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CHURCH OFFICE HOURS
Monday - Thursday
8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.
(Closed for lunch 12:30 - 1:30 p.m.)
Friday - closed
The First
United Methodist Church
15502 South Memorial Bixby, Oklahoma 74008
CHURCH STAFF
SUNDAY SERVICES
Praise & Worship 8:30 a.m.
Sunday School
9:45 a.m.
Traditional Worship 11:00 a.m.
On the Edge Worship 4:00 p.m.
The Flame
Rev. Dan Pulver, Senior Pastor
Rev. Matt Thompson, Associate Pastor
Hannah Birney, Director of Children’s Ministry
Shelly Thompson, Director of Youth Ministry
Larry Clark, Minister of Music
Jeana Malone, Office Administrator
Kim Campbell, Secretary
Matt Erickson, Facility Manager
Henry LeBourgeois, Custodian
December 2014
Volume 16 Issue 12
Bixby First United
Methodist Church
OH HOLY NIGHT
Christmas Eve Candlelight Services
5pm / 7pm / 11pm
December 24, 2014
All Church Christmas Brunch & Talent Show-Dec. 14th at 9:45 am
Children’s Christmas Program-Dec. 14th at 6:00 pm
Christmas Cantata-Dec. 21st during 11:00 a.m. Worship service
Christmas Eve Services & Communion-Dec. 24th
5pm Contemporary
7pm Traditional
11pm Acoustic
THE FLAME is a monthly publication of First United Methodist Church, 15502 S. Memorial Drive, Bixby, OK 74008. Phone: 918-366-4463 Fax: 918-366-4465
Website: www.fumcbixby.org
Church E-mail: [email protected]
To submit information: [email protected]
The January issue of THE FLAME will be mailed on December 22. Deadline for submissions is Wednesday, December 17.
Out of the
Lions’ Den...
I heard the story of a 16 year old young man, who finally had his own car and worked to make the
payments and pay the insurance. For the first time in his life, he would be able to purchase a Christmas
gift for his mother with his own money. He took off work on Saturday and went shopping to find the
perfect gift for his single mother. He owed her everything; she had been the love and stability in his life,
and he wanted to express his love and gratitude in a perfect way.
Finally he found the perfect gift and had it gift wrapped at the store. He came home with it hidden
in a plain store sack. Some people were waiting for him on the front porch as he arrived home. It was the
police and his pastor. His mother had been killed in a car accident. The next several months were a
chaotic mess. He was whisked off to live with relatives he didn’t know. His school work suffered; he lost
his job and his car. He was angry and acted out in all kinds of ways.
Every day he came to his room and saw the unopened gift on his dresser, a reminder of love lost,
that his life had been forever changed through the carelessness of another. One day, he came home to his
room, looked at the unopened gift on his dresser and asked, “How different would my life have been if that
gift had just been opened?”
When we consider the true gift of Christmas is about what God has done in Jesus Christ to change
the world and all of our lives in the process, I wonder if that gift lies unopened in far too many of our
homes. We find ourselves miserable, frustrated, angry, lonely, and without a purpose; all because the gift
has never been opened.
In the midst of all your shopping and gift giving this Christmas, find a time to stop and examine if
God’s gift to you has been opened. How would it have changed the lives of the people you love, if only
you had been on the receiving end of unconditional love, forgiveness, and hope?
There are so many ways for you to receive your gift from God this Christmas – the Children’s
Program, the Choir Cantata, Christmas Eve services at 5:00, 7:00, or 11:00. This is my prayer for you –
May God show up in your life, right where you are, in your humble condition, to give you the gift of
Himself in a way so overwhelming your life will be changed forever. And may the gift be one you want
to share with friends and family. Amen.
-Daniel
ATTENDANCE FOR WORSHIP SERVICES
Sunday,
8:30 a.m.
11:00 a.m.
