scholarship to WSU 43 and was tearing up the AAA league, only one step away from the majors. He got beaned by a errant fastball and never fully recovered from the massive blow. His potential major league career faded. I have never seen anyone on any level play catcher better than my old pal Bobby. He is an example of how much luck and destiny appears to be at play in beating the odds to make it to the major leagues. This leads me to another memory dealing with a similar experience I heard about as a kid. 44 Memory six JACKIE ROBINSON SLIDING INTO HOME ABOVE broke the baseball color barrier when the Brooklyn Dodgers started him at first base on April 15, 1947. The man responsible for this happening was the general manager Branch Rickey. He had worked with the St. Louis Cardinal organization before taking the position with the Dodgers. In his last year with the Cardinals he signed a little guy Elmore Curtis who 45 became known as “Scrappy' Curtis. Scrappy was having a good year at AAA playing second base and hitting well. He was only a step away from getting a call up to the majors when he took a fast ball that broke his left wrist. He was out for six weeks. He entered the batter's box with excitement hoping to pick back up on his dream of being a major league player. The first pitch hit him on nearly the exact spot on his left wrist and broke it again! That was the end of Scrappy Curtis's dream. He became the successful manager of the Lewiston semi-pro team and later became a legendary umpire who called balls and strikes for nearly four decades. He took his fair share of verbal abuse over the years but his dedication and love of the game allowed hundred of kids to play the game at a high level. A great player who became a local treasure as a community member who loved his great game. 46 Memory seven I TOOK MY ENTIRE FOURTH GRADE CLASS to hat night at the Seattle King Dome in the early eighties. All thirty-two of them along with two parent chaperons, my wife and her friend. We rode the bus, and ferry from our small town to downtown Seattle. More than half of the kids had never been to Seattle and fewer had been to the King Dome. We got our tickets after visiting Pikes Place Market, the Aquarium and eating at nearby Waterfall Park. We ushered the excited and bedazzled group into our 47 outfield seats where I lectured them on the rules of this particular outing which included going nowhere without a partner and such as they happily adjusted their new hats that had been handed to them on the way in. The King Dome was completely sold out50,000 people-as the Seattle Mariners were playing the New York Yankees. It was a magical night. The kids behaved themselves, did the wave, cheered and filled up with soft drinks, hot dogs, popcorn, and licorice ropes. The place was simply electric in a close game that saw the Yankees knock ace Randy Johnson out of the game in the seventh inning. The Mariners came up in the ninth behind 9-5. They somehow loaded the bases and with two outs Ken Phelps, a left-handed slugger, smacked a grand slam homer to tie the game. The King Dome was literally shaking with the cheers and my kids got caught up in the exhilaration but I was distracted as 48 we needed to catch the ten o'clock ferry for it was the last one until until one am. I had to make the call. I looked around, consulted my wife and parents and told them my decision. We were staying. The Mariners won in the fifteenth inning and I found myself leading a long line of now exhausted fourth graders in the dark through Pioneer Square on our trek to the ferry dock. We got home at 3 am and I didn't drop of the last kid until after 4 am. Those kids never forgot that magical journey and talked about it until they were seniors. 49 Memory eight GORDY WAS PACING AROUND LIKE AN expectant new father in the maternity ward. His son, Creighton, was on the mound for the first time ever in a game. I was the worst possible candidate for calming down Gordy as I was an infamous nutcase myself when my boy was pitching. I understood and paced around a bit with Gordy as Creighton took his warmup tosses. Guys like Gordy and me die with each pitch not because we are looking for some lost glory of our own but because we so want our boys to succeed at something they love. Our two boys became the best of friends over the years and Gordy treated my boy like one of his own. The gangling, skinny kid did a fine job. He threw strikes and kept composed when things got tight. I don't remember the exact outcome other than our 50 team won but recall well how involved Gordy was. You see for otherwise undemonstrative men like the two of us this was a way to show our love and support for our two treasured boys. The years ticked by and Creighton grew into a confident, dominating pitcher. My son, Perry and Creighton became an impressive one-two pitching combo and took their high school team to two state championships. Gordy's voice filled up parks all over the area as he cheered at his son skilled pitches, Perry's hits and great plays and encouraged all of the rest of his teammates with gusto. The man especially rooted for my boy and treated him like one of his own. I will never forget that and I am happy that I expressed my appreciate before it was too late. Gordy was diagnosed with cancer and died suddenly but what will never die is the how the game helped him bond with his only son. I could go on and on with 51 more memories and stories but I am going to end with my simple salute to Gordy the loving father who left his son and his own father way too soon. “Hey, Dad, what to play catch?” 52 “Baseball is like church. Many attend, few understand.” Leo Durocher 53
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