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Nov. 23
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On the Open Road
I am a big fan of a cappella groups. THE TRUTH COMES OUT! I truly love vocal groups that use no
instrumentation at all. My favorite is probably the Pentatonix because their group is so individually gifted.
They all have really cool talents that, when brought together, makes a music that is almost unexplainable.
One or two of them have solo projects that haven’t moved forward quite as
well as their a cappella group. It’s not that they are bad – they just don’t
have the power and passion of the Pentatonix. The body of Christ can be
explained in the same way. We are all exceptionally gifted and blessed by
God. When we work together to do ministry we can accomplish so much.
When we all come together to mix our gifts into a group of believers
spreading the gospel we can make such a bigger splash than going it alone.
So figure out how you fit and where you fit and then...start fitting.
-Pastor Matt
From the Oklahoma Blood Institute:
“What a life-saving difference FUMC Bixby made by hosting a blood drive. With your support, patients in 150 hospitals
across our area and their loved ones had one less thing to be concerned about while facing a serious health crises. Susan
Arenson, beautifully coordinated all aspects of this event. In the end, 27 caring people stepped up to help. They are to be
commended for sharing their valuable time and life-saving gifts. Your spirit of concern and willingness to step up by
hosting this blood drive are greatly valued now and in the future.” Ruth Herring, Blood Program Consultant
APOSTLE ART IN THE NARTHEX
It began more than two thousand years ago when Jesus said, “Follow me,” and the people came. From the
many that followed Him, Jesus chose twelve apostles to walk beside Him and learn, firsthand, the good news of
God’s kingdom. After His resurrection He sent the twelve into other nations to spread the gospel and make
disciples for Christ.
In January 2015, you’ll begin to see an exciting addition to our church narthex, a physical reminder that Jesus’
commandment to the apostles so long ago is still our commission today. The Encouragers’ class is making a
gift to the church of paintings by Kenneth Wyatt from Tulia, Texas, a series the artist calls “The Apostles.”
When all the artwork is placed, there will be a portrait of Jesus, Paul and each of the twelve apostles.
Accompanying each of the apostle’s portraits will be a framed legend about the disciple explaining how the
artist chose the model for his painting and also the story of the apostle drawn from the Bible and church
tradition. Over time within the Church, symbols came to represent the life and death of each apostle. Kelly
Sample learned of the symbols and was drawn to create them for our church. The resulting hand-carved
shields, made of a combination of domestic and exotic hardwoods, will be placed with the twelve portraits.
Kelly will teach a Wednesday night class in January about the
process of making the shields and about the lives of the apostles.
Each week of class he’ll talk about two apostles, their symbols
and artwork, and then he’ll place those items on the west narthex
wall, until all twelve join the portraits of Jesus and Paul.
There will be more details soon from the Grow team about this
and other Wednesday night classes.
Make plans to join us for an exciting new year of classes!
GROW
Children’s Corner
KINGS DOMINION
Rotation Sunday School
A Shepherd’s Christmas
November 23-December 21
Scripture: Luke 2: 1-20
Memory Verse: “Jesus said I am the
light of the world. Whoever follows me
will never walk in darkness, but will have
the light of life.” John 8:12
Concepts:
Listening and responding to
God’s message/messengers.
Witnessing and testifying to the
glory of God.
Returning to give thanks to God
for all things.
Advent Studies
Just a Reminder that this year our
Advent Study is:
“Under Wraps”
The Gift We Never Expected
An all-church Advent experience
that explores the character of God
described in the Old Testament and
then revealed through Jesus Christ.
Through small group resources for
all ages, teaching video, worship
ideas and visuals, sermon lead-in
videos, and preaching guides, all
areas of church life weave together
for an exciting, new Advent celebration. Each week centers on a
key word that describes a characteristic of God that is
evidenced in the Old Testament and then seen more clearly
through Jesus: faithful, dangerous, expectant and jealous.
Adult & Children’s Study– Wednesday at 6:30 p.m.
Youth Study– Sunday morning at 9:45 a.m.
Mark your calendars for these special
Holiday Events:
Bixby FUMC Children’s Christmas Program
Sunday, December 14 at 6:00 p.m.
Join the children afterwards for refreshments in
the gym
Preschool Christmas Program
Thursday, December 18 at 10:00 a.m.
YOUTH
Christmas Caroling and
Christmas Party
Sunday, December 7
1:00 p.m.
*Please check Main Calendar for December schedule updates
Questions about any of our
Youth programs:
Shelly Thompson
[email protected]
918-366-4463
GROW
Wonderful Wednesdays
The Wonderful Wednesday Dinner and Bible Studies take place every Wednesday evening.
Dinner is served in the gym at 5:30 p.m. Cost is $5.00 per person or $15.00 per family.
Classes follow dinner.
Advent Devotionals
Pick up your copy in the Narthex, starting in November.
Advent: A Calendar of Devotions 2014 is a booklet of daily devotions for
Advent that helps people step back from the bustle and stress of the
season and prepare heart and mind to rejoice in God’s loving gift, Jesus
Christ. Each daily devotion includes a recommended Scripture reading, a
Bible verse, an inspiring message, and an uplifting prayer. The season of
Advent provides an opportunity for spiritual renewal for followers of Christ.
But often what happens is that we get so caught up in the hurry and rush,
the hustle and bustle, the frantic pace of the season that we emerge more
spiritually exhausted than refreshed.
The purpose of Advent: A Calendar of Devotions 2014 is to help the reader
focus on the things that truly matter and experience spiritual renewal.
Devotionals are on the Welcome Table right outside the sanctuary.
Breath Prayer
Holy One, Awaken us to your Presence.
Are You Shopping Online for Christmas?
Staff Appreciation Fund
Christmas is quickly approaching but there is still time to contribute
to the Staff Appreciation Fund. The Staff Parish Relations
Committee (SPRC) asks for your assistance in contributing to this
Appreciation Fund, which will be given to the ministers and staff as
a Christmas gift.
We are blessed to have 19 dedicated and deserving individuals who
provide various duties to our church. Our church operates smoothly
due to the efforts they provide throughout the week and weekends.
Please help us to recognize and show gratitude to these hard
working ministers and staff. Please take time, between now and
December 7, 2014, to prayerfully consider giving, and mark your
check or envelope with "Staff Fund." The SPRC thanks you for your
loving support to our church, our ministers, and our staff.
Several of the top online stores have
made an agreement with The United Methodist
Church, to give a percentage of your purchase
back to your local church. Some of the stores are
Old Navy, Kohl’s, Kay Jewelers, Overstock.com,
Barnes and Noble, Guitar Center, Dayspring,
JCPenney, Lowe’s, Fossil, Disney Store, Jared, and
Amazon, among others.
All you have to do is go to umcmarket.org
and register through your email or Facebook
account. Once you are registered, hit “get
started,” and it will take you to the store of your
choice where you can
begin shopping. If you
are going to do your
shopping online anyway,
this would be a way for
our church to receive a
percentage of your
purchase to be used for
ministry here in Bixby.
Look into it and
see if it meets your needs.
SERVE
Monthly Meeting Reminders:
(known meetings from the office calendar)
Stephen Ministry Team -Tuesday, December 2
At 6:30 p.m. in room 205
Connect Team - Thursday, December 4
7:00 p.m. in the Chapel
Grow Team-Tuesday, December 9
(Dec. 23 if needed– TBA)
At 6:30 p.m. in Conference Room
Stitchers of Love
Prayer Shawl Ministry
Tuesday, December 9
10:00 a.m.
Thursday, December 11
6:00 p.m.
Christmas Party
If you know of someone who would like a prayer
shawl, contact the church office or see
Lydia Barnes
Trustees-Sunday, December 14
At 5:00 p.m.
Second Friday Club
Friday, December 12 at 10:30 a.m. –Lunch at 11:30 a.m.
Enjoy the music of the season presented by the Bixby North Elementary Swing Choir under the direction of our own Anna Rottschaeffer.
Lunch will be served after the program. Bring a friend and enjoy a
hot bowl of Taco Soup & cornbread.
Also, please bring items that we can donate to nursing home residents.
For example: toothpaste, brushes/combs, shampoo, soap, lotion, chapstick, socks, Kleenex, etc.
Christmas Holiday Hours
The church office will be CLOSED on:
Wednesday, December 24
Thursday, December 25
Friday, December 26
(Open Dec. 29 & 30, regular hours)
Wednesday, December 31, close at noon
Thursday, January 1
We will be back in the office
Monday, January 5
Wishing all A Merry & Blessed Christmas!
Elaine
Update Membership Information
Does our Church database have YOUR family membership record correct?
Here is your chance to update YOUR record for our Guide
Book & Directory (if you haven’t already done so). Has a
change occurred in YOUR family over the past year?
It is time for us to update our database with any changes,
additions, or deletions that you may have.
Have you changed your phone number? Have you
moved? Are you preparing to move soon? Are all of your
children still at home and are they all included in your
membership record? Do you want your record published?
If you have not already informed the Church Office about
changes to your record, please let us know now so that
the information in the Guide Book & Directory (a publication coming next year) is correct.
The Church Office number is 918-366-4463.
Thank you for your help!
All Church Brunch
Sunday, December 14 at 9:45
Please join us for brunch and music to celebrate
the season! Bring a favorite dish to share and
enjoy the musical entertainment.
Fourth Annual FUMC Talent Show
Sunday, December 14
Calling musicians and singers of all ages to bring
your Christmas music to the Christmas Talent
Show! Children, youth, adults, singers, ensembles, and instrumentalists are welcome to participate! Here is your chance to bless us with your
musical talents! The Talent Show will take place
during the all-church Christmas Brunch on December 14 between 9:45 and 10:45. If you or
your group want to perform a Christmas song in
the show, please contact Melanie Trook at 918693-2873, or email her at [email protected] by
December 7.
December 2014
MONDAY, December 1
9:30
9:30
3:30
7:00
a.m.
a.m.
p.m.
p.m.
Yoga
Preschool
Afterschool
Scouts
TUESDAY, December 2
9:30 a.m. Preschool
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
6:30 p.m. Stephen Ministry Team Meeting
WEDNESDAY, December 3
Wonderful Wednesday
THURSDAY, December 11
8:30
9:30
9:30
3:30
6:00
10:30 a.m. Second Friday Fellowship
SATURDAY, December 13
SUNDAY, December 14
7:30
8:30
9:45
4:00
5:00
5:00
6:00
THURSDAY, December 4
9:30
9:30
3:30
7:00
a.m.
a.m.
a.m.
p.m.
p.m.
Quilters
Preschool
Ladies Bible Study
Afterschool
Connect Team Meeting
Quilters
Preschool
Ladies Bible Study
Afterschool
Prayer Shawl Christmas Party
FRIDAY, December 12
9:30 a.m. Yoga
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
5:30 p.m. Dinner in the Gym
6:30 p.m. Adult Classes
6:30 p.m. Youth
6:30 p.m. Children (3yrs-6grade) Classes
6:30 p.m. Praise & Worship Rehearsal
7:00 p.m. Chancel Choir
8:30
9:30
9:30
3:30
7:00
a.m.
a.m.
a.m.
p.m.
p.m.
a.m. Worship Preparation Prayer- Chapel
and 11:00 a.m. Worship Services
a.m. Christmas Brunch & Talent Show
p.m. On the Edge Worship
p.m. Youth
p.m. Trustees
p.m. Children’s Christmas Program
MONDAY, December 15
a.m.
a.m.
p.m.
p.m.
Yoga
Preschool
Afterschool
Scouts
TUESDAY, December 16
FRIDAY, December 5
9:30 a.m. Preschool
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
SATURDAY, December 6
WEDNESDAY, December 17
Wonderful Wednesday
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
SUNDAY, December 7
Communion Sunday
7:30
8:30
9:45
1:00
4:00
a.m. Worship Preparation Prayer- Chapel
and 11:00 a.m. Worship Services
a.m. Sunday School
p.m. Youth Caroling & Party
p.m. On the Edge Worship
9:30 a.m. Yoga
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
5:30 p.m. Dinner in the Gym
6:30 p.m. Adult Classes
6:30 p.m. Youth
6:30 p.m. Children (3yrs-6grade) Classes
7:00 p.m. Chancel Choir
7:30 p.m. Praise & Worship Rehearsal
MONDAY, December 8
THURSDAY, December 18
TUESDAY, December 9
FRIDAY, December 19
9:30
9:30
3:30
6:00
7:00
a.m.
a.m.
p.m.
p.m.
p.m.
Yoga
Preschool
Afterschool
Abbett Dinner
Scouts
8:30 a.m. Quilters
9:00 a.m. Preschool
9:30 a.m. Ladies Bible Study
10:00 a.m. Preschool Christmas Program
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
9:30 a.m. Preschool
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
10:00 a.m. Prayer Shawl
6:30 p.m. Grow Team
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
WEDNESDAY, December 10
Wonderful Wednesday
7:30 a.m. Worship Preparation Prayer- Chapel
8:30 and 11:00 a.m. Worship Services
11:00 a.m. Christmas Cantata
9:45 a.m. Sunday School
4:00 p.m. On the Edge Worship
9:30 a.m. Yoga
3:30 p.m. Afterschool
5:30 p.m. Dinner in the Gym
6:30 p.m. Adult Classes-Methodism Class
6:30 p.m. Youth
6:30 p.m. Children (3yrs-6grade) Classes
7:00 p.m. Chancel Choir
7:30 p.m. Praise & Worship Rehearsal
SATURDAY, December 20
SUNDAY, December 21
MONDAY, December 22
9:30 a.m. Yoga
TUESDAY, December 23
WEDNESDAY, December 24
Christmas Eve-Office Closed
No Wonderful Wednesday Dinner/Classes
5:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Services
7:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Services
11:00 p.m. Christmas Eve Services
THURSDAY, December 25
Christmas-Office Closed
FRIDAY, December 26
SATURDAY, December 27
SUNDAY, December 28
7:30
8:30
9:45
5:00
a.m. Worship Preparation Prayer- Chapel
and 11:00 a.m. Worship Services
a.m. Sunday School
p.m. Youth
MONDAY, December 29
TUESDAY, December 30
WEDNESDAY, December 31
New Year’s Eve-Office Closes at noon
No Wonderful Wednesday Dinner/Classes
First United Methodist Church
15502 South Memorial
Bixby, OK 74008
(918) 366-4463
email: [email protected]
Website: www.fumcbixby.org
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December 2014
The Flame
Or Current Resident
Please pray for these active duty military personnel :
Air Force: Airman First Class Kyle Seaman,
Son of Lee & Jean Seaman
Serving at Shaw AFB, South Carolina
Air Force: CJ Griffith,
Son of Eric Griffith
Grandson of Jack & Joyce McKenzie
Air Force: Staff Sgt. Kyle Green
Son of Keith & Michelle Green
Serving in Romania & Kuwait
Christmas Blessings to you AllThank you for making this such a
nice place to work & worship!
~The entire Bixby First Staff
Army: Conner Walcher,
Great Nephew of June & David Skaggs
Serving in Germany
Army: Sgt. (E5) Nathan Hamelund
Grandson of Ken & Tommie Bond
Serving at Fort Campbell, Kentucky
Army: Corporal Tony McAmis
Son of Rick & Sarah McAmis
Serving in New York